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By *andS_Glasgow OP   Couple
over a year ago

Giffnock

so we got our 3rd message from a guy on here - Subject was "Married but Cheating"

Our polite response was we werent interested and that was the 3rd time we had responded - he done us a favour and has blocked us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so we got our 3rd message from a guy on here - Subject was "Married but Cheating"

Our polite response was we werent interested and that was the 3rd time we had responded - he done us a favour and has blocked us

"

Well two things, he's married and for people who don't want married guys then at least you found out.

He sent you his third message, prob in quick succession so it tells you that he is a ass.

Happy new year me thinks, you found out quickly and looks like you both dodged a bullet.

So it's all good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so we got our 3rd message from a guy on here - Subject was "Married but Cheating"

Our polite response was we werent interested and that was the 3rd time we had responded - he done us a favour and has blocked us

Well two things, he's married and for people who don't want married guys then at least you found out.

He sent you his third message, prob in quick succession so it tells you that he is a ass.

Happy new year me thinks, you found out quickly and looks like you both dodged a bullet.

So it's all good "

Oh and just block him as well, so he cant unblock and peek back at your profile

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By *andS_Glasgow OP   Couple
over a year ago

Giffnock

1st message (about a year ago) he actually asked us to his house - when we asked info he opened up and admitted he was married but wife was on holiday - absolute scumbag !


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He sent you his third message, prob in quick succession so it tells you that he is a ass.

Oh and just block him as well, so he cant unblock and peek back at your profile "

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

I block after first message if I'm not interested! would never let anyone message me 3 times when he's clearly not for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1st message (about a year ago) he actually asked us to his house - when we asked info he opened up and admitted he was married but wife was on holiday - absolute scumbag !"

Three messages from the same guy in a year, and this is headline news..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1st message (about a year ago) he actually asked us to his house - when we asked info he opened up and admitted he was married but wife was on holiday - absolute scumbag !

He sent you his third message, prob in quick succession so it tells you that he is a ass.

Oh and just block him as well, so he cant unblock and peek back at your profile "

Clearly he wasnt for you both but got to admit least he owned up to beeing married be it right or wrong

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By *andS_Glasgow OP   Couple
over a year ago

Giffnock

Did you take the time to read our original message - some are a bit like the married twat who never took the time to read our profile !

ie No Married Guys playing alone !

Maybe we will just start using the Block Button more frequently !


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Three messages from the same guy in a year, and this is headline news.. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did you take the time to read our original message - some are a bit like the married twat who never took the time to read our profile !

ie No Married Guys playing alone !

Maybe we will just start using the Block Button more frequently !

Three messages from the same guy in a year, and this is headline news.. "

Your original post didnt say you had on your profile no married playing alone so my response was to that as no i didnt read your profile as was no need to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've suddenly had an influx of married men messaging, only two admitted it in their first message and the others I asked. I just said no thanks, that I wasn't interested and yet they still persist. They all got blocked so that they can't message me again. Whether or not they're unhappy in their marriages, one thing is for sure, they think that they can do this and not get caught. The likelihood is that will definitely happen to them one day and that would be such a shame as you don't know what you've got till it's gone x

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By *andS_Glasgow OP   Couple
over a year ago

Giffnock

WeeMrs - I was responding to Butlers post that was above yours - I included a quote from Butlers

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


"Maybe we will just start using the Block Button more frequently!"

It's there for a reason. I use it very frequently. And quite often block after a first message x

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By *andS_Glasgow OP   Couple
over a year ago

Giffnock


"I've suddenly had an influx of married men messaging, only two admitted it in their first message and the others I asked. I just said no thanks, that I wasn't interested and yet they still persist. They all got blocked so that they can't message me again. Whether or not they're unhappy in their marriages, one thing is for sure, they think that they can do this and not get caught. The likelihood is that will definitely happen to them one day and that would be such a shame as you don't know what you've got till it's gone x"

Cate - you are so correct !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"WeeMrs - I was responding to Butlers post that was above yours - I included a quote from Butlers "

No worries

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By *andS_Glasgow OP   Couple
over a year ago

Giffnock


"WeeMrs - I was responding to Butlers post that was above yours - I included a quote from Butlers

No worries "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If any guy has messaged you three times, then he maybe forgetful and not used the private notes to remind himself what he said to you first time and what was response.

But if married he prob wont have site supporters but if he messaged 3 times and you have no married dudes on your profile, then its really a simple block and delete anyway after first message.

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By *ootall2920Man
over a year ago

Linlithgow


"If any guy has messaged you three times, then he maybe forgetful and not used the private notes to remind himself what he said to you first time and what was response.

