FabSwingers.com forum: Do we really need......

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

4 threads EVERY week on folk saying they are THINKING of going to CJs?

If youre gonna go, then just bloody go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people just need reassurance as it’s a big step to go to a swinging club when you’ve never been to one before. I remember I thought everyone had to walk about in sexy under wear and there was an expectation to play even if you didn’t like anyone etc so don’t be too tough on those that need to talk about it before they take the next step.. x

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"Some people just need reassurance as it’s a big step to go to a swinging club when you’ve never been to one before. I remember I thought everyone had to walk about in sexy under wear and there was an expectation to play even if you didn’t like anyone etc so don’t be too tough on those that need to talk about it before they take the next step.. x"
this could be true..... apart from its the same folk attending week in week out its advertisment plain and simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people just need reassurance as it’s a big step to go to a swinging club when you’ve never been to one before. I remember I thought everyone had to walk about in sexy under wear and there was an expectation to play even if you didn’t like anyone etc so don’t be too tough on those that need to talk about it before they take the next step.. x"
Good reply. Us newbies hope not to grow cynical like some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is CJs ?

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By *ittle DancerWoman
over a year ago

Leslie, Glenrothes

"4 threads EVERY week on folk saying they are THINKING of going to CJs?

If youre gonna go, then just bloody go.

Grumpy? Did Santa put coal in your stocking because you’ve been a very naughty boy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 threads on the first page of the forum alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I can say hand on heart I'm not advertising or affiliated to any club. I asked in my post as I will be new at this. I wouldn't like to do something wrong or make things awkward not only for myself, but anyone else there. However, your comment has now planted a little seed of doubt in my mind. I wondered if it was like a "closed shop" you know "clique" by you making that comment it's now got me thinking do regulars welcoming newcomers or are we looked upon as some kind of gatecrashers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do we really need people moaning about threads they have no interest in?? When they can just skip over them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do we really need people moaning about threads they have no interest in?? When they can just skip over them"

I would do but the club threads are squeezing out everything else...

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"Well I can say hand on heart I'm not advertising or affiliated to any club. I asked in my post as I will be new at this. I wouldn't like to do something wrong or make things awkward not only for myself, but anyone else there. However, your comment has now planted a little seed of doubt in my mind. I wondered if it was like a "closed shop" you know "clique" by you making that comment it's now got me thinking do regulars welcoming newcomers or are we looked upon as some kind of gatecrashers?"
not at all. Go and enjoy you will love it.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do we really need people moaning about threads they have no interest in?? When they can just skip over them

I would do but the club threads are squeezing out everything else..."

How on earth do you work that out?? There isn't a limit on the number of threads that can be posted. I look in a forum and I skim through, pick out the threads that look intresting and leave the rest. Is that really so difficult? The posts about clubs are usually well posted on, so why do you feel your desire to not see such threads is more important than those that do??

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By *raigStarrMan
over a year ago

St. Helens

Yeah think of all the really important stuff it’s pushing down the thread list like “fuck, suck or chuck” or “send a boaby pic to the profile below”

Gee whiz! Some folk just love moaning!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will admit that seeing post with who may be going to a club is handy to folk like me as a total newbie, and it's even worse as a single guy for the nerves. Means you have an idea of "names" and technically makes it easier to say hello.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah think of all the really important stuff it’s pushing down the thread list like “fuck, suck or chuck” or “send a boaby pic to the profile below”

Gee whiz! Some folk just love moaning!"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The posts about clubs are usually well posted on, so why do you feel your desire to not see such threads is more important than those that do??"

There are currently 10 separate threads for the 2 clubs on the first page of the Scottish forum. A large number of posts are people simply saying they are THINKING of going.

Maybe a thread for each club is sufficient?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Boomerang, do you go to the club's yourself?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Boomerang, do you go to the club's yourself?"

Nope. No interest in them.

I'm not slagging the clubs or those who do. My point is - I come into the forum to see what's being discussed and all I find are repeat threads week after week.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The posts about clubs are usually well posted on, so why do you feel your desire to not see such threads is more important than those that do??

There are currently 10 separate threads for the 2 clubs on the first page of the Scottish forum. A large number of posts are people simply saying they are THINKING of going.

Maybe a thread for each club is sufficient?"

Aren't they all about different dates though. I posted one of the threads about the 27th, as I was THINKING of going. I have made my decision based on the responses to that thread. Job done. Also 106 people have posted on it, so clearly plenty people were interested in the thread. So why be so bah humbug about it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Boomerang, do you go to the club's yourself?

Nope. No interest in them.

I'm not slagging the clubs or those who do. My point is - I come into the forum to see what's being discussed and all I find are repeat threads week after week. "

And if you had interest in clubs you would perhaps have interest in the threads about them. If you aren't happy with the standard of threads posted then post something you find interesting. I can't see that your moaning is doing anything to make the forum better?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simples.... as previously stated, skip past, if your not interested, you seem to have a healthy interest in commenting on them!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" I can't see that your moaning is doing anything to make the forum better?"

One persons moaning is another's valid criticism...

But if a casual forum user has a look at the Scottish room and all they see is CJs or After8 ads they are hardly going to spend too long in here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Simples.... as previously stated, skip past, if your not interested, you seem to have a healthy interest in commenting on them!"

My first and only thread on the topic. People are asking questions of me and I'm trying to give valid reasons in a civilised manner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

New comers are very welcome as it’s good to get fresh blood in the place lol it makes it interesting every night I go to see so many new people at Cjs.. just go along and CJ will give you the tour and introduce you to the regulars who will put you at ease and if your nervous come and find me and moon-light in the kitchen we are always up for a chat x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" I can't see that your moaning is doing anything to make the forum better?

One persons moaning is another's valid criticism...

But if a casual forum user has a look at the Scottish room and all they see is CJs or After8 ads they are hardly going to spend too long in here. "

But that isn't all they see, there are other threads. And they aren't ads, my post certainly wasn't an ad for CJ's. What's a 'casual' forum user anyway? Surely they can skip the threads that don't interest them as well as anyone else can. And as I said before, is your thread really making the forum look any better or more appealing to the 'casual' forum user?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" And as I said before, is your thread really making the forum look any better or more appealing to the 'casual' forum user? "

All I can say is that I've had 3 separate people DM me to say they agree with my comments.

