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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Curious to know if singles still continue dating whilst actively using fab? And if so, do you tell your date?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Not interested in dating anyone. Fab life suits me perfectly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m on the fish site but ideally any future partner would come from the lifestyle I choose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Curious to know if singles still continue dating whilst actively using fab? And if so, do you tell your date? "

I normally can fab when i try to date vanilla ... i do tell the people i date because i would rather they found out from me than maybe a friend that had seen me at cjs or something but try not to say right away or i think it sets the tone in a way i dont want

Ive currently given up on dating though ... i either meet really boring guys or a-holes... so back here thinking about using the songle time to my advantage for experimenting again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just read that back and realised it was a weird way yo say it ... i meant i delete fab

I think if you want to date you need to give it a proper shot and cant do that with one foot still in the fab pool

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By *illy7239Man
over a year ago

Stenhousemuir


"Not interested in dating anyone. Fab life suits me perfectly"

Yup this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not interested in dating anyone. Fab life suits me perfectly

Yup this "

It serves its purpose ... but i reckon even the couples on here would agree that great sex is not enough in life ... most people need some companionship too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This year ive decided to go on a few fab dates! First for me!

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By *ikerbob1957Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I am on a certain fishing site but not tried to contact anyone for ages as the reply rate dropped to Fab levels, i.e. virtually nil.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"This year ive decided to go on a few fab dates! First for me! "
about bloody time .xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not interested in dating anyone. Fab life suits me perfectly"

This.

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I tried pof briefly after my couple profile ended..... realised half of them were on fab & the rest were just looking for pics, so decided I'd be as well sticking with fab

R

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not interested in dating anyone. Fab life suits me perfectly"

^ this

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I'm also on the fish site. I've come to the conclusion I do better here because they can't see my face!

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By *e_frenchMan
over a year ago

edinburgh


"I tried pof briefly after my couple profile ended..... realised half of them were on fab & the rest were just looking for pics, so decided I'd be as well sticking with fab

R "

Lol not the first time I read this in the forum may be I should try POF.

X

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I tried pof briefly after my couple profile ended..... realised half of them were on fab & the rest were just looking for pics, so decided I'd be as well sticking with fab

R

Lol not the first time I read this in the forum may be I should try POF.

X"

Nooooo! Lol. Maybe the ladies will be better behaved

R

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just get my bf's on here. Lol. On my 4th and final one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ave got a date on sat night. She is off POF but knows nothing about this. I would love it if we get on that she would join me on here. The only thing is how do I bring it up that am on here and want someone to join me? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ave got a date on sat night. She is off POF but knows nothing about this. I would love it if we get on that she would join me on here. The only thing is how do I bring it up that am on here and want someone to join me? Xx"

Probs dont start with the sky remote pic

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By *ainbowBrite57Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I do date (unsuccessfully lol) but I’d need someone to know early on that this lifestyle is part of who I am.

Easier to say than a swipe-left-swipe-right function gives you.

More than happy with my life & lifestyle though

R x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ave got a date on sat night. She is off POF but knows nothing about this. I would love it if we get on that she would join me on here. The only thing is how do I bring it up that am on here and want someone to join me? Xx

Probs dont start with the sky remote pic "
Haha no that mite not be the best idea lol. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ave got a date on sat night. She is off POF but knows nothing about this. I would love it if we get on that she would join me on here. The only thing is how do I bring it up that am on here and want someone to join me? Xx

Probs dont start with the sky remote pic "
How did you see that pic without viewing my profile? Xx

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


"Ave got a date on sat night. She is off POF but knows nothing about this. I would love it if we get on that she would join me on here. The only thing is how do I bring it up that am on here and want someone to join me? Xx

Probs dont start with the sky remote pic How did you see that pic without viewing my profile? Xx"

I saw it too!! But bet you never saw me peeking on your profile either

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By *egs11ABCWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"Ave got a date on sat night. She is off POF but knows nothing about this. I would love it if we get on that she would join me on here. The only thing is how do I bring it up that am on here and want someone to join me? Xx

Probs dont start with the sky remote pic How did you see that pic without viewing my profile? Xx

I saw it too!! But bet you never saw me peeking on your profile either "

Haha me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ave got a date on sat night. She is off POF but knows nothing about this. I would love it if we get on that she would join me on here. The only thing is how do I bring it up that am on here and want someone to join me? Xx

Probs dont start with the sky remote pic How did you see that pic without viewing my profile? Xx"

Because im a ninja

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This lifestyle suits me and while sometimes it can be lonely for a single woman, it has given me a great social life too. I have met some lovely people through this and they have become friends. If I met someone not on Fab he would have to be very, very special for me to give up Fab because for the foreseeable, I'm not giving it up. I'm enjoying myself too much x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ave got a date on sat night. She is off POF but knows nothing about this. I would love it if we get on that she would join me on here. The only thing is how do I bring it up that am on here and want someone to join me? Xx

