FabSwingers.com forum: Is it right?

By *ig tit chick OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

We woman say we want a muscly man a tall man we want a certain type of hair colour, the list is long, but a man says no big woman and woman lose there shit? Why? I dont agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree each person has their own preferences and as long as they are not rude about answering it shouldn't matter

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"We woman say we want a muscly man a tall man we want a certain type of hair colour, the list is long, but a man says no big woman and woman lose there shit? Why? I dont agree "

Sorry I don't understand this.

What don't you agree with?

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By *ruceWayne85Man
over a year ago

Hamilton

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By *ig tit chick OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Point being I saw a post In a form saying how awoman was offended because the man had said he wasn’t into large woman, if we have loads of preferences why aren’t guys?

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By *nvercoupleCouple
over a year ago

Inverness

Lots of things in life isn't right.

Our biggest annoyance is guys pretending to be women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I prefer redheads but don't list that down on my profile.

I find I am more attracted to the personality of then woman more than anything. Been with both larger ladies and skinny ones. Don't prefer one or the other. Is she has a great character about her then loads of fun times will be had.

Everyone has there own opinions but in life you get judged more for the way you look than anything else. Which is sad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree with the OP

Men can and should be as picky as us women.

Everyone has preferences and attractions

Just how you put that across is the tricky bit.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Personally I think most women are OK with guys preference but let's face facts some guys don't put it across right and can be dicks about it lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Everone are entitled to seek the type of person they are attracted to and that does include men.

We all have preferences and Im sure if man isnt attracted to bigger women then he would say so without being rude and nasty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I think most women are OK with guys preference but let's face facts some guys don't put it across right and can be dicks about it lol

I agree with you there but also so women can take it the wrong way.

I gave a woman on another site a nice message about how great she looked and I would love to see more pictures of herself. Next message from her was call me a fucking pervert and sick small dicked wanker. All this from just saying I was looking forward to seeing her next pictures.

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Point being I saw a post In a form saying how awoman was offended because the man had said he wasn’t into large woman, if we have loads of preferences why aren’t guys? "

I agree with you.

Everyone (males and females) is entitled to have their own preferences. Their body, their call.

However, people are also allowed to be offended by a reply.

We also don't know how that reply was formulated.

I personally think that a.... you are not what am looking for... a more thoughtful, considerate reply

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

I think it coms down to how it's phrased but I do accept that some are more likely to be offended by a guy saying 'No big women' on their profile or status than a woman saying 'No big guys'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We woman say we want a muscly man a tall man we want a certain type of hair colour, the list is long, but a man says no big woman and woman lose there shit? Why? I dont agree "

Correct. Women don't want fat guys, which is fine. Equally, no guy wants to fuck a fat woman because it's unattractive.

Some will though just to get laid.

It amuses me when I see a large female on here insisting their requirement of men is that they are athletic and toned.

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Personally I think most women are OK with guys preference but let's face facts some guys don't put it across right and can be dicks about it lol

I agree with you there but also so women can take it the wrong way.

Did you say... 'see more pics'

Or... 'seeing her next pics'

See to me the above mean two different things

And not saying she was right to say that.

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"We woman say we want a muscly man a tall man we want a certain type of hair colour, the list is long, but a man says no big woman and woman lose there shit? Why? I dont agree

Correct. Women don't want fat guys, which is fine. Equally, no guy wants to fuck a fat woman because it's unattractive.

Some will though just to get laid.

It amuses me when I see a large female on here insisting their requirement of men is that they are athletic and toned.

Can people stop talking on my behalf

'We, women...' 'women don't...'

Can I rectify... 'Some' women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I think most women are OK with guys preference but let's face facts some guys don't put it across right and can be dicks about it lol

I agree with you there but also so women can take it the wrong way.

Did you say... 'see more pics'

Or... 'seeing her next pics'

See to me the above mean two different things

And not saying she was right to say that."

It was seeing her next pictures. She was always posting pictures everyday at least two. But the nasty message was uncalled for and I ended up reporting her for it. But after that I deleted my profile and left. A bit off subjunctive now I think we are lol

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Personally I think most women are OK with guys preference but let's face facts some guys don't put it across right and can be dicks about it lol

I agree with you there but also so women can take it the wrong way.

Did you say... 'see more pics'

Or... 'seeing her next pics'

See to me the above mean two different things

And not saying she was right to say that.

