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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We all have our preferences...

And sometimes we can be a little flexible with them however.....

Some things can’t be negotiated!

What’s your ‘deal breaker’?

For me?

Anything above a dress size 12 is a no go zone. I’m sure ‘big is beautiful’ however I can’t for the life of me, cup a big massive booty! That derrière needs to be tight and firm or I’m not playing!!

Hygiene as well. Really important and let’s be honest, women should always be pristine! A ‘boggin’ woman usually means mental heath issues

So whaddya day Fabby types?

What’s your ‘deal breaker’?

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By *agnoliax2Couple
over a year ago

wishaw


"We all have our preferences...

And sometimes we can be a little flexible with them however.....

Some things can’t be negotiated!

What’s your ‘deal breaker’?

For me?

Anything above a dress size 12 is a no go zone. I’m sure ‘big is beautiful’ however I can’t for the life of me, cup a big massive booty! That derrière needs to be tight and firm or I’m not playing!!

Hygiene as well. Really important and let’s be honest, women should always be pristine! A ‘boggin’ woman usually means mental heath issues

So whaddya day Fabby types?

What’s your ‘deal breaker’?"

I think your being very closed minded regards the size 12 thing,by saying that you had better be near perfect yourself.My other half is size 16 and it’s awesome,all other sizes are great also,maybe I’m just open minded.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Might sound ridiculous for Fab....but I have to actually like the person.

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By *onkeymagic50Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour


"Might sound ridiculous for Fab....but I have to actually like the person. "

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By *exinthesunWoman
over a year ago

far far away

Smokers, just not going to happen.

Arrogant people who think they’re ‘it’.

Short arses, anything sub 6’, again, not going to happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When they only do meets on their time and don't compromise. For instance during the week days.

When people get demanding.

Or my personal pet peeve is when it's a couples profile and you never get to chat with the woman. That's a no no for me. Deal breaker right there. I won't meet or agree to anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Smokers, just not going to happen.

Arrogant people who think they’re ‘it’.

Short arses, anything sub 6’, again, not going to happen. "

Agreed. Smokers I don't mind. I smoke when I drink.

Or the arrogant "It" people expect you to be perfect. Yet they are models for a braille magazine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A profile that has status moans and a profile with a list of stuff that you must do or fall into. A profile that asks for a guy with vw cock, thick cock, big etc...

I'm very happy with the way I'm built in fact I wouldn't want to change it but I'd never contact theses people.

If the person has a great personality then I'm so happy, boring people deffo not for me. I love a naughty sexy filthy fun. But I like good time n laughs as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For myself it's people who don't understand the word 'no' especially when it's at a party and people who clearly don't read profiles and claim to have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deal breaker

They have to be meet verified

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By *exinthesunWoman
over a year ago

far far away


"Smokers, just not going to happen.

Arrogant people who think they’re ‘it’.

Short arses, anything sub 6’, again, not going to happen.

Agreed. Smokers I don't mind. I smoke when I drink.

Or the arrogant "It" people expect you to be perfect. Yet they are models for a braille magazine. "

Models for Braille magazines, love it, and stealing it. Lol

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife


"Might sound ridiculous for Fab....but I have to actually like the person. "

why would it be ridiculous? do you think the rest of us have sex with people we don't like?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alot of folk on here just meet for the sake of meeting

So yip id agree with boomarang

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A big one for me is the vibe I get reading profiles. I'm pretty laid back and I like the same in others. I get being a woman on here your messages are going to be both numerous and of mixed quality. But writing a massive rant about it, or having a big list of donts puts me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Disrespecting our relationship I will own ass for that one!

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

beards, long hair or smokers are not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Disrespecting our relationship I will own ass for that one! "

totally agree, never get guys who message couples and only trying to chat with the female.

If its a couples profile, they should be treated as such, fun with a couple is about 3 peoples enjoyment, not two of them.