Anyway, I genuinely hope you have a great night on Wednesday. All I ask is that there isn't a separate thread for after the event.

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By *raigStarrMan
over a year ago

St. Helens

All I can say is that I've had 3 separate people DM me to say they agree with my comments.

This definitely happened!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" And as I said before, is your thread really making the forum look any better or more appealing to the 'casual' forum user?

All I can say is that I've had 3 separate people DM me to say they agree with my comments.

Anyway, I genuinely hope you have a great night on Wednesday. All I ask is that there isn't a separate thread for after the event.

3 people? But they aren't willing to post in public

oh I'm not going on Wednesday but thanks. I might start a thread now asking who isn't thinking of going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" And as I said before, is your thread really making the forum look any better or more appealing to the 'casual' forum user?

All I can say is that I've had 3 separate people DM me to say they agree with my comments.

Anyway, I genuinely hope you have a great night on Wednesday. All I ask is that there isn't a separate thread for after the event.

People have the same right as you in the forums to post what they want.. CJS is popular just now going by the amount of newbies I see as the premises are a lot bigger .. Just cause you don’t attend a club doesn’t mean everyone else has to Stay quiet about it.. if you don’t like it then post about something else rather than moan about other people’s posts..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" And as I said before, is your thread really making the forum look any better or more appealing to the 'casual' forum user?

All I can say is that I've had 3 separate people DM me to say they agree with my comments.

Anyway, I genuinely hope you have a great night on Wednesday. All I ask is that there isn't a separate thread for after the event.

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will DEF make a separate thread on Thursday

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

All I can say is that I've had 3 separate people DM me to say they agree with my comments.

This definitely happened! "

Happy for admin to check and confirm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"4 threads EVERY week on folk saying they are THINKING of going to CJs?

If youre gonna go, then just bloody go.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Used to be that replys containing clubs names were removed along with posts advertising nights like you see now. not sure when the rules changed but they obviously have.

For a few this change is a pain as it goes against what they believe the word forum means.

some seem to believe forums should be fun my view is its an area for topical debate.

the forums are where they are as its what the majority want or those who shout loudest make it appear like the majority

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Used to be that replys containing clubs names were removed along with posts advertising nights like you see now. not sure when the rules changed but they obviously have.

For a few this change is a pain as it goes against what they believe the word forum means.

some seem to believe forums should be fun my view is its an area for topical debate.

the forums are where they are as its what the majority want or those who shout loudest make it appear like the majority"

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By *eADevilCouple
over a year ago

Blantyre

As already stated .

1 its an OPEN forum

2 How hard is it to skip past any club posts

3 If you post a topic that people want to respond to your thread will stay up near the top.

4 I agree with earlier commentor, someone never got what they asked for from santa.

5 If you dont go to clubs how can you possibly guage how much people enjoy messaging about thier future visit or past visit.

6 Its called freedom of speech, to much sensorship in the world these days. The word " snowflake" springs to mind here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just looked at the first page of Scotland forum posts. 9 related to various events in cj's, after 8, club noir. And as its Christmas and Hogmanay I feel that's not really excessive. 24 related to other subjects. Oh and 1 moaning about the 9 posts. Still plenty to look at and join in with if you are not interested in club events.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just looked at the first page of Scotland forum posts. 9 related to various events in cj's, after 8, club noir. And as its Christmas and Hogmanay I feel that's not really excessive. 24 related to other subjects. Oh and 1 moaning about the 9 posts. Still plenty to look at and join in with if you are not interested in club events."

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"Used to be that replys containing clubs names were removed along with posts advertising nights like you see now. not sure when the rules changed but they obviously have.

For a few this change is a pain as it goes against what they believe the word forum means.

some seem to believe forums should be fun my view is its an area for topical debate.

the forums are where they are as its what the majority want or those who shout loudest make it appear like the majority

If the threads are getting replies then it's not a case of whoever is shouting loudest, its just what some people are interested in. I don't agree that it's advertising, it's discussion that is relevent to the section of swingers that attend clubs, posted by prospective attendees not the clubs. I still don't see why it's a problem, look for the posts that interest you, ignore the ones that don't. If there aren't enough threads that interest you, then post some that do. Does anyone go into a supermarket looking for bread and moan that the supermarket also sells fruit and veg that they don't want to buy? Or do they just buy the bread and pass on the rest... "
you miss the point I was making at one point the mere mention of a club was enough for that post to be removed. So no one could reply as the advertising of clubs in any manner wasnt allowed it seems for the past while its now allowed as ive said these areas of the site are where they are because either the majority want them like this or those who shout loudest make it appear its what the majoriyy want.

its been posted above about recieving pms agreeing or disagreeing to be honest it needs to be done in the forums for all to see or things cant be acted upon accordingly. If fab seen a trend that the majority of users were tireing of club talk they would do something about it (think about a well known chat apps disdain in the forums is that so much diffrent from clubs)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Used to be that replys containing clubs names were removed along with posts advertising nights like you see now. not sure when the rules changed but they obviously have.

For a few this change is a pain as it goes against what they believe the word forum means.

some seem to believe forums should be fun my view is its an area for topical debate.

the forums are where they are as its what the majority want or those who shout loudest make it appear like the majority

If the threads are getting replies then it's not a case of whoever is shouting loudest, its just what some people are interested in. I don't agree that it's advertising, it's discussion that is relevent to the section of swingers that attend clubs, posted by prospective attendees not the clubs. I still don't see why it's a problem, look for the posts that interest you, ignore the ones that don't. If there aren't enough threads that interest you, then post some that do. Does anyone go into a supermarket looking for bread and moan that the supermarket also sells fruit and veg that they don't want to buy? Or do they just buy the bread and pass on the rest... you miss the point I was making at one point the mere mention of a club was enough for that post to be removed. So no one could reply as the advertising of clubs in any manner wasnt allowed it seems for the past while its now allowed as ive said these areas of the site are where they are because either the majority want them like this or those who shout loudest make it appear its what the majoriyy want.

I think enough is already censored on here. And seems to me the reason for not allowing the chat app stuff is that it draws people away from fab to chat on there instead. Of course fab dont want that. I dont see how that is the same. Clubs are a big part of the swinging scene for many and so discussion should be allowed on a swingers site. If the 'majority' are tiring of it, like you say they aren't posting about it. Maybe because it's so damn easy to just pass on by the threads they can't arsed with. And where would you have it end? I'm not intrested in Christmas so no Christmas threads please...

