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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Apart from the odd couple of guys most of the men I've met from this site are proper Crap in bed do you think this is just sheer bad luck on my side or does anyone else think the same lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apart from the odd couple of guys most of the men I've met from this site are proper Crap in bed do you think this is just sheer bad luck on my side or does anyone else think the same lol "
what makes you think it’s the guys that are crap though ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Apart from the odd couple of guys most of the men I've met from this site are proper Crap in bed do you think this is just sheer bad luck on my side or does anyone else think the same lol what makes you think it’s the guys that are crap though ? "

Me being a munter might have something to do with it lol...but I have had good sex before but some can't last more than 2 mins

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apart from the odd couple of guys most of the men I've met from this site are proper Crap in bed do you think this is just sheer bad luck on my side or does anyone else think the same lol "

I think you’ve just been unlucky & met the wrong guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apart from the odd couple of guys most of the men I've met from this site are proper Crap in bed do you think this is just sheer bad luck on my side or does anyone else think the same lol what makes you think it’s the guys that are crap though ?

Me being a munter might have something to do with it lol...but I have had good sex before but some can't last more than 2 mins "
well maybe you are just too good at sex that they can’t last more than two min

I tend to focus on a lightbulb

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By *hekaiserMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Glad we havent met up....Im shit in bed...got a "shoot on sight" thing going on these days....i see you naked-I shoot my load.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Apart from the odd couple of guys most of the men I've met from this site are proper Crap in bed do you think this is just sheer bad luck on my side or does anyone else think the same lol what makes you think it’s the guys that are crap though ?

Me being a munter might have something to do with it lol...but I have had good sex before but some can't last more than 2 mins well maybe you are just too good at sex that they can’t last more than two min

I tend to focus on a lightbulb "

I tend to think the light bulb is more interesting these days lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Apart from the odd couple of guys most of the men I've met from this site are proper Crap in bed do you think this is just sheer bad luck on my side or does anyone else think the same lol

I think you’ve just been unlucky & met the wrong guys"

I'm hoping you are going to prove me wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apart from the odd couple of guys most of the men I've met from this site are proper Crap in bed do you think this is just sheer bad luck on my side or does anyone else think the same lol "

I'm sure it takes 2 to have crap sex so by your own admission you're a duff ride

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apart from the odd couple of guys most of the men I've met from this site are proper Crap in bed do you think this is just sheer bad luck on my side or does anyone else think the same lol

I think you’ve just been unlucky & met the wrong guys

I'm hoping you are going to prove me wrong "

So am I

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Apart from the odd couple of guys most of the men I've met from this site are proper Crap in bed do you think this is just sheer bad luck on my side or does anyone else think the same lol

I'm sure it takes 2 to have crap sex so by your own admission you're a duff ride "

Possibly. ...but they always seem satisfied wanting to meet again...amazing , mind blowing and all I'm thinking is fuck I really need a good hard fucking and thrown about

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

I’ve had a mix of experiences.

Not everyone will fit you or your needs.

But there are some belters here, keep looking.

My current fave amazes me every time we meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve had a mix of experiences.

Not everyone will fit you or your needs.

But there are some belters here, keep looking.

My current fave amazes me every time we meet! "

Sound advice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ve had a mix of experiences.

Not everyone will fit you or your needs.

But there are some belters here, keep looking.

My current fave amazes me every time we meet! "

Seems like there are more crappy ones to go through lol there will be nothing left of my bed post with the amount of crap notches that are in it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve had a mix of experiences.

Not everyone will fit you or your needs.

But there are some belters here, keep looking.

My current fave amazes me every time we meet!

Seems like there are more crappy ones to go through lol there will be nothing left of my bed post with the amount of crap notches that are in it.. "

I’ll bring my tools & sort your bed when I’m round rectifying your Fab sexual issues

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"I’ve had a mix of experiences.

Not everyone will fit you or your needs.

But there are some belters here, keep looking.

My current fave amazes me every time we meet!

Seems like there are more crappy ones to go through lol there will be nothing left of my bed post with the amount of crap notches that are in it..

I’ll bring my tools & sort your bed when I’m round rectifying your Fab sexual issues"

Where were you when my bed broke two months ago!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ve had a mix of experiences.

Not everyone will fit you or your needs.

But there are some belters here, keep looking.

My current fave amazes me every time we meet!

