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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been thinking about going to one of the two clubs recently but I'm just wondering is it seen as "weird" rocking up as just a single male?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been thinking about going to one of the two clubs recently but I'm just wondering is it seen as "weird" rocking up as just a single male? "

Have you read any forum posts or reviews about either club?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have and there's mixed feelings! Some people like it, others don't. Just wondering what people's general opinions about it were!

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


"Been thinking about going to one of the two clubs recently but I'm just wondering is it seen as "weird" rocking up as just a single male?

Have you read any forum posts or reviews about either club?

"

Oi!!! Stop it

I would just go for it and find out for yourself. Single males at CJs aren't seen as weird at all. I'm really quite happy they're there Couldn't tell you what after 8's like. Never been there x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been thinking about going to one of the two clubs recently but I'm just wondering is it seen as "weird" rocking up as just a single male?

Have you read any forum posts or reviews about either club?

Oi!!! Stop it

I would just go for it and find out for yourself. Single males at CJs aren't seen as weird at all. I'm really quite happy they're there Couldn't tell you what after 8's like. Never been there x"

I was just saying.... he asked if it was seen as weird. Read any thread on either of them and it's obvious it's not weird at all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fair enough I suppose. There is only one way to find out!

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

No it’s normal, if you fancy trying them go along x

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


"Been thinking about going to one of the two clubs recently but I'm just wondering is it seen as "weird" rocking up as just a single male?

Have you read any forum posts or reviews about either club?

Oi!!! Stop it

I would just go for it and find out for yourself. Single males at CJs aren't seen as weird at all. I'm really quite happy they're there Couldn't tell you what after 8's like. Never been there x

I was just saying.... he asked if it was seen as weird. Read any thread on either of them and it's obvious it's not weird at all.

"

Ah ok... Thought you were referring to other posts kicking about just now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been thinking about going to one of the two clubs recently but I'm just wondering is it seen as "weird" rocking up as just a single male?

Have you read any forum posts or reviews about either club?

Oi!!! Stop it

I would just go for it and find out for yourself. Single males at CJs aren't seen as weird at all. I'm really quite happy they're there Couldn't tell you what after 8's like. Never been there x

I was just saying.... he asked if it was seen as weird. Read any thread on either of them and it's obvious it's not weird at all.

Ah ok... Thought you were referring to other posts kicking about just now "

Maybe a few too many at times for my liking, but it's definitely not seen as weird. I only commented because it was such a strange question. In hindsight, I'm guessing it's more of a look at me type post than a serious question.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Only way to find out is to go along to either or both and make your own mind up ...everyone has differing views some prefer 1 over the other ..what I will say is you won't be the only single guy at either

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


"Been thinking about going to one of the two clubs recently but I'm just wondering is it seen as "weird" rocking up as just a single male?

Have you read any forum posts or reviews about either club?

Oi!!! Stop it

I would just go for it and find out for yourself. Single males at CJs aren't seen as weird at all. I'm really quite happy they're there Couldn't tell you what after 8's like. Never been there x

I was just saying.... he asked if it was seen as weird. Read any thread on either of them and it's obvious it's not weird at all.

Ah ok... Thought you were referring to other posts kicking about just now

Maybe a few too many at times for my liking, but it's definitely not seen as weird. I only commented because it was such a strange question. In hindsight, I'm guessing it's more of a look at me type post than a serious question."

No it's not!! I did the exact same thing when I was about to go for the first time. Oh wait... Look at me!! It did get me a date (who didn't show up, but still...) And it gets you in touch with some regular clubbers, make some connections before you dive into the deep end

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By *r humanMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

Never been to cj yet might go next year use go to after eight club but try both club see how get on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been thinking about going to one of the two clubs recently but I'm just wondering is it seen as "weird" rocking up as just a single male?

Have you read any forum posts or reviews about either club?

Oi!!! Stop it

I would just go for it and find out for yourself. Single males at CJs aren't seen as weird at all. I'm really quite happy they're there Couldn't tell you what after 8's like. Never been there x

I was just saying.... he asked if it was seen as weird. Read any thread on either of them and it's obvious it's not weird at all.

Ah ok... Thought you were referring to other posts kicking about just now

Maybe a few too many at times for my liking, but it's definitely not seen as weird. I only commented because it was such a strange question. In hindsight, I'm guessing it's more of a look at me type post than a serious question.