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Lol are clubs not in direct competition also........if folk attend clubs they dont need tobe on fab to meet folk.

Seems its a matter of perception for me I prefered when buisness advertisment wasnt allowed.

for yourself you like it.

I agree censorship isnt a great thing though

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By *eADevilCouple
over a year ago

Blantyre

"Used to be that replys containing clubs names were removed along with posts advertising nights like you see now. not sure when the rules changed but they obviously have.

For a few this change is a pain as it goes against what they believe the word forum means.

some seem to believe forums should be fun my view is its an area for topical debate.

the forums are where they are as its what the majority want or those who shout loudest make it appear like the majority

If the threads are getting replies then it's not a case of whoever is shouting loudest, its just what some people are interested in. I don't agree that it's advertising, it's discussion that is relevent to the section of swingers that attend clubs, posted by prospective attendees not the clubs. I still don't see why it's a problem, look for the posts that interest you, ignore the ones that don't. If there aren't enough threads that interest you, then post some that do. Does anyone go into a supermarket looking for bread and moan that the supermarket also sells fruit and veg that they don't want to buy? Or do they just buy the bread and pass on the rest... you miss the point I was making at one point the mere mention of a club was enough for that post to be removed. So no one could reply as the advertising of clubs in any manner wasnt allowed it seems for the past while its now allowed as ive said these areas of the site are where they are because either the majority want them like this or those who shout loudest make it appear its what the majoriyy want.

Very well said , sometimes the censorship on here is ott. Its nothing to do with who shouts the loudest, its more like people get annoyed when 1 or 2 posts seem to be able to affect lots of peoples enjoyment of the site by posting negative comments. Again why should the moderators or Fab change something 100s post into because 1 guy and 3 mystery agree ers say they dont want to see it any more ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the OP was actually exercising his right to 'Freedom of Speech". Or is that not acceptable if it ruffles the club goers feathers? It simply amuses me that the same people post weekly and are obviously in the main part friends or aquantancies who could pm each other but then as we know, it IS an open forum. For all points of view, no?

Isn't there a separate forum for club news anyway?

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By *eADevilCouple
over a year ago

Blantyre

Absolutely correct he was , but by doing so he was trying to silence others rights to the same freedom of speech . So whats the difference of our right to defend our right to said freedom of speech as you are doing for his right .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the OP was actually exercising his right to 'Freedom of Speech". Or is that not acceptable if it ruffles the club goers feathers? It simply amuses me that the same people post weekly and are obviously in the main part friends or aquantancies who could pm each other but then as we know, it IS an open forum. For all points of view, no?

Isn't there a separate forum for club news anyway? "

Of course he has freedom of speech. Which is pretty much my point. So do the people that want to disciss club nights. As for the same people posting that could pm each other, thats just crap. I have been to cj's before but my post was my first ever asking about a specific night. And at least 2 of the posts are from newbies looking for support. Why do you feel the forum can't be the place for them to find that? Thd OP is exercising his right to freedom of speech as you stated. Funnily enough so are those discussing club nights

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By *andy_FraserTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Isn't there a separate forum for club news anyway? "

Correct. But there's probably a lot of people like myself that only ever look in this (Scotland) one.

Mandy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"4 threads EVERY week on folk saying they are THINKING of going to CJs?

If youre gonna go, then just bloody go.

Totally agree maybe we should do a thread called escape CJs lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"4 threads EVERY week on folk saying they are THINKING of going to CJs?

If youre gonna go, then just bloody go.

Totally agree maybe we should do a thread called escape CJs lol

Well do that then, why not?. You can all post about how much you dont want to talk about clubs on it....

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By *eADevilCouple
over a year ago

Blantyre

"4 threads EVERY week on folk saying they are THINKING of going to CJs?

If youre gonna go, then just bloody go.

Totally agree maybe we should do a thread called escape CJs lol

Well do that then, why not?. You can all post about how much you dont want to talk about clubs on it...."

Lmao might even post on it myself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Absolutely correct he was , but by doing so he was trying to silence others rights to the same freedom of speech . So whats the difference of our right to defend our right to said freedom of speech as you are doing for his right . "

Erm. I wasn't trying to silence anyone and have said I have no issue with the clubs or clubbers. I was simply saying do we need so many of the same threads week in, week out with folk saying no more than "thinking of going".

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By *ainbowBrite57Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Do we really need people moaning about threads they have no interest in?? When they can just skip over them

I would do but the club threads are squeezing out everything else...

Each to their own, not for you? Don’t read them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No we don't but it won't change, the need to let people know you're doing the same thing you did last week is big on here.

Same with statuses asking who is going, always the same folk asking the question.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

There is a separate section of the forum for swinging club discussion.

Chat apps are not allowed to be discussed in the forum because people use them to scam.

If you disagree with the op please do so without being rude or nasty.

Happy Christmas all.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Due to the forums about people wanting to attend clubs I've actually meaasaged them and taken them. Turned out to still be good friends over a year later. So the forums do serve a purpose as well.

Its individuals who start the threads who have no affiliation to the clubs as far as I know. It does give an indication of who is going.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tut tut boomarang..

You should know better to ruffle the cj posse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Isn't there a separate forum for club news anyway?

Correct. But there's probably a lot of people like myself that only ever look in this (Scotland) one.

Mandy"

Thats no reason for them not to be in the club section then where they belong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tut tut boomarang..

You should know better to ruffle the cj posse

Jesus. I wouldn't call myself part of any 'posse'. I've been to the club like 3 times in 2 years. Being from another part if Scotland I find the forum has been great for making links with other club goers, I dont think this will work same way on a seperate forum. I see my post has been moved, some club posts have, some haven't and still plenty posts about clubs on the other regional forums. Will they all be moved as well?

If I cant post in my regional forum about regional clubs because some people are not interested in clubs, I find that to be ridiculous. So I will just leave the forum if I can't use the site as I need to. What is the point?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As boomarang said earlier sometimes there are 3 4 or sometimes more of the same posts asking the same question.

Isnt a club just ment to be turn up and see whos there? Or is it a ..

