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"I'm afraid I don't get it either, I've just tried to learn to accept it. I mean me over someone with a hot body? Definitely agree that it's more a hang up of mine. R " Are saying you don't have a hot body? | |||
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"I'm afraid I don't get it either, I've just tried to learn to accept it. I mean me over someone with a hot body? Definitely agree that it's more a hang up of mine. R Are saying you don't have a hot body? " Definitely not . Good choice of underwear possibly..... R | |||
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"I'm afraid I don't get it either, I've just tried to learn to accept it. I mean me over someone with a hot body? Definitely agree that it's more a hang up of mine. R Are saying you don't have a hot body? Definitely not . Good choice of underwear possibly..... R " I can't argue with that! | |||
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"I'm afraid I don't get it either, I've just tried to learn to accept it. I mean me over someone with a hot body? Definitely agree that it's more a hang up of mine. R Are saying you don't have a hot body? Definitely not . Good choice of underwear possibly..... R I can't argue with that!" My wee treat to myself | |||
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"In my heart I would love to have a fling with a guy under 35...but as I have three sons between 21 and 31 it's too creepy in my head...not all ladies feel like that and I know if I didn't have sons I would throw all caution to the wind and go for it" Just settle for the (near) pensioners then! | |||
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"I used to wonder and worry about the reasons why now I dont . If younger guys want to meet me then great if they dont thats thier choice . But Im having a great time and thats all that should matter " yeah me too but sometimes i need to pinch myself just to make sure im not dreaming.x | |||
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"Oh well this is a very topic here. Some women are gorgeous for life, my whole life I had fantasies on my friend s mother or that lady that seems unreachable... My mom usd to work in a nice office, i always secretly had fantasies about her work colleagues, wearing nice high heels dress, and stockings... Older women are confident elegant and there is no drama I think... they always have that elegance that turns me on so much... I just love it... " yes i have heard this before. Elegance and confidence seem very appealing to the younger men x | |||
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"I'm afraid I don't get it either, I've just tried to learn to accept it. I mean me over someone with a hot body? Definitely agree that it's more a hang up of mine. R " Not too much wrong with your body | |||
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"I'm afraid I don't get it either, I've just tried to learn to accept it. I mean me over someone with a hot body? Definitely agree that it's more a hang up of mine. R Not too much wrong with your body " I must hide my mum tum well & no pert boobs here R | |||
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"I'm afraid I don't get it either, I've just tried to learn to accept it. I mean me over someone with a hot body? Definitely agree that it's more a hang up of mine. R Not too much wrong with your body I must hide my mum tum well & no pert boobs here R " Mum Tums & Dad Bods... the curse of the fab crusties! | |||
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"I'm afraid I don't get it either, I've just tried to learn to accept it. I mean me over someone with a hot body? Definitely agree that it's more a hang up of mine. R Not too much wrong with your body I must hide my mum tum well & no pert boobs here R " Lol all the right curves in all the right places. Floats my boat for sure X | |||
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"In my opinion from history lol they are much easier to get on with. They dont have the same moody , judgemental hangups of younger women. Whether in 20 or 30yr old brackets the guys who aim at older age brackets will always do well.. Yes it works both ways not because older women are easier but because its easier to have a decent conversation with them and for the lady she gets the attention of younger fit guys which boosts her confidence that she still has that sex appeal which can lead to better nookie. Win win situation but definitely 2 way streets ." The attention from a younger fit guy boosts an older woman's confidence? Generalising much? | |||
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"What is it about an older woman that you guys find so exciting?. Now im certainly not complaining as have had quite a few encounters with some very handsome fit guys but i honestly dont know what attraction is.x" Here's the answer; Low. Hanging. Fruit. | |||
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"In my opinion from history lol they are much easier to get on with. They dont have the same moody , judgemental hangups of younger women. Whether in 20 or 30yr old brackets the guys who aim at older age brackets will always do well.. Yes it works both ways not because older women are easier but because its easier to have a decent conversation with them and for the lady she gets the attention of younger fit guys which boosts her confidence that she still has that sex appeal which can lead to better nookie. Win win situation but definitely 2 way streets . The attention from a younger fit guy boosts an older woman's confidence? Generalising much?" Instead of question marks after my quotes which i have to say started with " in my opinion" . Why not put in an explanation of your own instead of trolling others possible explanations. But hey its way easier to have a pop ,than contribute something of value eh . ? | |||