No it's not!! I did the exact same thing when I was about to go for the first time. Oh wait... Look at me!! It did get me a date (who didn't show up, but still...) And it gets you in touch with some regular clubbers, make some connections before you dive into the deep end "

They regulars are never off the posts should be tag system with an opt out for them, same posts every bloody week

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"Been thinking about going to one of the two clubs recently but I'm just wondering is it seen as "weird" rocking up as just a single male?

Have you read any forum posts or reviews about either club?

Oi!!! Stop it

I would just go for it and find out for yourself. Single males at CJs aren't seen as weird at all. I'm really quite happy they're there Couldn't tell you what after 8's like. Never been there x

I was just saying.... he asked if it was seen as weird. Read any thread on either of them and it's obvious it's not weird at all.

Ah ok... Thought you were referring to other posts kicking about just now

Maybe a few too many at times for my liking, but it's definitely not seen as weird. I only commented because it was such a strange question. In hindsight, I'm guessing it's more of a look at me type post than a serious question.

No it's not!! I did the exact same thing when I was about to go for the first time. Oh wait... Look at me!! It did get me a date (who didn't show up, but still...) And it gets you in touch with some regular clubbers, make some connections before you dive into the deep end

They regulars are never off the posts should be tag system with an opt out for them, same posts every bloody week "

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


"Been thinking about going to one of the two clubs recently but I'm just wondering is it seen as "weird" rocking up as just a single male?

Have you read any forum posts or reviews about either club?

Oi!!! Stop it

I would just go for it and find out for yourself. Single males at CJs aren't seen as weird at all. I'm really quite happy they're there Couldn't tell you what after 8's like. Never been there x

I was just saying.... he asked if it was seen as weird. Read any thread on either of them and it's obvious it's not weird at all.

Ah ok... Thought you were referring to other posts kicking about just now

Maybe a few too many at times for my liking, but it's definitely not seen as weird. I only commented because it was such a strange question. In hindsight, I'm guessing it's more of a look at me type post than a serious question.

No it's not!! I did the exact same thing when I was about to go for the first time. Oh wait... Look at me!! It did get me a date (who didn't show up, but still...) And it gets you in touch with some regular clubbers, make some connections before you dive into the deep end

They regulars are never off the posts should be tag system with an opt out for them, same posts every bloody week "

I think the posts are perfect. Give you a good idea who's coming. But then for me it's not a weekly thing to keep track off, since I only go out every 2 or 3 months

Was actually wondering who to expect at "escape the family" on 27th December. Can feel a new post coming on.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been thinking about going to one of the two clubs recently but I'm just wondering is it seen as "weird" rocking up as just a single male?

Have you read any forum posts or reviews about either club?

Oi!!! Stop it

I would just go for it and find out for yourself. Single males at CJs aren't seen as weird at all. I'm really quite happy they're there Couldn't tell you what after 8's like. Never been there x

I was just saying.... he asked if it was seen as weird. Read any thread on either of them and it's obvious it's not weird at all.

Ah ok... Thought you were referring to other posts kicking about just now

Maybe a few too many at times for my liking, but it's definitely not seen as weird. I only commented because it was such a strange question. In hindsight, I'm guessing it's more of a look at me type post than a serious question.

No it's not!! I did the exact same thing when I was about to go for the first time. Oh wait... Look at me!! It did get me a date (who didn't show up, but still...) And it gets you in touch with some regular clubbers, make some connections before you dive into the deep end

They regulars are never off the posts should be tag system with an opt out for them, same posts every bloody week

I think the posts are perfect. Give you a good idea who's coming. But then for me it's not a weekly thing to keep track off, since I only go out every 2 or 3 months

Was actually wondering who to expect at "escape the family" on 27th December. Can feel a new post coming on....."

We might be there

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


"Been thinking about going to one of the two clubs recently but I'm just wondering is it seen as "weird" rocking up as just a single male?

Have you read any forum posts or reviews about either club?

Oi!!! Stop it

I would just go for it and find out for yourself. Single males at CJs aren't seen as weird at all. I'm really quite happy they're there Couldn't tell you what after 8's like. Never been there x

I was just saying.... he asked if it was seen as weird. Read any thread on either of them and it's obvious it's not weird at all.

Ah ok... Thought you were referring to other posts kicking about just now

Maybe a few too many at times for my liking, but it's definitely not seen as weird. I only commented because it was such a strange question. In hindsight, I'm guessing it's more of a look at me type post than a serious question.

