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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does a man's physique put you off from getting in contact with him on fab.

I've recently been chatting to a lady and she said she only replied because I sent her a wink.

I just wondered ifor any other women felt the same

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I'm afraid I've never contacted anyone before & rarely respond to winks.

I suppose an initial pic is all you have to go on ......

R

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually look at guys verifications if they are physically fit and see what their type is. If they are into Barbie dolls then I don't bother making contact with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does a man's physique put you off from getting in contact with him on fab.

I've recently been chatting to a lady and she said she only replied because I sent her a wink.

I just wondered ifor any other women felt the same "

Did she tell you that your physique put her off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does a man's physique put you off from getting in contact with him on fab.

I've recently been chatting to a lady and she said she only replied because I sent her a wink.

I just wondered ifor any other women felt the same "

Yes, kinda. I'm more likely to go for a dad bod over someone who is ripped 'cause I'd feel more confident about my own body with the dad bod. And that's the truth (unfortunately).

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Nope, if I'm interested in someone I'll mail them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If their profile catches my eye ill mail them. Wouldnt let someones shape or size put me off.

I prefer to see if we click with personality . Not to say id shag someone im not attracted to though there does need to be an initial attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone is totally ripped it would make me feel inferior. But that's my problem I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

I need to lose a fair amount of weight, so am of the opinion that a gym fit guy wouldn't be interested in me, or if he is that he sees me as easy prey.

L x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does a man's physique put you off from getting in contact with him on fab.

I've recently been chatting to a lady and she said she only replied because I sent her a wink.

I just wondered ifor any other women felt the same

Yes, kinda. I'm more likely to go for a dad bod over someone who is ripped 'cause I'd feel more confident about my own body with the dad bod. And that's the truth (unfortunately)."

Me too and if their veris are all with thin girls then I’m going to feel too self conscious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think you're all missing the point of this thread ladies. You're supposed to be messaging the OP....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does a man's physique put you off from getting in contact with him on fab.

I've recently been chatting to a lady and she said she only replied because I sent her a wink.

I just wondered ifor any other women felt the same

Did she tell you that your physique put her off?"

No she thought I wouldn't have been interested in her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does a man's physique put you off from getting in contact with him on fab.

I've recently been chatting to a lady and she said she only replied because I sent her a wink.

I just wondered ifor any other women felt the same

Did she tell you that your physique put her off?

No she thought I wouldn't have been interested in her "

That makes your original question all the more confusing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they look like they belong on a magazine cover, it's a no from me.

You'd always be comparing yourself to him physically and feeling inferior. Plus I don't actually find it attractive.

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By *arried adventurers!Couple
over a year ago

North Lanarkshire


"Does a man's physique put you off from getting in contact with him on fab.

I've recently been chatting to a lady and she said she only replied because I sent her a wink.

I just wondered ifor any other women felt the same "

What did she say was wrong with your physique? You look fine. Don’t worry about what other people think of you xx

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By *ixieandfairyCouple
over a year ago

St Helier

I have to find the guys body attractive, for me, he has to have a fit body. However, having said that, if he has no intelligence or conversation, then it would be a no.

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By *ngelkDevilCouple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Does a man's physique put you off from getting in contact with him on fab.

I've recently been chatting to a lady and she said she only replied because I sent her a wink.

I just wondered ifor any other women felt the same "

So no it doesn't put me off if I like his face and personality that is better. But on a women's point yes I only reply to a wink or message cause I am not interested in trawling through guys profiles. If he has took the time to look at my profile and I like the look of the person and the veris are ok I will reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more likely to respond to someone with broad shoulders and soft stomach than someone with a 6 pack or very slim built, it's just personal preference. This is sex, while personality is important, I need to be attracted to the person initially.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will do great on here billy,you have a great physique and your posts are getting your photos noticed. I'm sure your petrol bill per month is going to increase.

Michael.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You will do great on here billy,you have a great physique and your posts are getting your photos noticed. I'm sure your petrol bill per month is going to increase.

Michael."

