FabSwingers.com forum: What Do You Really Want From Fab

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What Do You Really Want From Fab?

When you joined fab was it out of curiosity or with the intention to have sex or fun, chats, banter, meet people, make friends relationships, socials etc...

There is a lot going on and fab has changed over the years but a lot of people who have been on a while, I think, become more hardened with the hassle n drama and learn from it and just never rush.

I know I don't rush, more keen to take my time, find out about the person before I take it further whether out of trust or just unsure. I'm more into meeting, socials, house parties and getting on, having a right good laugh and banter and if fun happens then great.

So what do most of you think your views of originally joining and then what you think now after experiencing fab

Lets hope if there is relies that most are positive

XxX peter

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

Someone reliable would be awesome

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

"Someone reliable would be awesome

Not saying there aren't any mind!! Met some amazing people through here. But they're few and far between compared to the no shows and time wasters x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Someone reliable would be awesome

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Fun and laughs with no dramas ...simple pleasures really ..ideally someone to meet semi regular rather than 1 off meets

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By *onkeymagic50Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour

Still finding out .my outlook and perceptions of what I want out of fab have evolved over the year's with meets etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably pretty much agree with yourself there Peter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex...i managed to get some

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"What Do You Really Want From Fab?

When you joined fab was it out of curiosity or with the intention to have sex or fun, chats, banter, meet people, make friends relationships, socials etc...

There is a lot going on and fab has changed over the years but a lot of people who have been on a while, I think, become more hardened with the hassle n drama and learn from it and just never rush.

So what do most of you think your views of originally joining and then what you think now after experiencing fab

Lets hope if there is relies that most are positive

XxX peter

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Sex!

I had no idea away back then what else it could lead to but enjoying the experiences Ive had.

As for drama well a saying I like is beautiful things happen when you distance yourself from it and thats so true

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By *rs T and HubbyCouple
over a year ago

somewhere north of the border..

"Fun and laughs with no dramas ...simple pleasures really ..ideally someone to meet semi regular rather than 1 off meets

Ditto.

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

"What Do You Really Want From Fab?

When you joined fab was it out of curiosity or with the intention to have sex or fun, chats, banter, meet people, make friends relationships, socials etc...

There is a lot going on and fab has changed over the years but a lot of people who have been on a while, I think, become more hardened with the hassle n drama and learn from it and just never rush.

So what do most of you think your views of originally joining and then what you think now after experiencing fab

Lets hope if there is relies that most are positive

XxX peter

When i started out on Fab i though it was going to be lots of fun.....i was right.

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I can't answer this question without writing a novella lol

Want I want, what I really really want from Fab

changes from one week to the next to be honest.

Sometimes it is sex... usually something beyond that, a physical activity with someone you have chemistry with, allowing you to explore your sexuality, maybe a fantasy, maybe a role play, maybe push boundaries...

What I want varies with my mood, my need, the person I am attracted to.

Sometimes it is connecting with people socially.

Hope this makes a little sense

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I started going to swingers clubs months before joining Fab. Refused point blank to join a sex site as it scared the life out of me if im honest. Why did i join?. The answer is simple. I get lonely sometimes. I dont mind being alone but feeling lonely is different. Fab has been good for me in many ways. I have had some great meets which by far out weigh the bad ones. I have met some fantastic folk who have helped me find my old self again as she kinda got lost many years ago. I have regained my confidence and definately got that twinkle back in my eyes. The only thing i dont like is having to turn down so many lovely gentleman as it leaves me feeling like a right bitch.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can't answer this question without writing a novella lol

Want I want, what I really really want from Fab

changes from one week to the next to be honest.

What I want varies with my mood, my need, the person I am attracted to.

Sometimes it is connecting with people socially.

Hope this makes a little sense

yeah it makes sense as we are all different its just good to know what you though when first joining and seeing if you think the same now.

Fuck, all I've mentioned above is brill but connecting with someone, and intense sex, staying with them overnight and having fun in the morning.

Even attitude to sex on here is variable from person to person.

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I can't answer this question without writing a novella lol

Want I want, what I really really want from Fab

changes from one week to the next to be honest.