But if married he prob wont have site supporters but if he messaged 3 times and you have no married dudes on your profile, then its really a simple block and delete anyway after first message. "

What he said, I don't see it being a huge deal.

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By *andS_Glasgow OP   Couple
over a year ago

Giffnock

Its no huge deal now that we are doing as everyone is suggesting and simply using the Block tool

Perfect !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don’t married men stick to meeting the married women. Simples

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By *orthseatiger69Man
over a year ago

Ayrshire /North lanarshire


"Why don’t married men stick to meeting the married women. Simples "

Now that’s too sensible

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By *eADevilCouple
over a year ago

Blantyre


"Why don’t married men stick to meeting the married women. Simples "

Simply because we married mem sometimes play alone and that means meeting single females exactly the same as married women meeting single guys or is that ok for the married women . ?

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By *eADevilCouple
over a year ago

Blantyre


"Why don’t married men stick to meeting the married women. Simples

Now that’s too sensible "

So if a married woman messages you , you will turn her down ?

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Tain


"Why don’t married men stick to meeting the married women. Simples "

Because there are unmarried women who will meet married men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some woman and couples think that meeting married men will be more discreet as they are less likely to tell others or continue to pester them afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why don’t married men stick to meeting the married women. Simples

Now that’s too sensible

So if a married woman messages you , you will turn her down ? "

Absolutely as I’m straight as a poker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In all seriousness though. There should be a filter as loads of folk won’t meet marrieds.

I’m not here to judge btw. But I know a lot of folk have it plastered in bold all over their profiles that they won’t meet marrieds.

Again it’s just a preference folk have and therefore there should be a filter

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"In all seriousness though. There should be a filter as loads of folk won’t meet marrieds.

I’m not here to judge btw. But I know a lot of folk have it plastered in bold all over their profiles that they won’t meet marrieds.

Again it’s just a preference folk have and therefore there should be a filter

"

I agree.

Although I believe many would lie about their marital status in order to appeal to a wider range.

Maybe it’s easier for us singles to them out and block.

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"In all seriousness though. There should be a filter as loads of folk won’t meet marrieds.

I’m not here to judge btw. But I know a lot of folk have it plastered in bold all over their profiles that they won’t meet marrieds.

Again it’s just a preference folk have and therefore there should be a filter

I agree.

Although I believe many would lie about their marital status in order to appeal to a wider range.

Maybe it’s easier for us singles to them out and block."

I can’t type

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"In all seriousness though. There should be a filter as loads of folk won’t meet marrieds.

I’m not here to judge btw. But I know a lot of folk have it plastered in bold all over their profiles that they won’t meet marrieds.

Again it’s just a preference folk have and therefore there should be a filter

I agree.

Although I believe many would lie about their marital status in order to appeal to a wider range.

Maybe it’s easier for us singles to them out and block.

I can’t type "

W e e d

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do respect ppl who may choose not to meet married and if on profiles that they dont then ppl should respect it also but these threads always bring to light a few who say or imply they wouldnt meet married but said few are happily been in married inboxes asking to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven’t said I wouldn’t or I haven’t as I have and maybe I would again lol.

I’m just saying should be a filter

And folk should respect folks preferences instead of barraging them with messages as op said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soz, was lost fir a minuite. Some popcorn stuck in my teeth

Right where are we at with this.

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Soz, was lost fir a minuite. Some popcorn stuck in my teeth

Right where are we at with this.

. "

Well, I discovered i cannot say w e e d on the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Soz, was lost fir a minuite. Some popcorn stuck in my teeth

Right where are we at with this.

.

Well, I discovered i cannot say w e e d on the forum. "

Does that not stand for

We Echo Everyone's diversity ?

Or does it stand fur summit else

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Soz, was lost fir a minuite. Some popcorn stuck in my teeth

Right where are we at with this.

.

Well, I discovered i cannot say w e e d on the forum.

Does that not stand for

We Echo Everyone's diversity ?

Or does it stand fur summit else "

I meant it in a comparable gardening term. Not as in something you roll up and smoke!

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By *onkeymagic50Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour


"Why don’t married men stick to meeting the married women. Simples

Now that’s too sensible

So if a married woman messages you , you will turn her down ? "

It there on my profile to see

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Tain


"Soz, was lost fir a minuite. Some popcorn stuck in my teeth

Right where are we at with this.

.

Well, I discovered i cannot say w e e d on the forum.

Does that not stand for

We Echo Everyone's diversity ?

Or does it stand fur summit else "

There's entire threads devoted to water sports!

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