Seems like there are more crappy ones to go through lol there will be nothing left of my bed post with the amount of crap notches that are in it..

I’ll bring my tools & sort your bed when I’m round rectifying your Fab sexual issues"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve had a mix of experiences.

Not everyone will fit you or your needs.

But there are some belters here, keep looking.

My current fave amazes me every time we meet!

Seems like there are more crappy ones to go through lol there will be nothing left of my bed post with the amount of crap notches that are in it..

I’ll bring my tools & sort your bed when I’m round rectifying your Fab sexual issues

Where were you when my bed broke two months ago!!!"

I had no idea it was broken or I’d have fixed it for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve had a mix of experiences.

Not everyone will fit you or your needs.

But there are some belters here, keep looking.

My current fave amazes me every time we meet!

Seems like there are more crappy ones to go through lol there will be nothing left of my bed post with the amount of crap notches that are in it..

I’ll bring my tools & sort your bed when I’m round rectifying your Fab sexual issues

"

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Most people will be about average and probably most people that are the most desperate will be lower quality - especially if they struggle to get lots of repeat meets.

If you meet at clubs, there are likely others who will perform better - though clubs can be a long way away.

If you meet for longer sessions then you may be able to get them to improve upon their subsequent attempts. Consider enforcement of 2 hours or so, that they commit to on the day, before you.meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Most people will be about average and probably most people that are the most desperate will be lower quality - especially if they struggle to get lots of repeat meets.

If you meet at clubs, there are likely others who will perform better - though clubs can be a long way away.

If you meet for longer sessions then you may be able to get them to improve upon their subsequent attempts. Consider enforcement of 2 hours or so, that they commit to on the day, before you.meet

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Don't fancy clubs or the likes been here a few years ago and possibly found my sexual limits.

All my meets soo far have been relaxing socials then followed by full evenings /nights meets..

Maybe I have this thing in my head that all sex here should be mind blowing because of the type of sex...but I also think that people make up the biggest pile of poo on verifications...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its because the men are dumb and think only of their 3minute pleasure and think that woman are fine with that. Some sexual education to those. Wish you more luck next time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had some god awful meets off here. So bad all I can do is laugh about them.

Had some bloody great ones too.

Persevere x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Everyone has amazing verifications...I must admit that I have been guilty of writing a verification which didn't match the meet...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone has amazing verifications...I must admit that I have been guilty of writing a verification which didn't match the meet... "

Quality over quantity Jodie

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Everyone has amazing verifications...I must admit that I have been guilty of writing a verification which didn't match the meet...

Quality over quantity Jodie"

Totally but unfortunately you rack up some quantity to find that quality lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My old profile I always found guys that held a decent conversation seemed to last the longest.

Strange ing out process I know, but it worked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also I think it depends on what you class as "Crap" and your expectations in the bedroom.

Met many a guy who was deemed as "Crap" but flung me about the place and was really good in the oral department.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone has amazing verifications...I must admit that I have been guilty of writing a verification which didn't match the meet...

Quality over quantity Jodie

Totally but unfortunately you rack up some quantity to find that quality lol"

Problem solved then eh...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My old profile I always found guys that held a decent conversation seemed to last the longest.

Strange ing out process I know, but it worked.

"

Yeah, I’d agree here. Decent logic

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By *avyboi69Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Good things come to those who wait lol x

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

No diffrence between folk on the street and folk on fab......if anything alot on fab are poor imitations.....as they are here through desperation.

of course none will admit this prefering to pretend they are a sex god/dess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No diffrence between folk on the street and folk on fab......if anything alot on fab are poor imitations.....as they are here through desperation.

of course none will admit this prefering to pretend they are a sex god/dess "

Ahahaha the irony of that statement.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"No diffrence between folk on the street and folk on fab......if anything alot on fab are poor imitations.....as they are here through desperation.

of course none will admit this prefering to pretend they are a sex god/dess

Ahahaha the irony of that statement. "
lol if I was making claims or building hype yup would be pretty ironic though I dont im me the guy next door

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No diffrence between folk on the street and folk on fab......if anything alot on fab are poor imitations.....as they are here through desperation.

of course none will admit this prefering to pretend they are a sex god/dess

Ahahaha the irony of that statement. lol if I was making claims or building hype yup would be pretty ironic though I dont im me the guy next door "

So basically your only on fab cause your desperate? A poor imitation?

Or is that only certain people in *your* view?