What I want varies with my mood, my need, the person I am attracted to.

Sometimes it is connecting with people socially.

Hope this makes a little sense

yeah it makes sense as we are all different its just good to know what you though when first joining and seeing if you think the same now.

Fuck, all I've mentioned above is brill but connecting with someone, and intense sex, staying with them overnight and having fun in the morning.

Even attitude to sex on here is variable from person to person.

Going with the flow is always good

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I never had any expectations when I joined.

What I have found is a place to discuss various topics, some even related to sex. I’ve met some lovely people over the years, had some great experiences and made some great friends.

I enjoy the social side as well as having a lot of fun and discovering my kinky and bi side. For me it’s been a journey of discovery and still more fun to be had.

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By *onkeymagic50Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour

"I never had any expectations when I joined.

What I have found is a place to discuss various topics, some even related to sex. I’ve met some lovely people over the years, had some great experiences and made some great friends.

I enjoy the social side as well as having a lot of fun and discovering my kinky and bi side. For me it’s been a journey of discovery and still more fun to be had. "

Put more eloquently than I tried to say it ..but this is what I meant ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex.

Simple.

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

"I can't answer this question without writing a novella lol

Want I want, what I really really want from Fab

changes from one week to the next to be honest.

What I want varies with my mood, my need, the person I am attracted to.

Sometimes it is connecting with people socially.

Hope this makes a little sense

Its a ladies prerogative to change her mind . ( some do it to often though )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My location, job, etc etc meant I really didn’t know many ppl in the area so Fab opened many a door and I’ve met some really nice ppl and I love the social side.

Oh and amazing sex.

Although my quest for the latter continues

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By *exy gentMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

Originally just sex, but I've softened and enjoy the banter and general chat, as Peter says if anything more comes of it then so be it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy the social side, going to cjs and of course the sex. Some of it much better than others

but from previous encounters i love the house parties where you can let your hair down and have fun and in meeting regular people you can have a right good time with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Originally just nsa sex, but I'm enjoying the social side and the random chat

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We originally joined for sex n ended up getting so much more... love the social side n meeting people we probably woulda never crossed paths with.

K x

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By *otskipCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

at first think was just for sex .but now more maybe getting to know folk better .then the sex part usually flows ..there are alot of very nice genuine people on the site .x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Started using fab after our first night at cjs to keep in touch with people we had met. After a few months we find that we are using the site differently. Still use it to keep in touch and meet new people who we will meet up with at club but find ourselves more and more enjoying the interaction on the forums and now looking at socials that we never would have before.

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By *ittle_missknowitallWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

"Someone reliable would be awesome

Not saying there aren't any mind!! Met some amazing people through here. But they're few and far between compared to the no shows and time wasters x"

I’m perhaps lucky but I have only had a one no show - and i do think his reason was genuinely

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

"Someone reliable would be awesome

Not saying there aren't any mind!! Met some amazing people through here. But they're few and far between compared to the no shows and time wasters x

I’m perhaps lucky but I have only had a one no show - and i do think his reason was genuinely"

Yeah, think location is a bit of an issue for me. Don't understand why they would say they're coming over then, they can just say I'm too far away x

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By *DelilahWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Emmm, mind blowing sex

Whith someone semi-reliable!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was swinging before I found fab! To be honest Iv had great experiences on other sites just as much as on fab but it’s all been a bit quieter over the last few year as all the sites have changed. It was all new and exciting years ago but I don’t find it as exciting anymore. I’m now here to socialise with friends and maybe find a little play group

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first time I joined was to only really meet couples I enjoy the feeling of being with 2 people.

This time Ive had different experiences...at the moment I’m happy just talking nonsense in the forums. Xx

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I can't answer this question without writing a novella lol

Want I want, what I really really want from Fab

changes from one week to the next to be honest.

What I want varies with my mood, my need, the person I am attracted to.

Sometimes it is connecting with people socially.

