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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok, so iv noticed anytime i display my verification summary i get hoards of abuse that im a slut ect, do men really think uv slept with 130 people?? And not realise theres fab socials, club events ect where you get many verifications from 1 social experience, its just pissing me off today

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

People think we’ve been with 1000’s lol

Some folk forget that social verifications also do the rounds

John

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People think we’ve been with 1000’s lol

Some folk forget that social verifications also do the rounds

John "

Dont lie john

In all seriousness yes they firget its a swinging social site and i fear too many people using it as a fuck site and are far to judgemental on us single girls!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont get the point in doing that just gets u on the block list quick style ill bet its the ones youve turned down that are mouthing off spitting the dummy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People think we’ve been with 1000’s lol

Some folk forget that social verifications also do the rounds

John

Dont lie john

In all seriousness yes they firget its a swinging social site and i fear too many people using it as a fuck site and are far to judgemental on us single girls!"

Single girls being judged, eh. Must be a nightmare.

Thankfully, no single guy on here, as an individual or a collective, get judged at all, ever...

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By *eather47Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

i get this as well but as you say a lot of verifications are also for social ones Oh and by the way i sometimes get comments about my age Well its my life and feck them all yes some folks are very judgemental x

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Numbers is of no consequence (sexually or not) who the veri is from or too is a big issue

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock

Shouldn't really matter one jot if you have slept with 130 men, all it shows is that you've a healthy sexual appetite. You can do with your body whatever you like.

Probably taking the huff that they aren't one of them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People think we’ve been with 1000’s lol

Some folk forget that social verifications also do the rounds

John

Dont lie john

In all seriousness yes they firget its a swinging social site and i fear too many people using it as a fuck site and are far to judgemental on us single girls!

Single girls being judged, eh. Must be a nightmare.

Thankfully, no single guy on here, as an individual or a collective, get judged at all, ever...

"

Ofcourse they do but this is my moan about single girls go make a moan of guys urself

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I only display some of mine. Cant really see the point in showing them all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got hoards of abuse for showing just 13 verifications at one point and got called a slut etc. I ended up hiding them because of it. Then eventually I thought to myself, why am I doing this, letting these men get to me? So I decided to fek with them and I started showed my veri's again. No one has the right to say things like that to you and yes I'll have no hesitation in blocking anyone else who starts that nonsense again. Social or fun veri, I am proud of them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never really know how to do the veri. Do you say "Don't forget to veri me when your next on." as you finish up the meet. Lol.

We have been to one social and never got a veri. Must not be like. But as they say. A wolf does not concern themselves with the thoughts of sheep.

Lol that makes us sound like player but really we're a shy couple.

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By *is vixen at playCouple
over a year ago

Dundee

When G and I started meeting we did 3 veris in one week, plus I had another one from a friend. One charming gentleman took it upon himself to inform me that I was disgusting and would get a disease. After I stopped laughing I blocked him

That a stranger goes out of their way to be nasty to someone they don't know says a lot about them, mainly that they're very sad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine are all Social on this profile but if you seen my profile a few year ago lol I needed a site to myself or at least a PA lol

At one extreme I’d get verifications that said ‘ this girl is what fab is all about’ and on the other extreme I’d get ‘ sorry you’ve been with too many people’ whaaat? I thought I was on a swinging site lolol your female so you will be slated no matter what you do so ignore and block them and have fun if you want xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mine are all Social on this profile but if you seen my profile a few year ago lol I needed a site to myself or at least a PA lol

At one extreme I’d get verifications that said ‘ this girl is what fab is all about’ and on the other extreme I’d get ‘ sorry you’ve been with too many people’ whaaat? I thought I was on a swinging site lolol your female so you will be slated no matter what you do so ignore and block them and have fun if you want xx "

Thankyou hun i once got a messsage saying the only thing i need is an aids test ok so its a fuck it display whatever you want and block the cunts that think otherwise? Seems up my street lol

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By *exicolaMan
over a year ago

West Lothian

Some people are only on here to abuse - probably because they hate the opposite sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine are all Social on this profile but if you seen my profile a few year ago lol I needed a site to myself or at least a PA lol

At one extreme I’d get verifications that said ‘ this girl is what fab is all about’ and on the other extreme I’d get ‘ sorry you’ve been with too many people’ whaaat? I thought I was on a swinging site lolol your female so you will be slated no matter what you do so ignore and block them and have fun if you want xx

Thankyou hun i once got a messsage saying the only thing i need is an aids test ok so its a fuck it display whatever you want and block the cunts that think otherwise? Seems up my street lol "

I think these people who think like that are defo on the wrong site so it’s their problem not yours x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The whole veri system is one big recipe for all sorts of disasters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy on a sex site with such low opinions of girls who meet guys for sex - must be on here looking for the Virgin Mary then.

