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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is there any possibility for me to ask a question about this matter.

Say you see a status update and you like the look.

You sent a message to them,

DELETED!!!!!!!!

Looked at your profile?

NO!

Mmmmmmmmm

Any advice and answers

Yours puzzled ??

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

Maybe the view in private mode. A lot of us do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe the view in private mode. A lot of us do "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, probably peeking in stealth mode lol. Don’t be offended at the deleted message, annoying as that may be. The site stipulates such action should be taken as a polite no thanks and people often don’t reply as they don’t want to end up with pointless “ping pong” mails.

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife


"Is there any possibility for me to ask a question about this matter.

Say you see a status update and you like the look.

You sent a message to them,

DELETED!!!!!!!!

Looked at your profile?

NO!

Mmmmmmmmm

Any advice and answers

Yours puzzled ??

"

I'd say they had looked at your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I receive over 500 messages a day bud. It’s just impossible to read and reply to everyone.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Some messages are just statements and dont require an answer.x

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By *is vixen at playCouple
over a year ago

Dundee


"Yep, probably peeking in stealth mode lol. Don’t be offended at the deleted message, annoying as that may be. The site stipulates such action should be taken as a polite no thanks and people often don’t reply as they don’t want to end up with pointless “ping pong” mails. "

So many people don't get this. When you don't get a reply message it's not rude. No one is entitled to a message back. G

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No reply and it gets deleted

Take it as a no thanks and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not replying is easier than saying no....usually that just opens up the Chanel of abuse! Just take it as no thanks and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there any possibility for me to ask a question about this matter.

Say you see a status update and you like the look.

You sent a message to them,

DELETED!!!!!!!!

Looked at your profile?

NO!

Mmmmmmmmm

Any advice and answers

Yours puzzled ??

I'd say they had looked at your profile "

I'd agree.

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By *ubbly2012Woman
over a year ago

inver somewhere

Maybe theyr just not that into you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there any possibility for me to ask a question about this matter.

Say you see a status update and you like the look.

You sent a message to them,

DELETED!!!!!!!!

Looked at your profile?

NO!

Mmmmmmmmm

Any advice and answers

Yours puzzled ??

"

Honestly it's no big deal. You will learn with experience on here not to worry or bother about it. Just carry on and do your thing.

There are many reasons your mail was deleted could be bulk delete, they don't like what they read, they could be a fake and think you don't look as if yiu could be conned It could just be any reason.

I've had people block me whom I've never even chatted to and they forgot and started chatting to me at socials and they had a good time in my company, I think, so I'm sure they would be different if they saw you or chatted to you in the flesh. Just don't take it personal

Just move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe the view in private mode. A lot of us do "

How do you do this?

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife


"Maybe the view in private mode. A lot of us do

How do you do this?"
account privacy settings, I show on people's profile, change it to hide

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there any possibility for me to ask a question about this matter.

Say you see a status update and you like the look.

You sent a message to them,

DELETED!!!!!!!!

Looked at your profile?

NO!

Mmmmmmmmm

Any advice and answers

Yours puzzled ??

"

Advice: Block and move on. That way you won't see them again on your newsfeed, and if they decide to try and contact you, they can't, because they were rude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there any possibility for me to ask a question about this matter.

Say you see a status update and you like the look.

You sent a message to them,

DELETED!!!!!!!!

Looked at your profile?

NO!

Mmmmmmmmm

Any advice and answers

Yours puzzled ??

Advice: Block and move on. That way you won't see them again on your newsfeed, and if they decide to try and contact you, they can't, because they were rude."

I definitely wouldn't block, don't see the sense in that. They might have deleted your message for many number of reasons. Just move on, make a private note on their profile and that's it.

If you block them it looks as if you don't like them or upset at message being deleted. SO what, they interested you and they may not feel the same way but they don't know you, just move on as your paths might cross in the future.

On here think some people get upset, (not saying this poster whom I'm commenting his comments, if someone thinks they are not for them. Don't be, its the same as in normal life and I don't think we all take a strop n block them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just ruthless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just ruthless. "

loll, so am I, just only on the football field

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just ruthless.

loll, so am I, just only on the football field "

My football days are long over, I need other outlets for my ruthlessness.

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