Hope this makes a little sense

Its a ladies prerogative to change her mind . ( some do it to often though )

But my doing so does not affect anyone else on here Steph

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By *areBares7778Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Been on fab under a year, still no idea what we are looking for but enjoying the journey

we have also met some amazing people who have become good friends and also been to some amazing socials and road trips thank you to all the people who put in the time and effort to organise them

for us this is what makes FAB much love KareBares xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To explore a side of me id never thought was there anal fun

To have nsa fun and good relaxed times

To help others wanting to experiment or try a new scene or even build their confidence

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By *haring is caring ABCCouple
over a year ago

near edinburgh/borders

We want to have lots of fun make new kinky friends as we have allready and meet some regular fuck buddies ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined Fab looking to supplement my income, be sexually harassed and verbally abused on a daily basis, to find someone to cut my grass and carry out other odd jobs and for someone to taxi me home from d*unken nights out in town.

It's been a fucking hoot!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I joined Fab looking to supplement my income, be sexually harassed and verbally abused on a daily basis, to find someone to cut my grass and carry out other odd jobs and for someone to taxi me home from d*unken nights out in town.

It's been a fucking hoot! "

no wonder you don't want me, ma lawnmower is broke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's been a fucking hoot!

no wonder you don't want me, ma lawnmower is broke

I provide the lawn mower. I'm not THAT needy.

And of course I want you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's been a fucking hoot!

no wonder you don't want me, ma lawnmower is broke

I provide the lawn mower. I'm not THAT needy.

And of course I want you.

can just imagining turning up at yours all excited and aroused then you open the door, hand me a paint brush and tin o paint and then you say "right Horsey, get painting"

At least I'd be good fur summit

lollll

xx peter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's been a fucking hoot!

no wonder you don't want me, ma lawnmower is broke

I provide the lawn mower. I'm not THAT needy.

And of course I want you.

can just imagining turning up at yours all excited and aroused then you open the door, hand me a paint brush and tin o paint and then you say "right Horsey, get painting"

At least I'd be good fur summit

lollll

xx peter "

That's how all my meets go

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's been a fucking hoot!

no wonder you don't want me, ma lawnmower is broke

I provide the lawn mower. I'm not THAT needy.

And of course I want you.

can just imagining turning up at yours all excited and aroused then you open the door, hand me a paint brush and tin o paint and then you say "right Horsey, get painting"

At least I'd be good fur summit

lollll

xx peter

That's how all my meets go "

ffs, I just spat my tea out all over the place there

lollllllll

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By *eADevilCouple
over a year ago

Blantyre

It's been a fucking hoot! "

As long as your getting from Fab what you want thats all that matters. Unusual reasons to be here but each to their own.

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By *parkle13Woman
over a year ago

Dundee

It's been a fucking hoot! "

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By *parkle13Woman
over a year ago

Dundee

Too meet couples. .can't say iv had much luck

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

Actually, nothing. I suppose I stick around out of habit more than anything.

I don't think I've ever really used fab in the way it was intended, however over the years I've met some great people, had some fun experiences and even made friends. .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's been a fucking hoot!

no wonder you don't want me, ma lawnmower is broke

I provide the lawn mower. I'm not THAT needy.

And of course I want you.

can just imagining turning up at yours all excited and aroused then you open the door, hand me a paint brush and tin o paint and then you say "right Horsey, get painting"

At least I'd be good fur summit

lollll

xx peter

That's how all my meets go

ffs, I just spat my tea out all over the place there

lollllllll

Want me to pop over clean up the mess?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The odd mmf with guys who are a good laugh x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The odd mmf with guys who are a good laugh x"

Two ducks in a pond being fed but a guy at the side and one duck says to the other duck 'Quack!!' 'Quack!' and then the other duck looks at duck and says "gonny shut the fuck up, I'm trying to see wit this tube is feeding me'.

Ok, sorry I'll get my coat, then I walks away over the sunset with ma cock dragging on the ground behind me

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By *ookmasockMan
over a year ago

Alexandria

Ideally I'd like to find a woman who is sexy and I can go out and have fun with, but when we're alone she wants to lie around naked and have me touching her whenever I walk past

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

It's been a fucking hoot! "

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock

"I started going to swingers clubs months before joining Fab. Refused point blank to join a sex site as it scared the life out of me if im honest. Why did i join?. The answer is simple. I get lonely sometimes. I dont mind being alone but feeling lonely is different. Fab has been good for me in many ways. I have had some great meets which by far out weigh the bad ones. I have met some fantastic folk who have helped me find my old self again as she kinda got lost many years ago. I have regained my confidence and definately got that twinkle back in my eyes. The only thing i dont like is having to turn down so many lovely gentleman as it leaves me feeling like a right bitch."