I agree. But it is best not to take those messages personally

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

"Personally I think most women are OK with guys preference but let's face facts some guys don't put it across right and can be dicks about it lol

I agree with you there but also so women can take it the wrong way.

I would not have sent an abusive message but would have blocked you for that.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"Personally I think most women are OK with guys preference but let's face facts some guys don't put it across right and can be dicks about it lol

I agree with you there but also so women can take it the wrong way.

I would not have sent an abusive message but would have blocked you for that."

I would have taken that remark as a harmless compliment.x

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Personally I think most women are OK with guys preference but let's face facts some guys don't put it across right and can be dicks about it lol

I agree with you there but also so women can take it the wrong way.

I would not have sent an abusive message but would have blocked you for that.

I would have taken that remark as a harmless compliment.x"

Same here! Interesting the way people interpreted the same sentence so differently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm totally baffled. What was wrong with what he said?

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

"I'm totally baffled. What was wrong with what he said?"

somebody messaging saying you look amazing I would love to see more pictures of you sounds to me like a pic collector looking for wank fodder!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"somebody messaging saying you look amazing I would love to see more pictures of you sounds to me like a pic collector looking for wank fodder!"

Fair enough. It's all in the interpretation I guess because it's 50/50 what it could have been intended to mean. Gotta love the written word.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm totally baffled. What was wrong with what he said?

somebody messaging saying you look amazing I would love to see more pictures of you sounds to me like a pic collector looking for wank fodder!"

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair, there are also people both here and on FabGuys who post pictures regularly purely for the attention they receive from it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"somebody messaging saying you look amazing I would love to see more pictures of you sounds to me like a pic collector looking for wank fodder!

Fair enough. It's all in the interpretation I guess because it's 50/50 what it could have been intended to mean. Gotta love the written word."

I don't think it's the written word that's wrong only people are too easy to offend.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

"We woman say we want a muscly man a tall man we want a certain type of hair colour, the list is long, but a man says no big woman and woman lose there shit? Why? I dont agree "

Why ... because there's folks across all categories who have fragile egos and a sense of entitlement. From my personal experience worst offenders are males and some could win an olimpic meddle for dummy spitting and throwing hissy fits . But only afew and as said other sexes have there offenders too .

End of the day if someone cant accept a polite knock back and kicks off not kind of person I'd meet anyway .

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

"To be fair, there are also people both here and on FabGuys who post pictures regularly purely for the attention they receive from it."

yes and it's up to them which pics they show, it's the needy ones asking for more that piss folks off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be fair, there are also people both here and on FabGuys who post pictures regularly purely for the attention they receive from it.

yes and it's up to them which pics they show, it's the needy ones asking for more that piss folks off!"

Well I always say to them to please keep more pictures of the self as they are stunning and politely make a request suck as maybe a bum picture. If that's offensive then I am truly sorry. Not a picture hoarder but more a consort of the female form.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be fair, there are also people both here and on FabGuys who post pictures regularly purely for the attention they receive from it.

yes and it's up to them which pics they show, it's the needy ones asking for more that piss folks off!"

I think you are reading too much into it.

If you don’t like the message, delete it and block.

‘Some’ women on here take it too seriously and become complete Prima Donnas and act like porn stars.

It is a swinging website - not a academic study...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a buff time in the world we chubbers are losing out to statues cut from marble, gimme a mic a have a chance

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

"To be fair, there are also people both here and on FabGuys who post pictures regularly purely for the attention they receive from it.

yes and it's up to them which pics they show, it's the needy ones asking for more that piss folks off!

I think you are reading too much into it.

If you don’t like the message, delete it and block.

‘Some’ women on here take it too seriously and become complete Prima Donnas and act like porn stars.

It is a swinging website - not a academic study..."

reading too much into what?

I don't need you to tell me to delete messages I don't like thanks, I'm more than capable of making these decisions myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We woman say we want a muscly man a tall man we want a certain type of hair colour, the list is long, but a man says no big woman and woman lose there shit? Why? I dont agree "

Don't know what men you have been chatting to but not all us guys are like that

XxX Peter

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By *ero StressMan
over a year ago

Scotland

I've never been with a large lady not threw choice though i certainly wouldnt turN sum1 down cos they were large I've spoken to a few and some seem nice and others don't much the same as any other type of lady or guy for that matter I've been turned down a lot here cos I'm hairy that's just the way it is

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By *onkeymagic50Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour

I hate ducks but love swans ,it all boils down to a person's personal choice and we all entitled to like or dislike anything ,It not about offence and none should be taken if we think someone is a cup of Tesco own brand coffee or cavat coffee and love one and wouldn't touch the other

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

I thought the ops post was about alot of females inconsistency.

