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observations from the guy who was new last year and now back again :P

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thought i should repost this after coming back recently and seeing the same crap going on - prolly preaching to those who know all this already but ya never know

As a relativly new guy here been a bit reluctant to comment on some stuff i see in chat but decided to put some stuff up tonight - mainly aimed at new peeps so you can save yourself and the peeps you failing to impress a lot of time :P

1)single str8 guys - if a lady is not str8 then it isnt a shame - would you think it a shame if a gay guy came on to you? its good for her - just not you - deal and move on.

2) stop asking peeps to do stuff on cam if you arent in directing room - rules flash up often in room - mods are very friendly and usually warn u b4 you get boot - if u get booted tis your own fault

3) From the ladies i know on here their screens are constantly being filled with whispers which makes it kinda hard for them to keep up with chat - so dont get pissy or send abusive mail if your mail or whisp hasnt been answered. Try chatting in main chat instead - you never know they may just talk back if you have something more interesting to say than "wanna see me cum on cam"

4) Think about your name - tis a free country and a liberal site but i dont think it impresses anyone having a name that denotes u have a huge appendage,can go all night,etc etc,i could be wrong but i doubt it.Oh and if you do get that meet,ill be laughing with the lady when your chipolata is revealed!!(not peeking from wardrobe i should add :P just in spirit:P )

5)Read people profiles!!

6)See rule 5 - seriously - nothing pisses people off more, self included if you havent bothered to at least see what the person you are trying to get to know is interested in,this one rule alone will save you and your prospective target for lack of a better word a lot of time and grief!

7) Have fun,and cut the keyboard warrior bollocks - we all have real lifes - well ok most of us do - plenty stress there without bringing aggresiveness rude behaviour and bitchy or snide commets in to a place that should be fun for all.

Anyway just my 2cents,im not setting out to offend anyone but hope this helps peeps who are new to the site and maybe even more experienced ones who wonder why they arent have much success

Bloo,love to you all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

most idiots dont read the forums....barking into a hollow tree methinks lol...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

methinks ya right but ya never know - just got annoyed at the amount of it going on tonight - sat night to be expected i guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thought i should repost this after coming back recently and seeing the same crap going on - prolly preaching to those who know all this already but ya never know

As a relativly new guy here been a bit reluctant to comment on some stuff i see in chat but decided to put some stuff up tonight - mainly aimed at new peeps so you can save yourself and the peeps you failing to impress a lot of time :P

1)single str8 guys - if a lady is not str8 then it isnt a shame - would you think it a shame if a gay guy came on to you? its good for her - just not you - deal and move on.

2) stop asking peeps to do stuff on cam if you arent in directing room - rules flash up often in room - mods are very friendly and usually warn u b4 you get boot - if u get booted tis your own fault

3) From the ladies i know on here their screens are constantly being filled with whispers which makes it kinda hard for them to keep up with chat - so dont get pissy or send abusive mail if your mail or whisp hasnt been answered. Try chatting in main chat instead - you never know they may just talk back if you have something more interesting to say than "wanna see me cum on cam"

4) Think about your name - tis a free country and a liberal site but i dont think it impresses anyone having a name that denotes u have a huge appendage,can go all night,etc etc,i could be wrong but i doubt it.Oh and if you do get that meet,ill be laughing with the lady when your chipolata is revealed!!(not peeking from wardrobe i should add :P just in spirit:P )

5)Read people profiles!!

6)See rule 5 - seriously - nothing pisses people off more, self included if you havent bothered to at least see what the person you are trying to get to know is interested in,this one rule alone will save you and your prospective target for lack of a better word a lot of time and grief!

7) Have fun,and cut the keyboard warrior bollocks - we all have real lifes - well ok most of us do - plenty stress there without bringing aggresiveness rude behaviour and bitchy or snide commets in to a place that should be fun for all.

Anyway just my 2cents,im not setting out to offend anyone but hope this helps peeps who are new to the site and maybe even more experienced ones who wonder why they arent have much success

Bloo,love to you all "

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By *eatherWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

couldnt agree with you more but whats the bet u will get we all have the right to havean opinion ,welcome back hope u stay on here

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By *issNaughtyxxxWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Well said Bloo, enjoy your return.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"but hope this helps peeps who are new to the site and maybe even more experienced ones who wonder why they arent have much success

Bloo,love to you all

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By *macv9Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I couldn't agree more

....except that rule 5 shoud be rule 1, rule 6 should be rule 2 and there should only be two rules.

The rest make a good appendix to the rules though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a guy who has been on here for 3 years now all you young bucks looking for some action would be very wise to heed Bloo's excellent advice.

The women on FAB are not commodities. Nor are they desperate, so if you treat everyone with the respect they deserve, you never know..... you could make some friends for life on here and if you are really, really lucky, you might even get an invitation.

Have fun and stay safe.

Jx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i agree most completely with the above comments.. and would like to add that not all guys are desperate or commodities either.. just for the record ..

rock on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pmsl Bloo bet it was doing yer heed in and you had to get it all out.

One thing I will say to add to this post. And having been on here since nearly its existance, I think im in a position to do so.

To couples and single girls who have on their profile "not looking for single guys" - If a guy says hello to you in the room, it does not mean he wants to part your legs and shag you. He might actually be polite.

No matter who you are. its always polite to reply back even if its a "hi" and then move on. remember people on here do talk to each other and confide.

xx peter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

good to see some nice genuine guys giving some grounded advise.

Goes into Bonny Tyler mode and starts singing 'where have all the good men gone......' lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some good advice from all of you. couldnt say it better bloo. ive not been on long and i get so annoyed i end up ignoring or blocking folk cos of the way they act and shouldnt need too do that its supposed to be fun

hope people read it.

xx

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