We'll stop turning me down then and you won't feel such a bitch.

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By *onkeymagic50Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour

"The odd mmf with guys who are a good laugh x

Ok, sorry I'll get my coat, then I walks away over the sunset with ma cock dragging on the ground behind me

Leave the ducks alone 6 pack

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By *vanabeusedTV/TS
over a year ago

somewhere

Acceptance

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The odd mmf with guys who are a good laugh x

Ok, sorry I'll get my coat, then I walks away over the sunset with ma cock dragging on the ground behind me

Leave the ducks alone 6 pack

ffs, I wasn't the one feeding them, honest

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

Joined Fab after one of the exposes in the local press.

Had a few meets then met a lady with mutual interests and had a 3 year relationship. Sadly, she took unwell, it finished, had a few more meets, then met another lady with whom I've had a relationship for over 4 years.

Am I a swinger? Probably not, but hey ho!! Not sure what I was looking for, but certainly got more than I bargained for!!

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

A laugh a joke meet nice peope sociallyband intimatley ....generally it works out....far more social than sexual though.

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By *iss Ash42Woman
over a year ago

somewhere nowhere near you....

Ideally id like someone to feed me chicken nuggets while whispering Abba songs in my ear...

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

"Sex.

Simple.

This

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By *teveandfionaCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We are the same we are looking for socials, fun laughter and to meet couples similar to ourselves. We keep ourselves to ourselves and dip in and out of fab (no pun intended) when we feel like it

F x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ideally id like someone to feed me chicken nuggets while whispering Abba songs in my ear...

Take a chance on me Miss Ash

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honest decent woman for regular meets xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A hot young man for kinky meets!

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By *T1980Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Someone reliable would be awesome

Not saying there aren't any mind!! Met some amazing people through here. But they're few and far between compared to the no shows and time wasters x"

But find the rights 'Reliable' ones and it makes it all worth it

I cant believe you ever get a no show

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

"Someone reliable would be awesome

Not saying there aren't any mind!! Met some amazing people through here. But they're few and far between compared to the no shows and time wasters x

But find the rights 'Reliable' ones and it makes it all worth it

I cant believe you ever get a no show

Lost count of the amount of no shows... And sometimes infuriates me to see another thread from a single male how they're not getting a meet after trying everything. They should try actually showing up.

Never comment on these posts though, just think it quietly in my head

But there we go!! It's out in the open now x

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By *iss Ash42Woman
over a year ago

somewhere nowhere near you....

"Ideally id like someone to feed me chicken nuggets while whispering Abba songs in my ear...

Take a chance on me Miss Ash

With dip??

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By *onkeymagic50Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour

"Someone reliable would be awesome

Not saying there aren't any mind!! Met some amazing people through here. But they're few and far between compared to the no shows and time wasters x

But find the rights 'Reliable' ones and it makes it all worth it

I cant believe you ever get a no show

Never comment on these posts though, just think it quietly in my head

But there we go!! It's out in the open now x"

Based purely on your profile and photos ,I would have to meet you 1st to decide if we clicked but if you ever visit my neck of the woods (Yes I know improbable but not impossible)I would take a days holiday to have a social meet with you and no stand you up Pringles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the moment? A laugh. Sometimes it delivers....

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"At the moment? A laugh. Sometimes it delivers...."

Knock knock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At the moment? A laugh. Sometimes it delivers....

Knock knock

Come in....

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"At the moment? A laugh. Sometimes it delivers....

Knock knock

Come in....

Woohoo it works

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By *T1980Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Someone reliable would be awesome

Not saying there aren't any mind!! Met some amazing people through here. But they're few and far between compared to the no shows and time wasters x

But find the rights 'Reliable' ones and it makes it all worth it

I cant believe you ever get a no show

Never comment on these posts though, just think it quietly in my head

But there we go!! It's out in the open now x"

As been probably said on here a million times, too many fakes and time wasters that give the rest of us guys a bad name.