Laugh, ignore and block - oh and kudos to you if you have fucked 130 people

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A guy on a sex site with such low opinions of girls who meet guys for sex - must be on here looking for the Virgin Mary then.

Laugh, ignore and block - oh and kudos to you if you have fucked 130 people

"
lol thankyou xx your my skinny goals lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A guy on a sex site with such low opinions of girls who meet guys for sex - must be on here looking for the Virgin Mary then.

Laugh, ignore and block - oh and kudos to you if you have fucked 130 people

lol thankyou xx your my skinny goals lol"

Skinny goals?

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"Ok, so iv noticed anytime i display my verification summary i get hoards of abuse that im a slut ect, do men really think uv slept with 130 people?? And not realise theres fab socials, club events ect where you get many verifications from 1 social experience, its just pissing me off today "

Keyboard warriors babe and jealous as fook they aren't 1 of your verifications also probably here as a wannabe rather than someone who would actually meet ...ignore the haters they arent worth worrying about xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had it before as well. Most are socials and obviously I do play once, ever year but I always just kiss on the cheek and just run my fingers through their hair

imagine someone on fabswingers slagging people off for having fun with others lolllll

pure class,

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By *onkeymagic50Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour

If it 10 or 100 I actually enjoy reading veris and if 99 are socials I will fire a message .if 99 are play I will fire a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a saying; let folk think I one hand and shit in another and see which fills the quickest.

All it is is folk who can't understand that you meet a lot of folk socially, hell if you go to 3 socials in a year the potential is there for you to get 30 to 40 verifies in one go

So forget what the keyboard warriors say, those of us who do know you know the real you sour x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The same person verifying the same profile numerous times gets on my tits.

Yeah you met them

Yeah 20 times

Yeah your fucking shags and sooking technique are awesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The same person verifying the same profile numerous times gets on my tits.

Yeah you met them

Yeah 20 times

Yeah your fucking shags and sooking technique are awesome "
lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A guy on a sex site with such low opinions of girls who meet guys for sex - must be on here looking for the Virgin Mary then.

Laugh, ignore and block - oh and kudos to you if you have fucked 130 people

"

"Kudos" for shagging 130 people. And therein lies the problem us females face every day on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A guy on a sex site with such low opinions of girls who meet guys for sex - must be on here looking for the Virgin Mary then.

Laugh, ignore and block - oh and kudos to you if you have fucked 130 people

"Kudos" for shagging 130 people. And therein lies the problem us females face every day on here.

"

Apologies, if you have shagged 130 people you should be thouroughly ashamed of yourself and be stoned to death. How dare you have sexual autonomy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who cares what other folk think sour. Most of my veris are social meets the real hardcore info is nobody’s business

So when we having our next catch up so I can verify you as genuine again lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have only ever had a few snide remarks about my many verifications but I did have two different guys make nasty comments about two of the men who verified me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have only ever had a few snide remarks about my many verifications but I did have two different guys make nasty comments about two of the men who verified me. "

you will get someone make a comment in regards to someone who may have verified you and not liked by that person but the Op is, I believe, is on about just people commenting because of the amount of veries she has and then tons of people contacting her with their views.

I've had the same with comments and I only have about 25 and mostly socials

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Dont show any except after a social but thats all

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth

surprised its only 130

hides from sourz now

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth

i have 76 meet veris, 20-25 could be classed as play meets, even if they were a night out and whatever happened, happened naturally the rest were all purely social....

I dont display my play veri's anyway as its no-ones business who ive played around with (and i had someone taking an unhealthy interest in who i was meeting)... got 8 cam veris as well 4 of them from the same person who pops up in half the sites Tgirls veri's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have only ever had a few snide remarks about my many verifications but I did have two different guys make nasty comments about two of the men who verified me.

you will get someone make a comment in regards to someone who may have verified you and not liked by that person but the Op is, I believe, is on about just people commenting because of the amount of veries she has and then tons of people contacting her with their views.