Hope your right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look forward to meeting you in January billy boy

Mmmmmmmmm .....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I look forward to meeting you in January billy boy

Mmmmmmmmm ....."

Me tooooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some wink that are way out of ny league so I don't reply back maybe I should I don't know

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some wink that are way out of ny league so I don't reply back maybe I should I don't know "

You should definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe I will

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I prefer tall, toned men but a nice smile and great personality work wonders too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think you're all missing the point of this thread ladies. You're supposed to be messaging the OP.... "

Pmsl. Yeah he's quite right.

Some people use the forums to get people interested but a woman the post is looking to interest, it may put others off. But it's his post, his idea so go for it.

Some girls on this thread said it put her off with a guy if he has a great physic from contacting him but what the female needs to know, what is shes wanting. The guy might be more interesting than his body. You do not know if you try and find out. He might not be as ass even if he knows he is in physical shape but then again he might be. No woman should ever be put off because she thinks the guy is in top physical shape. He's just a guy like all guys, some are interesting n what you want now and then and some are not but you will never know until you try and sample.

I have had meets where the girl has wanted me because of my body but I do admit it's a nice feeling but I still wouldn't have met unless I knew there would have been some sort if connection, but that's me. Fuck I've had meets where the girl has enjoyed watching me undress, (I can easily make a simmer frame look sexy as it's thrown to a floor.)

Am I fit, yet fecking dammed tooting I am, do I want all nighters, oh yes I do. I also want to know what my meet wants, what stimulates them what gets them going physically and in the mind so hopefully I'm more of an enjoyment for them as well as me during a social or a sexy fun meet.

I like to think I have left an impression with every meet I have ever had and not just because of my body, they say so but do we ever know what a woman really thinks. I've never been blocked after a meet so that's a start

All I can say is, girls never let a mans physical shape think he is too good for you. I've never done that with any woman and never will.

Merry Xmas to you all

XxX. Peter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good body that’s in shape does peek my interest. But personality does the rest and seals the deal. Very rarely get both on here

Found the ones with great bodies don’t put much effort / chat it! Presume it’s they don’t feel they need to. The ones with average bodies try harder with the chat. They are more interesting and engaging x

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By *eahWoman
over a year ago

full of numpties

I’ve been messaged by some absolutely mouth watering hotties sexy young Billy being one of them and I must admit I do look at the pics of the sender and think god why on earth would this handsome young fit guy be interested in a wee short chubby old woman lol .... but I’ve spoken with billy and his personality is as gorgeous as the rest of him for sure .... just need to organise that social lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think you're all missing the point of this thread ladies. You're supposed to be messaging the OP....

Pmsl. Yeah he's quite right.

Some people use the forums to get people interested but a woman the post is looking to interest, it may put others off. But it's his post, his idea so go for it.

Some girls on this thread said it put her off with a guy if he has a great physic from contacting him but what the female needs to know, what is shes wanting. The guy might be more interesting than his body. You do not know if you try and find out. He might not be as ass even if he knows he is in physical shape but then again he might be. No woman should ever be put off because she thinks the guy is in top physical shape. He's just a guy like all guys, some are interesting n what you want now and then and some are not but you will never know until you try and sample.

I have had meets where the girl has wanted me because of my body but I do admit it's a nice feeling but I still wouldn't have met unless I knew there would have been some sort if connection, but that's me. Fuck I've had meets where the girl has enjoyed watching me undress, (I can easily make a simmer frame look sexy as it's thrown to a floor.)

Am I fit, yet fecking dammed tooting I am, do I want all nighters, oh yes I do. I also want to know what my meet wants, what stimulates them what gets them going physically and in the mind so hopefully I'm more of an enjoyment for them as well as me during a social or a sexy fun meet.

I like to think I have left an impression with every meet I have ever had and not just because of my body, they say so but do we ever know what a woman really thinks. I've never been blocked after a meet so that's a start

All I can say is, girls never let a mans physical shape think he is too good for you. I've never done that with any woman and never will.