I would never give you a no show if I was ever lucky enough to get the chance x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At the moment? A laugh. Sometimes it delivers....

Knock knock

Come in....

Woohoo it works

I'm far too easy, I know!

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"At the moment? A laugh. Sometimes it delivers....

Knock knock

Come in....

Woohoo it works

I'm far too easy, I know! "

Result !!!

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Still looking for the same things we did when we joined. Nothing's changed for us really.

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By *entleman Caller GlasgowMan
over a year ago

Bellshill

I’m hoping for new experiences and fun times, though as a single guy on here........... ????

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By *idingawayCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

someone reliable who is cool enough to deal with our oddness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had done all the usual stuff ie clubs, socials, 1-1 fuck buddy etc and I joined to explore cuckolding

Here I am 12 years on and still looking. Had some amazing times along the way and have some still to come

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By *arroness NikkiWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

As i said on another thread, the site has been a great help on this new path I'm on. I honestly didn't know what to expect when i joined but it's been good up until now.

I would like to find a more regular buddy, maybe meet a couple, go to more social stuff & parties.....keen to broaden my horizons and explore things I've never had the chance to. Only been on here about 6 months so plenty of time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As i said on another thread, the site has been a great help on this new path I'm on. I honestly didn't know what to expect when i joined but it's been good up until now.

Never any need to rush, just enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just lots of sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think in reality many see this site or even the lifestyle differently, which I suppose was expected. Some see it for sex, some for swinging, some to make friends and or network.

I personally don't see it as a sex site, if I did, then I wouldn't be here. To me, it's more swinging, meeting people having a laugh, chatting, socials, house parties and if they end in sexy fun then great n 1 on 1s, 3somes etc.

We all have expectations and on here they might change or stay the same but as long as we all have a great time and not hurt anyone along the way then it's all good

XxX

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By *oney4uCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We joined so i (honey) could lick pretty girls! My goal hasn’t really changed over the years we’ve been swinging. I have met so many amazing people (and some not so amazing) and found our so much about myself. When it ceases to amazing then I’d maybe think about stopping but we’re no where near that yet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We joined so i (honey) could lick pretty girls! My goal hasn’t really changed over the years we’ve been swinging. I have met so many amazing people (and some not so amazing) and found our so much about myself. When it ceases to amazing then I’d maybe think about stopping but we’re no where near that yet.

I have to admit over the years people whom I've met from couples to females, some becoming good friends have eventually left. Mostly because they tried the lifestyle n enjoyed it but felt it was time to leave after doing what they wanted to do.

Some singles including men, have met someone either on here or in normal life and decided to leave and get on with their own private life's. Of course many married ones had their enjoyment and then left to go back to their unsuspecting partner.

It's a lifestyle that we will all eventually leave it's only a matter of time but each of us will know when that time is right

It would be great if everyone did get on and we did not come across bad experiences on here but we sometimes do and sometime do get the same in private life so just be adaptable and enjoy the genuine, lovely people who are on here when they come across your path.

That was my early morning sentiment so whose up fur fun.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

It's a lifestyle that we will all eventually leave it's only a matter of time but each of us will know when that time is right

That was my early morning sentiment so whose up fur fun.

I'm not leaving and you can make me

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Can't ***

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can't ***"

Ffs you buggered that up, didn't ya lolollllollllllll

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have achieved most of my goals here:

Indulged my wildest fantasies - well, almost!

Made a few wonderful new friends

Had some great social meets

Been to some outrageous parties!

And I have met a great new fb!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have achieved most of my goals here:

Indulged my wildest fantasies - well, almost!

Made a few wonderful new friends

Had some great social meets

Been to some outrageous parties!

And I have met a great new fb!"
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Sounds like one happy, contented woman. Wooohooooo

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I joined fab for both the social and sexual aspects.

My work as a locum doesn't afford me the availability for something more long term, and as we all have our "needs", fab sounded perfect.

