FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Scotland

Aberdeen Socials?

Jump to newest
 

By *__K OP   Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Does anyone know when the next aberdeen social is? Seems like there's almost nothing to do in this bloody city.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"Does anyone know when the next aberdeen social is? Seems like there's almost nothing to do in this bloody city."

Whenever you organise one!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *orteMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen

No one to do

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rs kemeaCouple
over a year ago

angus

There's only been one social in Aberdeen in the nearly 3 years we've been on this site, mostly because I think it's such a small city where everyone knows everyone.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *__K OP   Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I think the last one was one I organised. It didn't really go all that well. Ended up with us stranded having lost a lot of people and the now ex-missus in tears.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *__K OP   Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

And that is PRECICELY why I refuse to organise another. Its someone else's turn.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We went to a social a few years in Aberdeen, organised by Laine and had a good night.

We are lucky though, we live in Fife, so aberdeen isnt that much harder to get to than Glasgow.

Dont think that there are many swingers on this site that are in aberdeen area, or close enough that they want to travel.

I think if someone could come up with an extraordinary idea for a social, and held it in Aberdeen, then you would get people travelling and the catchment area for it would increase.

Shame really, as Aberdeen would be a decent location as there are a few hotels near to the city, which is always ideal for people walking back after a good night out.

Steve

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *__K OP   Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I have a few ideas that would work well... But due to the catastrophic failure of the masquerade social I organised in March, no chance in hell that I'm going to do it again.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ilandlarryCouple
over a year ago

more north lincs than mids!


"I have a few ideas that would work well... But due to the catastrophic failure of the masquerade social I organised in March, no chance in hell that I'm going to do it again."

just do something simple then? It doesn't have to be the social of the century. Organise a venue and then set a price per person and let people know date etc. You don't people to dress up, or donate to charity, or organise a raffle etc. A venue, a DJ and lots of interested people

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *__K OP   Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

yeah, i tried that once... Guess how many turned up?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"yeah, i tried that once... Guess how many turned up?"

10?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

15?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ilandlarryCouple
over a year ago

more north lincs than mids!

See the thing is, you can't expect every one to just pitch up the minute they hear a social is on. I have been organising socials since 2005 I think. About 10 appeared at the first one!

Myself and another couple lost a lot of money over the first 5 or 6 socials but we felt that persevering was the thing to do. Socials weren't very common in Scotland at all when we started them but now we know we are guaranteed about 100 people, if not more but we are 6 years down the line.

Everyone thinks that organising a social is like organising a night in the pub with a couple of mates but it's really not. It takes time, effort and a LOT of hard work.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *__K OP   Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

0... Zero... Not a single person. It was arranged a month in advance, with plenty of ads on here and personal invites. Was aiming for between 5 and 10 other couples turning up, so invited 15 expecting most to not shot up anyway. Got a lot of good responces. Shame that nobody bothered even letting us know they wouldn't turn up.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I organised a social in Aberdeen in conjunction with the swingers club there. We had about a hundred to the social and 60 went on to the club for after social fun, more would have attended too but numbers for the club were restricted due to fire regulations.

Perhaps if you were to contact the club owners and do a similar thing you'd get the numbers to attend?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

all i can say is keep trying

I run events on other websites and also massive retail events, and i can honestly say that trying to organise socials on here is harder than anywhere else and the socials on here are smaller!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think aberdeen being so small has a lot to do with it, plus your always going to have lot more single guys outnumbering women, think that must put some off. Rekon couples have a better chance of hooking up easier

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we were at your social huny pity every one didnt turn up tho but such is life xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *__K OP   Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Quite enjoyed that night myself... Except at the end where K was in tears and i was pissed off that the couple we were meant to have been staying with had fucked off.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *igtechMan
over a year ago

Stonehaven


"I organised a social in Aberdeen in conjunction with the swingers club there. We had about a hundred to the social and 60 went on to the club for after social fun, more would have attended too but numbers for the club were restricted due to fire regulations.

Perhaps if you were to contact the club owners and do a similar thing you'd get the numbers to attend? "

yeah was great night laine xxxx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *issNaughtyxxxWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Might have a little think about this, would like to give it arranging a social a go and if i made a rubbish attempt at least we could have a good fun party with lots of fab friends i know

I know how hard it is though to organise and im pretty tied up with work, getting the barn finshed for winter but think i could attempt something for the New Year

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top