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By *dmirationMan
over a year ago

Bathgate


"Apart from the odd couple of guys most of the men I've met from this site are proper Crap in bed do you think this is just sheer bad luck on my side or does anyone else think the same lol "
Could name a few crap shags could name a few that couldn't even rise to the occasion lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good sex for me follows a definite meeting of minds and that's about it. Yes I have had my share of crap sex but it's usually been when it's been on impulse or for all the wrong reasons. It's not necessarily been because a guy is inexperienced or useless at sex.

That's why I prefer to take my time getting to know someone first-for me it's worth the wait.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn't agree more! I've met alot of people from here and can honestly say 2 have been "amazing". The rest....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be you’ve set your expectations too high.

Just because the tin says sex site it doesn’t necessary say if it’s branded or Lidl’s own make

Depends also on what it is your looking for. Rough and ready which usually last about 5 mins with 95% of guys anyway or long drawn out sensual stuff which aforementioned 95% wouldn’t know where to start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could be you’ve set your expectations too high.

Just because the tin says sex site it doesn’t necessary say if it’s branded or Lidl’s own make

Depends also on what it is your looking for. Rough and ready which usually last about 5 mins with 95% of guys anyway or long drawn out sensual stuff which aforementioned 95% wouldn’t know where to start "

Just looking to cum....that would be a good start haha

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By *hebs maloneyWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Look at there veris first

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Look at there veris first"

As I've said .... who here has actually wrote a verification along the lines of...

Talking to this guy for weeks now, met socially and omg what a great looking guy eventually got him in my bed and omg what a disappointment lol no one...verification here means they are real....not good

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"No diffrence between folk on the street and folk on fab......if anything alot on fab are poor imitations.....as they are here through desperation.

of course none will admit this prefering to pretend they are a sex god/dess

Ahahaha the irony of that statement. lol if I was making claims or building hype yup would be pretty ironic though I dont im me the guy next door

So basically your only on fab cause your desperate? A poor imitation?

Or is that only certain people in *your* view? "
for those that believe the hype yup thats MY view.

am I desprate well since I dont really meet much im probably a timewaster.

if somethings unique (even if bad unique) it cant be an imitation

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

Got no complaints whatsoever. There are some people i had better chemistry with than others, so do have my preferences, but none have been crap.

And mr minute can take a short break before we're at it again I think it's quite a big compliment when that happens. Must have really turned him on x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am certainly NOT desperate. My current reasons for being on fab are on my profile

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

It takes 2 to tango.

Sex has to have a wee bit of communication to ensure that both are getting what they want before it's all done and dusted!

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By *ainbowBrite57Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Each person would have a different experience with each person they meet however I would never write a verification I didn’t mean. I just wouldn’t write one.

I’m sorry you’ve not had what you’re looking for but also find it weird you choose to show verifications and then openly criticise the men you’ve met. Seems a bit mean imho.

I wish you all be best and agree with an earlier poster who talked about chat before you meet, I like that build up

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Each person would have a different experience with each person they meet however I would never write a verification I didn’t mean. I just wouldn’t write one.

I’m sorry you’ve not had what you’re looking for but also find it weird you choose to show verifications and then openly criticise the men you’ve met. Seems a bit mean imho.

I wish you all be best and agree with an earlier poster who talked about chat before you meet, I like that build up "

I'm not sure where people are on the option that I don't chat to people before I meet them! Can still have plenty of chat and banter with people to then fund out the sex is pish lol

As for my verification. ..I think you will find from my first post I'm not referring to all my meets lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had to stop a meet because it was crap lol and I don't regret doing that. Why carry on if you aren't enjoying it? x

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling


"I had to stop a meet because it was crap lol and I don't regret doing that. Why carry on if you aren't enjoying it? x"

#feelhispain lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I had to stop a meet because it was crap lol and I don't regret doing that. Why carry on if you aren't enjoying it? x"

Good on you xx and I'm guessing you spoke to this person for a while and built up some kind of friendship before your sexual meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look at there veris first

As I've said .... who here has actually wrote a verification along the lines of...

Talking to this guy for weeks now, met socially and omg what a great looking guy eventually got him in my bed and omg what a disappointment lol no one...verification here means they are real....not good"

I have, it wasn't displayed though. To be honest I normally wouldn't leave a bad verification but he did keep asking and I did tell him it would be an honest one.