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"In my opinion from history lol they are much easier to get on with. They dont have the same moody , judgemental hangups of younger women. Whether in 20 or 30yr old brackets the guys who aim at older age brackets will always do well.. Yes it works both ways not because older women are easier but because its easier to have a decent conversation with them and for the lady she gets the attention of younger fit guys which boosts her confidence that she still has that sex appeal which can lead to better nookie. Win win situation but definitely 2 way streets ." I second that never been with someone my own age or younger no attraction always went out with older ladies they are not ignorant either and very nice to talk to | |||
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"I'm afraid I don't get it either, I've just tried to learn to accept it. I mean me over someone with a hot body? Definitely agree that it's more a hang up of mine. R Not too much wrong with your body I must hide my mum tum well & no pert boobs here R Lol all the right curves in all the right places. Floats my boat for sure X" Aww! Thank you | |||
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"50 yr old woman with a 25yr old guy or 50 yr old guy with a 25 yr old woman Do the sums 25 goes into 50 more times than 50 goes into 25 Simple " Tut tut lol x | |||
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"50 yr old woman with a 25yr old guy or 50 yr old guy with a 25 yr old woman Do the sums 25 goes into 50 more times than 50 goes into 25 Simple Tut tut lol x" You can't argue with the math! | |||
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"How come it's cool for guys to be into older women but when girls are into older men they have "daddy issues"? " Daddy issues, or sugar daddy issues? | |||
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"How come it's cool for guys to be into older women but when girls are into older men they have "daddy issues"? " In many cases, that would be derivative of the term, 'Sugar Daddy', as it is not uncommon to see younger women attracted to older men primarily due to wealth. | |||
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"50 yr old woman with a 25yr old guy or 50 yr old guy with a 25 yr old woman Do the sums 25 goes into 50 more times than 50 goes into 25 Simple " lol nawty man | |||
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"How come it's cool for guys to be into older women but when girls are into older men they have "daddy issues"? In many cases, that would be derivative of the term, 'Sugar Daddy', as it is not uncommon to see younger women attracted to older men primarily due to wealth. " Don't know what my excuse is then because I'm financially independent and secure in that respect also | |||
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"If I was younger I could answer this, but an older woman for me means we’re sharing bus passes " Do you also share a big slipper, and have a tandem zimmer? | |||
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"If I was younger I could answer this, but an older woman for me means we’re sharing bus passes Do you also share a big slipper, and have a tandem zimmer?" I insist on separate slippers, I have standards you know | |||
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"If I was younger I could answer this, but an older woman for me means we’re sharing bus passes Do you also share a big slipper, and have a tandem zimmer? I insist on separate slippers, I have standards you know " Wise. You don't want her scratching you with those long yellow toenails. | |||
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"Oh well this is a very topic here. Some women are gorgeous for life, my whole life I had fantasies on my friend s mother or that lady that seems unreachable... My mom usd to work in a nice office, i always secretly had fantasies about her work colleagues, wearing nice high heels dress, and stockings... Older women are confident elegant and there is no drama I think... they always have that elegance that turns me on so much... I just love it... yes i have heard this before. Elegance and confidence seem very appealing to the younger men x" Not just the younger man | |||
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"For many, an older woman is secured within herself, more confident in the bedroom, sexually experienced, not shy in saying what she wants and how she wants it. Many young men like the security and being shown the rope and sexually guided. " 100% agree max | |||
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"Most wont answer this honestly one of the main reasons is older woman are thought of as easier by most young guys (I waz young once and heard it often enough)" Yeah agree to a certain extent that a majority of guys thought this. But for me when I was in my 20s I went for older women because I wanted experience and I, get this, wanted stimulated intellectually. Oh feck I've left myself wide open now. Where's the popcorn. | |||
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"It terrifies me a bit. I actually have a meet arranged with a young fit guy for tonight and I'm half convinced it's a wind up. He's gorgeous. " Looks are one part, hope you have a great time and stimulated in other ways Have a fantastic evening XxX. Peter | |||
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"It terrifies me a bit. I actually have a meet arranged with a young fit guy for tonight and I'm half convinced it's a wind up. He's gorgeous. " Oooh have fun | |||
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"It terrifies me a bit. I actually have a meet arranged with a young fit guy for tonight and I'm half convinced it's a wind up. He's gorgeous. " Enjoy I’ve had a few gorgeous guys for social meets and tbh I didn’t take it further down to personality but had a few omg wow gorgeous fit and amazing personalities to boot | |||
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"My male friends tell me it’s about older women know what they want, aren’t shy about asking or telling the guys what to do in the bedroom and generally getting what they want. They don’t want a relationship or to get all needy and clingy as they’re usually at that self sufficient age, for my guy friends though it’s certain types of women, those who are accomplished generally career women etc the women who are past the age of having major hang ups about their bodies and comfortable in their own skin" In my teens and early twenties I thought I could learn from an older woman, however as I got older myself my feelings mirrored more what is written in this statement | |||