See whos going before i waste my entry fee on an all munter night??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eh who's going to cj's

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By *uncity1Man
over a year ago

dundee

boomerang we are thinking og=f going to a club in the new year .... could you recommend one ???

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

If it was posted in the clubs section we’d never find it with all the English clubs that have events listed. This way it’s easy to find.

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By *eADevilCouple
over a year ago

Blantyre

"Tut tut boomarang..

You should know better to ruffle the cj posse

Narrow minded statement if im honest. I like attending a club but not so keen on cjs so to lable people a cjs posse i feel is another example of some narrow minded statements. Remember this whole thread started by a guy wanting people to stop POSTING about clubs. While HE has a right to choose any forum topic he likes , plz afford the same courtesy to the people who do like to post topics on clubs. OP if you dont like it dont read it , its simple. Why is that so hard to grasp . ???

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Remember this whole thread started by a guy wanting people to stop POSTING about clubs. "

Nope. Show where I said people shouldnt post about clubs? If you read my post my comment was the sheer volume of threads dedicated to people saying they were thinking of going to a club. My point was if you are going to go then just go. Why do they feel the need to post numerous threads on it.

Please don't misquote me. Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tut tut boomarang..

You should know better to ruffle the cj posse

Easy peasy

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

"Tut tut boomarang..

You should know better to ruffle the cj posse

Easy peasy

The posts usually relate to a particular night or event at CJ’s or any other club for that matter.

I have posted my intentions at times and been swayed to attend if others that I know are going. As a single female it’s handy know if I know anyone that’s going.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it was posted in the clubs section we’d never find it with all the English clubs that have events listed. This way it’s easy to find.

People in other parts of the country seem to manage to find what they're looking for. Maybe the search function....?

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By *imbo57Man
over a year ago

kilmarnock ish

Why did people who had posted not been informed there posts had been moved and why is there still a topic about cjs been left in the regional room ???

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Why did people who had posted not been informed there posts had been moved and why is there still a topic about cjs been left in the regional room ??? "

If posts have been removed it will be because they broke forum rules or they quoted posts that broke them.

If you spot a post that's in the wrong section report it. Mods sometimes miss things and rely on site users reporting.

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

"Why did people who had posted not been informed there posts had been moved and why is there still a topic about cjs been left in the regional room ???

If posts have been removed it will be because they broke forum rules or they quoted posts that broke them.

If you spot a post that's in the wrong section report it. Mods sometimes miss things and rely on site users reporting."

But this one is too! Should this not also be in swingers club discussion? Can't believe one of you grumps actually sat down and reported all the club posts

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

"Why did people who had posted not been informed there posts had been moved and why is there still a topic about cjs been left in the regional room ???

If posts have been removed it will be because they broke forum rules or they quoted posts that broke them.

If you spot a post that's in the wrong section report it. Mods sometimes miss things and rely on site users reporting.

But this one is too! Should this not also be in swingers club discussion? Can't believe one of you grumps actually sat down and reported all the club posts

You left some out btw

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By *ainbowBrite57Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Why did people who had posted not been informed there posts had been moved and why is there still a topic about cjs been left in the regional room ???

If posts have been removed it will be because they broke forum rules or they quoted posts that broke them.

If you spot a post that's in the wrong section report it. Mods sometimes miss things and rely on site users reporting.

But this one is too! Should this not also be in swingers club discussion? Can't believe one of you grumps actually sat down and reported all the club posts

Agree

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By *eADevilCouple
over a year ago

Blantyre

Agreed !! But i think most people on Fab get off on swinger fun as it should be , sexy adult fun times. But a small minority get thier kicks by trolling other members posts or topics and pleasure of reading varied topics and find any excuse to report certain things , not because they are offended but simply to annoy others. Its a shame the mods cant see through these people although having had one or two unexplained timeouts myself clearly the trolling minority know how to work the system.

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

So many people use these posts and only a few don't. Wonder why make such a fuss over something that so many people enjoy x

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By *imbo57Man
over a year ago

kilmarnock ish

It's killed the topic dead about who was going it was not advertising an event or a venue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it wasnt

It was about having 4 topics of the same question?

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"So many people use these posts and only a few don't. Wonder why make such a fuss over something that so many people enjoy x"
in the grand scheme of fab barely anyone used these posts. maybe a majority of who uses scotland forums now but that could be because other users tired of it.

If these posts have been moved will it really be so difficult to find in another section at a guess no.

club name should suffice to find the advertisments of the next night and whos going.

at a guess will follow the same path as no politics so will see again shortly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha boomerang and now it looks like your post had been turned into an ad for cjs too.

Are clubs not on an events forum?

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By *andl kinkycoupleCouple
over a year ago

Scotland

Anyone going to Cjs for the bells?

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Maybe I got this entire thing wrong!

So Club threads now got booted to the general club discussions section

Will 'Socials/Parties threads' be booted to the meet and party section too?

Will the 'Hello am new threads' be booted to the introduction section of the site?

Where it all gets deluted with the rest of the UK??

Is this not supposed to be the 'Scottish' swingers community and have it all in a same section?! And have Scottish fabbers interacting with each other in one place?!

Shame, I had/have no issue scrolling past repetitive threads.

Aarrrggghh rant over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So Scottish club threads are going into the "UK" section, is that right? That's just daft lol

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over a year ago

"Maybe I got this entire thing wrong!

So Club threads now got booted to the general club discussions section

Will 'Socials/Parties threads' be booted to the meet and party section too?

Will the 'Hello am new threads' be booted to the introduction section of the site?

Where it all gets deluted with the rest of the UK??

Is this not supposed to be the 'Scottish' swingers community and have it all in a same section?! And have Scottish fabbers interacting with each other in one place?!

Shame, I had/have no issue scrolling past repetitive threads.

Aarrrggghh rant over

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no one is saying you cant max...just it would be nice if folk looked at threads before starting a new post on the exact same topic

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over a year ago

"So Scottish club threads are going into the "UK" section, is that right? That's just daft lol

No. They're going into the swinging club discussion section. That's just sensible

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Maybe I got this entire thing wrong!

So Club threads now got booted to the general club discussions section

Will 'Socials/Parties threads' be booted to the meet and party section too?

Will the 'Hello am new threads' be booted to the introduction section of the site?

Where it all gets deluted with the rest of the UK??

Is this not supposed to be the 'Scottish' swingers community and have it all in a same section?! And have Scottish fabbers interacting with each other in one place?!

