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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I for one have never fully enjoyed a blow job and I find it very hard to relax and cum through oral.

I also find that not many people can give oral properly and it results in me swapping place or leading straight to sex.

Is there anyone who has this problem too?

Is there anything I can do to relax and enjoy it better?

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By *is vixen at playCouple
over a year ago

Dundee

No lol. Love It, when get it done well nothing beats it. Even better when they like giving it just as much. G

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Define...giving oral properly?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Define...giving oral properly? "

He probably means that in the same way guys can be crap with their tongues women can be crap with their mouths

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Define...giving oral properly?

He probably means that in the same way guys can be crap with their tongues women can be crap with their mouths"

Yeah I imagine so. We are all fickle creatures what feel good to one won't to the next. Such is life lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you ever tried communicating with a partner to try different techniques to see what you enjoy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aye as above....actually saying what you like n what u don't is a lot more helpful than just lying back n giving no pointers whatsoever.

You can only really blame yourself for not telling your lover how you like it.

N if you find it hard to talk about then show them how you like it by demonstrating on their finger.

You can't just lie back hoping that one day they might do it how you like it!

Aye it's good to talk right enough....if a bit rude with a mouthful

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm guessing by you're eloquent answer you don't agree to the suggestions given?

Or was the OP hoping that some competitive blow job queen would rise to the challenge and offer to help you out lol

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By *omaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I'm one of the few,who has never reached orgasm when on the so called lucky end of a bj.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm with you on the enjoyment of them bud I've still yet to cum from just a bj. sex + oral is a different matter though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or if you're giving direction but it falls on deaf ears time n time again ......grab her by those ears n start skull fucking her mouth forcefully....n see how long you can hold on for!

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

I always thought guys made this stuff up to make us ladies try harder! Haha!

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling


"I always thought guys made this stuff up to make us ladies try harder! Haha!"

Must try harder Janet

My teacher used to say that all the time, but she not for this lol

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"I always thought guys made this stuff up to make us ladies try harder! Haha!

Must try harder Janet

My teacher used to say that all the time, but she not for this lol "

I’ve never had any complaints!

You teacher may be a fab regular!

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling


"I always thought guys made this stuff up to make us ladies try harder! Haha!

Must try harder Janet

My teacher used to say that all the time, but she not for this lol

I’ve never had any complaints!

You teacher may be a fab regular! "

If she is I hope she looks me up, here miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv rarely had any complaints about bj's, they are the best thing ever when done right, on a few occasions iv failed to climax through oral due to being a bit "toothy" or only sucking on the very tip. My only advice would be to just relax and communication.

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By *anny77Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I like a good blow job but I always see it as part of foreplay so always confused that guys complain a girl hasn’t made them cum

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By *rsFine-MrBallsCouple
over a year ago

markinch

Mr here , I love blow jobs, never had a bad 1, cum every time lol . Mrs loves watching Mr getting blown as well , so if it's your kink say hi lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

all this talk of good he's is making me sad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love giving them. Not to the exclusion of all else though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you getting enough pressure on your shaft.

I prefer lots of pressure on my shaft and I never fail to cum.

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By *ald EagleMan
over a year ago

Alloa

Had some bad bj

Had some good bj

Had very few awesome bj

Trust can be a factor in how much you can relax and enjoy it.

“Toothy” ones are sore and sometimes that feedback isn’t taken well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love when a guy says he can't cum thru oral. I then make it a challenge for me. I have never failed yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love when a guy says he can't cum thru oral. I then make it a challenge for me. I have never failed yet "

I’ve never cum through oral

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling


"I love when a guy says he can't cum thru oral. I then make it a challenge for me. I have never failed yet "

Nope not me, you’ll fail

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By *anny77Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"I love when a guy says he can't cum thru oral. I then make it a challenge for me. I have never failed yet "

Oooooooooh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or if you're giving direction but it falls on deaf ears time n time again ......grab her by those ears n start skull fucking her mouth forcefully....n see how long you can hold on for! "

You sound like a keeper....

Love giving them....Mr has to pull me up sometimes to remind me that he has a mouth that may want kissed too...

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By *oodoo121Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

This reminds me of an old joke...

“Describe your worst blow job experience”

....”Fabulous!”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually when guys can't cum from oral have given themselves death grip. You've trained yourself to cum using a tightly closed fist, probably going at lightening speed. Try replicating what a bj feels like when you masturbate, use loads of lube and a more relaxed grip. If you can teach yourself to cum that way then us ladies will have an easier job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love when a guy says he can't cum thru oral. I then make it a challenge for me. I have never failed yet "

Heard this a few times, I think it's a con

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Usually when guys can't cum from oral have given themselves death grip. You've trained yourself to cum using a tightly closed fist, probably going at lightening speed. Try replicating what a bj feels like when you masturbate, use loads of lube and a more relaxed grip. If you can teach yourself to cum that way then us ladies will have an easier job "

This actually makes a lot of sense.

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling


"Usually when guys can't cum from oral have given themselves death grip. You've trained yourself to cum using a tightly closed fist, probably going at lightening speed. Try replicating what a bj feels like when you masturbate, use loads of lube and a more relaxed grip. If you can teach yourself to cum that way then us ladies will have an easier job

This actually makes a lot of sense. "

Not to me, you may have to cum show me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always thought guys made this stuff up to make us ladies try harder! Haha!"

Pmsl. As a guy who can cum when I want, I used to think it's what woman wanted, lololl I was so wrong .

Sometimes I'll just say I can't cum through oral or can't cum through anal or can't cum through durty talk as she plays with herself. Never failed lolol

But it pisses girls off if I say I bet you can't make me cum and they try like fuck through the night and they don't.