It's turned out to be everything I had hoped for and more. I've met some incredibly sexy people, have pushed my boundaries, and have found myself in settings I couldn't have dreamt of a mere two years ago.

Its definitely surprised me on how it has better refined what I like sexually and broadened the scope of women I find attractive.

Its also done away with any feelings of jealousy whatsoever. Don't think I can ever return to vanilla...

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"Can't ***

Ffs you buggered that up, didn't ya lolollllollllllll

Story of my life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chat, social meets and possibly fun if all goes well

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By *an from UncleMan
over a year ago

ml1

I used to meet a lot from here but, these days its only good for keeping in contact, if you want to meet clubs or socials are much better much like a date site, no point endless texts just meet n chat simples

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I joined fab for both the social and sexual aspects.

My work as a locum doesn't afford me the availability for something more long term, and as we all have our "needs", fab sounded perfect.

Its definitely surprised me on how it has better refined what I like sexually and broadened the scope of women I find attractive.

Its also done away with any feelings of jealousy whatsoever. Don't think I can ever return to vanilla... "

Believe everything you say except return to vanilla life. It's a vanilla life once you leave here if you want to make it that way.

You will prob meet what we class as a vanilla person but they will gain your experience and you theirs and if you both want to be with each other than you wanting to swinging and the experiences will mean nothing other than an experience as you both just want to be together.

Don't I make that sound so lovely when were all ready to return to vanilla life.

Awwwwww

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I used to meet a lot from here but, these days its only good for keeping in contact, if you want to meet clubs or socials are much better much like a date site, no point endless texts just meet n chat simples

Socials are great to meet people and so are clubs to a certain extent but if I want to meet then clubs are the last place I'd choose, but that's my view.

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By *anny77Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Understanding that I can’t meet at the drop of a hat.

Most people are great but childcare issues, being a workaholic, and my primary babysitter being a chronically ill mother definitely means I have to carefully plan all meets and sometimes even then it fails spectacularly.

I keep telling myself fab probably isn’t for me (and I have kinda started seeing my pal - recipe for disaster) but I have met some lovely people here and love the social side so much.

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By *anda300Couple
over a year ago

Fife

"Someone reliable would be awesome

Totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some decent chat and banter works fine for me, always preferred a fwb to one night s_ands, and to build the courage up to attend one of these socials.

Explore myself a bit more as well haven’t ever really done the single thing and long term relationships seemed a bit “bland” in the end in experiences wise....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some decent chat and banter works fine for me, always preferred a fwb to one night s_ands, and to build the courage up to attend one of these socials.

Explore myself a bit more as well haven’t ever really done the single thing and long term relationships seemed a bit “bland” in the end in experiences wise.... "

The big socials are easy

Honest you'll have 100 to 200 peeps all swingers and just go up and introduce yourself and chat.

Every social I've been to I've went in single and alone and just chatted away and had a brilliant time.

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By *eestar38Couple
over a year ago

Ayrshire

We joined just to see what was out there and had no expectations of what to expect.

Since joining have got chatting to a few lovely people and looking forward to arranging different meets.

Have met some lovely people at cjs as well so can keep in touch with them on here.

Like to see what people are posting on the forums as well.

Every new experience makes me more confident and excited about what could happen next

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

SEXXXXXX !!!!! There I said it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We joined just to see what was out there and had no expectations of what to expect.

Since joining have got chatting to a few lovely people and looking forward to arranging different meets.

Have met some lovely people at cjs as well so can keep in touch with them on here.

Like to see what people are posting on the forums as well.

Every new experience makes me more confident and excited about what could happen next "

You will be up and running in no time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have achieved most of my goals here:

Indulged my wildest fantasies - well, almost!

Made a few wonderful new friends

Had some great social meets

Been to some outrageous parties!

And I have met a great new fb!.

Sounds like one happy, contented woman. Wooohooooo

I think there are a great deal of people who have probably had the same as I have from fab tbh. I will say however that my experience of clubs is mixed but I don't go there determined to play anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To try new things as bored with the norm not having much luck tho x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't answer this question without writing a novella lol

Want I want, what I really really want from Fab

changes from one week to the next to be honest.

