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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

More than a handful of times have I seen females / couples advertise a meet and looking for just a single male but when you go on there profile to contact them they have blocked single males contacting ........... do they not wonder why they don’t have people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More than a handful of times have I seen females / couples advertise a meet and looking for just a single male but when you go on there profile to contact them they have blocked single males contacting ........... do they not wonder why they don’t have people

Messaging "

Think your being a bit harsh there mate.....

I'd imagine a lot of people looking for a man would block men.

Makes total sense

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

They haven’t blocked me individually there page does not accept messages from singles guys it’s a filter ........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They obviously block so they don't get inundated with offers .so they can do the contacting themselves.

Easy answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They obviously block so they don't get inundated with offers .so they can do the contacting themselves.

Easy answer."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They obviously block so they don't get inundated with offers .so they can do the contacting themselves.

Easy answer."

I don’t agree as why create an event ? There is no gain by doing so ??? If they want to message themselves and not accept messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because...they can. Their profile so they can do and block who they want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They obviously block so they don't get inundated with offers .so they can do the contacting themselves.

Easy answer.

I don’t agree as why create an event ? There is no gain by doing so ??? If they want to message themselves and not accept messages "

They can be contacted by guys on their friend list who they'll have previously chatted with and maybe the meet was aimed at them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because...they can. Their profile so they can do and block who they want."

Your missing the point , I am all for blocking single males if that’s not what your looking for but if you looking for a meet with a single male

Then I am only saying I don’t see the point in creating a meet looking for a single male if they cannot message ,

And if you want to message single males yourself then surly there is no point in creatikhb a meet ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They obviously block so they don't get inundated with offers .so they can do the contacting themselves.

Easy answer.

I don’t agree as why create an event ? There is no gain by doing so ??? If they want to message themselves and not accept messages

This makes total sense ...... I never realised this was the case and clearly this is the logic behind the advertising a meet .. thankyou haha

They can be contacted by guys on their friend list who they'll have previously chatted with and maybe the meet was aimed at them "

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

But as said above some members have extensive friends lists with several single men.

They are advertising to them as they have either met them before or build up a trust to allow them to meet.

Let the single male friends come to them so they can choose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They can create a meet

Then contact any single males they wish then as they have messaged 1st the single male can then reply

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But as said above some members have extensive friends lists with several single men.

They are advertising to them as they have either met them before or build up a trust to allow them to meet.

Let the single male friends come to them so they can choose."

Makes complete sense

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They can create a meet

Then contact any single males they wish then as they have messaged 1st the single male can then reply "

Your missing the whole point I agree with the “friend lists comment” but again your referring to the couple messaging first ...... this still makes no sense so why they would create a meet . If they don’t want messages and only want to contact themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So the said males on their friends list or they contact know they are looking to play?

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk


"They can create a meet

Then contact any single males they wish then as they have messaged 1st the single male can then reply

Your missing the whole point I agree with the “friend lists comment” but again your referring to the couple messaging first ...... this still makes no sense so why they would create a meet . If they don’t want messages and only want to contact themselves "

Your obviously looking to much into it OP.

Forget about it and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More than a handful of times have I seen females / couples advertise a meet and looking for just a single male but when you go on there profile to contact them they have blocked single males contacting ........... do they not wonder why they don’t have people

Messaging "

Fair play mate, you arent shy to tackle the question has has outwitted mans greatest thinkers since our species evolved.....

Maybe a bit ambitious expecting us, mere men to unravel the complex yet flawless logic they apply.

Shall me discuss some less taxing?

Time travel? Impossible or witching mans grasp?

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Why does it have to make sense?

You can't message them… so be it… why get yer panties in a twist lol

Maybe you can send a wee wink to get noticed if that is really what you want.

And as said above some people on here have been on the site for years and have a circle of people.

But why let it bother you, look on the bright side and focus on profiles you can message OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why does it have to make sense?

You can't message them… so be it… why get yer panties in a twist lol

Maybe you can send a wee wink to get noticed if that is really what you want.

And as said above some people on here have been on the site for years and have a circle o

But why let it bother you, look on the bright side and focus on profiles you can message OP"

Ofcourse your dead right , it wasn’t so much I was bothered it was just an explanation as like you have said some people are more experienced so as a newbie I was just looking for it tobe cleared up

And as for winking them it doesn’t allow any form of contact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why does it have to make sense?

You can't message them… so be it… why get yer panties in a twist lol

Maybe you can send a wee wink to get noticed if that is really what you want.

