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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think this site needs to have a NOT INTERESTED button installed.

It would save a lot of time and people who don’t want to reply to messages could just hit the button - the recipient would get the message and life would be a lot happier. It would also mean that the person sending the first message would not be a lengthy to contact the person again.

What’s everyone’s thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

** would not be able to contact them again!!!

Correction

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I hate when someone doesn’t take the hint, sometimes you don’t want to block them as you sometimes seem them at clubs etc but you are fed up with them messaging all the time trying it on

One guy in particular we block on sight, he’s always got a new profile every other day, he goes to a club that we goto hence why he’d message but he was told from the start it’s never happening but he wouldn’t take the hint, 3 messages in and boom cock pics! So now we just block him on sight and ignore him at the club due to it, it’s a shame it’s came to that but needs must

John

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or people could just take a deleted/unreplied message as a “no thank you”

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Or people could just take a deleted/unreplied message as a “no thank you”"

Some guys never do, they think that if you didn’t reply that maybe your mailbox was too full and you didn’t see it (which sometimes can happen)

John

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Or people could just take a deleted/unreplied message as a “no thank you”"

The button would save any nasty replies and would cancel out them contacting you again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or you can just block?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think this site needs to have a NOT INTERESTED button installed.

It would save a lot of time and people who don’t want to reply to messages could just hit the button - the recipient would get the message and life would be a lot happier. It would also mean that the person sending the first message would not be a lengthy to contact the person again.

What’s everyone’s thoughts?"

Stick this in the site suggestions forum, so admin might read it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Or you can just block?"

Again....

It’s about the person sending the message getting some sort of reply. Even to say we are not interested!

The button would mean that the person has been replied to, they can’t message the person again.

Often people who get ignored or deleted straight away feel shitty and come on here and show their anger on posts!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Message read no reply = not interested

Message read/deleted = not interested

Message read/ your now blocked = not interested

You wouldn’t go up someone in a bar and say please don’t tell me to fuck off

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.


"Message read no reply = not interested

Message read/deleted = not interested

Message read/ your now blocked = not interested

You wouldn’t go up someone in a bar and say please don’t tell me to fuck off "

Message read, reply received and they are currently sucking your cock equals they are interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Message read no reply = not interested

Message read/deleted = not interested

Message read/ your now blocked = not interested

You wouldn’t go up someone in a bar and say please don’t tell me to fuck off

Message read, reply received and they are currently sucking your cock equals they are interested. "

Check yir inbox

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I think this site needs to have a NOT INTERESTED button installed.

It would save a lot of time and people who don’t want to reply to messages could just hit the button - the recipient would get the message and life would be a lot happier. It would also mean that the person sending the first message would not be a lengthy to contact the person again.

What’s everyone’s thoughts?"

Why not just have a little common sense?!

Take the hint?!

Plus, Sometimes the 'not interested' comes after a few messages when you realise you are on different waves!

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Or you can just block?

Again....

It’s about the person sending the message getting some sort of reply. Even to say we are not interested!

The button would mean that the person has been replied to, they can’t message the person again.

Often people who get ignored or deleted straight away feel shitty and come on here and show their anger on posts!

"

I am going to try to put this correctly lol

The site does not say that you are entitled to a reply if you message someone or that if you post of the forum someone will pick up your comment.

It is 'nice' to get a reply either positive or negative to get some kind of 'closure' but one is not entitled to one.

If a no reply drags you down or you feel the need to express anger on posts cos of no reply to your messages.... maybe review the way you approach the site.

Hope this makes sense

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

Isn’t that just the same as the block button minus the not interested message ?

Not interested = no reply .

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"I think this site needs to have a NOT INTERESTED button installed.

It would save a lot of time and people who don’t want to reply to messages could just hit the button - the recipient would get the message and life would be a lot happier. It would also mean that the person sending the first message would not be a lengthy to contact the person again.

What’s everyone’s thoughts?"
its already availible its called the block button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rightly or wrongly I choose to block someone whom says no, reads and deletes or has been read and not replied in a week or so. Not out of malice but it save ME from read messaging someone hence annoying them.

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By *m83Man
over a year ago

Lisburn

Excellent idea I think you should contact fab and suggest it

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth

yeah.... i get people who wont take a hint and repeatedly message, sometimes even after being told no thanks..

even better would be a "fuck off" button.... one click, and off they fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rightly or wrongly I choose to block someone whom says no, reads and deletes or has been read and not replied in a week or so. Not out of malice but it save ME from read messaging someone hence annoying them. "

That's a good idea. You can't remember every profile you message. Saves all parties the hassle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't think it will get put in place to be honest I myself very often say I'm not interested yet they still keep chatting hoping they can change my mind I'm sure all women an couples experience this so I just tend to block to save time I use my block as a filter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suggest a GTF button....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I suggest a GTF button...."

NO! That would totally destroy what little self esteem I have left!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single guy I understand it's hard because you've got so many variables against you but if you don't get a reply you've got to take it on the chin and move on

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