FabSwingers.com forum: fake profiles

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

hi do you think the site is getting as bad as it was a few mounths ago for fake profiles i for one think that the site is getting very bad for fake profiles some profiles i have seen have been members for over a year now and still no meets i myself have offred some new members to verify them only to be told later or wife not here ect ??what can the site do to ensure that new members or old members are true couples and not single guys pretending to be couples or single fems ,,,what about a phone call from the fem to say they are gen like some other sites do ?? well what ever happens these fakes need to be booted and put to rest,,,mag,z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think site is trying to at least avoid the fakes, but we don`t bother with anyone who has been on this for over a few months without having at least 2 verified people having seen them in meets or at least cam, but like everything else people find ways to get under the net,D&A xx

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess

"hi do you think the site is getting as bad as it was a few mounths ago for fake profiles i for one think that the site is getting very bad for fake profiles some profiles i have seen have been members for over a year now and still no meets i myself have offred some new members to verify them only to be told later or wife not here ect ??what can the site do to ensure that new members or old members are true couples and not single guys pretending to be couples or single fems ,,,what about a phone call from the fem to say they are gen like some other sites do ?? well what ever happens these fakes need to be booted and put to rest,,,mag,z"

Offering to verify 'couples' you haven't actually met and played with only makes the problem worse.

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By *ojomanMan
over a year ago

Loch Lomond

Your spot on Jim, i don't think people should be verified by phone, cam or god even meeting for a coffee, what does that proof their alive nothing else, they could be the worst timewaster out there, as for cams no better, all a guy has to do is find a female friend up for a laugh one night, ply her with drink and bobs your uncle its a couple - no its not its a guy who used a female friend, then there is verified by phone, again the female could be anyone, the only way to be verified is that you met someone and fucked, that way there real, and their into the fun, maybe the site could have all the different kind of verification on your profile then that way you chose to meet someone who is verified by phone, or cam I at your peril,lol as many say on here just my 2p worth,lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your spot on Jim, i don't think people should be verified by phone, cam or god even meeting for a coffee, what does that proof their alive nothing else, they could be the worst timewaster out there, as for cams no better, all a guy has to do is find a female friend up for a laugh one night, ply her with drink and bobs your uncle its a couple - no its not its a guy who used a female friend, then there is verified by phone, again the female could be anyone, the only way to be verified is that you met someone and fucked, that way there real, and their into the fun, maybe the site could have all the different kind of verification on your profile then that way you chose to meet someone who is verified by phone, or cam I at your peril,lol as many say on here just my 2p worth,lol

It already does say what type of verification it is on the profile.

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By *anictechCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow - ish ;-)

Agreed, cam or a call only verifies that a woman is talking or is currently there at that moment. Even meeting for a coffee only verifies that they are a couple that likes a coffee.

For actual swing the only way that we will be verified as being what we claim, is for someone to actually play with us intimately.

Personally I read the verifications & dont just look at the ticks, we know what we are looking for and its not a coffee.

MT x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it be good if yeh get the users to talk to u no just read or delete

if u find any fakes just report them

would say about 60% of new users are fakes

due to the above

I no i send nice mail 2 them 2 welcome them etc you get nout back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it be good if yeh get the users to talk to u no just read or delete

if u find any fakes just report them

would say about 60% of new users are fakes

due to the above

I no i send nice mail 2 them 2 welcome them etc you get nout back"

to be honest, I think looking at the new

females and couples and hitting them with a welcome message may be a nice gesture, but bear in mind many, many, many and a few more many's other guys do it as well.... = new female receiving 100+ welcome messages in the first 24 hours and prob 40+ friends

request..... may be a nice gesture but probably overwhelming to the receiver..

my 2p worth...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think too many guys don't see the social aspect of swinging. I am not trying to suggest that everyone on the site should have to attend a coffee morning. It just helps other folk to see that these people have bothered to meet folks.

I can't say I have been to many socials but they are certainly a helping hand at ing out the fakes.

Although this isn't a perfect system if folks had to be recommended for the site it might help to people out. I know I came to fab through a friend's recommendation so that might be one way? xx

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By *llyandjimCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

We may be one of the couples that you are talking about, we have been on here for more than a year, and haven't as yet met any other couple or bi fem to play with.

We have however chatted to many nice people on here and at the few socials we have been to.