And as said above some people on here have been on the site for years and have a circle of people.

But why let it bother you, look on the bright side and focus on profiles you can message OP"

Not sure he's that bothered he's just having one of those moments that happen to all men in their lives and actually tried to follow the logic of a woman.

He'll grow out of it I'm sure.

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Why does it have to make sense?

You can't message them… so be it… why get yer panties in a twist lol

Maybe you can send a wee wink to get noticed if that is really what you want.

And as said above some people on here have been on the site for years and have a circle o

But why let it bother you, look on the bright side and focus on profiles you can message OP

Ofcourse your dead right , it wasn’t so much I was bothered it was just an explanation as like you have said some people are more experienced so as a newbie I was just looking for it tobe cleared up

And as for winking them it doesn’t allow any form of contact "

Ah I see! So you just have to roll with it and focus on other profiles.

You will find out on here that some things cannot be cleared up lol so be do your things

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why does it have to make sense?

You can't message them… so be it… why get yer panties in a twist lol

Maybe you can send a wee wink to get noticed if that is really what you want.

And as said above some people on here have been on the site for years and have a circle o

But why let it bother you, look on the bright side and focus on profiles you can message OP

Ofcourse your dead right , it wasn’t so much I was bothered it was just an explanation as like you have said some people are more experienced so as a newbie I was just looking for it tobe cleared up

And as for winking them it doesn’t allow any form of contact

Ah I see! So you just have to roll with it and focus on other profiles.

You will find out on here that some things cannot be cleared up lol so be do your things "

Naught max you are right haha , I need to focus on what I do best

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Why does it have to make sense?

You can't message them… so be it… why get yer panties in a twist lol

Maybe you can send a wee wink to get noticed if that is really what you want.

And as said above some people on here have been on the site for years and have a circle o

But why let it bother you, look on the bright side and focus on profiles you can message OP

Ofcourse your dead right , it wasn’t so much I was bothered it was just an explanation as like you have said some people are more experienced so as a newbie I was just looking for it tobe cleared up

And as for winking them it doesn’t allow any form of contact

Ah I see! So you just have to roll with it and focus on other profiles.

You will find out on here that some things cannot be cleared up lol so be do your things

Naught max you are right haha , I need to focus on what I do best "

Two 'you are right' in the same thread lol

Just as well am immune to flattery

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Why does it have to make sense?

You can't message them… so be it… why get yer panties in a twist lol

Maybe you can send a wee wink to get noticed if that is really what you want.

And as said above some people on here have been on the site for years and have a circle of people.

But why let it bother you, look on the bright side and focus on profiles you can message OP

Not sure he's that bothered he's just having one of those moments that happen to all men in their lives and actually tried to follow the logic of a woman.

He'll grow out of it I'm sure. "

Am sure he will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why does it have to make sense?

You can't message them… so be it… why get yer panties in a twist lol

Maybe you can send a wee wink to get noticed if that is really what you want.

And as said above some people on here have been on the site for years and have a circle o

But why let it bother you, look on the bright side and focus on profiles you can message OP

Ofcourse your dead right , it wasn’t so much I was bothered it was just an explanation as like you have said some people are more experienced so as a newbie I was just looking for it tobe cleared up

And as for winking them it doesn’t allow any form of contact

Ah I see! So you just have to roll with it and focus on other profiles.

You will find out on here that some things cannot be cleared up lol so be do your things

Naught max you are right haha , I need to focus on what I do best

Two 'you are right' in the same thread lol

Just as well am immune to flattery "

Haha....

Flattery for your perspective

To men it's a Surrender and apology to all women for daring to question your wisdom

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Why does it have to make sense?

You can't message them… so be it… why get yer panties in a twist lol

Maybe you can send a wee wink to get noticed if that is really what you want.

And as said above some people on here have been on the site for years and have a circle o

But why let it bother you, look on the bright side and focus on profiles you can message OP

Ofcourse your dead right , it wasn’t so much I was bothered it was just an explanation as like you have said some people are more experienced so as a newbie I was just looking for it tobe cleared up

And as for winking them it doesn’t allow any form of contact

Ah I see! So you just have to roll with it and focus on other profiles.

You will find out on here that some things cannot be cleared up lol so be do your things

Naught max you are right haha , I need to focus on what I do best

Two 'you are right' in the same thread lol

Just as well am immune to flattery

Haha....

Flattery for your perspective

To men it's a Surrender and apology to all women for daring to question your wisdom"

Haha! A man surrendering… not my thing lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why does it have to make sense?