Merry Xmas to you all

XxX. Peter"

Wow,that's one confident post.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Think you're all missing the point of this thread ladies. You're supposed to be messaging the OP....

Pmsl. Yeah he's quite right.

Some people use the forums to get people interested but a woman the post is looking to interest, it may put others off. But it's his post, his idea so go for it.

Some girls on this thread said it put her off with a guy if he has a great physic from contacting him but what the female needs to know, what is shes wanting. The guy might be more interesting than his body. You do not know if you try and find out. He might not be as ass even if he knows he is in physical shape but then again he might be. No woman should ever be put off because she thinks the guy is in top physical shape. He's just a guy like all guys, some are interesting n what you want now and then and some are not but you will never know until you try and sample.

I have had meets where the girl has wanted me because of my body but I do admit it's a nice feeling but I still wouldn't have met unless I knew there would have been some sort if connection, but that's me. Fuck I've had meets where the girl has enjoyed watching me undress, (I can easily make a simmer frame look sexy as it's thrown to a floor.)

Am I fit, yet fecking dammed tooting I am, do I want all nighters, oh yes I do. I also want to know what my meet wants, what stimulates them what gets them going physically and in the mind so hopefully I'm more of an enjoyment for them as well as me during a social or a sexy fun meet.

I like to think I have left an impression with every meet I have ever had and not just because of my body, they say so but do we ever know what a woman really thinks. I've never been blocked after a meet so that's a start

All I can say is, girls never let a mans physical shape think he is too good for you. I've never done that with any woman and never will.

Merry Xmas to you all

XxX. Peter"

Spot on Peter

Have a good one pal

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ve been messaged by some absolutely mouth watering hotties sexy young Billy being one of them and I must admit I do look at the pics of the sender and think god why on earth would this handsome young fit guy be interested in a wee short chubby old woman lol .... but I’ve spoken with billy and his personality is as gorgeous as the rest of him for sure .... just need to organise that social lol x"

The quicker the better woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A good body that’s in shape does peek my interest. But personality does the rest and seals the deal. Very rarely get both on here

Found the ones with great bodies don’t put much effort / chat it! Presume it’s they don’t feel they need to. The ones with average bodies try harder with the chat. They are more interesting and engaging x "

This too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think you're all missing the point of this thread ladies. You're supposed to be messaging the OP....

Pmsl. Yeah he's quite right.

Some people use the forums to get people interested but a woman the post is looking to interest, it may put others off. But it's his post, his idea so go for it.

Some girls on this thread said it put her off with a guy if he has a great physic from contacting him but what the female needs to know, what is shes wanting. The guy might be more interesting than his body. You do not know if you try and find out. He might not be as ass even if he knows he is in physical shape but then again he might be. No woman should ever be put off because she thinks the guy is in top physical shape. He's just a guy like all guys, some are interesting n what you want now and then and some are not but you will never know until you try and sample.

I have had meets where the girl has wanted me because of my body but I do admit it's a nice feeling but I still wouldn't have met unless I knew there would have been some sort if connection, but that's me. Fuck I've had meets where the girl has enjoyed watching me undress, (I can easily make a simmer frame look sexy as it's thrown to a floor.)

Am I fit, yet fecking dammed tooting I am, do I want all nighters, oh yes I do. I also want to know what my meet wants, what stimulates them what gets them going physically and in the mind so hopefully I'm more of an enjoyment for them as well as me during a social or a sexy fun meet.

I like to think I have left an impression with every meet I have ever had and not just because of my body, they say so but do we ever know what a woman really thinks. I've never been blocked after a meet so that's a start

All I can say is, girls never let a mans physical shape think he is too good for you. I've never done that with any woman and never will.

Merry Xmas to you all

XxX. Peter

Wow,that's one confident post."

Thank fir your kind comments but nope, It"s just an honest one. I don't say things or put things down to smooth it over. I just say it the way I see it. I Don't need anyone to agree or disagree it's there so people know my views. But I never intend to offend and if I have them I'm sorry, it's never my intention

XxX. Peter

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