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By *urray MintMan
over a year ago

Brewtoon

If her picture shows straight hair and curly teeth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don't have a face pic you will be blocked if you send a friends request b4. We talk you will be blocked if you breath you will be blocked if you read this profile you will be blocked. I get my kill at them people who the hell do they think they are. Oh and the ones that come on and say time to clear my friends out. This place is full of attention seekers. Sorry rant over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm deal breaker is the no pictures, and the fill in laters, i like to get to know some one by how they come across, if you cant be bothered showing your personality them im no bothering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poor personal hygiene.

Terrible spelling/grammar...we can all make a wee mistake or 6 after a Ribena but if your profile or messages read like a 15yr old's FB page then it's a non starter.

Arrogance.

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

Lack of personality, or unable to conversate. I'll chat with anyone about anything, but the one word responses is a convo killer

Like boomerang, I have to have at least a lil bit of chemistry. It builds the attraction and physical side of things more fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmm deal breaker is the no pictures, and the fill in laters, i like to get to know some one by how they come across, if you cant be bothered showing your personality them im no bothering "

no pictures is murder.

Don't people know there are people on here who are good with a camera

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Non smoker

Verified with a few meets

Articulate men who are happy to spend time chatting on a meet

Very good dental and body hygiene - cleanliness is next to godliness for me!

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By *is vixen at playCouple
over a year ago

Dundee

Guys who obviously only adressing v when they mess, instant no and we move on.

Arrogance in any form.

Gut instinct-anything that makes either us unsure or uncomfortable about them.

Huge bush.

Lack of effort.

Lack of respect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unkempt or untidy rooms in background of their pics

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By *amo2121Man
over a year ago

swansea

No photos!! Espe ially when asked for one of you!! And neeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeedy women!!!! I get loads !!!

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By *amo2121Man
over a year ago

swansea

Not that there isnt a bundle to choose from on her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anything above a dress size 12 is a no go zone. I’m sure ‘big is beautiful’ however I can’t for the life of me, cup a big massive booty! That derrière needs to be tight and firm or I’m not playing!"

Alright there Channing Tatum calm down..

For me as soon as I see smoker in the profile, I’m gone.

I also detest it when people will send emails, swap numbers, want to meet up etc then whilst being very active on the site decide they don’t want to speak to you..but return three months later ready to pick up where they left off. I haven’t changed so what has..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unkempt or untidy rooms in background of their pics "

I thought it was only me that thought this!

Looking at the pic thinking " you've spent half an hour picking out your best lingerie and finding the right angle but could be arsed to pick up yesterdays pants from the bedroom floor! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lack of personality, or unable to conversate. I'll chat with anyone about anything, but the one word responses is a convo killer

Like boomerang, I have to have at least a lil bit of chemistry. It builds the attraction and physical side of things more fun. "

This for me too. If you have decent chat, you're halfway there with me.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Well mannered, tall, athletic, handsome non smokers do it for me. Im very fussy but know exactly what im looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unkempt or untidy rooms in background of their pics

I thought it was only me that thought this!

Looking at the pic thinking " you've spent half an hour picking out your best lingerie and finding the right angle but could be arsed to pick up yesterdays pants from the bedroom floor! ""

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has to be over 6ft

Good teeth

Nice eyes

Brown hair

Big build

Big hands

Loves oral

Strap on fun

Wine

Kissing

Thick cock

Bigger than 12"

I'm just going to keep going... I'm joking, but I wanted you to keep reading HA!

If they haven't got good chat, then they won't get my chat... pretty simple lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unkempt or untidy rooms in background of their pics

I thought it was only me that thought this!

Looking at the pic thinking " you've spent half an hour picking out your best lingerie and finding the right angle but could be arsed to pick up yesterdays pants from the bedroom floor! " "

When they say they can accommodate and it looks like they are living in a crack house.

I get we all have different budgets etc. BUT CLEAN THE FUCKING MOULD OFF YOUR BATHROOM AND THE DOG SHIT UP.

Honestly saw that in at least 3 couples profiles that messaged me.

My house isn't a Palace or anything but it's clean and presentable.