What I want varies with my mood, my need, the person I am attracted to.

Sometimes it is connecting with people socially.

Hope this makes a little sense

Well said Max.... my thoughts exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A husband and ten children ... joke lol ... just good horny no drama sex

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By *arroness NikkiWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"As i said on another thread, the site has been a great help on this new path I'm on. I honestly didn't know what to expect when i joined but it's been good up until now.

Never any need to rush, just enjoy"

So Peter would you suggest going along to some socials is the way to go if i wanted to meet some couples ?

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By *ocaine and caviarCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

"Ideally id like someone to feed me chicken nuggets while whispering Abba songs in my ear...

Take a chance on me Miss Ash

Brilliant squire well executed

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As i said on another thread, the site has been a great help on this new path I'm on. I honestly didn't know what to expect when i joined but it's been good up until now.

Never any need to rush, just enjoy

So Peter would you suggest going along to some socials is the way to go if i wanted to meet some couples ?

Socials are good way to get to know people, chat away, the forums on here, the chat rooms. there's also small socials and house parties that you might get invites too. There's so many ways. Also clubs like Cjs where people just go to chat, some go to play and some go to decide what they will do when they arrive, so relaxed atmosphere with like minded people

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have achieved most of my goals here:

Indulged my wildest fantasies - well, almost!

Made a few wonderful new friends

Had some great social meets

Been to some outrageous parties!

And I have met a great new fb!.

Sounds like one happy, contented woman. Wooohooooo

I think there are a great deal of people who have probably had the same as I have from fab tbh. I will say however that my experience of clubs is mixed but I don't go there determined to play anyway."

I don't go to clubs but from all my friends who do, talk to me and I see it that a lot don't got determined to play. I get that a lot go out of curiosity, some to be socialable, chatting, making friends.

Some go for chat and possibly fun if the mood or person interests them and some go with the intention of having sex/sexyfun.

In each of these views there is nothing wrong with that. Each to their own.

I suppose my post started with peoples main view but to be honest to each of us it could open up a wider spectrum of what we want from clubs, socials, house parties, meets, one on ones, 3somes, gangbangs etc... any kind of relationship, what we want, what we done want, what we like, dislike.

It could be exhaustive, that's for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Joined Fab after one of the exposes in the local press.

Am I a swinger? Probably not, but hey ho!! Not sure what I was looking for, but certainly got more than I bargained for!!

Aye....ye certainly did get more than you bargained for cause it's FIVE YEARS!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want it all, I want it all, I want it all, And I want it now!

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

"Joined Fab after one of the exposes in the local press.

Am I a swinger? Probably not, but hey ho!! Not sure what I was looking for, but certainly got more than I bargained for!!

Aye....ye certainly did get more than you bargained for cause it's FIVE YEARS!!!!!

Ehhh........do I know you??

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By *homCrownMan
over a year ago

from West Fife

"Joined Fab after one of the exposes in the local press.

Am I a swinger? Probably not, but hey ho!! Not sure what I was looking for, but certainly got more than I bargained for!!

Aye....ye certainly did get more than you bargained for cause it's FIVE YEARS!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexual experiences with the more mature female

haha

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

No drama! No games! Just fun!

Originally joined as part of a couple, now enjoying being in control of my own profile.

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By *ranco75Man
over a year ago

Renfrew

Been on and off for two years never had a meet! Think I’m not every woman’s cuppa tea! But hey ho not offended just wish that I knew what I was doing wrong ????????????

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Started using fab after our first night at cjs to keep in touch with people we had met. After a few months we find that we are using the site differently. Still use it to keep in touch and meet new people who we will meet up with at club but find ourselves more and more enjoying the interaction on the forums and now looking at socials that we never would have before. "

Yeah I can see how that would happen.

I went to my first social a couple of years ago as all my friends on here wanted me to go and it was brilliant laugh and just so good to actually meet people face to face whom I only chat too and now have many people whom I can call friends.

I'm not meeting as much for fun now, different situations on here sometimes put me off but I am usually meeting for socials for good laughs and banter which is so enjoyable.

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