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By *issT45Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Just checking out ur veries so I know who to avoid haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just checking out ur veries so I know who to avoid haha "

they are the good veris lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just checking out ur veries so I know who to avoid haha "

I know, I have already done the same.

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling


"Just checking out ur veries so I know who to avoid haha "

I can confirm for the record that it was not me lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just checking out ur veries so I know who to avoid haha

I know, I have already done the same. "

As I said they are the good ones..ones I've even went back to lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just checking out ur veries so I know who to avoid haha

I know, I have already done the same.

As I said they are the good ones..ones I've even went back to lol"

Haha okay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I think veri’s on here really mean nothing other than proving that someone is real. We all have different expectations of what a good meet or good sex is and some are more easily pleased than others. My personal thoughts are, if you manage to meet someone where there is a mutual sexual attraction & you are both on the same wavelength as to your expectations then the meet will take care of itself. I think most guys on here are just looking for a quick fuck, as soon as they are satisfied then the interest in the meet is over. Just my personal opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I think veri’s on here really mean nothing other than proving that someone is real. We all have different expectations of what a good meet or good sex is and some are more easily pleased than others. My personal thoughts are, if you manage to meet someone where there is a mutual sexual attraction & you are both on the same wavelength as to your expectations then the meet will take care of itself. I think most guys on here are just looking for a quick fuck, as soon as they are satisfied then the interest in the meet is over. Just my personal opinion."

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Personally I think veri’s on here really mean nothing other than proving that someone is real. We all have different expectations of what a good meet or good sex is and some are more easily pleased than others. My personal thoughts are, if you manage to meet someone where there is a mutual sexual attraction & you are both on the same wavelength as to your expectations then the meet will take care of itself. I think most guys on here are just looking for a quick fuck, as soon as they are satisfied then the interest in the meet is over. Just my personal opinion."

Agreed lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had to stop a meet because it was crap lol and I don't regret doing that. Why carry on if you aren't enjoying it? x"

Poor guy, you should choose better next time

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

It's more likely the problem is with you if this is how you feel.

Many here would find sex is much better if you connect on a mental level and not just physical.

You can always improve on repeat meets, but that relies on building chemistry/understanding/trust.. Otherwise, continue chipping away at your bedpost

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By *xplorer13Man
over a year ago

glenrothes


"Everyone has amazing verifications...I must admit that I have been guilty of writing a verification which didn't match the meet... "

I have read the veris guys have given you, all very positive then I read what you gave back to them and you have made them sound gods gift to fucking. Yet you complain of shit shags???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive only had one crap meet and it was the only time I haven't taken time to get to know them and make sure we have a connection before moving forward.

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

The common factor is....

Maybe time to work on your selection criteria and getting to know them better

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By *witcherooMan
over a year ago

Muirhead


"Apart from the odd couple of guys most of the men I've met from this site are proper Crap in bed do you think this is just sheer bad luck on my side or does anyone else think the same lol "

Hope none of the guys who verified you see this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One person's shite ride is another person's sex God/Goddess..... How boring a world it would be if we were all the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Imagine a single male posting this.

I am sorry that you have had bad experiences.

Michael

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apart from the odd couple of guys most of the men I've met from this site are proper Crap in bed do you think this is just sheer bad luck on my side or does anyone else think the same lol what makes you think it’s the guys that are crap though ?

Me being a munter might have something to do with it lol...but I have had good sex before but some can't last more than 2 mins "

lol (sorry)

so are these men in your verifications the ones you are taking about

.

Sometimes it is better to be discrete, rather than slag the hell out of previous partners whether good or bad, its more respectful

. but then we are all different in that respect, indeed some have no respect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually I'll say it......some females believe that slipping on a pair of holdups and sticking a Cock in their mouth is all the effort they should put in and a guy is expected to be a performing monkey.

Michael

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had to stop a meet because it was crap lol and I don't regret doing that. Why carry on if you aren't enjoying it? x

Poor guy, you should choose better next time "

It was with a couple back in the summer lol and I have chosen a lot better in the last few days x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had to stop a meet because it was crap lol and I don't regret doing that. Why carry on if you aren't enjoying it? x

#feelhispain lol"

The couple's pain and it was on my couple's profile lol x

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By *witcherooMan
over a year ago

Muirhead


"Actually I'll say it......some females believe that slipping on a pair of holdups and sticking a Cock in their mouth is all the effort they should put in and a guy is expected to be a performing monkey.