Allthough I have had great hot times with fems on other sites, my man is new to all this good naughty fun, so we are only looking for soft swing to ease him in gently so we have had a look for other soft swing couples and had no success at all. Most want to swap

I do say on my profile that if you don't have pics don't bother me. Bad move maybe, as no-one is bothering me at all but i was getting really hacked off with the endless emails and the excuses on why they cant send pics. I have been on the chat room but it is far too fast for me as i still only use 1 finger to type with and cant keep up. I wont give up as i do enjoy my hobby lol but wont even meet for coffee until we swap pics. Dont want to ask every one I have chatted to at the socials I have been to, to leave a verification - that's just a bit sad. But then again it is a bit sad that i like to lick pussy and cant find any, on this site!!!

So what do you suggest ?

Ally

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By *anictechCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow - ish ;-)

Nothing wrong with soft swing if thats all you guys want, go for it.

The important people here is "YOU" both its what you want. As long as profile states clearly then im sure you will be approached for that.

Think what original poster meant was full swingers non verified after a long time.

Personally why send a picture at all until you have established a rapport?

We have had mail saying they wont even so much as engage in conversation unless we send facial pics. We just pass on them. If someone cant be bothered to so much as talk to us, what chance is there of any erotic naughty fun?

Good luck tho, stick with it am sure you will find what your looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We think putting names to faces and chatting at socials is our prefered way of knowing how genuine folk are.Who knows,it might not work for others,but at least you can meet face to face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yup we could be classed in that group of people that have not met up with many folk. and also its usually the male on line a the female works long shifts but always decides who and when we meet anyone.and as the male works from home is at the pc most of the time So guilty as charged.

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By *anictechCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow - ish ;-)

ok fair do's but do u need to see us facially? str8 off? BTW we ofered web camming and opening photos within msn, still isnt enough..

Sorry folks we been around the block we are wary.

Is it too much to ask a few emails to confirm were on same wave legnth? Has conversation that much ?

The photo requests are asked for before chat to me thats plain stupid.

Regards MT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think that new accounts should only go live once they have been verified, either by photo or by another verified user.

on a note to something i read above, why the fuck shouldnt meeting for a coffee or cam be a way of verifying???

i think it is damn unlikely for a guy to play on cam with a girl who is not his partner, and at the same time be on here while they are camming saying she is just to get a verification. what would he say 'hold on hen, im really a sad perv so help me out for a min?' nah dont think so. Also meeting for a coffee is a social thing to do, something that is Huge in the swinging world, just because it doesnt involve sex does not make it any less genuine.

we have verifications of when we were on cam on our page, we also have a verification of a meet but dont put it on the page as its a bit in detail of what went on, and we would rather not have sad cases wanking at our page, so does that make us time wasters???

slightly grumpy tonight and certainly do not agree with some of what i have read above

Pamela

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By *ojomanMan
over a year ago

Loch Lomond

"i think that new accounts should only go live once they have been verified, either by photo or by another verified user.

on a note to something i read above, why the fuck shouldnt meeting for a coffee or cam be a way of verifying???

slightly grumpy tonight and certainly do not agree with some of what i have read above

Pamela

Hi Grumpy

I’ll assume although we should never assume that your comments are regarding my post, it was written in a rush and maybe I didn’t express what I meant as well as I could have

What I was trying to say is meeting someone for a coffee proves nothing more than they are human, alive and enjoy coffee it most certainly does not confirm they are genuine swingers (remembering this is a 100% swinging site)

Watching a couple on cam proves nothing more than again they are human, alive and enjoy showing they are real people on cam, and maybe even they enjoy playing sexually on cam for a male or another couple it does not confirm they are a genuine swinging couple who meet others to participate in shared sexual activity

And yes if we look at the opening post there really are sad pervs out there creating fake profiles pretending to be couples, I have a few female friends who will happily play on cam with me, and a few have, now I have never pretended to be a couple but I still personally think its viable to do for a saddo if he so wishes, very easy – remember they do exist

Now there are dedicated web cam sites and I am sure plenty of coffee mornings being held throughout the country to participate in these activities, myself personally I’m here to swing with consenting like-minded friends. Yes I’ll go on cam to show who I am, yes I’ll meet for coffee but I certainly don’t want any verifications for either