Shame, I had/have no issue scrolling past repetitive threads.

Aarrrggghh rant over

no one is saying you cant max...just it would be nice if folk looked at threads before starting a new post on the exact same topic

I agree! Would be nice but... Not everyone is 'logical' (only word that comes to mind) when starting a thread!

An OP gets excited and starts a thread and whoops!!!!...there is already one or two or three started! It can also be seen with the thank yous after a Social.

Maybe referring to the other thread and say to the OP to ask admin to remove could be a 'logical' and nice way to approach this issue

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"So Scottish club threads are going into the "UK" section, is that right? That's just daft lol

No. They're going into the swinging club discussion section. That's just sensible

Which is for the whole of UK, no?

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

"So Scottish club threads are going into the "UK" section, is that right? That's just daft lol

They seem to now go into swingers clubs and discussions

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over a year ago

"So Scottish club threads are going into the "UK" section, is that right? That's just daft lol

No. They're going into the swinging club discussion section. That's just sensible

Which is for the whole of UK, no?"

That would be a yes then lol

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

The OP has left the building

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

"Maybe I got this entire thing wrong!

So Club threads now got booted to the general club discussions section

Will 'Socials/Parties threads' be booted to the meet and party section too?

Will the 'Hello am new threads' be booted to the introduction section of the site?

Where it all gets deluted with the rest of the UK??

Is this not supposed to be the 'Scottish' swingers community and have it all in a same section?! And have Scottish fabbers interacting with each other in one place?!

Shame, I had/have no issue scrolling past repetitive threads.

Aarrrggghh rant over

no one is saying you cant max...just it would be nice if folk looked at threads before starting a new post on the exact same topic

Someone just made sure we can't. Think it might get a whole lot quieter on the Scotland forum

So far it seems the only threads that are moved are clubs, but I posted one on here that doesn't mention a club and it was moved to meet requests and parties, so could be all the socials on here will be moved soon as well. They should really, they can't single out some and leave others.

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

"Maybe I got this entire thing wrong!

So Club threads now got booted to the general club discussions section

Will 'Socials/Parties threads' be booted to the meet and party section too?

Will the 'Hello am new threads' be booted to the introduction section of the site?

Where it all gets deluted with the rest of the UK??

Is this not supposed to be the 'Scottish' swingers community and have it all in a same section?! And have Scottish fabbers interacting with each other in one place?!

Shame, I had/have no issue scrolling past repetitive threads.

Aarrrggghh rant over

no one is saying you cant max...just it would be nice if folk looked at threads before starting a new post on the exact same topic

Someone just made sure we can't. Think it might get a whole lot quieter on the Scotland forum

They are quite ease to find in swingers clubs and discussions btw, not as busy on there as I thought it would be. Or a forum search for "CJ" will bring them all up x

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over a year ago

"So Scottish club threads are going into the "UK" section, is that right? That's just daft lol

No. They're going into the swinging club discussion section. That's just sensible

Which is for the whole of UK, no?"

Yes but I'm not sure what you're getting at. I'm saying it's sensible to put threads about swinging clubs into the swinging clubs discussions section just the same as it's sensible to put threads about politics in the politics section.

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"So Scottish club threads are going into the "UK" section, is that right? That's just daft lol

No. They're going into the swinging club discussion section. That's just sensible

Which is for the whole of UK, no?

I wasn't getting at anything!

It was a question, I just wanted confirmation that it was for the UK as a whole as I couldn't be bothered checking that section again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe I got this entire thing wrong!

So Club threads now got booted to the general club discussions section

Will 'Socials/Parties threads' be booted to the meet and party section too?

Will the 'Hello am new threads' be booted to the introduction section of the site?

Where it all gets deluted with the rest of the UK??

Is this not supposed to be the 'Scottish' swingers community and have it all in a same section?! And have Scottish fabbers interacting with each other in one place?!

Shame, I had/have no issue scrolling past repetitive threads.

Aarrrggghh rant over

no one is saying you cant max...just it would be nice if folk looked at threads before starting a new post on the exact same topic

Someone just made sure we can't. Think it might get a whole lot quieter on the Scotland forum

They are quite ease to find in swingers clubs and discussions btw, not as busy on there as I thought it would be. Or a forum search for "CJ" will bring them all up x"

I think that's a great idea, cj's should have it's own thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So Scottish club threads are going into the "UK" section, is that right? That's just daft lol

No. They're going into the swinging club discussion section. That's just sensible

Which is for the whole of UK, no?

I wasn't getting at anything!

It was a question, I just wanted confirmation that it was for the UK as a whole as I couldn't be bothered checking that section again

I'm happy to have been of assistance to you. That's me done my good deed for the day now

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Maybe I got this entire thing wrong!

So Club threads now got booted to the general club discussions section

Will 'Socials/Parties threads' be booted to the meet and party section too?

Will the 'Hello am new threads' be booted to the introduction section of the site?

Where it all gets deluted with the rest of the UK??

Is this not supposed to be the 'Scottish' swingers community and have it all in a same section?! And have Scottish fabbers interacting with each other in one place?!

Shame, I had/have no issue scrolling past repetitive threads.

Aarrrggghh rant over

no one is saying you cant max...just it would be nice if folk looked at threads before starting a new post on the exact same topic

Someone just made sure we can't. Think it might get a whole lot quieter on the Scotland forum

They are quite ease to find in swingers clubs and discussions btw, not as busy on there as I thought it would be. Or a forum search for "CJ" will bring them all up x"

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

[Removed by poster at 28/12/17 13:49:48]

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"So Scottish club threads are going into the "UK" section, is that right? That's just daft lol

No. They're going into the swinging club discussion section. That's just sensible

Which is for the whole of UK, no?

I wasn't getting at anything!

It was a question, I just wanted confirmation that it was for the UK as a whole as I couldn't be bothered checking that section again

I'm happy to have been of assistance to you. That's me done my good deed for the day now

Merci and I'll speak to Santa, it will go on the count for next year

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth

"The OP has left the building "

he's away booking into Cj's

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By *is vixen at playCouple
over a year ago

Dundee

"Maybe I got this entire thing wrong!

So Club threads now got booted to the general club discussions section

Will 'Socials/Parties threads' be booted to the meet and party section too?