I always look at the surroundings in people's profile pictures and judge what type of people they are off it.

Sorry but if you don't care about where you live then you clearly don't care about boundaries either.

*Sorry about the rant. Some people are disgusting*

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By *rand Central CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Smokers, just not going to happen.

Arrogant people who think they’re ‘it’.

Short arses, anything sub 6’, again, not going to happen. "

What percentage of Fabbers are 6' +?

My guess is not many unless they are under 30...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Smokers, just not going to happen.

Arrogant people who think they’re ‘it’.

Short arses, anything sub 6’, again, not going to happen.

What percentage of Fabbers are 6' +?

My guess is not many unless they are under 30..."

I am on all counts, and well over 30

just saying like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lack of personality, or unable to conversate. I'll chat with anyone about anything, but the one word responses is a convo killer

Like boomerang, I have to have at least a lil bit of chemistry. It builds the attraction and physical side of things more fun. "

I'll go with this too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smokers and anyone who sends cock pics.

Definitely non starters for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Smokers and anyone who sends cock pics.

Definitely non starters for me "

Totally agree

Any girl who sends me a cock pic, she will be blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profiles without profile pictures

People who feel the need to criticise others to try and impress me (please never call me a "real woman" over women who are slim or overweight)

Pictures of cocks over toilets

Couples where it's only ever the men available

People with no patience who do not understand that this is a small part of my life and is not a priority.

Women wearing ill fitting, used-to-be-white underwear

Think that will be a start lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Smokers and anyone who sends cock pics.

Definitely non starters for me

Totally agree

Any girl who sends me a cock pic, she will be blocked

"

Sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We all have our preferences...

And sometimes we can be a little flexible with them however.....

Some things can’t be negotiated!

What’s your ‘deal breaker’?

For me?

Anything above a dress size 12 is a no go zone. I’m sure ‘big is beautiful’ however I can’t for the life of me, cup a big massive booty! That derrière needs to be tight and firm or I’m not playing!!

Hygiene as well. Really important and let’s be honest, women should always be pristine! A ‘boggin’ woman usually means mental heath issues

So whaddya day Fabby types?

What’s your ‘deal breaker’?"

Oh you’re going to cop a lot of shit from the “curvy” and “bbw” women on here for telling the truth about what men actually truly like.

But like the myth that women don’t actually like big, muscular and lean guys.

Spare us all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We all have our preferences...

And sometimes we can be a little flexible with them however.....

Some things can’t be negotiated!

What’s your ‘deal breaker’?

For me?

Anything above a dress size 12 is a no go zone. I’m sure ‘big is beautiful’ however I can’t for the life of me, cup a big massive booty! That derrière needs to be tight and firm or I’m not playing!!

Hygiene as well. Really important and let’s be honest, women should always be pristine! A ‘boggin’ woman usually means mental heath issues

So whaddya day Fabby types?

What’s your ‘deal breaker’?

Oh you’re going to cop a lot of shit from the “curvy” and “bbw” women on here for telling the truth about what men actually truly like.

But like the myth that women don’t actually like big, muscular and lean guys.

Spare us all!"

I'm not a BBW, have described myself as curvy (though others have disagreed) and am not intending to throw any shite your way, but do you honestly think you can speak for every man on this site?

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By *argaidMan
over a year ago

glasgow


"A profile that has status moans and a profile with a list of stuff that you must do or fall into. A profile that asks for a guy with vw cock, thick cock, big etc...

I'm very happy with the way I'm built in fact I wouldn't want to change it but I'd never contact theses people.

If the person has a great personality then I'm so happy, boring people deffo not for me. I love a naughty sexy filthy fun. But I like good time n laughs as well

"

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deal Breakers

- too short (I will meet guys shorter than me but experience says below 5ft 8 doesn’t work)

- profiles that demand perfect bodies (I like to feel relaxed with people and not judged)

- homophobic / transphobic profiles

- nothing but cock pictures

- pictures with horrific backgrounds

- anyone drug friendly

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By *exinthesunWoman
over a year ago

far far away


"Smokers, just not going to happen.