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"What is it about an older woman that you guys find so exciting?. Now im certainly not complaining as have had quite a few encounters with some very handsome fit guys but i honestly dont know what attraction is.x" We love the experience, a bit intelligent conversation always helps too,maybe more life experience | |||
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"If I was younger I could answer this, but an older woman for me means we’re sharing bus passes Do you also share a big slipper, and have a tandem zimmer? I insist on separate slippers, I have standards you know Wise. You don't want her scratching you with those long yellow toenails." Thanks for leaving us with that thought in our heads | |||
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"For many, an older woman is secured within herself, more confident in the bedroom, sexually experienced, not shy in saying what she wants and how she wants it. Many young men like the security and being shown the rope and sexually guided. " This is it for me. Women my age talk a good game but few can actually push a boundary or tell you what it is they actually want for a magnitude of reasons. Whereas the mature woman knows what she wants and rarely is scared to say it/do it. | |||
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"It terrifies me a bit. I actually have a meet arranged with a young fit guy for tonight and I'm half convinced it's a wind up. He's gorgeous. " so how did It go? | |||
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"*changes age to attract the hotties* Seriously though, intelligence and confidence doesn't always come with age" Very true. I am an ageing lothario, and consider myself intelligent, but not too confident. I'm also not a mature woman. | |||
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"My male friends tell me it’s about older women know what they want, aren’t shy about asking or telling the guys what to do in the bedroom and generally getting what they want. They don’t want a relationship or to get all needy and clingy as they’re usually at that self sufficient age, for my guy friends though it’s certain types of women, those who are accomplished generally career women etc the women who are past the age of having major hang ups about their bodies and comfortable in their own skin" well said | |||
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"I agree with a few of the comments about the older woman being more confident, less hang ups and more experienced. However I'm somewhat jealous of them. All the men my age want older women. All the men slightly older want younger women, which leaves us mid 30s women in no man's land.. literally!" And all the men my age will settle for anyone legal, all the way up to 99. And we'll still get bugger all. | |||
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"My male friends tell me it’s about older women know what they want, aren’t shy about asking or telling the guys what to do in the bedroom and generally getting what they want. They don’t want a relationship or to get all needy and clingy as they’re usually at that self sufficient age, for my guy friends though it’s certain types of women, those who are accomplished generally career women etc the women who are past the age of having major hang ups about their bodies and comfortable in their own skin well said " Em I don’t think I had any hang ups about my body when I came to yours ! You telling me your dad was popping in to say hi lol now that shit me up lol ?? | |||
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"I think you and I will have to start hanging around sheltered housing complexes. " Lol Start!! Im ahead of you bud | |||
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"For me it’s the confidence! Women seem to get more confident and comfortable with there body as they get older! And someone who’s confident with there body and sex makes the whole experience so much better" I am definitely a lot more confident now than I was 6 years ago. Then I was married, very unhappy & wearing size 20 tops to hide my body. I also avoided sex at all costs! For those that know me now, they will tell you I'm not that size (big boobs maybe) & definitely not worried about showing my shape now. Being on fab has allowed me to do that, & even more so in the last year after moving from a couple to my own single profile. Oh & I never even owned a vibrator then R | |||
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"For me it’s the confidence! Women seem to get more confident and comfortable with there body as they get older! And someone who’s confident with there body and sex makes the whole experience so much better I am definitely a lot more confident now than I was 6 years ago. Then I was married, very unhappy & wearing size 20 tops to hide my body. I also avoided sex at all costs! For those that know me now, they will tell you I'm not that size (big boobs maybe) & definitely not worried about showing my shape now. Being on fab has allowed me to do that, & even more so in the last year after moving from a couple to my own single profile. Oh & I never even owned a vibrator then R " I don't know you, (I think), but even I know you have BBB (Big Beautiful Boobs). How many vibrators have you got, and worn out since? | |||
