FabSwingers.com forum: What’s one thing you would tell someone in their 20s to avoid?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Credit cards. They are the devil!

Cigarettes. There’s a reason why they hot ‘Asian babes’ curdle overnight. They smoke like chimneys!

Whaddya say Fabbers?

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Marriage or at least getting settled down too early. There’s a whole world to explore and a whole sexuality and sexual experience to discover too.

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Conforming!

Just be yourself

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

By time they hit 20 it’s already too late if they’ve learnt by then

John

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

marrage, been there done that NEVER AGAIN

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any kind of plastic surgery (unless there is a medical reason).

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"Conforming!

Just be yourself"

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Regrets!

Way to avoid them? Try stuff! That job you think you won't get, travel, clothes you think won't suit you, new friends, new places for nights out...

Your 20's are for discovering you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being conned into believing that Scotland is the be all and end all......get out and see the world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aids.

Conversation killer that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Drifting aimlessly beyond the age of 30.

Settling down too seriously before the age of 30.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Growing up and becoming an adult.

It's a waste of time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Avoid looking in the mirror and saying your fat

When you were skinny!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being conned into believing that Scotland is the be all and end all......get out and see the world."

Definitely.....travel the world!

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Travel is definitely recommended, if possible I would even recommend living in a completely different country/culture for at least a year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Told all my kids just be yourself be happy and respect and older generation live your life to the full but keep your wit's about wot you do and never be shy to ask for help when things get tough

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Told all my kids just be yourself be happy and respect and older generation live your life to the full but keep your wit's about wot you do and never be shy to ask for help when things get tough "

My daughter driving me NUTS not asking for help when needed - she thinks it's 'weak' trying to get her to realise it's not, we all need help sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take a gap year.

Experiment sexauly

Backpack on the Gapyear.

Love the skin your in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Take a gap year.

Experiment sexauly

Backpack on the Gapyear.

Love the skin your in."

That would be avoid not doing the above

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By *estless nativeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

Drink more tequila.

If you cant remember doing anything embarassing last night, then it never happened

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stay out of Fabswingers and get a real life

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By *urglasCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Spending your spare time replying to forum posts lol.

I'd tell them to avoid putting themselves down. Remember you are more capable than you think.

"Credit cards. They are the devil!

Cigarettes. There’s a reason why they hot ‘Asian babes’ curdle overnight. They smoke like chimneys!

Whaddya say Fabbers?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting into a relationship with someone you don't know well. Be friends first x

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

Ha ha you lot. Would you give the same advice to a 20 year old woman and your 20 year old daughter?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men

only joking I'd tell them to avoid getting tied down take time to find you travel, live a little , explore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Avoid doing things the way they have always been done. Ignore what past generations have said and done, forge your own way. They had their chance, made a mess, so it your turn.

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By *xplorer13Man
over a year ago

glenrothes

STDs not a great chat up line

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By *dmirationMan
over a year ago

Bathgate

Nothing as its all about Learning! I would do everything all over again including the bad things! This is the male half here...

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By *ommickMan
over a year ago

cork

Marriage

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By *litter and GrumpCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Marriage

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By *irky_coupleCouple
over a year ago

kirky

Wish I could go back and give myself a talking to. 7 weeks off turning 40 with lots of regrets

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By *unlovingx2Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Fron ever Ever voting for the SNP, labour, liberals,Greens half the Conservatives and any other party that does not put the British people first. And introduce some national pride. Oh and become a joiner, plumber, nurse, engineer, rather than do a useless politics degree or media studies course at looniversity, where even gender and normality have no place.

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock

Women who love drama, who wake up thinking, 'how can I make this day about me'

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