Probs dont start with the sky remote pic How did you see that pic without viewing my profile? Xx

I saw it too!! But bet you never saw me peeking on your profile either "
I feel violated lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ave got a date on sat night. She is off POF but knows nothing about this. I would love it if we get on that she would join me on here. The only thing is how do I bring it up that am on here and want someone to join me? Xx

Probs dont start with the sky remote pic How did you see that pic without viewing my profile? Xx

Because im a ninja "
Its seems your not the only ninja on here lol. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ave got a date on sat night. She is off POF but knows nothing about this. I would love it if we get on that she would join me on here. The only thing is how do I bring it up that am on here and want someone to join me? Xx

Probs dont start with the sky remote pic How did you see that pic without viewing my profile? Xx

I saw it too!! But bet you never saw me peeking on your profile either

Haha me too "
You could have at least liked it lol. Xx

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Ave got a date on sat night. She is off POF but knows nothing about this. I would love it if we get on that she would join me on here. The only thing is how do I bring it up that am on here and want someone to join me? Xx

Probs dont start with the sky remote pic How did you see that pic without viewing my profile? Xx

Because im a ninja Its seems your not the only ninja on here lol. Xx"

We're everywhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ave got a date on sat night. She is off POF but knows nothing about this. I would love it if we get on that she would join me on here. The only thing is how do I bring it up that am on here and want someone to join me? Xx

Probs dont start with the sky remote pic How did you see that pic without viewing my profile? Xx

Because im a ninja Its seems your not the only ninja on here lol. Xx

We're everywhere "
Ha I though I would keep the pics off my main profile pic because I know a lot of women don’t like a cock pic but I never new you could view a profile on the fly lol. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go between dating and Fab, sometimes both at once.... I'm always far more drawn to the excitement of Fab. I don't think I will ever successfully date while still messing about on here but I can't give it up yet ha

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Don't think the Mrs would be too happy if I was on dating sites lol i'll stick to fab

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I go between dating and Fab, sometimes both at once.... I'm always far more drawn to the excitement of Fab. I don't think I will ever successfully date while still messing about on here but I can't give it up yet ha "

I’m on the same boat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I go between dating and Fab, sometimes both at once.... I'm always far more drawn to the excitement of Fab. I don't think I will ever successfully date while still messing about on here but I can't give it up yet ha

I’m on the same boat "

The dilemma of wanting the best of both worlds. The struggle is real x

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By *ub-seekerMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I’m here and on POF sporadically.

I prefer the excitement of Fab and it suits my lifestyle right now. Not sure I could combine both to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ave got a date on sat night. She is off POF but knows nothing about this. I would love it if we get on that she would join me on here. The only thing is how do I bring it up that am on here and want someone to join me? Xx"

Lol she might shock you and also be on fab!

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By *eelgoodfactorMan
over a year ago

Findochty

I can't imagine dating after experiencing some of the best sex and meeting genuine unconventional people here on fab. Would really only consider dating someone who enjoyed the lifestyle, but at the same time it is the NSA nature of fab that keeps me happily single.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stepped away from fab as i was looking to date. Turned out to be a total waste of time, so here I am...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ave got a date on sat night. She is off POF but knows nothing about this. I would love it if we get on that she would join me on here. The only thing is how do I bring it up that am on here and want someone to join me? Xx

Lol she might shock you and also be on fab! "
That would be perfect but how do I bring the subject up? Xx

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Not interested in dating anyone. Fab life suits me perfectly"

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ave got a date on sat night. She is off POF but knows nothing about this. I would love it if we get on that she would join me on here. The only thing is how do I bring it up that am on here and want someone to join me? Xx

Lol she might shock you and also be on fab! That would be perfect but how do I bring the subject up? Xx"

Good luck with that !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ave got a date on sat night. She is off POF but knows nothing about this. I would love it if we get on that she would join me on here. The only thing is how do I bring it up that am on here and want someone to join me? Xx

Lol she might shock you and also be on fab! That would be perfect but how do I bring the subject up? Xx

Good luck with that ! "
Thanks very much. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm also on the fish site. I've come to the conclusion I do better here because they can't see my face!"

Stop being so hard on yourself. You’re a beautiful sexy woman!

You need to find that confidence again!

You’re stunning!!!!

