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By *ackson599 OP   Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Any thoughts

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By *rs T and HubbyCouple
over a year ago

somewhere north of the border..

Yes....manners and a polite approach goes further than an abrupt offer any day...

Good personality may even get a repeat meet..

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By *ackson599 OP   Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Yeah I think so aswell manners and being polite don’t cost a thing but very valuable too

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By *nvercoupleCouple
over a year ago

Inverness

Just because I sometimes have sex with other men doesn't mean I'm not picky. Personality is probably the most important thing for me. Xx

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By *ackson599 OP   Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Yeah exactly that’s true I think so too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course it is!!

Yes attraction is 1st and foremost with me but im not into meeting just for the sake of it...far from it

I need to know we will get on also

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By *ackson599 OP   Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Thank you I agree it just seems the opposite on here well maybe just me then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ever since 1993 I understand that "personality goes a long way"

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Yes personality is important on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you I agree it just seems the opposite on here well maybe just me then lol"

I don't think it's much to do with your personality if that's what you're trying to say. Most women read profiles before even opening a message. Your profile is bare apart from having "L"

But yes I say personality is a very big turn on for me

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By *is vixen at playCouple
over a year ago

Dundee

Of course it matters, otherwise no connection at all. Dont need to be best buddies but at least comfortable with them.

Unless it a cum n go meet. G

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any thoughts"

Yes it does. Not many people have 1 though sadly

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

No personality no meet, simples

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Personality goes a long way but still has to be looks and physically attraction to start with

John

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attraction is very important as I wouldn't want to have fun with someone I'm not attracted to. It's not about being fussy, it's about being able to click with someone and fancy that person, then the personality shines through x

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

I think everyone would say personality matters; seduce the body through the mind

However, I'm not model material, so i get skipped over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh ffs personality and looks matter.

That's me well fecked. I'll get ma coat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course it does. Not much point if you’re hot as fuck but a total arsewipe. Plenty people outside of fab land like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on what your looking for really. If youre not up for getting to know someone and your just after uncomplicated, no strings, unbridled sex then I guess personality doesn’t really matter.

Whereas on the other hand if you need a connection and some chemistry prior to getting any of the above then you would have to get to know a bit about the other person and then that’s when personality matters.

You could be gods gift to look at but if there’s no sparks then there’s no nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can be awkward if there's nowt to say after sex.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Yeah. I need somebody to satisfy my mind, body and soul.

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By *onkeymagic50Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour

Personality is always 2nd choice on here ,you could shine like a bright star and be the nicest politest funny person on fab ,but if you look like the back end of a cows arse it no going to get either males or females a meet ( of course there are exceptions to the rule if persons would sleep with body that barely has a pulse and ready for cremation)but moat of the time looks come 1st

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Id say not personality as such but the ability to brown nose will see ya far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah,I prefer meets not to talk anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There defo would need to be a physical attraction and have to click x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course

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By *SophiexCouple
over a year ago

Kilmarnock

yes to an extent but I have played a lot with a not very bright young man on here for the last 5 years... his personality is challenging but he has a fantastic body and a 9 inch thick cock so maybe personality is not that important sometimes

sorry but sometimes needs must xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes to an extent but I have played a lot with a not very bright young man on here for the last 5 years... his personality is challenging but he has a fantastic body and a 9 inch thick cock so maybe personality is not that important sometimes

sorry but sometimes needs must xxx"

Well said if that's how you feel then stick by it but for me I think this is so sad.

If the person has a crap personality and she is stunning I still will have no interest what so ever. I have a great time on fab but I want stimulated not just in body but in my fecking small mind

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By *earded villainMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

yup this 100%

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By *e_frenchMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

Interesting topic.

May be some people prefers a physical connection only...

Other people are looking for a stronger personality and like have a stronger friendship with them.

Each to their own

X

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

I hope so...its my only half decent feature...I think

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

My personality works for me, otherwise I’d be a Fab virgin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting topic.

May be some people prefers a physical connection only...

Other people are looking for a stronger personality and like have a stronger friendship with them.

Each to their own

X"

yes I agree, each to their own and an interesting subject but I am expressing I do think its sad but then again the person with no personality is prob on the way to 'hit the jackpot' lollllll

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Course it does! Could be absolutely stunning and have a personality of a wet fish.... Wouldn't meet them!

