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Spur of the moment vs Planned meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know most like to plan meets in advance but does anyone just meet when they feel like it without any planning?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I know most like to plan meets in advance but does anyone just meet when they feel like it without any planning? "
I host private parties and do tend to go with the flow at them,

But on here 99.9% of the time my meets are planned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have done both and had good laugh and fun doing both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both have worked well for us

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

On here no on a night out yes

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

I have done both but free time is so limited I tend to plan.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs tends to prefer spur of moment ie happening on a night out rather than planned meets, each to their own though and whatever works for you is fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say planned for me as I like specific nights to myself. I have had one or two spontaneous meets and I have to say they were good fun too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know most like to plan meets in advance but does anyone just meet when they feel like it without any planning? "

Variety for me. Planned and unplanned work just as well xx

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By *arroness NikkiWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I've done both. Prefer planned ones but not got any horror stories from spur of the moment ones. I always try and have a decent amount of chat via msg before i agree to anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spontaneous for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both for me as I can often get the chance of a few hours free unexpectedly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually it has to be planned but I can be very spontaneous. Contrary as it may sound though, even spontaneous meets have to have certain things checked. Safety is always paramount.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have done both and both worked well. We don't always get a lot if notice of when teenager will be out so sometimes has to be spur of the moment for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv done both but I must admit the spur of the moment meets was more exciting and memorable I still laugh when I think back on some of them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Done both and yes the spur of the moment is more exciting and enjoyable however, these days with so little free time majority of meets are pre-planned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know most like to plan meets in advance but does anyone just meet when they feel like it without any planning? "

"Life is like a box of chocolates" you never know what to expect when you log on

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I prefer to chat and get to know someone first, preferably meet a regular friend or two

but

in saying that on the odd occasion I have logged on chatted and met through that initial chat within a few hours

such as meeting at Ladybank duck pond and a slow walk and chat with the same girl I was chatting too, 40 mins before online

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Just take one day at a time with no expectations

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I’ve done both. Both have their plus points. Also spontaneous meets don’t cancel. Sometimes you just have to have some fun.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Nite out or parties spontaneity can be fun but mostly through fab it will be planned meets for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a planner

Spontaneity is too impetuous for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spontaneous meets are and were great but as you become more experienced the planned meets are way better.

I've had some amazing spontaneous meets but with a planned meet, the chatting bforre, getting to know each other the intensity can be unrivalled and as I know what I like and what I want from someone or a meet then planned, I feel is the best. Spontaneous always will have its place and is great but I want a whole lot more and give a lot more with a planned meet

XxX Peter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spur of the moment meets never happen even if the person is verified they still don't turn up so just don't do them now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Done both but I don't get enough free time and do tend to plan.

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