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

My concept of dating seems to be diffrent from everyone else. Dating to me is meeting folk dosnt mean your in a commited relationship where you share thingd about each other

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By *has like usMan
over a year ago

east kilbride

Would prefer to meet and date someone from here rather than normal dating sites, or meet and socialise, as can see a profile and make an informed decision.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I date as well as play on here ,I think I’d stop using fab if it got serious however my biggest worry is they will never be dirty enough for me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being on fab and dating is not easy. But i would come fab and see where it may go. But i know fab would draw me but in

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By *edzyWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I think guys that are into sex are on here - I have been seeing a guy I met on here for the last 8 months - he’s unconventional and the sex is great - win win

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ave got a date on sat night. She is off POF but knows nothing about this. I would love it if we get on that she would join me on here. The only thing is how do I bring it up that am on here and want someone to join me? Xx

Probs dont start with the sky remote pic How did you see that pic without viewing my profile? Xx

Because im a ninja Its seems your not the only ninja on here lol. Xx

We're everywhere "

Lesson 1: All hot females on fab are absolute ninjas... It's their survival instinct!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not interested in dating anyone. Fab life suits me perfectly"

+1

I lost my wife 4 years ago but could not face another relationship, I love friendship but could not get closely involved again, I would compare to my wife, we will meet up again when its my time to go

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By *is vixen at playCouple
over a year ago

Dundee

Well, we met on here through our single profiles and after a few weeks decided to date. 5 months and a profile tweak later, here we are

Not sure I would want to date someone totally vanilla, but if I had I would have brought fab up quite quickly to see how they felt about it

V

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once you’ve been in fab the real world seems boring. Not just dating. Found myself walking through town as people pass wondering if they use Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't get a date or meets on here tbh so lonely single life for me haha

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Not interested in dating anyone. Fab life suits me perfectly

Yup this

It serves its purpose ... but i reckon even the couples on here would agree that great sex is not enough in life ... most people need some companionship too "
i was with someone for 25yrs. I would describe that time as lonely and soul destroying. Never again. Im stronger and more confident by myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was in the same relationship for a long long time, so enjoying being single and the joys of Fab at the moment. But I will settle down again away from here when the right person rocks up and the time is right....hopefully

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im on pof but the me being a swinger comes into it n thev all ran or been ill experienced at everythig! N i just think fuck sake why am on on here!

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I find that if I’m on pof I get messages from guys who are on Fab who find it odd that I want to actually date!

I did date a guy from pof for a while but it was nothing serious and he did have some talents. We still chat on Facebook occasionally.

I find pof full of guys that just want nsa fun. It’s gone downhill.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was dating someone I definitely wouldnt be on here.

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By *otGeorgeClooneyMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I find the difference between here and dating sites (tried them all, unsuccessfully). Is that if you do stArt chatting to some one here they may vanish suddenly but they Are normally unverified and you accept it as the nature of the beast. Whilst on dating sites, you eventually chat to some one, meet them agree to meet again and then they vanish.

Fab is becoming more and more the preferred option.though would be great to meet and chat with the ladies that say they're on POF.

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By *raggle rocks itMan
over a year ago

helensburgh

Nothing wrong with wanting to date and still be on fab until you meet the right person and then need to make a choice. For me i would love to meet someone off here that also wanted to date amd then see how it went..theres definately more too life than nust sex afterall

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By *ikerbob1957Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I find that if I’m on pof I get messages from guys who are on Fab who find it odd that I want to actually date!

I did date a guy from pof for a while but it was nothing serious and he did have some talents. We still chat on Facebook occasionally.

I find pof full of guys that just want nsa fun. It’s gone downhill. "

I will need to check my searches on POF as you never seem to show up lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep my pof account running but don't use it these days. To be honest with everyone I find you're more likely to have a better chat with someone on here. Hell at least on here folk usually honest about what they want lol

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By *rsFine-MrBallsCouple
over a year ago

markinch


"Not interested in dating anyone. Fab life suits me perfectly

Yup this

It serves its purpose ... but i reckon even the couples on here would agree that great sex is not enough in life ... most people need some companionship too i was with someone for 25yrs. I would describe that time as lonely and soul destroying. Never again. Im stronger and more confident by myself"

He has deffinately missed out on the fun with you,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tried pof briefly after my couple profile ended..... realised half of them were on fab & the rest were just looking for pics, so decided I'd be as well sticking with fab

R

Lol not the first time I read this in the forum may be I should try POF.

X"

sometimes i get confused where i am as same guy's on pof and badoo etc as here. so chance my luck here i think, the banter is better

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By *aughtyLittleMissWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I was on the fishing site before I joined here, then when I joined I realised most of the guys on the fishing site were here too.

I just think people on fab are more honest about what they're looking for, and I'm terrible at dating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I float between both sites. More fingers in the pie the better

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By *earded villainMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

float with them all

happy to see what happens , ideally a regular playmate that is open to suggestions

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By *ainbowBrite57Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

It’s given me a different version of swiping left or right to what I’d usually chat about on Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t be dating someone I’m not having great sex with. So would be no need for fab. I delete or hide profile

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