Michael "

Pretty much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actually I'll say it......some females believe that slipping on a pair of holdups and sticking a Cock in their mouth is all the effort they should put in and a guy is expected to be a performing monkey.

Michael "

On the flip side of the coin, some guys think a meet is turning up, sticking your cock in & shaking your arse a bit. Like I said in my earlier post, some people including male & female are a bit easier pleased than others & no doubting some people will have unrealistic expectations of a meet. Different strokes for different folks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actually I'll say it......some females believe that slipping on a pair of holdups and sticking a Cock in their mouth is all the effort they should put in and a guy is expected to be a performing monkey.

Michael "

Fair point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many talk a good talk.....I think fab can be very full of big ego profiles etc. Verifications are usually exaggerated. In my 6/7 years on and off fab I’ve met a handful of people who’ve genuinely left me speechless. I have fairly low expectations now but personally I find men, women and couples who are older than me are usually much better meets. Both mentally and physically. Good luck with your quest for mind blowing sex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actually I'll say it......some females believe that slipping on a pair of holdups and sticking a Cock in their mouth is all the effort they should put in and a guy is expected to be a performing monkey.

Michael "

Very valid point! I like to think I have a little bit more about me than that but....I think a big part of sex is knowing your own body and what gets you off and also trying to understand the person or persons you’re with too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What happened to the good old fashioned way of swinging with friends? Is this now replaced with soulless,empty sex then?

The meets that give me greatest satisfaction on fab are the pure kink meets and I have met very few guys who are into that on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What happened to the good old fashioned way of swinging with friends? Is this now replaced with soulless,empty sex then?

The meets that give me greatest satisfaction on fab are the pure kink meets and I have met very few guys who are into that on here."

would love to know your ideas of "kinks" sure open to trying new things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What happened to the good old fashioned way of swinging with friends? Is this now replaced with soulless,empty sex then?

The meets that give me greatest satisfaction on fab are the pure kink meets and I have met very few guys who are into that on here.

would love to know your ideas of "kinks" sure open to trying new things"

You can pm me then as some of it not for the squeamish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What happened to the good old fashioned way of swinging with friends? Is this now replaced with soulless,empty sex then?

The meets that give me greatest satisfaction on fab are the pure kink meets and I have met very few guys who are into that on here.

would love to know your ideas of "kinks" sure open to trying new things

You can pm me then as some of it not for the squeamish"

pm sent, was it a good or bad move

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By *witcherooMan
over a year ago

Muirhead

I always focus on the person I’m meeting it’s partly why I stay caged but give the other person the key. So that when they have been satisfied entirely they can unlock me....but only if THEY want to.

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock

I dare say it's like a previous poster said, it's the same as if hooking up with someone in a bar, you don't know what you're getting till you're "getting" it. But if you're chatting/social meet, then maybe lay down the law as to what you expect from them, what you like to do and/or what you'd like from them.

Just a thought, if they 'finish' early, can they not restart their engine and maybe slip into gear (lol, sorry} again, or is it that they don't have the imagination to keep you amused.?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I've long since given up on sex here and now practicing celibacy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely they goes down on you to finish you off

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By *unboytoyMan
over a year ago

scotland

Plenty women on here talk a good game as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

iv not fucked you yet lol

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By *heesyheadbandMan
over a year ago

Glenrothes

maybe you need to stop watching so much porn?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My fab experience must be a different one from the norm then cos I seem to manage to find mutually rewarding fun . Sometimes ages after chatting and building it up and sometimes after 3/4 messages .

All you have to do is state what you like and then go for it.

I agree with some of what a previous poster said that some ladies do expect you to turn up and do everything as they stare at the ceiling but I’ve also walked into a house and stripped and taken what is given.

The OP has admitted that she is part of the problem by giving flattering verifications, what chance do you stand of meeting some one of your expectations of others have had a shit time with them but say they are amazing ??

It’s all Swingers and roundabouts folks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What happened to the good old fashioned way of swinging with friends? Is this now replaced with soulless,empty sex then?