I've had the same with comments and I only have about 25 and mostly socials

"

I only display social veries now. Keep most of them private.

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth

** some were nights out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was married for 14 years and have only been single/swinging 10 months. I'm not even sure I've had sex 130 times never mind with 130 people

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"surprised its only 130

hides from sourz now"

lol well as ur aware some ppl do think im a cunt n don't leave me veris :P lol

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling


"surprised its only 130

hides from sourz now

lol well as ur aware some ppl do think im a cunt n don't leave me veris :P lol"

I might if you earn it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ouff if it's just about veris in show then I can handle it if it's about how many time you have had sexy In yiur liketine ?? Then all I can say is I'm older than most

????????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ouff if it's just about veris in show then I can handle it if it's about how many time you have had sexy In yiur liketine ?? Then all I can say is I'm older than most

????????"

You don't have to be honest - it's fine ha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ouff if it's just about veris in show then I can handle it if it's about how many time you have had sexy In yiur liketine ?? Then all I can say is I'm older than most

????????"

Lol just about veris n no banana fucks included

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"surprised its only 130

hides from sourz now

lol well as ur aware some ppl do think im a cunt n don't leave me veris :P lol

I might if you earn it "

Earn it wtf!

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling


"surprised its only 130

hides from sourz now

lol well as ur aware some ppl do think im a cunt n don't leave me veris :P lol

I might if you earn it

Earn it wtf! "

I don’t veri lightly lol

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By *argaidMan
over a year ago

glasgow

On the whole the folk who say someone else is a slut because of the number of folk they've shagged are jealous. As the saying goes, the true definition of 'promiscuous' is someone who's getting more than you are.

The other side of it is the folk who block our call others 'time wasters' if they don't have enough verifications.

If someone judges and, worse, insults you without knowing you it's just a good indication that you don't want to know them anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On the whole the folk who say someone else is a slut because of the number of folk they've shagged are jealous. As the saying goes, the true definition of 'promiscuous' is someone who's getting more than you are.

The other side of it is the folk who block our call others 'time wasters' if they don't have enough verifications.

If someone judges and, worse, insults you without knowing you it's just a good indication that you don't want to know them anyway."

Exactly

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth

bottom line is its not the number of the veri's...

its the context of the veri's and often "who" the veri's from that makes my mind up..

lets chuck in a wee example... someone with 200 veri's in 5 yrs on site, equates to 40 a year, less than one a week. people in a relationship as a rule have sex more than that, so its hardly slaggish behaviour....

throw in the fact a good chunk of those 200 veri's will probably be from socials its even less so.

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By *othardandfreeMan
over a year ago

dd


"I was married for 14 years and have only been single/swinging 10 months. I'm not even sure I've had sex 130 times never mind with 130 people "

Being married for 14 years can do that to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Def the content of veris for me, mixed with socials and such

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By *ill-Ian KissesCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere over there

Most of our veris have been from meeting ppl in Cjs with the odd play one listed, but we don’t go into what happens intimately as that’s private IMO.

I think as long as there is a reasonable mix of ppl verifying someone (so not the same person all the time) and a fairly recent timeline then I’ll have a look further at the profile.

Millie x

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By *eADevilCouple
over a year ago

Blantyre

OP , cate said it all earlier , abuse = block , dont acknowledge with any sort of reply. If everyone did the same after the slightest hint of abuse it would eventualy STOP . Thats what block button is for. I said before i think some women like the attention whether it be good or bad. Before i get abuse for saying that i wonder how many replies of abuse back get sent as opposed ignoring it and blocking , never to hear from that person again . Thread after thread we read i got called this i got called that, he cant take no for an answer , he keeps messaging, she says this or that blah blah blah . Use your block button the second you dont like whats been said end. Ps if anyone dosnt like my viewpoint plz feel free to block me .

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I think I seem to be one of the fortunate ones thankfully.

R

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" lets chuck in a wee example... someone with 200 veri's in 5 yrs on site, equates to 40 a year, less than one a week. people in a relationship as a rule have sex more than that, so its hardly slaggish behaviour.... "

Using your example, if someone has sex with a different person approximately once a week for 5 years, I'd class that as "slaggish" behaviour.

