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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is a tough site to chat with friends.

I don’t need to flirt to chat although I can.

You chat away leave the chat with a smile and login in the next day.

The big tumble goes across the screen and the person you chatted with doesn’t know you.

I know the women on here gets 100s of messages per day and it’s easy to delete them all.

How many genuine people have just quit because of the above.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a tough site to chat with friends.

I don’t need to flirt to chat although I can.

You chat away leave the chat with a smile and login in the next day.

The big tumble goes across the screen and the person you chatted with doesn’t know you.

I know the women on here gets 100s of messages per day and it’s easy to delete them all.

Common occurrence mate

How many genuine people have just quit because of the above. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is where a memorable profile pic comes in handy! Then you'll always stand out from the crowd and be remembered. Plus you never know what's going on in someone's life, there could be 101 reasons why they appear to have dinghyed you

Chin up son x

Mrs D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why i use my wee note feature.

Yes or no and what the conversation was about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Explain Oldie.... Whit!s the note feature?

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"Explain Oldie.... Whit!s the note feature? "

If you click on someone’s profile and go into the menu function there is an option to add personal notes, eg chatted seem nice or sent me a rude message .... only you can see this x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone great advise. I will post a face picture on my profile although with the next 3 weeks I’ve got ahead of me I will have aged.

I’m a postie and yes I’m that one that wants to chat and hold you back... lol

All kidding aside thanks for the replies

Ian

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Explain Oldie.... Whit!s the note feature?

If you click on someone’s profile and go into the menu function there is an option to add personal notes, eg chatted seem nice or sent me a rude message .... only you can see this x"

Oh no. This does not bode well for me considering some of the utter shite i waffle to people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Explain Oldie.... Whit!s the note feature?

If you click on someone’s profile and go into the menu function there is an option to add personal notes, eg chatted seem nice or sent me a rude message .... only you can see this x"

Ahhhh...this will be useful...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Explain Oldie.... Whit!s the note feature?

If you click on someone’s profile and go into the menu function there is an option to add personal notes, eg chatted seem nice or sent me a rude message .... only you can see this x

Oh no. This does not bode well for me considering some of the utter shite i waffle to people "

It's already been noted!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Explain Oldie.... Whit!s the note feature?

If you click on someone’s profile and go into the menu function there is an option to add personal notes, eg chatted seem nice or sent me a rude message .... only you can see this x"
what she said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens eh...had it done to me n done it to others plenty.

Trust me,it's worse when you've met them a few times n then get dropped like a hot tattie n ignored the second you're not dancing to their tune!

Thick skin helps.....rhinoceros hide would be better though lol

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By *implyJayGeeMan
over a year ago

Garthamlock


"It happens eh...had it done to me n done it to others plenty.

Trust me,it's worse when you've met them a few times n then get dropped like a hot tattie n ignored the second you're not dancing to their tune!

Thick skin helps.....rhinoceros hide would be better though lol"

Yip had both of these scenarios happen to me.. the subject one just last night into today hence my current status (female photo collectors).. I generally go for a ‘everything ok’ type question, if no reply or a shite answer, blocked... not got time for games.

The genuine ones will persevere with you and likewise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the way of the world...

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

It happens to most.

Some chat through politeness but aint that interested in taking it any further some just get bored and for some it might have been something you said in your last message thats put them off

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

The only thing that gets me is the amount of times they change their bloody names ..#confused

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"The only thing that gets me is the amount of times they change their bloody names ..#confused "

Half the time it's me that doesn't know I spoke to them the day before in chat because of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Explain Oldie.... Whit!s the note feature?

If you click on someone’s profile and go into the menu function there is an option to add personal notes, eg chatted seem nice or sent me a rude message .... only you can see this x

Oh no. This does not bode well for me considering some of the utter shite i waffle to people

It's already been noted! "

How very dare you madam!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only thing that gets me is the amount of times they change their bloody names ..#confused "

I'm terrible with names but remember faces....or on this site boabies. Just getting used to seeing one from a certain angle so I recognise the owner and then the silly b goes and changes the profile pic!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get used to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems a lot of disgruntled folk. Come on ladies, get the beavers out

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