The meets that give me greatest satisfaction on fab are the pure kink meets and I have met very few guys who are into that on here.

would love to know your ideas of "kinks" sure open to trying new things"

You’ve got me curious now aswel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am wary of posting my interests in forums tbh as a fair few folk can be put off. However this site should be open to people with all types of fetishes. I am happy to discuss with people who are genuinely into this scene

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By *anny77Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I’ve had loads of great meets... but nobody ever wants to meet a second time... I guess they were overly fulfilled... probably need a wee rest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am wary of posting my interests in forums tbh as a fair few folk can be put off. However this site should be open to people with all types of fetishes. I am happy to discuss with people who are genuinely into this scene"

Feel free to message me, I’m curious to your kinks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be interesting to know op if any of your meets have read this post and if they have and were to message you asking if they are a good or crap shag would you be honest with them??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It would be interesting to know op if any of your meets have read this post and if they have and were to message you asking if they are a good or crap shag would you be honest with them??"

None soo far

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My fab experience must be a different one from the norm then cos I seem to manage to find mutually rewarding fun . Sometimes ages after chatting and building it up and sometimes after 3/4 messages .

All you have to do is state what you like and then go for it.

I agree with some of what a previous poster said that some ladies do expect you to turn up and do everything as they stare at the ceiling but I’ve also walked into a house and stripped and taken what is given.

The OP has admitted that she is part of the problem by giving flattering verifications, what chance do you stand of meeting some one of your expectations of others have had a shit time with them but say they are amazing ??

It’s all Swingers and roundabouts folks. "

I'm not one for sitting looking at the ceiling. ..I like to get tore in ...I absolutely love giving and love foreplay. ..

I think I possibly have too high expectations of the site ...I mean some girls/couples with over 60 odd verification saying they have never had a bad meet....I find that pretty hard to believe not unless they are the bad half lol

I will plod along and keep looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My fab experience must be a different one from the norm then cos I seem to manage to find mutually rewarding fun . Sometimes ages after chatting and building it up and sometimes after 3/4 messages .

All you have to do is state what you like and then go for it.

I agree with some of what a previous poster said that some ladies do expect you to turn up and do everything as they stare at the ceiling but I’ve also walked into a house and stripped and taken what is given.

The OP has admitted that she is part of the problem by giving flattering verifications, what chance do you stand of meeting some one of your expectations of others have had a shit time with them but say they are amazing ??

It’s all Swingers and roundabouts folks.

I'm not one for sitting looking at the ceiling. ..I like to get tore in ...I absolutely love giving and love foreplay. ..

I think I possibly have too high expectations of the site ...I mean some girls/couples with over 60 odd verification saying they have never had a bad meet....I find that pretty hard to believe not unless they are the bad half lol

I will plod along and keep looking

"

That’s the spirit haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apart from the odd couple of guys most of the men I've met from this site are proper Crap in bed do you think this is just sheer bad luck on my side or does anyone else think the same lol "

Most men on here are completely socially inept and have very little of any experience of woman and sex.

You only have to look at their pics and profile blurb to see that they are completely useless and desperate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve had a mix of experiences.

Not everyone will fit you or your needs.

But there are some belters here, keep looking.

My current fave amazes me every time we meet! "

What she said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apart from the odd couple of guys most of the men I've met from this site are proper Crap in bed do you think this is just sheer bad luck on my side or does anyone else think the same lol

Most men on here are completely socially inept and have very little of any experience of woman and sex.

You only have to look at their pics and profile blurb to see that they are completely useless and desperate."

Sweeping statement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have u tried telling a guy what u want him to do to u, what you want, what hes doing wrong etc? I'd rather be told than come on here to find i was a shit lay lol

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Communication is key - cliche cos it's true.

That's why good chat usually = good sex.

Also because you need to feel comfortable enough with them and your own sexuality to be able to say what you do and don't like. Especially saying what you do like, inc before and after meets if you think you'll meet them again "when u did X it felt amazing/really turned me on" then they know what you like AND if they reciprocate you know what they like too and give them more pleasure which I for one find very sexy.

My early days on here I was a bit too quiet and reticent, now I'm probably too blunt

But it means I get what I like and hopefully they do too, most of my meets have wanted to meet again, I take that as a lovely compliment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I think veri’s on here really mean nothing other than proving that someone is real. We all have different expectations of what a good meet or good sex is and some are more easily pleased than others. My personal thoughts are, if you manage to meet someone where there is a mutual sexual attraction & you are both on the same wavelength as to your expectations then the meet will take care of itself. I think most guys on here are just looking for a quick fuck, as soon as they are satisfied then the interest in the meet is over. Just my personal opinion."

