FabSwingers.com forum: after8club

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi is anyone going on Sat 22 Aug and want to meet up ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Help run the club so defo be there and look forward to meeting you hunny xxx

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By *nly169Man
over a year ago

here

do you need to buy a membership for this club?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes...Used to be £35 fee PLUS £25 entry,first visit therefore £60.

Can be a hit or miss place,some very nice people,some not so nice.Busy nights & quiet nights.

PM me if you want more info,

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

can't make it sat my daughters 18th birthday party lol but am sure you'll have a good time. i do when i'm there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can't go but have been a few times. I'd have to say that everybody was friendly & welcoming on each occasion & we met some lovely people that I'd now consider to be friends. However, to get the most from this (or any swinger club) you really do have to make an effort to get to know the other members & enjoy the club for what it is.. an introduction to other swingers! It is NOT a 'guaranteed shag' club (regardless of what some may perceive to be a relatively high entrance fee) but if you do connect with a member & an attraction occurs then of course the understanding is that it is in essence a sex club & many of the members do 'get it together'. The biggest problem (of all these clubs) is the ratio of men to women & of course the mentality of some of the single guys.

SO:

DO treat the ladies respectfully.

DO NOT leer or stare.

DO pay attention to your personal hygiene.

TRY & mingle & join in group conversations.

Treat people the same as you would anywhere else.

DO NOT expect sex as something that you paid for at the door & have a right to.

DO expect there to be a higher ratio of males to females & that most of the ladies will have there partners present & be primarily looking to play with other females/couples.

Finally, relax, be yourself & enjoy it.. who knows you might even get lucky!!

& say "Hi" to everyone from us,

S&C xxx

LOL... how did this get to be such a lecture?? I must be gettn old!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We can't go but have been a few times. I'd have to say that everybody was friendly & welcoming on each occasion & we met some lovely people that I'd now consider to be friends. However, to get the most from this (or any swinger club) you really do have to make an effort to get to know the other members & enjoy the club for what it is.. an introduction to other swingers! It is NOT a 'guaranteed shag' club (regardless of what some may perceive to be a relatively high entrance fee) but if you do connect with a member & an attraction occurs then of course the understanding is that it is in essence a sex club & many of the members do 'get it together'. The biggest problem (of all these clubs) is the ratio of men to women & of course the mentality of some of the single guys.

SO:

DO treat the ladies respectfully.

DO NOT leer or stare.

DO pay attention to your personal hygiene.

TRY & mingle & join in group conversations.

Treat people the same as you would anywhere else.

DO NOT expect sex as something that you paid for at the door & have a right to.

DO expect there to be a higher ratio of males to females & that most of the ladies will have there partners present & be primarily looking to play with other females/couples.

Finally, relax, be yourself & enjoy it.. who knows you might even get lucky!!

& say "Hi" to everyone from us,

S&C xxx

LOL... how did this get to be such a lecture?? I must be gettn old!! "

Took, fem friend to a club recently and the guys simply could'nt even be arsed saying "hi nice to see you",guys need to appreciate that she might be as nervous as you might be too, a hello goes a hell of a long way.

T xx

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By *lackbird186Man
over a year ago

west glasgow

these days 'manners' seem to be lacking any where you go and you never know if when you go to a club if its their 1st time so BE POLITE it cost nothing and you never know you might make a freind

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