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By *ocaine and caviarCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Ok, so iv noticed anytime i display my verification summary i get hoards of abuse that im a slut ect, do men really think uv slept with 130 people?? And not realise theres fab socials, club events ect where you get many verifications from 1 social experience, its just pissing me off today "

Lookin at your pics and profile we would love to be your 131st verification xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" lets chuck in a wee example... someone with 200 veri's in 5 yrs on site, equates to 40 a year, less than one a week. people in a relationship as a rule have sex more than that, so its hardly slaggish behaviour....

Using your example, if someone has sex with a different person approximately once a week for 5 years, I'd class that as "slaggish" behaviour. "

A few things, if she is single in that time then what's the problem

If she has a meet once a week but checks the people out that they are clean n safe what's the problem

If anyone is on a swingers site and see all her veries n thinks someone is a slag because they are genuine and meet then again what's the problem

Even if not but quite a few of the veris could be with the same person so what's the problem

We are all on a fucking swinging site Ffs who are we to judge other people on the same site. If they interest you get in touch with them if nit don't get in touch

Here endith the lesson.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" lets chuck in a wee example... someone with 200 veri's in 5 yrs on site, equates to 40 a year, less than one a week. people in a relationship as a rule have sex more than that, so its hardly slaggish behaviour....

Using your example, if someone has sex with a different person approximately once a week for 5 years, I'd class that as "slaggish" behaviour.

A few things, if she is single in that time then what's the problem

If she has a meet once a week but checks the people out that they are clean n safe what's the problem

If anyone is on a swingers site and see all her veries n thinks someone is a slag because they are genuine and meet then again what's the problem

Even if not but quite a few of the veris could be with the same person so what's the problem

We are all on a fucking swinging site Ffs who are we to judge other people on the same site. If they interest you get in touch with them if nit don't get in touch

Here endith the lesson. "

In reply to my post:

Who said anything about it being a she?

Bit presumptuous that. That maybe gives an insight into your perceptions and stereotypes.

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

Don't mind these messages to be honest. Makes it real easy to figure out the person's a twat and a quick addition to the block list x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" lets chuck in a wee example... someone with 200 veri's in 5 yrs on site, equates to 40 a year, less than one a week. people in a relationship as a rule have sex more than that, so its hardly slaggish behaviour....

Using your example, if someone has sex with a different person approximately once a week for 5 years, I'd class that as "slaggish" behaviour.

A few things, if she is single in that time then what's the problem

If she has a meet once a week but checks the people out that they are clean n safe what's the problem

If anyone is on a swingers site and see all her veries n thinks someone is a slag because they are genuine and meet then again what's the problem

Even if not but quite a few of the veris could be with the same person so what's the problem

We are all on a fucking swinging site Ffs who are we to judge other people on the same site. If they interest you get in touch with them if nit don't get in touch

Here endith the lesson.

In reply to my post:

Who said anything about it being a she?

Bit presumptuous that. That maybe gives an insight into your perceptions and stereotypes.

"

Total bull yiur personal attack on me.

I should have made the point in regards to the OP post, that's why I said She. I stand by it and I say the same fir a He

If you take it as a personal attack because I quoted your comments then that's up to you it wasn't meant as such but it does show your attitude of perceptions and stereotypes.

And personally you have absolutely no idea of my perceptions and stereotypes.

Many do who chatted and know me and to a person I am totally respected for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" lets chuck in a wee example... someone with 200 veri's in 5 yrs on site, equates to 40 a year, less than one a week. people in a relationship as a rule have sex more than that, so its hardly slaggish behaviour....

Using your example, if someone has sex with a different person approximately once a week for 5 years, I'd class that as "slaggish" behaviour.

A few things, if she is single in that time then what's the problem

If she has a meet once a week but checks the people out that they are clean n safe what's the problem

If anyone is on a swingers site and see all her veries n thinks someone is a slag because they are genuine and meet then again what's the problem

Even if not but quite a few of the veris could be with the same person so what's the problem

We are all on a fucking swinging site Ffs who are we to judge other people on the same site. If they interest you get in touch with them if nit don't get in touch

Here endith the lesson.

In reply to my post:

Who said anything about it being a she?

Bit presumptuous that. That maybe gives an insight into your perceptions and stereotypes.

Total bull yiur personal attack on me.

I should have made the point in regards to the OP post, that's why I said She. I stand by it and I say the same fir a He

If you take it as a personal attack because I quoted your comments then that's up to you it wasn't meant as such but it does show your attitude of perceptions and stereotypes.

And personally you have absolutely no idea of my perceptions and stereotypes.