Totally agree bigyin although at the bottom 'quick fuck then the meet is over' part is for a lot of men, but not all. I aint on for a quick fuck, if I wanted a quick fuck I could just go to a pub/nightclub and pull. I like to connect and get on with people as my intentions is for a great night/time for us all and if fun happens then even better.

As stated, One persons filthy sex is someone else's vanilla.

Connecting with someone and having fun is different for others. One persons long night of sex might be someones two hour quicky to get started.

I do admit, profiles that looking for a quick fuck, I aint interested in, even if they contact me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not looking to start any arguments or anything but I don’t think I’d ever be such a dick and say something like this to an open forum where my previous meets could see it. Each to their own and all but it’s not exactly a very nice statement to put up. Now if a single guy had posted this...

I now wonder, could the thoughts of the shite sex possibly be linked to poor attitude towards the meet or lack of combined chemistry during the meet in general? If so, you might find those same guys are thinking that it was you that was the crap shag....

Just saying..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not looking to start any arguments or anything but I don’t think I’d ever be such a dick and say something like this to an open forum where my previous meets could see it. Each to their own and all but it’s not exactly a very nice statement to put up. Now if a single guy had posted this...

I now wonder, could the thoughts of the shite sex possibly be linked to poor attitude towards the meet or lack of combined chemistry during the meet in general? If so, you might find those same guys are thinking that it was you that was the crap shag....

Just saying..

"

True, when someone fucks, there is at least two of them, meaning two views of the time.

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"Not looking to start any arguments or anything but I don’t think I’d ever be such a dick and say something like this to an open forum where my previous meets could see it. Each to their own and all but it’s not exactly a very nice statement to put up. Now if a single guy had posted this...

I now wonder, could the thoughts of the shite sex possibly be linked to poor attitude towards the meet or lack of combined chemistry during the meet in general? If so, you might find those same guys are thinking that it was you that was the crap shag....

Just saying..

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not looking to start any arguments or anything but I don’t think I’d ever be such a dick and say something like this to an open forum where my previous meets could see it. Each to their own and all but it’s not exactly a very nice statement to put up. Now if a single guy had posted this...

I now wonder, could the thoughts of the shite sex possibly be linked to poor attitude towards the meet or lack of combined chemistry during the meet in general? If so, you might find those same guys are thinking that it was you that was the crap shag....

Just saying..

"

Yup.

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By *omjones12Man
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Apart from the odd couple of guys most of the men I've met from this site are proper Crap in bed do you think this is just sheer bad luck on my side or does anyone else think the same lol "

It's just you haven't met me yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would probably cum real fast at first the stamina comes with time and familiarity personally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"iv not fucked you yet lol "

Neitha have i

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv met some fantastic fucks in the past I had a great group of gang bangers lol

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By *ntirelyBonkersWoman
over a year ago

Dundee


"Apart from the odd couple of guys most of the men I've met from this site are proper Crap in bed do you think this is just sheer bad luck on my side or does anyone else think the same lol what makes you think it’s the guys that are crap though ?

Me being a munter might have something to do with it lol...but I have had good sex before but some can't last more than 2 mins well maybe you are just too good at sex that they can’t last more than two min

I tend to focus on a lightbulb "

Funny how this person isn’t here anymore

Maybe told they’re a shite fuck. Cheeky bastard

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By *ntirelyBonkersWoman
over a year ago

Dundee


"Apart from the odd couple of guys most of the men I've met from this site are proper Crap in bed do you think this is just sheer bad luck on my side or does anyone else think the same lol "

I’ve got to say I’ve only had a few disappointing meets thankfully.

Generally comes from guys boasting about how awesome they are before meeting, etc. Then they fail to live up to expectations. Especially when you’re a lady with a large appetite for sex. Me making this clear to them.

Advice to guys. Disappointment usually comes as a result of a guy fucking and leaving quicker than it did for a sexy lady to get ready to please the man.

Comedic when a guy has their username like lovetolick or something along the lines & spends 10mins doing so too hahahaha.

True life stories right there

But thankfully there’s the odd gem out there. X

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By *ntirelyBonkersWoman
over a year ago

Dundee


"Not looking to start any arguments or anything but I don’t think I’d ever be such a dick and say something like this to an open forum where my previous meets could see it. Each to their own and all but it’s not exactly a very nice statement to put up. Now if a single guy had posted this...

I now wonder, could the thoughts of the shite sex possibly be linked to poor attitude towards the meet or lack of combined chemistry during the meet in general? If so, you might find those same guys are thinking that it was you that was the crap shag....

