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What is etiquette with face pics.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hope this is taken as a general query as I’m not digging at anyone, but as a guy who has been here and gained some good feedback it annoys me a little regards the swapping of face pics. What is the general feeling about reciprocating a face pic with a face pic?

I was approached first recently by message about joining in a Mmf with a couple. Some chat was had and then I asked them for a face pic. I was asked to send one of me which I did but when I asked in later conversation for one of them I was told “we will get one to you”. Two days. Still nothing.

It’s hard enough being a single guy, I understand the sites top heavy with us, but I would say my main point isn’t to do with being single or a couple etc, just what is cricket with face pics?

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By *onkeymagic50Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour


"Hope this is taken as a general query as I’m not digging at anyone, but as a guy who has been here and gained some good feedback it annoys me a little regards the swapping of face pics. What is the general feeling about reciprocating a face pic with a face pic?

I was approached first recently by message about joining in a Mmf with a couple. Some chat was had and then I asked them for a face pic. I was asked to send one of me which I did but when I asked in later conversation for one of them I was told “we will get one to you”. Two days. Still nothing.

It’s hard enough being a single guy, I understand the sites top heavy with us, but I would say my main point isn’t to do with being single or a couple etc, just what is cricket with face pics?"

Your not their type but because you sent one 1st they no need to send one back bud is blunt answer

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

If you want to show your face, you show it.

No one is under any obligation to show you theirs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you want to show your face, you show it.

No one is under any obligation to show you theirs!"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you want to show your face, you show it.

No one is under any obligation to show you theirs!"

understand that. But why is it that couples expect the single guy to show his and if he doesn’t he is hiding something. There should be a level of fairness. No one is obliged to do anything. But expectation is the problem. I now won’t send a face pic to anyone off the back of it lol

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"If you want to show your face, you show it.

No one is under any obligation to show you theirs!

understand that. But why is it that couples expect the single guy to show his and if he doesn’t he is hiding something. There should be a level of fairness. No one is obliged to do anything. But expectation is the problem. I now won’t send a face pic to anyone off the back of it lol"

As I’m not a couple I couldn’t comment. However if you show me your pic first and I don’t fancy you, why do I need to show you mine??? You gain nothing from that!!!

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I don't believe there's an etiquette per se...however if I fancy someone and I message first I will normally include a face pic. I feel it's important to establish from the beginning if there's attraction. Usually, if the person likes my look the pic is reciprocated.

If someone took the initiative to contact me first and didn't include a face pic, i'm happy to chat for a bit to see if there's some chemistry there. In this circumstance, as the initiative was from the other party, I won't exchange a face pic if i'm not provided with one first. Only fair

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Hope this is taken as a general query as I’m not digging at anyone, but as a guy who has been here and gained some good feedback it annoys me a little regards the swapping of face pics. What is the general feeling about reciprocating a face pic with a face pic?

I was approached first recently by message about joining in a Mmf with a couple. Some chat was had and then I asked them for a face pic. I was asked to send one of me which I did but when I asked in later conversation for one of them I was told “we will get one to you”. Two days. Still nothing.

It’s hard enough being a single guy, I understand the sites top heavy with us, but I would say my main point isn’t to do with being single or a couple etc, just what is cricket with face pics?"

In your profile you state you would only send a face pic if the other person sent one first. You obviously forgot your own words.

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By *eADevilCouple
over a year ago

Blantyre

Think if they wanted YOU for a mmf scenario you should have asked for a pic first then sent yours. If you offered a mmf then you send first. Lots of different reasons for not sending first , how close are the other people , verified or not, etc . Just assume you not their type and move on . Nothing sinister in not getting a face pic back unless they were on a week and had no veris.

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By *is vixen at playCouple
over a year ago

Dundee


"If you want to show your face, you show it.

No one is under any obligation to show you theirs!

understand that. But why is it that couples expect the single guy to show his and if he doesn’t he is hiding something. There should be a level of fairness. No one is obliged to do anything. But expectation is the problem. I now won’t send a face pic to anyone off the back of it lol"

When we are looking for a single male (as we are at the moment) we get a lot of messages so prefer to get a pic upfront as it saves time with messaging back and forth to then discover much later that there's no attraction. We do send our pics back to those we are interested in.

V

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By *azzle DazzleCouple
over a year ago

strathaven


"Hope this is taken as a general query as I’m not digging at anyone, but as a guy who has been here and gained some good feedback it annoys me a little regards the swapping of face pics. What is the general feeling about reciprocating a face pic with a face pic?

I was approached first recently by message about joining in a Mmf with a couple. Some chat was had and then I asked them for a face pic. I was asked to send one of me which I did but when I asked in later conversation for one of them I was told “we will get one to you”. Two days. Still nothing.

It’s hard enough being a single guy, I understand the sites top heavy with us, but I would say my main point isn’t to do with being single or a couple etc, just what is cricket with face pics?"
Always send face pic with your request for pics and if you get any back then you can continue with your chat in the hope of meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had messages asking if i had a face pic? Sorry but i feel if you send a 1st message asking to see a facepic then you should send one with that message.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hope this is taken as a general query as I’m not digging at anyone, but as a guy who has been here and gained some good feedback it annoys me a little regards the swapping of face pics. What is the general feeling about reciprocating a face pic with a face pic?

I was approached first recently by message about joining in a Mmf with a couple. Some chat was had and then I asked them for a face pic. I was asked to send one of me which I did but when I asked in later conversation for one of them I was told “we will get one to you”. Two days. Still nothing.

It’s hard enough being a single guy, I understand the sites top heavy with us, but I would say my main point isn’t to do with being single or a couple etc, just what is cricket with face pics?

In your profile you state you would only send a face pic if the other person sent one first. You obviously forgot your own words. "

That’s my edited profile from the result of this. Lol.

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I tend to go with whoever makes first contact should send first pic & I've never swayed from that.

And absolutely their loss

R

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By *xplorer13Man
over a year ago

glenrothes

The etiquette seems to be, the guy sends one and the couple or lady doesn't return the deed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend to go with whoever makes first contact should send first pic & I've never swayed from that.

And absolutely their loss

R "

That's how we see it. It's almost cheeky to start contacting someone guy/girl/couple/tv and tell them to send the first pic.

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

I usually send one back, unless I know for sure we won't be meeting up or staying in touch, but I'd let the person know straight away.

The ones who say they'll send one and it's not happening are ones to stay clear from x

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

I find you just know when to send 1 probably from experience lol I tend to send 1 if chat going OK ...if they don't send 1 back then that's fine I don't lose any sleep over it ..however if they send 1 first then I always return unless I'm not too sure they are genuine

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By *enchMan
over a year ago

glasgow


"Hope this is taken as a general query as I’m not digging at anyone, but as a guy who has been here and gained some good feedback it annoys me a little regards the swapping of face pics. What is the general feeling about reciprocating a face pic with a face pic?

I was approached first recently by message about joining in a Mmf with a couple. Some chat was had and then I asked them for a face pic. I was asked to send one of me which I did but when I asked in later conversation for one of them I was told “we will get one to you”. Two days. Still nothing.

It’s hard enough being a single guy, I understand the sites top heavy with us, but I would say my main point isn’t to do with being single or a couple etc, just what is cricket with face pics?"

Dude dont stress about it you will come across lot,s of time wasters, this whole send a face pic thing is getting out of control nether used to be like this a good chat is all what you use t need. Find a club a go their it's more fun

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