Ie in general its ok for a fem to say I want muscles.....height.......beard.

though a guy mentioning weight is frowned upon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We woman say we want a muscly man a tall man we want a certain type of hair colour, the list is long, but a man says no big woman and woman lose there shit? Why? I dont agree "

I agree with you OP. We all have preferences and I can handle someone not fancying me because they don't find me attractive. Having said that, I do find the " no one over a size 10" "no bigger than a 12" on a lot of profiles annoying. I'll quite often think "what a fanny" to myself, they could be missing out on all sorts of opportunities. But even fannies are entitled to their personal preferences and opinions!

Life's too short and more important stuff going on in real life to be offended by some random on here.

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By *ero StressMan
over a year ago

Scotland

"We woman say we want a muscly man a tall man we want a certain type of hair colour, the list is long, but a man says no big woman and woman lose there shit? Why? I dont agree

Life's too short and more important stuff going on in real life to be offended by some random on here."

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is entitled to their own preferences. After all we can not like everyone one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

one mans delight is another mans poison just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"one mans delight is another mans poison just saying"

Yes you are so right about that.

Same goes for women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you go about telling someone your not attracted to them because they are fat, without being rude tho?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"How do you go about telling someone your not attracted to them because they are fat, without being rude tho? "

Dont use the word fat would be a good idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you go about telling someone your not attracted to them because they are fat, without being rude tho? "

I would just be upfront and honest with them. No point beating around the Bush.

But you could just go and say sorry you are not my type which I hear alot on here. Lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"How do you go about telling someone your not attracted to them because they are fat, without being rude tho? "
just say they aint your type but if you feel you need to say no because someone is fat then fair enough its then upto the recipient how they react to that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here is a question...

What is worse being told you are not there type or just getting no more replys after you sent a face or body picture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men Should have preferences aswell! I wouldn’t take offence if I wasn’t someone’s type. Many people aren’t mine and I’m pretty blunt about it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dont use the word fat would be a good idea"

"just say they aint your type but if you feel you need to say no because someone is fat then fair enough its then upto the recipient how they react to that "

OK from now on I'll say"Sorry you tooth is to sweet for me"

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Dont use the word fat would be a good idea

just say they aint your type but if you feel you need to say no because someone is fat then fair enough its then upto the recipient how they react to that

OK from now on I'll say"Sorry you tooth is to sweet for me"

"
why would you assume they had a sweet tooth?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they are fat

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Because they are fat"
ah okay then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Buys an extra carton of popcorn as I'm not meeting tonight but I think this post is gonna grow arms n legs.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I dont take anything to heart on here. If someone doesnt like me then soneone else will. Its no big deal.

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By *onkeymagic50Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour

"I dont take anything to heart on here. If someone doesnt like me then soneone else will. Its no big deal."

Sense from a woman I'm putting the lottery on

There you go horsey enjoy your popcorn

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

"Dont use the word fat would be a good idea

just say they aint your type but if you feel you need to say no because someone is fat then fair enough its then upto the recipient how they react to that

OK from now on I'll say"Sorry you tooth is to sweet for me"

With your pic of you holding cakes, is this to tease those with a sweet tooth? Or are you secretly trying to appeal to larger ladies if the connection even works, just asking

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I dont take anything to heart on here. If someone doesnt like me then soneone else will. Its no big deal."
my thoughts too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont take anything to heart on here. If someone doesnt like me then soneone else will. Its no big deal.

Sense from a woman I'm putting the lottery on

There you go horsey enjoy your popcorn

Ffs see yiu

Now I better bring in a few more cartons of popcorn, deffo gonna be a long night

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

"I dont take anything to heart on here. If someone doesnt like me then soneone else will. Its no big deal.

Sense from a woman I'm putting the lottery on

There you go horsey enjoy your popcorn

Ffs see yiu

Now I better bring in a few more cartons of popcorn, deffo gonna be a long night

Put it away, nothing to see here Peter, the popcorn I mean

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By *ugyukMan
over a year ago

dundee

Worry ye not the shexy wimen of fab

Ill pump oanything !!!