Will the 'Hello am new threads' be booted to the introduction section of the site?

Where it all gets deluted with the rest of the UK??

Is this not supposed to be the 'Scottish' swingers community and have it all in a same section?! And have Scottish fabbers interacting with each other in one place?!

Shame, I had/have no issue scrolling past repetitive threads.

Aarrrggghh rant over

I'm with Max, leave Scottish topics, including clubs, in the Scottish forum

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By *eADevilCouple
over a year ago

Blantyre

Yep as said earlier a few individuals can have a huge impact on the scottish forums . Until the OP highlighted a few club posts , who among us minded simply passing by the posts we had zero interest in ?, i think probably nobody minded. What makes this thread so unpallitable is the person that made the complaint is no longer on site. Let the Fabbers of SCOTLAND now look all over fab to find threads relating to Scotland among the huge numbers of the rest of the uk. Common sense never seems to prevail over the pc brigade ie its a club post so should be in a certain section or a social event so should be in another particular section. Chill out folks simply skip topics of no appeal to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to big a thread and i couldn't be arsed reading it all due to it just being a heap off pis* but i do agree way Kola these posts have a place on the site and they should be left there .

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By *eADevilCouple
over a year ago

Blantyre

"Got to big a thread and i couldn't be arsed reading it all due to it just being a heap off pis* but i do agree way Kola these posts have a place on the site and they should be left there .

"I am a respectful person who enjoys a laugh & joke and a person who likes a good debate so holding a conversation is not a problem" thats a quote from a profile, not sure this person was being completely honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Got to big a thread and i couldn't be arsed reading it all due to it just being a heap off pis* but i do agree way Kola these posts have a place on the site and they should be left there .

Oh i am entirely honest and yes a extract from my profile but as i said the thread got too long and was just full off Pis* other than what Kola said as thats they way the site used to look at posts about clubs and Thas for a least looking n reading my profile . Respect is earned not a giver

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By *eeling hot hot hotCouple
over a year ago

Ardrossan

"Some people just need reassurance as it’s a big step to go to a swinging club when you’ve never been to one before. I remember I thought everyone had to walk about in sexy under wear and there was an expectation to play even if you didn’t like anyone etc so don’t be too tough on those that need to talk about it before they take the next step.. xthis could be true..... apart from its the same folk attending week in week out its advertisment plain and simple "

Well that's a lot of crap we meet new people every time we go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe I got this entire thing wrong!

So Club threads now got booted to the general club discussions section

Will 'Socials/Parties threads' be booted to the meet and party section too?

Will the 'Hello am new threads' be booted to the introduction section of the site?

Where it all gets deluted with the rest of the UK??

Is this not supposed to be the 'Scottish' swingers community and have it all in a same section?! And have Scottish fabbers interacting with each other in one place?!

Shame, I had/have no issue scrolling past repetitive threads.

Aarrrggghh rant over

I'm with Max, leave Scottish topics, including clubs, in the Scottish forum "

Yeah keep our club discussions in the scottish forum I can’t be arsed scrolling through the whole site to find the gossip.. I mean who went or who is going lol

If posts like this stay here then we just need to change the post title....

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

"Maybe I got this entire thing wrong!

So Club threads now got booted to the general club discussions section

Will 'Socials/Parties threads' be booted to the meet and party section too?

Will the 'Hello am new threads' be booted to the introduction section of the site?

Where it all gets deluted with the rest of the UK??

Is this not supposed to be the 'Scottish' swingers community and have it all in a same section?! And have Scottish fabbers interacting with each other in one place?!

Shame, I had/have no issue scrolling past repetitive threads.

Aarrrggghh rant over

I'm with Max, leave Scottish topics, including clubs, in the Scottish forum

Yeah keep our club discussions in the scottish forum I can’t be arsed scrolling through the whole site to find the gossip.. I mean who went or who is going lol

If posts like this stay here then we just need to change the post title.... "

Tried that already and mine got moved to meet requests and parties. My guess is one particular negative person, who's got nothing better to do than troll and wind people up, keeps on pressing the report button, but only for the people that he doesn't like. Sad really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been years since i attended cjs & A8 makes no odds to me skipping by threads that dont appeal to me but if attending did take my fancy again seeing who’s going on a particular night without trawling for the appropriate thread would be handy.

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

We're "thinking" of going to Cj's

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

"We're "thinking" of going to Cj's

Looks like I'll be there on 13th Jan x

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

I’ve just been for the first time, was good fun, be keeping my eye on the Scottish forum for future events

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By *imbo57Man
over a year ago

kilmarnock ish

"I’ve just been for the first time, was good fun, be keeping my eye on the Scottish forum for future events

best place to look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh no, not another CJ's post Ffs

If people get annoyed this post will be moved so that means once I post about my swingers knitting class, we will be moved as well

Damg

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

"I’ve just been for the first time, was good fun, be keeping my eye on the Scottish forum for future events

But mine is in swingers club discussions!!

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over a year ago

"I’ve just been for the first time, was good fun, be keeping my eye on the Scottish forum for future events

Well done mucker, glad I enjoyed yourself after all this time not venturing

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I’ve just been for the first time, was good fun, be keeping my eye on the Scottish forum for future events

But mine is in swingers club discussions!!

You've obviously rattled the wrong cage

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

"I’ve just been for the first time, was good fun, be keeping my eye on the Scottish forum for future events

But mine is in swingers club discussions!!

You've obviously rattled the wrong cage

No rattling being done at my end.... Of any kind!

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

By the maxim that folk seem to be saying any place that has a club should have their own area of forum. ie manchester forums......blackpool forums ......newcastle forums. also why not advertise other buisnesses. sorry find out whos going by dropping the name of your preffered shopping establishments with reviews on who you met and how great asda can be on vegtable only night. (Or any other buisness would get kinda busy if everyone did this dont you think).

I dont even think fab should allow a club section infact fab should maybe look at it as a revenue stream with any club wanting a mention in the club section having to pay an advertisment subscription. Maybe even booking tabs with % discounts for booking through fab.

Fab will do what it feels is right if thats moving it to club section and folk try to bypass it by using diffrent post titles be prepared for the ban hammer as your flaunting fabs rules

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

There seems to be a bit of confusion. The regional sections of the forum have always been allowed to have meet / event and club threads in them. Some people did complain not long ago so this forum was asked did you want all those type of threads to be put in the other sections with the chance of them being lost in there and the majority said they wanted them left in here, so that's where they stayed.