Many do who chatted and know me and to a person I am totally respected for it "

The more I think of your Comments on my perceptions and stereotypes.

I'm the one who is clearing the name of someone whom you have clearly defined as a slag.

I treat every person as an individual and do not put anyone into groups, even you.

On forums we make comments n post and what we think at that time but sometimes people read our views and look at them and understand them different to what we meant. The only good is that you can reply to clarify or redeem yourself on the firums

Oh the joys of forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It appears to me that as far as verifications go, you are damned if you do, damned if you don't. Some people think you are "easy" if you have a lot, and some people think you are fake if you don't have any. That's my reading of the forums since I joined.

Maybe the people pointing fingers at others need to think about how they come across, and work on that, instead of criticising people they don't really know.

Just my tuppence worth of niceness.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Today i got a message from a young guy ive never met asking me to write him a veri. In return he said he would let me watch as he made himself cum on Kik. WTF.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Today i got a message from a young guy ive never met asking me to write him a veri. In return he said he would let me watch as he made himself cum on Kik. WTF."

Just a straight forward report n block

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


" lets chuck in a wee example... someone with 200 veri's in 5 yrs on site, equates to 40 a year, less than one a week. people in a relationship as a rule have sex more than that, so its hardly slaggish behaviour....

Using your example, if someone has sex with a different person approximately once a week for 5 years, I'd class that as "slaggish" behaviour. "

We don't really care what you class as anything to be honest. Now go and be bitter some more x

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Today i got a message from a young guy ive never met asking me to write him a veri. In return he said he would let me watch as he made himself cum on Kik. WTF.

Just a straight forward report n block"
just done it. Hadnt been sure if it was bad enough to be reported. Makes me wonder though how many folk have fake verifications

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"Today i got a message from a young guy ive never met asking me to write him a veri. In return he said he would let me watch as he made himself cum on Kik. WTF.

Just a straight forward report n block just done it. Hadnt been sure if it was bad enough to be reported. Makes me wonder though how many folk have fake verifications"
loads

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"On the whole the folk who say someone else is a slut because of the number of folk they've shagged are jealous. As the saying goes, the true definition of 'promiscuous' is someone who's getting more than you are.

The other side of it is the folk who block our call others 'time wasters' if they don't have enough verifications.

If someone judges and, worse, insults you without knowing you it's just a good indication that you don't want to know them anyway."
so true if also if you dont show any then they cant talk about your veris =a lot less hassle and a happier you

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By *argaidMan
over a year ago

glasgow

True and good advice from the first person to verify me ;-x

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By *argaidMan
over a year ago

glasgow


" Use your block button the second you dont like whats been said end. "

I'm sure gets are by of times that might be the correct course of action but folk are awfy quick to take offence at nothing. I once had someone - who's now a good friend - object me saying she looked good enough to eat. Apparently she thought I was making a cheeky comment about her size. There may be a case for giving folk the benefit of the doubt.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"True and good advice from the first person to verify me ;-x"

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over a year ago

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By *eADevilCouple
over a year ago

Blantyre


" Use your block button the second you dont like whats been said end.

I'm sure gets are by of times that might be the correct course of action but folk are awfy quick to take offence at nothing. I once had someone - who's now a good friend - object me saying she looked good enough to eat. Apparently she thought I was making a cheeky comment about her size. There may be a case for giving folk the benefit of the doubt. "

You quoted 1 piece of my post. I spoke only about abuse then said if you dont like thier comment ie abuse then block them instantly. Your comment to that particular lady was not abuse and she gave you the benefit of doubt and now your friends . Job done. But i will stand by my full post if you have a niggling doubt about anyone and you KNOW a meet will NEVER happen through FAB then block them .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, so iv noticed anytime i display my verification summary i get hoards of abuse that im a slut ect, do men really think uv slept with 130 people?? And not realise theres fab socials, club events ect where you get many verifications from 1 social experience, its just pissing me off today "

Wouldn't worry too much about that.....it's usually the tiniest minds that make the biggest judgments!

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By *argaidMan
over a year ago

glasgow

I quoted the part I was referring to. Unlike some I don't like to fill a thread with repeated quotes and waffle that's not relevant to what I'm talking about. So please don't think, or imply, that I'm trying to take you out of context.