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By *arroness NikkiWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yes it matters

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

It most certainly does ...I'd be fecked without it

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Absolutely!

R

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By *SophiexCouple
over a year ago

Kilmarnock


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...but for me I think this is so sad..."

Your opinion is valid but I don't see what's sad about it... the young man in question is happy, the sex is great so everyone's a winner and no one is sad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes....manners and a polite approach goes further than an abrupt offer any day...

Good personality may even get a repeat meet.."

That approach isn’t serving me well at all. I even came into the forum asking for profile advice. No joy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes....manners and a polite approach goes further than an abrupt offer any day...

Good personality may even get a repeat meet..

That approach isn’t serving me well at all. I even came into the forum asking for profile advice. No joy "

Advice I followed to the letter I might add

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By *SophiexCouple
over a year ago

Kilmarnock


"...I even came into the forum asking for profile advice. No joy "

Probably cause it's almost a weekly event for guys to ask for profile advice... I assume that's what the problem was.

Profile advice: Remember your on a website with 29999 other single males all chasing about 2000 females/couples interested in males... your profile and photos have to stick out from the crowd to be a real success on here would be my advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me 100%

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By *onkeymagic50Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour


"Yes....manners and a polite approach goes further than an abrupt offer any day...

Good personality may even get a repeat meet..

That approach isn’t serving me well at all. I even came into the forum asking for profile advice. No joy

Advice I followed to the letter I might add "

Send lots and lots off dick pics and keep messaging when they said no .also don't forget to use the sky remote as a comparison

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes....manners and a polite approach goes further than an abrupt offer any day...

Good personality may even get a repeat meet..

That approach isn’t serving me well at all. I even came into the forum asking for profile advice. No joy

Advice I followed to the letter I might add

Send lots and lots off dick pics and keep messaging when they said no .also don't forget to use the sky remote as a comparison "

So, you’re telling me to do the exact opposite of what EVERY SINGLE WOMAN has suggested I do? How’s that working for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality goes a long way, as does good manners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Majority of people on here don’t have a personality

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By *onkeymagic50Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour


"Majority of people on here don’t have a personality "

Or humour or know when someone using sarcastic humour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Majority of people on here don’t have a personality

Or humour or know when someone using sarcastic humour "

As messages are well known for conveying tone, of course. How silly of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Course it matters. If someone doesn't spark my interest within the first 2 messages or so then they will be dinghyed....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Course it matters. If someone doesn't spark my interest within the first 2 messages or so then they will be dinghyed...."

Definitely my thoughts exactly,no point if you can't a decent conversation after the fun .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Course it matters. If someone doesn't spark my interest within the first 2 messages or so then they will be dinghyed....

Definitely my thoughts exactly,no point if you can't a decent conversation after the fun ."

Mr says I'm too nice in real life so this place is allowing me to unleash my inner bitch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Course it matters. If someone doesn't spark my interest within the first 2 messages or so then they will be dinghyed....

Definitely my thoughts exactly,no point if you can't a decent conversation after the fun .

Mr says I'm too nice in real life so this place is allowing me to unleash my inner bitch "

Well, bitch! Lol. Talk to me.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Course it matters. If someone doesn't spark my interest within the first 2 messages or so then they will be dinghyed....

Definitely my thoughts exactly,no point if you can't a decent conversation after the fun .

Mr says I'm too nice in real life so this place is allowing me to unleash my inner bitch "

Well, bitch! Lol. Talk to me.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Course it matters. If someone doesn't spark my interest within the first 2 messages or so then they will be dinghyed....

Definitely my thoughts exactly,no point if you can't a decent conversation after the fun .

Mr says I'm too nice in real life so this place is allowing me to unleash my inner bitch

Well, bitch! Lol. Talk to me....."

You need to piss me off first...have a feeling it won't be difficult....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Course it matters. If someone doesn't spark my interest within the first 2 messages or so then they will be dinghyed....

Definitely my thoughts exactly,no point if you can't a decent conversation after the fun .

Mr says I'm too nice in real life so this place is allowing me to unleash my inner bitch

Well, bitch! Lol. Talk to me!

You need to piss me off first...have a feeling it won't be difficult.... "

I’m actually too nice for that shit, I do apologise

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over a year ago

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