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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've seen similar feeds on here before but i'm finding it difficult getting any interaction with any females or couples.

I apreciate there are lot's of single blokes but there must be someway of getting noticed?

Any advice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you’ve seen similar feeds then all the tips on those still stand.

Go to a social

Use chat and forums

Be polite and respectful

Use your profile well

Be patient

Check all those other posts, site help, faq’setc

I’m sure others will add more, good luck OP

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

You are currently showing as in Malaga!

R

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You are currently showing as in Malaga!

R "

... and says he’s having trouble keeping warm lol. Mind you it’s Malaga Scotland, not familiar with it but bet it’s just as chilly as the rest of the country

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"You are currently showing as in Malaga!

R

... and says he’s having trouble keeping warm lol. Mind you it’s Malaga Scotland, not familiar with it but bet it’s just as chilly as the rest of the country "

I'm heading to Spain next week. It better be warmer than here

R

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You are currently showing as in Malaga!

R

... and says he’s having trouble keeping warm lol. Mind you it’s Malaga Scotland, not familiar with it but bet it’s just as chilly as the rest of the country

I'm heading to Spain next week. It better be warmer than here

R "

Oh nice part of the world missus, enjoy!!

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"You are currently showing as in Malaga!

R

... and says he’s having trouble keeping warm lol. Mind you it’s Malaga Scotland, not familiar with it but bet it’s just as chilly as the rest of the country

I'm heading to Spain next week. It better be warmer than here

R

Oh nice part of the world missus, enjoy!! "

Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You are currently showing as in Malaga!

R "

This made me giggle! And he wonders why he can't get a meet in Scotland

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"You are currently showing as in Malaga!

R

This made me giggle! And he wonders why he can't get a meet in Scotland "

Although I will be a bit closer to him this time next week

R

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By *onkeymagic50Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour

Prefer my holidays cold .Work in heat all time so cold is bliss to me

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Profile says you live in Malaga.

You have three clubs in that area and a nudist beach.

There is a social swinger friendly bar called Open Minded Swingers just up from the square in Torrimolinos.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Oh here we go again. Someone that needs a womens hand to hold before entering a club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

????????

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

I think she is referring single guys that plug a thread about needing help when what they really want is a female to take the lead.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"I think she is referring single guys that plug a thread about needing help when what they really want is a female to take the lead.

Yes. Its stated in his profile

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

What's funny is some have into ganbangs, mmmf, fffm, voyeurism, watersports and domination for meets yet can't walk through the door of a club alone.

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock

Many on here walked through the door of a club alone, not knowing anyone?

Or were there prearranged meets?

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Many on here walked through the door of a club alone, not knowing anyone?

Or were there prearranged meets? "

I have. The 2nd time I went. Although I did know there would be people there I might know because of the forum post.

R

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock


"Many on here walked through the door of a club alone, not knowing anyone?

Or were there prearranged meets?

I have. The 2nd time I went. Although I did know there would be people there I might know because of the forum post.

R "

Reason I asked, some guys have posted before about going to cj's and felt that they were mostly ignored or at best, tolerated. I know that probably isn't the case for others, but we don't have the support network like the girls do, ladies will rally round.

Can't think of anything else, your thought cancelling breasts have stymie.., perplexe... awe f@ck it, can't remember what I was going to say now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you to those who offered useful feedback.

I live in Glasgow but changed it to Malaga while i was on holiday as i thought that might help the search engine (it doesn't).

I had assumed because of the nature of it, that CJs might be an invite only place so thanks for clarifying. I am not afraid to walk in alone.

For those people that thought it would be fun to shit on someone who knows less than them i'm disappointed. I thought Fab was a nice community.

On a final point i don't think some of the women on Fab realise how much more difficult it is for men and i feel on the whole single men are disregarded or made to jump through hoops simply because we are in the majority.

Reading a lot of female profiles involves wading through a long list of don'ts (always negative), and never a list of dos. It's not atttactive.

There's something cruel about the way some women behave and if the shoe was on the other foot they would feel the same way as i do now.

As my profile explains i am an intelligent and highly sexual guy so if anyone is interested get in touch.

Respect will be reciprocated.

Thanks for reading to the bottom.

Happy fabbing!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you’ve seen similar feeds then all the tips on those still stand.

Go to a social

Use chat and forums

Be polite and respectful

Use your profile well

Be patient

Check all those other posts, site help, faq’setc

I’m sure others will add more, good luck OP "

Thank you that is very helpful x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You are currently showing as in Malaga!

R

... and says he’s having trouble keeping warm lol. Mind you it’s Malaga Scotland, not familiar with it but bet it’s just as chilly as the rest of the country

I'm heading to Spain next week. It better be warmer than here

R "

My advice to you would be to take a scarf, jeans and a warm jacket. It's very cold! That said at no point did i have to scrape the car so it's all gravy.

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"You are currently showing as in Malaga!

R

... and says he’s having trouble keeping warm lol. Mind you it’s Malaga Scotland, not familiar with it but bet it’s just as chilly as the rest of the country

I'm heading to Spain next week. It better be warmer than here

R

My advice to you would be to take a scarf, jeans and a warm jacket. It's very cold! That said at no point did i have to scrape the car so it's all gravy. "

I hope not! I'll just need to find soneone(s) to keep me warm then

R

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