I was just trying to say that sometimes the instant response you espouse isn't necessarily the best choice at the same time as making it clear that I understand there are approaches made that definitely merit the response. However, had my friend followed the instant block method- because she was convinced that the comment was abusive- we'd never have gotten past it and become friends.

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By *eADevilCouple
over a year ago

Blantyre


" Use your block button the second you dont like whats been said end.

I'm sure gets are by of times that might be the correct course of action but folk are awfy quick to take offence at nothing. I once had someone - who's now a good friend - object me saying she looked good enough to eat. Apparently she thought I was making a cheeky comment about her size. There may be a case for giving folk the benefit of the doubt.

You quoted 1 piece of my post. I spoke only about abuse then said if you dont like thier comment ie abuse then block them instantly. Your comment to that particular lady was not abuse and she gave you the benefit of doubt and now your friends . Job done. But i will stand by my full post if you have a niggling doubt about anyone and you KNOW a meet will NEVER happen through FAB then block them . "

Of course texts can be taken out of context, thats where messages have to be thought through . That said abuse is abuse and that cannot be taken out of context. For the record, if you said to She Devil " you look good enough to eat " she would not have entertained you to the point of not even looking at your profile. She would always politely reply along the lines "sry your not my type" . Then block. Although you meant it as a compliment it may not be read that way. Why not say looked at your pics and thought you looked really good. No mistaking intentended meanings then. Glad it worked for you on that occasion but my posting was originally targetted towards messages of abuse .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, so iv noticed anytime i display my verification summary i get hoards of abuse that im a slut ect, do men really think uv slept with 130 people?? And not realise theres fab socials, club events ect where you get many verifications from 1 social experience, its just pissing me off today "

Hide them then x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, so iv noticed anytime i display my verification summary i get hoards of abuse that im a slut ect, do men really think uv slept with 130 people?? And not realise theres fab socials, club events ect where you get many verifications from 1 social experience, its just pissing me off today

..... Hide them then x"

Agreed if it gets too much then just hide

But yeah I'm sure the Op does and many others will do but really, we are all on a swinging site so why should anyone have to hide their verifications just incase they get abuse.

Me personally the only get out for someone getting abuse by another fabber contacting them is that it really tells you about that person and to me then its a straight forward block and report if abusive.

I have verifications and most are all socials and a few play ones are hidden.

I just hide most of the play ones because I want to, no big deal to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, so iv noticed anytime i display my verification summary i get hoards of abuse that im a slut ect, do men really think uv slept with 130 people?? And not realise theres fab socials, club events ect where you get many verifications from 1 social experience, its just pissing me off today

..... Hide them then x

Agreed if it gets too much then just hide

But yeah I'm sure the Op does and many others will do but really, we are all on a swinging site so why should anyone have to hide their verifications just incase they get abuse.

Me personally the only get out for someone getting abuse by another fabber contacting them is that it really tells you about that person and to me then its a straight forward block and report if abusive.

I have verifications and most are all socials and a few play ones are hidden.

I just hide most of the play ones because I want to, no big deal to be honest. "

Just don't have to display them that badly. Why someone would want to display bundreds of veri's anyway is beyond me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, so iv noticed anytime i display my verification summary i get hoards of abuse that im a slut ect, do men really think uv slept with 130 people?? And not realise theres fab socials, club events ect where you get many verifications from 1 social experience, its just pissing me off today

..... Hide them then x

Agreed if it gets too much then just hide

But yeah I'm sure the Op does and many others will do but really, we are all on a swinging site so why should anyone have to hide their verifications just incase they get abuse.

Me personally the only get out for someone getting abuse by another fabber contacting them is that it really tells you about that person and to me then its a straight forward block and report if abusive.

I have verifications and most are all socials and a few play ones are hidden.

I just hide most of the play ones because I want to, no big deal to be honest.

Just don't have to display them that badly. Why someone would want to display bundreds of veri's anyway is beyond me x"

Yeah agreed in that point but my attitude has changed with experience, why worry about what others think, Do your own thing and enjoy yourself and make sure your company has a great time.

Suppose everyone's different and different views and idealism.

Not everyone on this site is here for the same thing.

Some for fun, some to make friends, some for socials and parties. Some are here to windup, be assholes and abusive, we've all came across them.

I don't ask for verifications but if I've met someone and they ask for a verification then I will gladly supply them with one.

If someone is mad enough to meet me and then let everyone else know they met me by verification then hell mend them, Ill make sure they have a night to remember.

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