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By *cott23 OP   Man
over a year ago

north ayrshire

Has anyone been to a swingers club and met someone there they knew not from the swinging scene?

This puts me off attending one!

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Aren't you both there for the same reason though?....

R

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

I’ve put off for a long time for that reason, went along and nope, just really good night, but like R says above, you are both there for the same reason, what are they going to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s what puts us off attending too.

Though we are taking the plunge and going to our first big social soon but we’re both wearing beards and dark glasses so no one recognises is

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By *cott23 OP   Man
over a year ago

north ayrshire

I guess if you meet someone you know your both in the same boat.

But it still scares the shit out of me!

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling


"I guess if you meet someone you know your both in the same boat.

But it still scares the shit out of me!"

You might even meet someone you like but have never done anything about it

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Why not think about attending a social event first?

R

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I’ve put off for a long time for that reason, went along and nope, just really good night, but like R says above, you are both there for the same reason, what are they going to say "

To be fair you could’ve bumped into your neighbour at CJs there and you wouldn’t have known

John

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling


"I’ve put off for a long time for that reason, went along and nope, just really good night, but like R says above, you are both there for the same reason, what are they going to say

To be fair you could’ve bumped into your neighbour at CJs there and you wouldn’t have known

John "

Haha

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By *ettyboop66Woman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I wouldn't worry as there is no shame in swinging and everyone is there for the same thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bumped into my mum and dad at CJs once.

Awwwwkwaaard.

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By *ettyboop66Woman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Lol brill so funny that

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness


"That’s what puts us off attending too.

Though we are taking the plunge and going to our first big social soon but we’re both wearing beards and dark glasses so no one recognises is "

brilliant

It's a thought isn't it,

but unless it was someone you really didn't like it would be quite funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone been to a swingers club and met someone there they knew not from the swinging scene?

This puts me off attending one!"

So you can only go to a swingers club and count yourself as a swinger if you're on Fab op?

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By *oanonmyboneMan
over a year ago

maybe close

Yes it is awkward to start with but end of the day your both in the same boat

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow


"I bumped into my mum and dad at CJs once.

Awwwwkwaaard. "

When you say bumped ..were any of you ..erm .. blindfolded?

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

I met someone I know from my everyday life in cjs.

I wasn’t bothered, was nice to meet her out, in a social situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I bumped into my mum and dad at CJs once.

Awwwwkwaaard. "

Did you. Bet you go to eleven-a-rife instead of tenerife also.

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill

My mr has met an old school friend and an old neighbour at Cjs. Everyone’s there for the same reason so not awkward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met neighbours at cjs few yrs ago just had a laugh and few beers wasnt awkward at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve met friends neighbours and work colleagues at social events etc was probably more awkward for them as couples than me as a single female and because my profile is more private and they had lots on show, but at the end of the day if you can’t respect other people’s life choices and maintain confidentiality you really really shouldn’t be on here in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As this is not the main part of our life and is something that we indulge in a few times a year we don’t mind traveling for some fun

So we visit clubs down south. Makes a weekend of it and less likely to bump into the neighbours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met lots of people who I know it’s never bothered me or been an issue after all we’re all adults

Musicmaid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would bother me greatly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My mr has met an old school friend and an old neighbour at Cjs. Everyone’s there for the same reason so not awkward"

Funnily enough we've all became good friends now and that's because it was a shock and such a laugh.... we actually laughed about it for days...... not awkward just funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My fiance met his ex in cjs. We waljed in amd wrte checking in front of us.Neither knew the other was into swinging. Lol. Was a bit awkward to start but once chatted the awkwardness went as were both there with new partners x

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