You can't message them… so be it… why get yer panties in a twist lol

Maybe you can send a wee wink to get noticed if that is really what you want.

And as said above some people on here have been on the site for years and have a circle o

But why let it bother you, look on the bright side and focus on profiles you can message OP

Ofcourse your dead right , it wasn’t so much I was bothered it was just an explanation as like you have said some people are more experienced so as a newbie I was just looking for it tobe cleared up

And as for winking them it doesn’t allow any form of contact

Ah I see! So you just have to roll with it and focus on other profiles.

You will find out on here that some things cannot be cleared up lol so be do your things

Naught max you are right haha , I need to focus on what I do best

Two 'you are right' in the same thread lol

Just as well am immune to flattery

Haha....

Flattery for your perspective

To men it's a Surrender and apology to all women for daring to question your wisdom

Haha! A man surrendering… not my thing lol "

Haha....

Yes it is, it just happens. It's so subtle and frequent you ladies don't even notice it's a surrender

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Why does it have to make sense?

You can't message them… so be it… why get yer panties in a twist lol

Maybe you can send a wee wink to get noticed if that is really what you want.

And as said above some people on here have been on the site for years and have a circle o

But why let it bother you, look on the bright side and focus on profiles you can message OP

Ofcourse your dead right , it wasn’t so much I was bothered it was just an explanation as like you have said some people are more experienced so as a newbie I was just looking for it tobe cleared up

And as for winking them it doesn’t allow any form of contact

Ah I see! So you just have to roll with it and focus on other profiles.

You will find out on here that some things cannot be cleared up lol so be do your things

Naught max you are right haha , I need to focus on what I do best

Two 'you are right' in the same thread lol

Just as well am immune to flattery

Haha....

Flattery for your perspective

To men it's a Surrender and apology to all women for daring to question your wisdom

Haha! A man surrendering… not my thing lol

Haha....

Yes it is, it just happens. It's so subtle and frequent you ladies don't even notice it's a surrender "

Whatever you say ma dear!

Seee… I can be subtle too lol

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By *xycpl699Couple
over a year ago

kilmarnock


"They haven’t blocked me individually there page does not accept messages from singles guys it’s a filter ........"
yes we have our filter on as if we want single guys prefer find them ourselves. hollie

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"They can create a meet

Then contact any single males they wish then as they have messaged 1st the single male can then reply

Your missing the whole point I agree with the “friend lists comment” but again your referring to the couple messaging first ...... this still makes no sense so why they would create a meet . If they don’t want messages and only want to contact themselves "

Jaaaaysuss man, let it go!

Its simple.

They want a meet, with a guy.

But they don't want hordes of unsuitable guys contacting them, so they block guys.

They can still search for, and contact, any guys they like the look of.

Got it now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why does it have to make sense?

You can't message them… so be it… why get yer panties in a twist lol

Maybe you can send a wee wink to get noticed if that is really what you want.

And as said above some people on here have been on the site for years and have a circle o

But why let it bother you, look on the bright side and focus on profiles you can message OP

Ofcourse your dead right , it wasn’t so much I was bothered it was just an explanation as like you have said some people are more experienced so as a newbie I was just looking for it tobe cleared up

And as for winking them it doesn’t allow any form of contact

Ah I see! So you just have to roll with it and focus on other profiles.

You will find out on here that some things cannot be cleared up lol so be do your things

Naught max you are right haha , I need to focus on what I do best

Two 'you are right' in the same thread lol

Just as well am immune to flattery

Haha....

Flattery for your perspective

To men it's a Surrender and apology to all women for daring to question your wisdom

Haha! A man surrendering… not my thing lol

Haha....

Yes it is, it just happens. It's so subtle and frequent you ladies don't even notice it's a surrender

Whatever you say ma dear!

Seee… I can be subtle too lol "

Haha.....

I can't actually do subtle myself, you may have noticed?

I was just pointing out it more of an instinct and males generally start developing it around 12 and have it honed by mid-late 20's.

Those of our species who haven't evolved enough to have that instinct are doomed to a live of no friends or meets on FS before we eventually die out peacefully inflront of an iPad

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill


"More than a handful of times have I seen females / couples advertise a meet and looking for just a single male but when you go on there profile to contact them they have blocked single males contacting ........... do they not wonder why they don’t have people

Messaging "

Have just blocked single men from contacting, because majority either direct messages as if they are talking to a single female, or they are just rude/vulgar from the first message. Add to that the fact that they seem to think sending cock pics (that are the only pics on their page) is a good way to get a reply......

