FabSwingers.com forum: Sometimes its good to talk.....

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just a wee note. Its good to talk. Sometimes people around us everyday are going through alot of crap and they hide it so well. Please just look out for small signs....its all it takes to open it all up sometimes. Take care of those you know around you....and even the ones you dont. You might just be doing somebody a favour that you never knew you were doing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll reply to yer thread bud save yeah talking to yer self

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Just a wee note. Its good to talk. Sometimes people around us everyday are going through alot of crap and they hide it so well. Please just look out for small signs....its all it takes to open it all up sometimes. Take care of those you know around you....and even the ones you dont. You might just be doing somebody a favour that you never knew you were doing

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very true !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

amen to that

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By *is vixen at playCouple
over a year ago

Dundee

I work in a customer service area, and the amount of times I've been told to cheer up or 'smile, it might never happen' by complete strangers is unreal.

It's such a rude thing to say to someone. Firstly, there's nothing wrong with me, it's just my face. And secondly, for all they know the person could have depression or had a bereavement etc.

A couple of times I've called people on it and pointed out that it's rude. Really grinds my gears.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I work in a customer service area, and the amount of times I've been told to cheer up or 'smile, it might never happen' by complete strangers is unreal.

It's such a rude thing to say to someone. Firstly, there's nothing wrong with me, it's just my face. And secondly, for all they know the person could have depression or had a bereavement etc.

A couple of times I've called people on it and pointed out that it's rude. Really grinds my gears.

V "

I have constant resting bitch face and always get asked what’s up ? Or what are you angry about? what’s up with your face? Nothing till I’m asked that lol

Musicmaid x

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By *is vixen at playCouple
over a year ago

Dundee

"I work in a customer service area, and the amount of times I've been told to cheer up or 'smile, it might never happen' by complete strangers is unreal.

It's such a rude thing to say to someone. Firstly, there's nothing wrong with me, it's just my face. And secondly, for all they know the person could have depression or had a bereavement etc.

A couple of times I've called people on it and pointed out that it's rude. Really grinds my gears.

I have constant resting bitch face and always get asked what’s up ? Or what are you angry about? what’s up with your face? Nothing till I’m asked that lol

Musicmaid x"

Same!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I work in a customer service area, and the amount of times I've been told to cheer up or 'smile, it might never happen' by complete strangers is unreal.

It's such a rude thing to say to someone. Firstly, there's nothing wrong with me, it's just my face. And secondly, for all they know the person could have depression or had a bereavement etc.

A couple of times I've called people on it and pointed out that it's rude. Really grinds my gears.

I have constant resting bitch face and always get asked what’s up ? Or what are you angry about? what’s up with your face? Nothing till I’m asked that lol

Musicmaid x"

I live with chronic pain* and smiling when out and about isn't my norm. I've also had the "Smile..." thing said to me.(Mostly by older people). Sometimes it's easier to scowl or growl in response than to try to explain.

I do have a sense of humour, which I hope comes across in my posts, and I am quite a happy person, most of the time.

* No, I am not A chronic pain.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for genuine inputs

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By *is vixen at playCouple
over a year ago

Dundee

With regard to your opening post, I always try to be there for anyone who needs to talk to someone. My friends hopefully all know that I'm here to listen any time they need.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"With regard to your opening post, I always try to be there for anyone who needs to talk to someone. My friends hopefully all know that I'm here to listen any time they need."

Always vital to have those around us that can help that way. Often people feel isolated and dont know who is there for them

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over a year ago

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