No it's not!! I did the exact same thing when I was about to go for the first time. Oh wait... Look at me!! It did get me a date (who didn't show up, but still...) And it gets you in touch with some regular clubbers, make some connections before you dive into the deep end

They regulars are never off the posts should be tag system with an opt out for them, same posts every bloody week

I think the posts are perfect. Give you a good idea who's coming. But then for me it's not a weekly thing to keep track off, since I only go out every 2 or 3 months

Was actually wondering who to expect at "escape the family" on 27th December. Can feel a new post coming on.....

We might be there "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Been thinking about going to one of the two clubs recently but I'm just wondering is it seen as "weird" rocking up as just a single male?

Have you read any forum posts or reviews about either club?

Oi!!! Stop it

I would just go for it and find out for yourself. Single males at CJs aren't seen as weird at all. I'm really quite happy they're there Couldn't tell you what after 8's like. Never been there x

I was just saying.... he asked if it was seen as weird. Read any thread on either of them and it's obvious it's not weird at all.

Ah ok... Thought you were referring to other posts kicking about just now

Maybe a few too many at times for my liking, but it's definitely not seen as weird. I only commented because it was such a strange question. In hindsight, I'm guessing it's more of a look at me type post than a serious question."

How is it a strange question? For someone who's never been to anywhere like that I'd imagine it'd make them very nervous turning up on their own, i certainly would be and it's nice to know that I'm not going to be stared at like a creep if i do show up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been thinking about going to one of the two clubs recently but I'm just wondering is it seen as "weird" rocking up as just a single male?

Have you read any forum posts or reviews about either club?

Oi!!! Stop it

I would just go for it and find out for yourself. Single males at CJs aren't seen as weird at all. I'm really quite happy they're there Couldn't tell you what after 8's like. Never been there x

I was just saying.... he asked if it was seen as weird. Read any thread on either of them and it's obvious it's not weird at all.

Ah ok... Thought you were referring to other posts kicking about just now

Maybe a few too many at times for my liking, but it's definitely not seen as weird. I only commented because it was such a strange question. In hindsight, I'm guessing it's more of a look at me type post than a serious question.

How is it a strange question? For someone who's never been to anywhere like that I'd imagine it'd make them very nervous turning up on their own, i certainly would be and it's nice to know that I'm not going to be stared at like a creep if i do show up. "

You asked if it was weird to rock up as a single guy. A quick look at any post would tell you it isn't viewed as weird in any way. Being viewed as a creep is a totally different thing.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been thinking about going to one of the two clubs recently but I'm just wondering is it seen as "weird" rocking up as just a single male?

Have you read any forum posts or reviews about either club?

Oi!!! Stop it

I would just go for it and find out for yourself. Single males at CJs aren't seen as weird at all. I'm really quite happy they're there Couldn't tell you what after 8's like. Never been there x

I was just saying.... he asked if it was seen as weird. Read any thread on either of them and it's obvious it's not weird at all.

Ah ok... Thought you were referring to other posts kicking about just now

Maybe a few too many at times for my liking, but it's definitely not seen as weird. I only commented because it was such a strange question. In hindsight, I'm guessing it's more of a look at me type post than a serious question.

How is it a strange question? For someone who's never been to anywhere like that I'd imagine it'd make them very nervous turning up on their own, i certainly would be and it's nice to know that I'm not going to be stared at like a creep if i do show up.

You asked if it was weird to rock up as a single guy. A quick look at any post would tell you it isn't viewed as weird in any way. Being viewed as a creep is a totally different thing....."

And I think everyone on knows a creep when we see one lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been thinking about going to one of the two clubs recently but I'm just wondering is it seen as "weird" rocking up as just a single male?

Have you read any forum posts or reviews about either club?

Oi!!! Stop it

I would just go for it and find out for yourself. Single males at CJs aren't seen as weird at all. I'm really quite happy they're there Couldn't tell you what after 8's like. Never been there x

I was just saying.... he asked if it was seen as weird. Read any thread on either of them and it's obvious it's not weird at all.

Ah ok... Thought you were referring to other posts kicking about just now

Maybe a few too many at times for my liking, but it's definitely not seen as weird. I only commented because it was such a strange question. In hindsight, I'm guessing it's more of a look at me type post than a serious question.

How is it a strange question? For someone who's never been to anywhere like that I'd imagine it'd make them very nervous turning up on their own, i certainly would be and it's nice to know that I'm not going to be stared at like a creep if i do show up.

You asked if it was weird to rock up as a single guy. A quick look at any post would tell you it isn't viewed as weird in any way. Being viewed as a creep is a totally different thing.....

And I think everyone on knows a creep when we see one lol x"

In general lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been to CJ’s as a single male and had a great night, don’t hold back and go for it

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