A profile with 5 web cam verifications, 2 coffee mornings and 4 social night verifications with no meets tells you what? It certainly does not confirm them to be genuine swingers

Now I’m not knocking coffee, the great social nights or even web camming but if you want to know via verifications as after all that’s what we are talking about who is a genuine male, female or couple who swings because again I’m pretty sure that is what this site is about here is a wee breakdown for all

Coffee meet – Alive, real, human and enjoys coffee

Social meet – Alive, real and enjoys socialising and meeting other people

Web cammimg – Alive, real and enjoys showing their faces or bodies or sexual activity to an audience

Swinging meet – Genuine swinger who meets others to participate in sexual activity

Well I’m not grumpy this morning, infact absolutely buzzing the weekend is nearly upon us and I have 3 couples and 4 singles fems to meet this weekend, so you all have a great weekend now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well this can all be true but as i ve meet couples of this site and not every 1 will verify u and it really doesnt matter cause in the end if ur not willing to show a face pic or go on the telephone it doesnt matter if u have a 1000 verification because i ve talked with at least 50 couples on this site with at least 5 verfication each and there still like "can we see a face pic my reply if u send me ur s ill resiprocate" then its "oh u dont seem to be wat where looking for or deleted the email" (all before i ve send a face pic) so to defend us GENUINE single males the best thing to do is a big black dot at the top of the person in question page this will allow people to see that the have been fake doesnt mean they are just means enough people have said to admin that they are being fake or wat ever and this will sort the fakes from the reals

(RANT OVER LOLS)

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess

I wish I could agree with Tam but there's nothing that can be done on or by the site to "sort the fakes from the reals". The only thing which has any chance of working is to stick to personal recommendation. Isn't that how a lot of people work anyway?

Will it cut down the amount of nookie you get? Well it depends how good your recommendation is.

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess

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By *eatherWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

HIYA ALL WELL MY PROFILE SAYS IM WITH SAM BUT I DONT SEE HIM NOW AND IVE PUT THAT DOWN how do u make a new profile also i never ever lead any one on i meet for a coffe and see how things go.You know the few can spoil the site for every one else .And there are lots of nice peeps on here/And i chat for ages 2 some one before i meetxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it is very difficult to establish what or who is fake and what or who is genuine.

Many people are simply voyeurs or exhibitionists..and if that is your thing then fair play to you.

The problem arises when people join simply to 'play' with the time of others as they have no intention of being involved in any sort of genuine activity.

I would agree that there should NOT be verifications for people UNLESS you have met them eye to eye.

I could post a pic of my friend, sister, any random off the net and claim it is me...get pic verified....NOT good.

IN person...because at least you know someone will turn up to a meet and are 'real' people.

Equally..people can hide thier verifications and have the 'verified genuine profile' all because they were seen on cam or chatted on the phone..ffs to me thats crazy!

I think there are different things that can help to cut down the number of fakes..but you will never stop them.

All that can be done is that on a personal basis YOU have high standards. Dont verify unless met, chatted to on phone and had a social meet before you get naked etc.

There is also a very bad thing to consider...if you verify someone on cam or phone or just a pic...how would you feel to find out that person is a nut job ..is not the person in the pic or on cam...and the seeks to cause physical harm??!!

NO system will ever be perfect..but if YOU take shortcuts..then someone at some point will get burned!

I am far from perfect, however i dont verify anyone as genuine unless i have met them face to face. I insist they come to my neck of the woods first..as bluntly, as a female my safetly is more important than anything else.

Prior to meeting ( always a social meet first) i insist on a face pic...i do prefer a cam...i generally talk on the phone first too.

if at any point i get 'a feeling' that something is just not right or they make me think we are not compatible..or i just a get a feeling that something isnt working.. then i will NOT meet. No promise of orgasm is worth your safety....

and lets not forget..safety is not just your person..for some its their privacy and reputation

Vol

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

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"HIYA ALL WELL MY PROFILE SAYS IM WITH SAM BUT I DONT SEE HIM NOW AND IVE PUT THAT DOWN how do u make a new profile also i never ever lead any one on i meet for a coffe and see how things go.You know the few can spoil the site for every one else .And there are lots of nice peeps on here/And i chat for ages 2 some one before i meetxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx"

Admin will help you sort out your profile. Just ask.

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