Just naw.

Jim

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill


"Because...they can. Their profile so they can do and block who they want.

Your missing the point , I am all for blocking single males if that’s not what your looking for but if you looking for a meet with a single male

Then I am only saying I don’t see the point in creating a meet looking for a single male if they cannot message ,

And if you want to message single males yourself then surly there is no point in creatikhb a meet ? "

If someone has posted a meet but blocked males, the males can still like/wink? Couples/fems can then send messages without dealing with all the "I'd love to meet/fuck you" and dick pic messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More than a handful of times have I seen females / couples advertise a meet and looking for just a single male but when you go on there profile to contact them they have blocked single males contacting ........... do they not wonder why they don’t have people

Messaging

Have just blocked single men from contacting, because majority either direct messages as if they are talking to a single female, or they are just rude/vulgar from the first message. Add to that the fact that they seem to think sending cock pics (that are the only pics on their page) is a good way to get a reply......

Just naw.

Jim

"

Don't blame you to be fair. Genuinely pathetic really but I guess they have disregarded subtly and gone straight for the big tools.

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill


"More than a handful of times have I seen females / couples advertise a meet and looking for just a single male but when you go on there profile to contact them they have blocked single males contacting ........... do they not wonder why they don’t have people

Messaging

Have just blocked single men from contacting, because majority either direct messages as if they are talking to a single female, or they are just rude/vulgar from the first message. Add to that the fact that they seem to think sending cock pics (that are the only pics on their page) is a good way to get a reply......

Just naw.

Jim

Don't blame you to be fair. Genuinely pathetic really but I guess they have disregarded subtly and gone straight for the big tools."

If they had big tools it wouldn't be so bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More than a handful of times have I seen females / couples advertise a meet and looking for just a single male but when you go on there profile to contact them they have blocked single males contacting ........... do they not wonder why they don’t have people

Messaging

Have just blocked single men from contacting, because majority either direct messages as if they are talking to a single female, or they are just rude/vulgar from the first message. Add to that the fact that they seem to think sending cock pics (that are the only pics on their page) is a good way to get a reply......

Just naw.

Jim

Don't blame you to be fair. Genuinely pathetic really but I guess they have disregarded subtly and gone straight for the big tools.

If they had big tools it wouldn't be so bad "

Ive heard that before somewhere I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They obviously block so they don't get inundated with offers .so they can do the contacting themselves.

Easy answer."

Is the only logical answer!

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill


"More than a handful of times have I seen females / couples advertise a meet and looking for just a single male but when you go on there profile to contact them they have blocked single males contacting ........... do they not wonder why they don’t have people

Messaging

Have just blocked single men from contacting, because majority either direct messages as if they are talking to a single female, or they are just rude/vulgar from the first message. Add to that the fact that they seem to think sending cock pics (that are the only pics on their page) is a good way to get a reply......

Just naw.

Jim

Don't blame you to be fair. Genuinely pathetic really but I guess they have disregarded subtly and gone straight for the big tools.

If they had big tools it wouldn't be so bad

Ive heard that before somewhere I think "

fat thumbs

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Why does it have to make sense?

You can't message them… so be it… why get yer panties in a twist lol

Maybe you can send a wee wink to get noticed if that is really what you want.

And as said above some people on here have been on the site for years and have a circle o

But why let it bother you, look on the bright side and focus on profiles you can message OP

Ofcourse your dead right , it wasn’t so much I was bothered it was just an explanation as like you have said some people are more experienced so as a newbie I was just looking for it tobe cleared up

And as for winking them it doesn’t allow any form of contact

Ah I see! So you just have to roll with it and focus on other profiles.

You will find out on here that some things cannot be cleared up lol so be do your things

Naught max you are right haha , I need to focus on what I do best

Two 'you are right' in the same thread lol

Just as well am immune to flattery

Haha....

Flattery for your perspective

To men it's a Surrender and apology to all women for daring to question your wisdom

Haha! A man surrendering… not my thing lol

Haha....

Yes it is, it just happens. It's so subtle and frequent you ladies don't even notice it's a surrender

Whatever you say ma dear!

Seee… I can be subtle too lol

Haha.....

I can't actually do subtle myself, you may have noticed?

I was just pointing out it more of an instinct and males generally start developing it around 12 and have it honed by mid-late 20's.