The CJ thing does seem to get a good few threads asking whether people are going or not or for advice so maybe as a compromise someone start a " Anything related to CJ's" thread where anyone can post to if needed? If that gets full up part 2 etc after that.

Any thoughts on that?

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

"I’ve just been for the first time, was good fun, be keeping my eye on the Scottish forum for future events

But mine is in swingers club discussions!!

Sorry pringles, I guess we don't go in there much as Scotland has so few clubs, but....

at least we now know why there's a bit of discussion about where CJ threads should go lol

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"There seems to be a bit of confusion. The regional sections of the forum have always been allowed to have meet / event and club threads in them. Some people did complain not long ago so this forum was asked did you want all those type of threads to be put in the other sections with the chance of them being lost in there and the majority said they wanted them left in here, so that's where they stayed.

Any thoughts on that?"
sounds like the best of a bad lot never saw a post asking folks thoughts on allowing clubs in regions.

would be helpful now though

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Any thoughts on that?"

Yep think the one thread is a great idea, that way people aren’t gonna get bothered n annoyed with the numerous threads

K x

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

Any thoughts on that?

Yep think the one thread is a great idea, that way people aren’t gonna get bothered n annoyed with the numerous threads

K x"

They've got no reason to be annoyed by a few threads that doesn't interest or concern them. And don't see them originating many posts, they only seem to turn other people's threads negative x

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Any thoughts on that?

Yep think the one thread is a great idea, that way people aren’t gonna get bothered n annoyed with the numerous threads

K x

They've got no reason to be annoyed by a few threads that doesn't interest or concern them. And don't see them originating many posts, they only seem to turn other people's threads negative x"

They obv feel they do have a reason... this way there’s no moaning and the thread stays in this forum instead of scrolling through loads of threads to find it in another one

K x

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

sounds like the best of a bad lot never saw a post asking folks thoughts on allowing clubs in regions.

It isn't a club advert, it is talking about the club by posters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a Scottish club so therefore it should stay on the Scottish forum and I'm with the others who say that cj's should have it's own "anything related to cj's". It makes sense after all

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Just to be clear, the suggestion was for posters to post anything related to CJ's ie, when people are going/ wearing etc

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Any thoughts on that?

Yep think the one thread is a great idea, that way people aren’t gonna get bothered n annoyed with the numerous threads

K x"

I agree good compromise in my opinion.

Not sure it's gonna be useful for those allergic to the words Club, CJs or After8 lol

But a good idea i think

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Just to be clear, the suggestion was for posters to post anything related to CJ's ie, when people are going/ wearing etc"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will it stop the 5 posts on whos going ?

I doubt it

Wouldnt say it bothers me that much to start a post but i did agree that multiple posts on the same topic gets a tad boring.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"Will it stop the 5 posts on whos going ?

Yes

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By *eADevilCouple
over a year ago

Blantyre

No it wont and why should it ? I and a lot of others like to pop into the scotland forum and see whos going to the club. Its anything but an advertisement its normal people looking to meet other normal people through a conversation that will possibly lead to a club meet. Similarly with a coffee meet before a play meet. Is everyone forgetting the troll that caused this issue left the site . He will start a new account and tell all the people that organise the socials they should be in the 'meet' section , i know a few of the people who dont go to clubs agreed with moving the club posts but will they agree to stop posting about upcoming socials ?? I bet that wont go down well. Where will it end ??? Scotland events and socials in the SCOTLAND forum for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The troll as you put it wasnt bothered about the club posts...it was a point about being 3 4 or 5 of the same post about the same thing?

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By *eADevilCouple
over a year ago

Blantyre

"The troll as you put it wasnt bothered about the club posts...it was a point about being 3 4 or 5 of the same post about the same thing?"

You attend socials that are advertised in the Scotland forum. Are you going to complain if 2 or 3 others advertise thier socials in the wrong place also. ?? Should be in the meet invitation and party sections of Fab . Personally i dont mind but you seem to be very determined to support the origal OPS point about clubs so im interested on your viewpoint on socials.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When a post gets too big fair play start another

But do we really need multiple posts on the same topic?

Just my opinion.

It wont stop the guy was just stating tbe obvvious

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By *eADevilCouple
over a year ago

Blantyre

"When a post gets too big fair play start another

But do we really need multiple posts on the same topic?

Just my opinion.

It wont stop the guy was just stating tbe obvvious"

Ahh but it was forcibly stopped by admin moving some of the threads , thats the point it really wasnt doing any harm as people could just pass over the posts they were not interested in . My question was how would you feel if all the social events chat were moved to a crowded uk section, or more importantly the organisers of these events, how would they feel . We all live in scotland and four posts a week on clubs or questions on clubs i dont feel is excessive in the scotland area of Fab

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By *eADevilCouple
over a year ago

Blantyre

Any thoughts on that?

Yep think the one thread is a great idea, that way people aren’t gonna get bothered n annoyed with the numerous threads

K x"

Bearded i dont get why we should cater for 1 or 2 that get bothered or annoyed with numerous similar threads. Like i say where do you stop bowing down to 1 or 2 soor pusses lol. Tired of seeing face pic friday or whats wrong with my profile or why cant i get a meet etc etc but they are hugely participated by other fab members so its not my right to say ahhh the same old threads, away and throw them in the uk forum section as i cant be bothered skipping past them to a new topic. Again if the topic is not to your taste theres loads of other posts daily to enjoy.

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Any thoughts on that?

Yep think the one thread is a great idea, that way people aren’t gonna get bothered n annoyed with the numerous threads

K x

It isn’t our decision therefore I thought it was a better compromise as opposed to having to trawl through the numerous threads on the other forum. I took it from the mods post that’s what they were offering but as others have said doubt it will happen.

There are many posts on here that I don’t participate in or I roll my eyes but they don’t bother me enough to start a thread or report to get rid of them

K x

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

I took it from the mods post that’s what they were offering but as others have said doubt it will happen.

It will

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By *eADevilCouple
over a year ago

Blantyre

I took it from the mods post that’s what they were offering but as others have said doubt it will happen.