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"For me it’s the confidence! Women seem to get more confident and comfortable with there body as they get older! And someone who’s confident with there body and sex makes the whole experience so much better I am definitely a lot more confident now than I was 6 years ago. Then I was married, very unhappy & wearing size 20 tops to hide my body. I also avoided sex at all costs! For those that know me now, they will tell you I'm not that size (big boobs maybe) & definitely not worried about showing my shape now. Being on fab has allowed me to do that, & even more so in the last year after moving from a couple to my own single profile. Oh & I never even owned a vibrator then R I don't know you, (I think), but even I know you have BBB (Big Beautiful Boobs). How many vibrators have you got, and worn out since? " I don't think we do ..... although can we say for certain? . Small back, big boobs. What more can I say. Lol. And none! I much prefer the real thing R | |||
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"For me it’s the confidence! Women seem to get more confident and comfortable with there body as they get older! And someone who’s confident with there body and sex makes the whole experience so much better I am definitely a lot more confident now than I was 6 years ago. Then I was married, very unhappy & wearing size 20 tops to hide my body. I also avoided sex at all costs! For those that know me now, they will tell you I'm not that size (big boobs maybe) & definitely not worried about showing my shape now. Being on fab has allowed me to do that, & even more so in the last year after moving from a couple to my own single profile. Oh & I never even owned a vibrator then R I don't know you, (I think), but even I know you have BBB (Big Beautiful Boobs). How many vibrators have you got, and worn out since? I don't think we do ..... although can we say for certain? . Small back, big boobs. What more can I say. Lol. And none! I much prefer the real thing R " Well, you occasionally pop up on "Who's nearby", so we might have stood in the same pension queue. The boobs, and the rest of you from the neck down, look very nice indeed. The real thing, eh? Good to know. | |||
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"For me it’s the confidence! Women seem to get more confident and comfortable with there body as they get older! And someone who’s confident with there body and sex makes the whole experience so much better I am definitely a lot more confident now than I was 6 years ago. Then I was married, very unhappy & wearing size 20 tops to hide my body. I also avoided sex at all costs! For those that know me now, they will tell you I'm not that size (big boobs maybe) & definitely not worried about showing my shape now. Being on fab has allowed me to do that, & even more so in the last year after moving from a couple to my own single profile. Oh & I never even owned a vibrator then R I don't know you, (I think), but even I know you have BBB (Big Beautiful Boobs). How many vibrators have you got, and worn out since? I don't think we do ..... although can we say for certain? . Small back, big boobs. What more can I say. Lol. And none! I much prefer the real thing R Well, you occasionally pop up on "Who's nearby", so we might have stood in the same pension queue. The boobs, and the rest of you from the neck down, look very nice indeed. The real thing, eh? Good to know." Ehm..... unless you are fibbing about your age? I have a little catching up to do Of course! R | |||
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"Tsk! Tsk! You need to pay attention! R " So many hot oldies, so little time! | |||
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"Tsk! Tsk! You need to pay attention! R So many hot oldies, so little time! " Ehm! Speak for yourself I choose not to fib! Unlike many | |||
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"Tsk! Tsk! You need to pay attention! R So many hot oldies, so little time! Ehm! Speak for yourself I choose not to fib! Unlike many " Are you infering that I am a hot oldie? | |||
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"Tsk! Tsk! You need to pay attention! R So many hot oldies, so little time! Ehm! Speak for yourself I choose not to fib! Unlike many Are you infering that I am a hot oldie? " Didn't actually realise that could be interpreted that way too I meant I wasn't a hot oldie | |||
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"Tsk! Tsk! You need to pay attention! R So many hot oldies, so little time! Ehm! Speak for yourself I choose not to fib! Unlike many Are you infering that I am a hot oldie? Didn't actually realise that could be interpreted that way too I meant I wasn't a hot oldie " But a definite hottie! | |||
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"Tsk! Tsk! You need to pay attention! R So many hot oldies, so little time! Ehm! Speak for yourself I choose not to fib! Unlike many Are you infering that I am a hot oldie? Didn't actually realise that could be interpreted that way too I meant I wasn't a hot oldie " So am I a hot oldie, or just an oldie? | |||
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"Tsk! Tsk! You need to pay attention! R So many hot oldies, so little time! Ehm! Speak for yourself I choose not to fib! Unlike many Are you infering that I am a hot oldie? Didn't actually realise that could be interpreted that way too I meant I wasn't a hot oldie So am I a hot oldie, or just an oldie? " I wouldn't know | |||
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"I agree with a few of the comments about the older woman being more confident, less hang ups and more experienced. However I'm somewhat jealous of them. All the men my age want older women. All the men slightly older want younger women, which leaves us mid 30s women in no man's land.. literally!" I’m pretty much in the same boat! Too young for most and too old for the rest | |||
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"Tsk! Tsk! You need to pay attention! R So many hot oldies, so little time! Ehm! Speak for yourself I choose not to fib! Unlike many Are you infering that I am a hot oldie? Didn't actually realise that could be interpreted that way too I meant I wasn't a hot oldie So am I a hot oldie, or just an oldie? I wouldn't know " Want tae find oot? | |||
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"Tsk! Tsk! You need to pay attention! R So many hot oldies, so little time! Ehm! Speak for yourself I choose not to fib! Unlike many " PM me a list who is telling porkies... | |||
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