Those of our species who haven't evolved enough to have that instinct are doomed to a live of no friends or meets on FS before we eventually die out peacefully inflront of an iPad "

Haha! You mean no friends... and no meets

And yeah, I have noticed you knocking over the china ornaments a few times

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"More than a handful of times have I seen females / couples advertise a meet and looking for just a single male but when you go on there profile to contact them they have blocked single males contacting ........... do they not wonder why they don’t have people

Messaging

Have just blocked single men from contacting, because majority either direct messages as if they are talking to a single female, or they are just rude/vulgar from the first message. Add to that the fact that they seem to think sending cock pics (that are the only pics on their page) is a good way to get a reply......

Just naw.

Jim

Don't blame you to be fair. Genuinely pathetic really but I guess they have disregarded subtly and gone straight for the big tools.

If they had big tools it wouldn't be so bad

Ive heard that before somewhere I think fat thumbs "

Girthy thumbs

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill


"More than a handful of times have I seen females / couples advertise a meet and looking for just a single male but when you go on there profile to contact them they have blocked single males contacting ........... do they not wonder why they don’t have people

Messaging

Have just blocked single men from contacting, because majority either direct messages as if they are talking to a single female, or they are just rude/vulgar from the first message. Add to that the fact that they seem to think sending cock pics (that are the only pics on their page) is a good way to get a reply......

Just naw.

Jim

Don't blame you to be fair. Genuinely pathetic really but I guess they have disregarded subtly and gone straight for the big tools.

If they had big tools it wouldn't be so bad

Ive heard that before somewhere I think fat thumbs

Girthy thumbs "

Lol, average at best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why does it have to make sense?

You can't message them… so be it… why get yer panties in a twist lol

Maybe you can send a wee wink to get noticed if that is really what you want.

And as said above some people on here have been on the site for years and have a circle o

But why let it bother you, look on the bright side and focus on profiles you can message OP

Ofcourse your dead right , it wasn’t so much I was bothered it was just an explanation as like you have said some people are more experienced so as a newbie I was just looking for it tobe cleared up

And as for winking them it doesn’t allow any form of contact

Ah I see! So you just have to roll with it and focus on other profiles.

You will find out on here that some things cannot be cleared up lol so be do your things

Naught max you are right haha , I need to focus on what I do best

Two 'you are right' in the same thread lol

Just as well am immune to flattery

Haha....

Flattery for your perspective

To men it's a Surrender and apology to all women for daring to question your wisdom

Haha! A man surrendering… not my thing lol

Haha....

Yes it is, it just happens. It's so subtle and frequent you ladies don't even notice it's a surrender

Whatever you say ma dear!

Seee… I can be subtle too lol

Haha.....

I can't actually do subtle myself, you may have noticed?

I was just pointing out it more of an instinct and males generally start developing it around 12 and have it honed by mid-late 20's.

Those of our species who haven't evolved enough to have that instinct are doomed to a live of no friends or meets on FS before we eventually die out peacefully inflront of an iPad

Haha! You mean no friends... and no meets

And yeah, I have noticed you knocking over the china ornaments a few times "

Haha

I genuinely don't mean to offend anyone but I do speak my mind. Some people debate the existence of my mind but it is definitely rattling about my head.

Yes, it has been brought to my attention that my view of the people, behaviours, the world in general can be a little wonky for some to appreciate or understand but I don't mind, it's not their fault so I'll carry on until they catch up.

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Why does it have to make sense?

You can't message them… so be it… why get yer panties in a twist lol

Maybe you can send a wee wink to get noticed if that is really what you want.

And as said above some people on here have been on the site for years and have a circle o

But why let it bother you, look on the bright side and focus on profiles you can message OP

Ofcourse your dead right , it wasn’t so much I was bothered it was just an explanation as like you have said some people are more experienced so as a newbie I was just looking for it tobe cleared up

And as for winking them it doesn’t allow any form of contact

Ah I see! So you just have to roll with it and focus on other profiles.

You will find out on here that some things cannot be cleared up lol so be do your things

Naught max you are right haha , I need to focus on what I do best

Two 'you are right' in the same thread lol

Just as well am immune to flattery

Haha....

Flattery for your perspective

To men it's a Surrender and apology to all women for daring to question your wisdom

Haha! A man surrendering… not my thing lol

Haha....

Yes it is, it just happens. It's so subtle and frequent you ladies don't even notice it's a surrender

Whatever you say ma dear!

Seee… I can be subtle too lol

Haha.....

I can't actually do subtle myself, you may have noticed?

I was just pointing out it more of an instinct and males generally start developing it around 12 and have it honed by mid-late 20's.