It will

Im guessing your 1 of the mods ?.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

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By *eADevilCouple
over a year ago

Blantyre

Really ? Thats cool i thought you moved among us like silent assassins lol . Genuinely thought you were kept undisclosed. Will need to go back and re-read your posts now lol. Make sure i never said anything bad .

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By *imbo57Man
over a year ago

kilmarnock ish

I took it from the mods post that’s what they were offering but as others have said doubt it will happen.

It will

So decision made regardless what we scottish cjs attendees think would be good for us ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When a post gets too big fair play start another

But do we really need multiple posts on the same topic?

Just my opinion.

It wont stop the guy was just stating tbe obvvious

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

I don't see how one thread would work. It would be full in no time and you're scrolling through endless threads to find out who's coming on the date you're planning on being there.

But seems most of you are happy to go for it, so guess that'll be the way to go then.

Shame 2 or 3 people managed to shove this down our throats against 100s of people who use the club threads x

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

I took it from the mods post that’s what they were offering but as others have said doubt it will happen.

It will

So decision made regardless what we scottish cjs attendees think would be good for us ? "

If you read the context of the persons post I quoted you will see what I was answering.

However from a mods point of view, too many threads on the same subject is not allowed on any other section of the forum so will be put together anyway from now on.

Now all we need is someone to start a thread for all things CJ's and all things After8 and we are good to go

Anyone who uses the clubs want to start each thread?

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

I took it from the mods post that’s what they were offering but as others have said doubt it will happen.

It will

So decision made regardless what we scottish cjs attendees think would be good for us ?

If you read the context of the persons post I quoted you will see what I was answering.

However from a mods point of view, too many threads on the same subject is not allowed on any other section of the forum so will be put together anyway from now on.

Now all we need is someone to start a thread for all things CJ's and all things After8 and we are good to go

Anyone who uses the clubs want to start each thread?"

CJs done. Grudgingly

Thanks for stepping in though Mod. This would've ended up a mess for sure.

See how this goes for a while, but swingers club discussions might still be an option, if this isn't clear or won't work x

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

I took it from the mods post that’s what they were offering but as others have said doubt it will happen.

It will

So decision made regardless what we scottish cjs attendees think would be good for us ?

If you read the context of the persons post I quoted you will see what I was answering.

However from a mods point of view, too many threads on the same subject is not allowed on any other section of the forum so will be put together anyway from now on.

Now all we need is someone to start a thread for all things CJ's and all things After8 and we are good to go

Anyone who uses the clubs want to start each thread?

CJs done. Grudgingly

Thanks for stepping in though Mod. This would've ended up a mess for sure.

See how this goes for a while, but swingers club discussions might still be an option, if this isn't clear or won't work x"

Well done you two for getting something sorted

And Pringles,,,, You're a star lol

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

CJs done. Grudgingly

Thanks for stepping in though Mod. This would've ended up a mess for sure.

See how this goes for a while, but swingers club discussions might still be an option, if this isn't clear or won't work x"

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over a year ago

I took it from the mods post that’s what they were offering but as others have said doubt it will happen.

It will

So decision made regardless what we scottish cjs attendees think would be good for us ?

If you read the context of the persons post I quoted you will see what I was answering.

However from a mods point of view, too many threads on the same subject is not allowed on any other section of the forum so will be put together anyway from now on.

Now all we need is someone to start a thread for all things CJ's and all things After8 and we are good to go

Anyone who uses the clubs want to start each thread?"

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over a year ago

Maybe when you post about Cj's or A8 you put the date in the heading like ( 30th Dec who's attending ) and if people are going along that day then all can converse on that post and once that date has passed it gets closed and a new one starts the same way that way the post will not get too too long and lose the subject matter .

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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Good idea

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

Totally lost me now. That's what we've been doing all this time, a thread per date. Should we go back to that then? It would make things so much easier

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

"Maybe when you post about Cj's or A8 you put the date in the heading like ( 30th Dec who's attending ) and if people are going along that day then all can converse on that post and once that date has passed it gets closed and a new one starts the same way that way the post will not get too too long and lose the subject matter .

That’s what already happened!

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Not really, there were MANY people writing same dates. I was just saying it was a good idea for the one thread, but let's run with what you are doing for now to see how it works. It works now for people talking about clubs in the discussion section , we are just trying to keep it in the Scottish section so they don't get lost for you all

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

"Not really, there were MANY people writing same dates. I was just saying it was a good idea for the one thread, but let's run with what you are doing for now to see how it works. It works now for people talking about clubs in the discussion section , we are just trying to keep it in the Scottish section so they don't get lost for you all

So if this one thread per club doesn't work out, we could go back to a thread per date?

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

So if this one thread per club doesn't work out, we could go back to a thread per date? "

The duplicate dates are more from new people, just finding their way around the forum and the clubs. Doesn't happen all that often, does it? x

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By *imbo57Man
over a year ago

kilmarnock ish

So if this one thread per club doesn't work out, we could go back to a thread per date?

The duplicate dates are more from new people, just finding their way around the forum and the clubs. Doesn't happen all that often, does it? x"

We are not all pc literate

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

So if this one thread per club doesn't work out, we could go back to a thread per date?

The duplicate dates are more from new people, just finding their way around the forum and the clubs. Doesn't happen all that often, does it? x"

Sadly yes it does. Let's stick with the all things threads for now, see how it goes.

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By *eADevilCouple
over a year ago

Blantyre

"Totally lost me now. That's what we've been doing all this time, a thread per date. Should we go back to that then? It would make things so much easier"

Agreed thats pretty much the way it always was. And definitely agree it was mostly new people that were unfamiliar with navigating the threads that started/wanted club reassurance. That wont change. Mod cant you see from our point of view it was a real minority that the multiple threads were mentioned by. Most people that will use the single thread idea already new how to skip past threads they had no interest in anyway. But happy to use 1 thread idea but a week from now my guess is back to the norm lol . Ps mod did not know you guys even responded like this ? Nice to see an open discussion on an issue. Actually really good you anounced your presence

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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Ps mod did not know you guys even responded like this ? Nice to see an open discussion on an issue. Actually really good you anounced your presence

If it comes to a solution where the majority is happy then it makes for a better Scottish forum.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

PS as the New Year threads have already started mods will leave them on as it will be over soon

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

"PS as the New Year threads have already started mods will leave them on as it will be over soon"

Fair enough. I won't report them then

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