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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just had a meet cancel on me at the last minute Just curious - does this happen a lot?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just had a meet cancel on me at the last minute Just curious - does this happen a lot? "

I’ve a feeling it’s quite common....

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Life happens in afraid. It happens to most people at some point on here.

Did you chat on the phone before hand?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Life happens in afraid. It happens to most people at some point on here.

Did you chat on the phone before hand?"

I know it happens, just the first time it’s hapened to me lol. She contacted me first, we exchanged messages and pics, no phone call.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This just happened to me as well been talking all week was gonna head over after she finished work tonight and been deleted and blocked without any explanation but ahh well her loss fair enough if there was an actual reason why but zip

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Always speak to the person before hand so you know that it's a female and not a guy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This just happened to me as well been talking all week was gonna head over after she finished work tonight and been deleted and blocked without any explanation but ahh well her loss fair enough if there was an actual reason why but zip "

I believe the expression is - “Hey Ho”

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Always speak to the person before hand so you know that it's a female and not a guy."

Thanks for the advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It'll have been a bloke.

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

Life happens. I've had to cancel plans last minute before. It doesn't make me a time waster,a fake or a bloke.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Life happens. I've had to cancel plans last minute before. It doesn't make me a time waster,a fake or a bloke. "

Agreed, just the way it goes I guess. All Fabby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to think I'm one of the most genuine guys on here and even I had to cancel a meet way back about 6 years ago.

My son ended up in hospital and I got a call from the ex. I texted my meet and said sorry. I can't remember how she took it but she musta thought there was summit dodgy. Its the only meet I remember cancelling and I really dot get upset if anyone does it too me but

I always do my checks first anyways in the hope there will be no problems but it can genuinely happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens Mate.

We all have a life out of here and sometimes shit happens.

Just be understanding and if it happens again cut all ties.

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By *ainbowBrite57Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Sometimes there are genuine reasons but for me you can tell. If they’ve blocked you/not apologised then doubt they were genuine in the first place

Move on to the genuine peeps

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth

Yeah ill give someone the benefit of the doubt if its a plausable excuse and their apologetic enough, you can usually tell...

If they do it again, then they dont get a 3rd chance. A no show or the ones who stop messaging and avoid logging in on the day just get blocked

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sometimes there are genuine reasons but for me you can tell. If they’ve blocked you/not apologised then doubt they were genuine in the first place

Move on to the genuine peeps "

Chance would be a fine thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happened to me once before. It was a fake profile.

There are too many fake profiles with fake verifications popping up.

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside


"Always speak to the person before hand so you know that it's a female and not a guy."

Not everyone will speak on the phone. I wont and Im far from fake.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Always speak to the person before hand so you know that it's a female and not a guy.

Not everyone will speak on the phone. I wont and Im far from fake."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they were genuine and their reason for no show was done for a real life issue then the chances of you being blocked are usually zilch.

Genuine people will apologise and try again time wasters will block you and move on

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

At least they cancelled, despite it being last minute. That's already a lot to ask for on here x

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By *ecky400TV/TS
over a year ago

/highlands

Hi yes seems be a thing in here had 1 last week. Called last monute say wasnt comming. Them unlos. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv been canceled on so many times! Left at pubs waiting or another place! U feel like a dafty i know, i once got a poor excuse of ur fake so i didnt bother coming to meet u, iv learned better now! But that first few months on here getting canceled manly by single guys!

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By *e_frenchMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

It happened to me that people cancelled last minutes once I have booked a nice hotel etc.

Once I have cancelled last minutes I genuinely twisted my ankle...

I know how disappointed you must feel and may be a bit upset.

Take it easy the next one should be the right one.

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well ill tell u one thing it defo is their loss honestly have no clue how anyone could stand u up bet theyre kicking themselves now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It happened to me that people cancelled last minutes once I have booked a nice hotel etc.

Once I have cancelled last minutes I genuinely twisted my ankle...

I know how disappointed you must feel and may be a bit upset.

Take it easy the next one should be the right one.

Xxx"

Water off a duck’s back man, just annoying when it happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just had a meet cancel on me at the last minute Just curious - does this happen a lot? "

It happens, we've all had to cancel at some point.

If they took the time to let you know they had to cancel then you received golden treatment, my friend.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just had a meet cancel on me at the last minute Just curious - does this happen a lot?

It happens, we've all had to cancel at some point.

If they took the time to let you know they had to cancel then you received golden treatment, my friend. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had to cancel and been cancelled on. Just the way of it all. Different if they block or go awol. That would indicate more than life just getting in the way xxx

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By *uzzy-LogicMan
over a year ago

Fochabers

I have been cancelled on and cancelled.

It happens if they give a good reason and don't disappear off the face of the earth then I'll give them a benefit of the doubt.

Real life happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It happened to me once before. It was a fake profile.

There are too many fake profiles with fake verifications popping up. "

Now the fake profiles sooooo soooo many on here it has become a joke

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By *iercedyvonneTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow

In my experience it happens 100% of the time. I think I just attract the timewasters. Lots of interest for a meet today then the excuses start coming but most just stop replying to emails.

I'm probably in a worse situation as t-girls are mostly fantasists.

I agree that there must be fake verifications on some profiles.

Not sure what these folk get out it though - I can't imagine having time to waste never mind wasting it to waste other folks time.

I'll give those who called off with excuses a second chance - the rest have blown it.

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