Arrogant people who think they’re ‘it’.

Short arses, anything sub 6’, again, not going to happen.

What percentage of Fabbers are 6' +?

My guess is not many unless they are under 30..."

I’ve not had a chance to count every single one of them so unable to answer that, sorry. What I do know is there are a hell of a lot of them over the age of 30.

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By *exinthesunWoman
over a year ago

far far away


"Smokers, just not going to happen.

Arrogant people who think they’re ‘it’.

Short arses, anything sub 6’, again, not going to happen.

What percentage of Fabbers are 6' +?

My guess is not many unless they are under 30...

I am on all counts, and well over 30

just saying like"

You sure, that hot body doesn’t look over 30.

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

Arrogance, messy backgrounds in photos, poor sentence structure.

If by some miracle I actually manage to meet someone if they don't make me laugh or kiss badly it's game over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they don't eat crayons, idolise James blunt or wear a hat they ain't getting near this pocket rocket.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A profile that has status moans and a profile with a list of stuff that you must do or fall into. A profile that asks for a guy with vw cock, thick cock, big etc...

I'm very happy with the way I'm built in fact I wouldn't want to change it but I'd never contact theses people

"

Nail on the head right there!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A profile that has status moans and a profile with a list of stuff that you must do or fall into. A profile that asks for a guy with vw cock, thick cock, big etc...

I'm very happy with the way I'm built in fact I wouldn't want to change it but I'd never contact theses people

Nail on the head right there!!! "

I second that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me its a guy who drops into the conversation how he doesn't like wearing condoms and if he has a chain around his neck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Smokers, just not going to happen.

Arrogant people who think they’re ‘it’.

Short arses, anything sub 6’, again, not going to happen.

What percentage of Fabbers are 6' +?

My guess is not many unless they are under 30...

I am on all counts, and well over 30

just saying like

You sure, that hot body doesn’t look over 30. "

That body is well over the 40s, I know as I'm attached to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We all have our preferences...

And sometimes we can be a little flexible with them however.....

Some things can’t be negotiated!

What’s your ‘deal breaker’?

For me?

Anything above a dress size 12 is a no go zone. I’m sure ‘big is beautiful’ however I can’t for the life of me, cup a big massive booty! That derrière needs to be tight and firm or I’m not playing!!

Hygiene as well. Really important and let’s be honest, women should always be pristine! A ‘boggin’ woman usually means mental heath issues

So whaddya day Fabby types?

What’s your ‘deal breaker’?

Oh you’re going to cop a lot of shit from the “curvy” and “bbw” women on here for telling the truth about what men actually truly like.

But like the myth that women don’t actually like big, muscular and lean guys.

Spare us all!"

Thanks for mansplaining what women actually like

Could it be that different people are attracted to different things? I personally don't big muscular arms and washboard stomachs physically attractive. Now give me a hairy chest with broad shoulders but a bit of a dad body over someone who spends 6 hours a day staring at themselves in the gym mirror. But sure I guess all men like skinny women and all women like toned men

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Bad breath ( not dissing as I know for some people it could be medical ) but gives me the boak, bad kissers as well

K x

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By *atsnTitsCouple
over a year ago

Land Of Naughtiness

More than one deal breaker for me:- Manky fingernails, bad breath, body odour, and a lot of pubic hair

Tits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The worst for me was a guy straight after we had sex rolled over and started rolling a spliff. When he saw the look on my face and asked if it upset me and I said well it's your house but I would prefer if you didn't.. he said tough I don't change for anyone. Annoying when he had said on his profile he wasn't a smoker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Players. If I feel like Im being strung along then it's a no.

Arrogance and pushiness are a turn off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Poor personal hygiene.

Terrible spelling/grammar...we can all make a wee mistake or 6 after a Ribena but if your profile or messages read like a 15yr old's FB page then it's a non starter.

Arrogance. "

Please remember some people are dyslexic and being picked up on there grammer is the last thing they need.Yes we have autocorrect but it doesn't always give the correct word.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reading all your replies really is an eye opener,in a positive way.