Those of our species who haven't evolved enough to have that instinct are doomed to a live of no friends or meets on FS before we eventually die out peacefully inflront of an iPad

Haha! You mean no friends... and no meets

And yeah, I have noticed you knocking over the china ornaments a few times

Haha

I genuinely don't mean to offend anyone but I do speak my mind. Some people debate the existence of my mind but it is definitely rattling about my head.

Yes, it has been brought to my attention that my view of the people, behaviours, the world in general can be a little wonky for some to appreciate or understand but I don't mind, it's not their fault so I'll carry on until they catch up."

Debate?? I made a pretty quick assessment myself lol nae idea what they are debating aboot lol

And I speak my mind too! Jeez imagine speaking someone else's

So all good here just clean up after yerself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why does it have to make sense?

You can't message them… so be it… why get yer panties in a twist lol

Maybe you can send a wee wink to get noticed if that is really what you want.

And as said above some people on here have been on the site for years and have a circle o

But why let it bother you, look on the bright side and focus on profiles you can message OP

Ofcourse your dead right , it wasn’t so much I was bothered it was just an explanation as like you have said some people are more experienced so as a newbie I was just looking for it tobe cleared up

And as for winking them it doesn’t allow any form of contact

Ah I see! So you just have to roll with it and focus on other profiles.

You will find out on here that some things cannot be cleared up lol so be do your things

Naught max you are right haha , I need to focus on what I do best

Two 'you are right' in the same thread lol

Just as well am immune to flattery

Haha....

Flattery for your perspective

To men it's a Surrender and apology to all women for daring to question your wisdom

Haha! A man surrendering… not my thing lol

Haha....

Yes it is, it just happens. It's so subtle and frequent you ladies don't even notice it's a surrender

Whatever you say ma dear!

Seee… I can be subtle too lol

Haha.....

I can't actually do subtle myself, you may have noticed?

I was just pointing out it more of an instinct and males generally start developing it around 12 and have it honed by mid-late 20's.

Those of our species who haven't evolved enough to have that instinct are doomed to a live of no friends or meets on FS before we eventually die out peacefully inflront of an iPad

Haha! You mean no friends... and no meets

And yeah, I have noticed you knocking over the china ornaments a few times

Haha

I genuinely don't mean to offend anyone but I do speak my mind. Some people debate the existence of my mind but it is definitely rattling about my head.

Yes, it has been brought to my attention that my view of the people, behaviours, the world in general can be a little wonky for some to appreciate or understand but I don't mind, it's not their fault so I'll carry on until they catch up.

Debate?? I made a pretty quick assessment myself lol nae idea what they are debating aboot lol

And I speak my mind too! Jeez imagine speaking someone else's

So all good here (thumb ) just clean up after yerself "

Yes haha I've noticed you speak your mind. I'm starting therapy soon so I don't crumble

I'd like a shot of somebody else's mind. If I had a normal mind I'd find it boring and on reflection I pity to poor sod that got mine so maybe not.

Your wasting your time with any form of subtlety with me haha

No idea what you meant haha

Intelligent idiot sums me up quite well

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By *UN-ALMan
over a year ago

Near Fenwick

As I understand this a cpl put up a meet looking for a single male...well done to them....the said cold profile has a filter blocking single men replying.... not a problem... the col can see who has looked at them and decide if they are interested.... not a problem to me. Enjoy have fun live life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As I understand this a cpl put up a meet looking for a single male...well done to them....the said cold profile has a filter blocking single men replying.... not a problem... the col can see who has looked at them and decide if they are interested.... not a problem to me. Enjoy have fun live life."

yip agreed

If they are looking for a meet with a single guy I certainly think they will look at whose looked at them. If they don't contact you then its kl, don't take it personal they might not think you are suitable to them or that they might have missed you due to that many looking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They obviously block so they don't get inundated with offers .so they can do the contacting themselves.

Easy answer.

I don’t agree as why create an event ? There is no gain by doing so ??? If they want to message themselves and not accept messages "

Agree. What’s the point in advertising when they can’t be contacted.

Doesn’t make sense

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By *omaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"More than a handful of times have I seen females / couples advertise a meet and looking for just a single male but when you go on there profile to contact them they have blocked single males contacting ........... do they not wonder why they don’t have people

Messaging "

I think what the OP is saying is couples who have on their Local Updates or have a Meet advertised are asking single men "who wants to meet?"

The single men who may be interested then go to their profile but see that single men are blocked from contacting that profile. . .

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