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By *ustcantgetenuf50Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Because they are fat"

I looked on your profile to see if I could see any Olympic medals , it says ur athletic, so by your reasoning fat equates to a sweet tooth, I reckon athletic should equate to an athlete.

But no medals only cakes,

Oh and I totally agree with OP any one can state their preference without being shot down in flames. Freedom of choice.

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By *onkeymagic50Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour

"Worry ye not the shexy wimen of fab

Ill pump oanything !!!"

And he means anything ,,,camels ,sheep.cows big senga fae govan .If you won't hump it the fugy and his bus will pump it

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By *vanabeusedTV/TS
over a year ago

somewhere

Mine field

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By *ugyukMan
over a year ago

dundee

"Worry ye not the shexy wimen of fab

Ill pump oanything !!!

And he means anything ,,,camels ,sheep.cows big senga fae govan .If you won't hump it the fugy and his bus will pump it

Hahahaha gas mate

You crack me up

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Worry ye not the shexy wimen of fab

Ill pump oanything !!!"
phew when can you fit me into your busy schedule ?

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By *eather47Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

heu fuggy you watch those sheep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a sellers market and us men are the buyers. Fab swingers is a great wee microcosm of the market. Huge demand and little supply lead to women been able to ask for a Greek goddess and getting it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We woman say we want a muscly man a tall man we want a certain type of hair colour, the list is long, but a man says no big woman and woman lose there shit? Why? I dont agree

Correct. Women don't want fat guys, which is fine. Equally, no guy wants to fuck a fat woman because it's unattractive.

Some will though just to get laid.

It amuses me when I see a large female on here insisting their requirement of men is that they are athletic and toned.

Can people stop talking on my behalf

'We, women...' 'women don't...'

Can I rectify... 'Some' women

Pretty sure he doesn't talk for all men either...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont take anything to heart on here. If someone doesnt like me then soneone else will. Its no big deal.

Sense from a woman I'm putting the lottery on

There you go horsey enjoy your popcorn

Ffs see yiu

Now I better bring in a few more cartons of popcorn, deffo gonna be a long night

Given the tone of this thread I think you'd be better off with carrot sticks and celery...

. The fat polis are watching...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont take anything to heart on here. If someone doesnt like me then soneone else will. Its no big deal.

Sense from a woman I'm putting the lottery on

There you go horsey enjoy your popcorn

Ffs see yiu

Now I better bring in a few more cartons of popcorn, deffo gonna be a long night

Given the tone of this thread I think you'd be better off with carrot sticks and celery...

. The fat polis are watching..."

ffs doggy,. you tell me that after I've finished five cartons of popcorn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you go about telling someone your not attracted to them because they are fat, without being rude tho? "

"I don't find you aesthetically pleasing....." might be a more diplomatic way if putting it. Think they'll get the jist.

Out of curiosity, what size do you class as fat or too big for you?

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By *nonandyMan
over a year ago

Near Glasgow

I actually find larger women quite attractive

But to the OP point the pickyness can be a bit unfair I have it on my profile that I would give anyone a chance and I've been called desperate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I actually find larger women quite attractive

But to the OP point the pickyness can be a bit unfair I have it on my profile that I would give anyone a chance and I've been called desperate "

You can't win on here sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont take anything to heart on here. If someone doesnt like me then soneone else will. Its no big deal.

Sense from a woman I'm putting the lottery on

There you go horsey enjoy your popcorn

Ffs see yiu

Now I better bring in a few more cartons of popcorn, deffo gonna be a long night

Given the tone of this thread I think you'd be better off with carrot sticks and celery...

. The fat polis are watching...

ffs doggy,. you tell me that after I've finished five cartons of popcorn

If nobody saw you eat it....didnae happen. That's what I tell myself when I bury the empty 6 pack creme egg box at the bottom of the bin....Wisnae me!

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By *ab and funCouple
over a year ago

FIFE

we are all different and want different things, live and let live.

Mrs Fab x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we are all different and want different things, live and let live.

Mrs Fab x"

ffs I only joined fab because someone told me you would get a free curly wurly

am still waiting

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By *ab and funCouple
over a year ago

FIFE

I thought it was a twix, not had any luck yet xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I thought it was a twix, not had any luck yet xx"

Well for a curly wurly, no luck, that's for sure

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By *ab and funCouple
over a year ago

FIFE

"I thought it was a twix, not had any luck yet xx

Well for a curly wurly, no luck, that's for sure

Lucky I don’t do chocolate

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