I reckon the biggest is those that do not read profiles.

Or push for single play..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deal breakers. ! Arranging a meet and she turns up d*unk as a skunk....said my goodbyes,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Poor personal hygiene.

Terrible spelling/grammar...we can all make a wee mistake or 6 after a Ribena but if your profile or messages read like a 15yr old's FB page then it's a non starter.

Arrogance.

Please remember some people are dyslexic and being picked up on there grammer is the last thing they need.Yes we have autocorrect but it doesn't always give the correct word."

Fair point.

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By *exinthesunWoman
over a year ago

far far away


"The worst for me was a guy straight after we had sex rolled over and started rolling a spliff. When he saw the look on my face and asked if it upset me and I said well it's your house but I would prefer if you didn't.. he said tough I don't change for anyone. Annoying when he had said on his profile he wasn't a smoker."

I am often perplexed about this too. If you smoke , grass etc then you are as much a smoker as someone who smokes tobacco so your. profile really should reflect that. No doubt I’ll be shot down in flames shortly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The worst for me was a guy straight after we had sex rolled over and started rolling a spliff. When he saw the look on my face and asked if it upset me and I said well it's your house but I would prefer if you didn't.. he said tough I don't change for anyone. Annoying when he had said on his profile he wasn't a smoker.

I am often perplexed about this too. If you smoke , grass etc then you are as much a smoker as someone who smokes tobacco so your. profile really should reflect that. No doubt I’ll be shot down in flames shortly. "

Slightly off topic but I was playing on cam with a couple a few weeks ago. Just as things were getting interesting they both stopped to snort lines of .....Kind of killed the mood for me, sitting there all civilised with my glass of merlot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Might sound ridiculous for Fab....but I have to actually like the person. "

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Instant breakers;

chem-sex, "yous" or any variant on, deleting messages without reply, bad hygiene.

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

Narrow minded people! The ones that think their way is the right/only way...can go take a long run of a short pier....or as we say round here, can go take a flying fuck!(nope, not the mile high club kind)

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By *utdooryoneMan
over a year ago

Over there


"Might sound ridiculous for Fab....but I have to actually like the person.

"

^this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I think people should let you know if drugs are there thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Anything above a dress size 12 is a no go zone. I’m sure ‘big is beautiful’ however I can’t for the life of me, cup a big massive booty! That derrière needs to be tight and firm or I’m not playing!!

What’s your ‘deal breaker’?"

Who are you to say what a size 12 looks like?

Myself , my sister and best friend are all size 14 but to look at we are all completely different and weight different weights so you can’t judge someone on clothes size.

I am curvy and honestly say had no complaints over the 7 yrs from men I meet.

My deal breaker is folk who think better than others especially when they ain’t perfect themselves!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn’t matter the size. It’s the connection that counts. You could be size 16,18 but if you make me laugh I’ll eat your vagina

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Anything above a dress size 12 is a no go zone. I’m sure ‘big is beautiful’ however I can’t for the life of me, cup a big massive booty! That derrière needs to be tight and firm or I’m not playing!!

What’s your ‘deal breaker’?

Who are you to say what a size 12 looks like?

Myself , my sister and best friend are all size 14 but to look at we are all completely different and weight different weights so you can’t judge someone on clothes size.

I am curvy and honestly say had no complaints over the 7 yrs from men I meet.

My deal breaker is folk who think better than others especially when they ain’t perfect themselves! "

Well said. It’s a quality I find unattractive in women also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Reading all your replies really is an eye opener,in a positive way.

I reckon the biggest is those that do not read profiles.

Or push for single play..

"

I think for couples and singles who get messages from any guys who do not read their profiles of push for a one on one with the female of the couple, it should be a total block.

it just tells you the sort of person he is and no point going further

just saying like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being Lied Too

In past 6 months, had two socials after chatting, messaging for a while.