Just saying..

"

True, can be down to being mismatched sexually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously the guys youve fucked only wanted to cum and go. So they did.

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By *onkeymagic50Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour


"My old profile I always found guys that held a decent conversation seemed to last the longest.

Strange ing out process I know, but it worked.

"

That's how you find a good sex meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Apart from the odd couple of guys most of the men I've met from this site are proper Crap in bed do you think this is just sheer bad luck on my side or does anyone else think the same lol

I’ve got to say I’ve only had a few disappointing meets thankfully.

Generally comes from guys boasting about how awesome they are before meeting, etc. Then they fail to live up to expectations. Especially when you’re a lady with a large appetite for sex. Me making this clear to them.

Advice to guys. Disappointment usually comes as a result of a guy fucking and leaving quicker than it did for a sexy lady to get ready to please the man.

Comedic when a guy has their username like lovetolick or something along the lines & spends 10mins doing so too hahahaha.

True life stories right there

But thankfully there’s the odd gem out there. X"

Spot on chick. ..and there are definitely "the odd gem out there" that's for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Obviously the guys youve fucked only wanted to cum and go. So they did. "

nice one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Obviously the guys youve fucked only wanted to cum and go. So they did.

nice one "

Wasnt having a go at you miss G.

Just stating the obvious. Personally id rather have a wank than cum and go.

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By *ntirelyBonkersWoman
over a year ago

Dundee


"Obviously the guys youve fucked only wanted to cum and go. So they did. "

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By *ntirelyBonkersWoman
over a year ago

Dundee


"Apart from the odd couple of guys most of the men I've met from this site are proper Crap in bed do you think this is just sheer bad luck on my side or does anyone else think the same lol

I’ve got to say I’ve only had a few disappointing meets thankfully.

Generally comes from guys boasting about how awesome they are before meeting, etc. Then they fail to live up to expectations. Especially when you’re a lady with a large appetite for sex. Me making this clear to them.

Advice to guys. Disappointment usually comes as a result of a guy fucking and leaving quicker than it did for a sexy lady to get ready to please the man.

Comedic when a guy has their username like lovetolick or something along the lines & spends 10mins doing so too hahahaha.

True life stories right there

But thankfully there’s the odd gem out there. X

Spot on chick. ..and there are definitely "the odd gem out there" that's for sure "

Exactly xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apart from the odd couple of guys most of the men I've met from this site are proper Crap in bed do you think this is just sheer bad luck on my side or does anyone else think the same lol "

Be those who verified you are thinking “thanks a fucking lot”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apart from the odd couple of guys most of the men I've met from this site are proper Crap in bed do you think this is just sheer bad luck on my side or does anyone else think the same lol "

Remember a lot if his will cum fast on a first meet! Familiarity and being a but more comfortable goes a long way! Girls don't miss out on great sex because you got a guy so worked up he embarrassed himself !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve had a mix of experiences.

Not everyone will fit you or your needs.

But there are some belters here, keep looking.

My current fave amazes me every time we meet!

Seems like there are more crappy ones to go through lol there will be nothing left of my bed post with the amount of crap notches that are in it.. "

Men are like puppies. You need to train them!!

Most get there sexual ed from porn and wanking to much!

Not from a real woman.... we need to cultivate the good ones and train the bad ones into good ones.....

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By *hedevilwearspradaWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere nearby


"My old profile I always found guys that held a decent conversation seemed to last the longest.

Strange ing out process I know, but it worked.

Yeah, I’d agree here. Decent logic "

Same for me. I’ve found every meet enjoyable, partly because I’ve ensured I’ve had a connection with the person first.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My old profile I always found guys that held a decent conversation seemed to last the longest.

Strange ing out process I know, but it worked.

Yeah, I’d agree here. Decent logic

I'm wasn't talking about the "meet" as I've always had a social first and then met at later time for shenanigans and always enjoyed the social part. ....

I'm talking about the actual sex....and I think you would be exaggerating if you were to say the sex has always hit the spot for you!

I actually always put in a lot of time and effort to get to know the person and have always got on with them but maybe that's what is wrong...I get on soo well with people and excited about meeting them for adult fun to come out frustrated because I either didn't climax or the actual fun was Erm. ....cut short!

Same for me. I’ve found every meet enjoyable, partly because I’ve ensured I’ve had a connection with the person first. "

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