Anyways to the OP's post, I'm the same I can't cum through oral

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well there's plenty of women who can't cum through oral so makes sense I suppose.

Fortunately I'm not one of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always thought guys made this stuff up to make us ladies try harder! Haha!

Pmsl. As a guy who can cum when I want, I used to think it's what woman wanted, lololl I was so wrong .

Sometimes I'll just say I can't cum through oral or can't cum through anal or can't cum through durty talk as she plays with herself. Never failed lolol

But it pisses girls off if I say I bet you can't make me cum and they try like fuck through the night and they don't.

Anyways to the OP's post, I'm the same I can't cum through oral

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By *ink-KameraMan
over a year ago

Livingston

Don't think I have ever had a bad BJ. I have had some that weren't as good as others but I can always cum in one orifice or another

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I myself have never came through oral. I have only nearly once but apart from that nothing as of yet !

I'm always sat there when watching porn going surley this is just made up that doesn't actually happen right ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

got to add I'm not saying I haven't enjoyed them :p

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own


"This reminds me of an old joke...

“Describe your worst blow job experience”

....”Fabulous!”"
if verifications on fab are anything to go by this is true and all women are very talented.

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By *oodoo121Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

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By *andi_CDTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Love a bj any time

Might have even given one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or if you're giving direction but it falls on deaf ears time n time again ......grab her by those ears n start skull fucking her mouth forcefully....n see how long you can hold on for!

You sound like a keeper....

Love giving them....Mr has to pull me up sometimes to remind me that he has a mouth that may want kissed too..."

Why thank you

I envy your hubbies predicament

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By *homasP80Man
over a year ago

Linwood

Enjoy giving and receiving.

Not had any complaints yet

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

As with all things sexual everyone is different. Communication is key. Both cliches but true, it's why sex gets better as you get older as its a skill it takes practice, learning what works for you but also learning different techniques to try with different partners and also learning communication skills.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As with all things sexual everyone is different. Communication is key. Both cliches but true, it's why sex gets better as you get older as its a skill it takes practice, learning what works for you but also learning different techniques to try with different partners and also learning communication skills. "

Definitely pro communication, I love giving... Especially if he tells me what to do while pulling my hair....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This reminds me of an old joke...

“Describe your worst blow job experience”

....”Fabulous!” if verifications on fab are anything to go by this is true and all women are very talented.

"

This made me chuckle but in fairness you don't see many verifications along those lines

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I for one have never fully enjoyed a blow job and I find it very hard to relax and cum through oral.

I also find that not many people can give oral properly and it results in me swapping place or leading straight to sex.

Is there anyone who has this problem too?

Is there anything I can do to relax and enjoy it better? "

I’ve never had that problem - quite the opposite for me. Though I have no idea how to impart any words of wisdom as to how to relax and enjoy it - I just love it.

Something scare you about it? What is going through your mind and stopping you from relaxing into it and enjoying the moment?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love when a guy says he can't cum thru oral. I then make it a challenge for me. I have never failed yet

Heard this a few times, I think it's a con "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As with all things sexual everyone is different. Communication is key. Both cliches but true, it's why sex gets better as you get older as its a skill it takes practice, learning what works for you but also learning different techniques to try with different partners and also learning communication skills.

Definitely pro communication, I love giving... Especially if he tells me what to do while pulling my hair....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I for one have never fully enjoyed a blow job and I find it very hard to relax and cum through oral.

I also find that not many people can give oral properly and it results in me swapping place or leading straight to sex.

Is there anyone who has this problem too?

Is there anything I can do to relax and enjoy it better? "

You might relax if you talk to them first and say you dont cum from oral, make sure they understand and havent taken it as a challenge. Then just let them do their thing if they really like doing it, knowing its just part of play. If you are feeling bad cos you cant cum and they are trying harder to make you cum so you try harder to cum so they dont feel bad well... that's a lot of pressure to be putting on yourself. No wonder you dont enjoy it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I for one have never fully enjoyed a blow job and I find it very hard to relax and cum through oral.

I also find that not many people can give oral properly and it results in me swapping place or leading straight to sex.

Is there anyone who has this problem too?

Is there anything I can do to relax and enjoy it better?

You might relax if you talk to them first and say you dont cum from oral, make sure they understand and havent taken it as a challenge. Then just let them do their thing if they really like doing it, knowing its just part of play. If you are feeling bad cos you cant cum and they are trying harder to make you cum so you try harder to cum so they dont feel bad well... that's a lot of pressure to be putting on yourself. No wonder you dont enjoy it x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well.....i have been told my Bjs are awesome and rarely fail to hit the jackpot!!!

See my profile

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By *utdooryoneMan
over a year ago

Over there

I'm another who much prefers a nice pussy to a bj. That said, if anyone's up for the challenge...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not a huge fan of them only ever came once getting a bj, I put that down to a) the riskyness of where it was and b) she was a married woman (not my proudest moment not my thing).

I’d rather give oral than receive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a bj

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By *exicolaMan
over a year ago

West Lothian

Always enjoy a bj but I either cum really quickly or not at all!

Usually use it as a precursor to sex, to get hard.

Prefer to give oral than receive it mind you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

blowjobs are my favourite thing to get done to me...if i could get away with getting woken up with a blowjob then have it continue for the rest of the say i would happily sit and do nothing but....i must have a chocolate flavoured cock cause my wife sucks on me at least once a day and i dont even ask..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Messages u!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Seen your profile

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By *uriouserMan
over a year ago

!!!!!

I find I have had better oral off guys than women. Always more likely to cum with a male bj

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