Both females came to mine, different socials of course and during social each on said they had a partner when i know I had asked before and then either lied of phaffed my question off.

needless to say, finished not long after finding out and said goodbyes with one wanting to take the social to fun, which i just wouldn't do

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over a year ago


"Anything above a dress size 12 is a no go zone. I’m sure ‘big is beautiful’ however I can’t for the life of me, cup a big massive booty! That derrière needs to be tight and firm or I’m not playing!

Alright there Channing Tatum calm down..

For me as soon as I see smoker in the profile, I’m gone.

I also detest it when people will send emails, swap numbers, want to meet up etc then whilst being very active on the site decide they don’t want to speak to you..but return three months later ready to pick up where they left off. I haven’t changed so what has.."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Reading all your replies really is an eye opener,in a positive way.

I reckon the biggest is those that do not read profiles.

Or push for single play..

I think for couples and singles who get messages from any guys who do not read their profiles of push for a one on one with the female of the couple, it should be a total block.

it just tells you the sort of person he is and no point going further

just saying like "

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By *is vixen at playCouple
over a year ago

Dundee


"Reading all your replies really is an eye opener,in a positive way.

I reckon the biggest is those that do not read profiles.

Or push for single play..

I think for couples and singles who get messages from any guys who do not read their profiles of push for a one on one with the female of the couple, it should be a total block.

it just tells you the sort of person he is and no point going further

just saying like "

Agree with that. Instant No with us and no 2nd chances

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over a year ago

Dealbreakers for us

Smokers

‘How r yous?’ introductions

People with age preferences of 15 years younger than them but one year upwards.

Just our preference though

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over a year ago

"we are an attractive couple" "I am an attractive man/woman". On a profile.

I like to think I am also, but that does not mean I actually am therefore would not make a statement out of it.

Michael.

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over a year ago


"We all have our preferences...

And sometimes we can be a little flexible with them however.....

Some things can’t be negotiated!

What’s your ‘deal breaker’?

For me?

Anything above a dress size 12 is a no go zone. I’m sure ‘big is beautiful’ however I can’t for the life of me, cup a big massive booty! That derrière needs to be tight and firm or I’m not playing!!

Hygiene as well. Really important and let’s be honest, women should always be pristine! A ‘boggin’ woman usually means mental heath issues

So whaddya day Fabby types?

What’s your ‘deal breaker’?

Oh you’re going to cop a lot of shit from the “curvy” and “bbw” women on here for telling the truth about what men actually truly like.

But like the myth that women don’t actually like big, muscular and lean guys.

Spare us all!"

If you're so fit, smart and happy why do you need to spend so much time on the forums telling us how no men fancy bigger women ever... I've lost count of the threads I have seen you banging this particular drum on. You don't sound smart and happy to me. You sound narrow minded and mean. I am not sure where your bitterness towards larger ladies comes from? Which brings me to my dealbreakers... narrow-mindedness, meanness and bitterness

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over a year ago


"We all have our preferences...

And sometimes we can be a little flexible with them however.....

Some things can’t be negotiated!

What’s your ‘deal breaker’?

For me?

Anything above a dress size 12 is a no go zone. I’m sure ‘big is beautiful’ however I can’t for the life of me, cup a big massive booty! That derrière needs to be tight and firm or I’m not playing!!

Hygiene as well. Really important and let’s be honest, women should always be pristine! A ‘boggin’ woman usually means mental heath issues

So whaddya day Fabby types?

What’s your ‘deal breaker’?

Oh you’re going to cop a lot of shit from the “curvy” and “bbw” women on here for telling the truth about what men actually truly like.

But like the myth that women don’t actually like big, muscular and lean guys.

Spare us all!

If you're so fit, smart and happy why do you need to spend so much time on the forums telling us how no men fancy bigger women ever... I've lost count of the threads I have seen you banging this particular drum on. You don't sound smart and happy to me. You sound narrow minded and mean. I am not sure where your bitterness towards larger ladies comes from? Which brings me to my dealbreakers... narrow-mindedness, meanness and bitterness "

Yaaassss! On yersel jenwren!!!

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