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By *issT45 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Meeting at yours or meeting at theirs and Why?

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Meeting in public, then meeting at theirs or a hotel. The "why" is simply because I can't accommodate.

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Usually prefer a hotel meet but that's not set in stone

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By *issT45 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

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By *issT45 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Obviously after meeting in public

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

Social then wherever is most convenient.

Very, very rarely at mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social then a hotel

I never accommodate, this is my children's home and I refuse to being strangers into it

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Whichever or wherever suits the parties involved.there isnt a golden rule easier to let things flow and evolve.

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

Never at ours

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whichever or wherever suits the parties involved.there isnt a golden rule easier to let things flow and evolve.

"

This.

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By *issT45 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Social then a hotel

I never accommodate, this is my children's home and I refuse to being strangers into it"

I should have put if u lived alone but respect to u ... I was the same when mine still lived with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm single so can accom or travel to theirs.

So either at mine or theirs, not fussed but not really into hotel meets I just go with the flow as it's really how we all feel.

If I felt I had to do a social first in a public place then i feel there's some doubt so I wouldn't bother arranging a meet.

Anyways if you do have a meet, just hope you all have a fantastic time

XxX peter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meeting in public, then meeting at theirs or a hotel. The "why" is simply because I can't accommodate."

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By *is vixen at playCouple
over a year ago

Dundee

We don't mind, theirs or ours is fine

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"I'm single so can accom or travel to theirs.

So either at mine or theirs, not fussed but not really into hotel meets I just go with the flow as it's really how we all feel.

If I felt I had to do a social first in a public place then i feel there's some doubt so I wouldn't bother arranging a meet.

Anyways if you do have a meet, just hope you all have a fantastic time

XxX peter"
i disagree. Meeting in a public place is a sensible and safe option for single females.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm single so can accom or travel to theirs.

So either at mine or theirs, not fussed but not really into hotel meets I just go with the flow as it's really how we all feel.

If I felt I had to do a social first in a public place then i feel there's some doubt so I wouldn't bother arranging a meet.

Anyways if you do have a meet, just hope you all have a fantastic time

XxX peter

i disagree. Meeting in a public place is a sensible and safe option for single females."

Yes I agree but what I have said is my view for me and me only. As I hardly meet due to keeping my spare time for my kids my time is limited as my kids come first.

But is a social secure, yes it is more secure against meet at theirs or yours but.....

I had a social in Glasgow at a cafe with a female, she was lovely and I arranged it as I had a business meeting to go to an hour later. I said my goodbyes, went great and said we would arrange something later. I went to the meeting and then when out, I went and did some shopping and then drove back to my sisters as I was living at her and her mans place which is 40 miles from Glasgow and the private driveway is a quarter of a mile to get to the house .

Later that night I got a call to go to London and the next evening, my sister phoned, upset that some woman I met yesterday was peering in her window watching her and her man eat dinner.

the borther-in-law pulled her up and she said she was looking for peter, (she followed me the whole day after the social)

ffs, now what is safe ehhhh

Needless to say, I haven't seen her again in the past 7 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social meet at coffee shop or pub

Play meet hotel only.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since losing my home and moving in with my son and his family I don’t accom especially with young kids too disrespectful

Therefore after a social I tend to go with the flow whatever the meet is more comfortable with be it their home or a hotel. As I’m not a serial rapist or axe murderer it usually is their home

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By *orthseatiger69Man
over a year ago

Ayrshire /North lanarshire

Social public meet then either thiers or hotel

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By *ude bhoy 300Man
over a year ago

east kilbride

Meet, in, my, office

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By *onkeymagic50Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour

Social 1st then meet at mine seen as I picked a 3 month driving ban in November, bit hard to bike 20 miles for a meet and then perform

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By *uncouple8787Couple
over a year ago

lothians


"Social then a hotel

I never accommodate, this is my children's home and I refuse to being strangers into it"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social then meet at mine or theirs. I can accommodate as I don't have kids and if I'm not comfortable with them then they be asked to leave. It's my home so my rules x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Social 1st then meet at mine seen as I picked a 3 month driving ban in November, bit hard to bike 20 miles for a meet and then perform"

Perform ffs, don't tell me you do tricks on yer bike as well.

See you, I feel so inadequate now

I'm gonna start bringing bananas, cucumbers and lurpak with me to a meet so at least we will have a conversation piece if I'm too shy to perform

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By *onkeymagic50Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour


"Social 1st then meet at mine seen as I picked a 3 month driving ban in November, bit hard to bike 20 miles for a meet and then perform

Perform ffs, don't tell me you do tricks on yer bike as well.

See you, I feel so inadequate now

I'm gonna start bringing bananas, cucumbers and lurpak with me to a meet so at least we will have a conversation piece if I'm too shy to perform

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meeting at ours

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

Discretion doesnt exist for some do never in our home .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We meet at ours or yours,we have parties at ours and met singles at ours,but also don't mind travelling to others..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social meet first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine,then I can say "I've always wanted to fuck a girl while she does the dishes/hoovering/dusting"

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

Social first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is a social the same as meeting for a coffee?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is a social the same as meeting for a coffee?"

Yes usually people mean by a social is in a public place for a drink and chat.

Also a social is known as a meet at yours or theirs for just a chat and a giggle.

But its mainly known as a social at a pubic place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks

You're like the fab oracle...id be stuck without you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks

You're like the fab oracle...id be stuck without you "

Don't ask me how to kiss properly as I don't know how to explain it, I can only show how to do it.

ffs, was that smooth or wit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With my neighbours, a hotel...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks

You're like the fab oracle...id be stuck without you

Don't ask me how to kiss properly as I don't know how to explain it, I can only show how to do it.

ffs, was that smooth or wit

"

It's okay...I got that one covered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks

You're like the fab oracle...id be stuck without you

Don't ask me how to kiss properly as I don't know how to explain it, I can only show how to do it.

ffs, was that smooth or wit

It's okay...I got that one covered "

Good, good, well the video of me kissing will be on 'Songs of Praise' on Sunday morning at 9am

lollllllllll

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I can’t accommodate as I have kids who are no longer at school. It’s always nice to get out as well.

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill


"Meeting at yours or meeting at theirs and Why?"

I'd prefer at mine, so I can go to sleep after

Jim

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By *uddleanstrokeMan
over a year ago

Bristol / Crete / Glasgow

Brief public/ social meet preferred first (unless Skyped) - mainly to see if there’s a spark ... but there are always exceptions (and not just the fantasy of slipping into her/ their house/ hotel with her naked and blindfolded in bed)) But it’s really what both parties feel comfortable with ... to relax and flirt ...

Although I can accommodate - i prefer & am happy with a local hotel ... but that’s mainly because of the hassle of washing & drying the laundry of the soaked bed linen!!!

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