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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are verifications really the be all and end all on here. They are so easily faked, we get guys everyday offering to give us a verification if we send them some pics, so we can't see what the big deal about verifications are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't meet someone without any

Me...personally

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Even though their verifications could be false?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol everything could be fake on here

But I like to look for a paper trail

If you have a gut feeling their fake.. they prob are so no point perusing

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Verifications aren't the be all and end all but can help suss someone out. Use common sense and the fakes are relatively easy to spot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even though their verifications could be false? "

If a profile is, say a week old and verified and the verification is by someone who has not long joined either, I usually take it as a fake. Well I don't believe it so I would need a lot of convincing.

I trust verification of people who I know on here, chatted too, in chat or even forums. SO if a newbie has been verified by someone I know then I see bit as trust worthy, the rest im still unsure so I treat them as the same.

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

Everything can be faked but it is a case of examining the profile and accompanying chat with a slightly jaundiced eye until proven otherwise.

For instance, if I was contacted by a Sparse profile with one photo of a young blonde I would be immediately suspicious.

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By *ainbowBrite57Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Verifications aren't the be all and end all but can help suss someone out. Use common sense and the fakes are relatively easy to spot. "

Agree with this, plus they can give a flavour to someone you don't get from just a profile.

I think it's quite easy to spot the fakes verifying fakes

R x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely verifications for me. Recent ones which must be non-cam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely verifications for me. Recent ones which must be non-cam"

As a rule I only meet verified users. Hopefully reduces the pic collectors and fakes.

I have verified brand new profiles in the past if I’ve met them on a previous profile they have had xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a guy with a profile of 10 months with no verifications posted this he would get torn to shreds.

Just saying....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only meet verified people it's a must for me more than one verification by meeting xx

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

They are not the be all but they can serve to assist in deciding whether you believe someone is genuine

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By *illnatMan
over a year ago

wherever i need to be

A necessary part of the site to an extent but remember we were all newbies at one time. We have to get them somehow.

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

Wouldn’t say they are a decision maker for us ....can the fakers and dreamers out fairly quick

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By *ainbowBrite57Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"A necessary part of the site to an extent but remember we were all newbies at one time. We have to get them somehow. "

Very true, and I will sometimes meet new joiners but as a purely social meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take all verifications with a pinch of salt and the person is only real to me when i meet them face to face .

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill


"If a guy with a profile of 10 months with no verifications posted this he would get torn to shreds.

Just saying...."

thought the same.

Jim

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"Even though their verifications could be false? "

Yeah, all ours are fake

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill


"Are verifications really the be all and end all on here. They are so easily faked, we get guys everyday offering to give us a verification if we send them some pics, so we can't see what the big deal about verifications are. "

10 months with no verification, raises alarm bells with me. Definitely would not trust anyone that has been here that long and not had a verification from someone that is known

Jim

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By *srataFMan
over a year ago

edin/aberdeen/dundee/glasgow

Some people have there verifications are a badge of honour on fab. Personally I'm not fussed if I get one after a meet. X

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee


"A necessary part of the site to an extent but remember we were all newbies at one time. We have to get them somehow.

Very true, and I will sometimes meet new joiners but as a purely social meet. "

Same, happy to meet newbies for a social after chatting for a while on here

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By *witcherooMan
over a year ago

Muirhead

Just another bullshit filter to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if you can't seem 2 even get close 2 a meet? I'm respectful but I'm a smoker & guess a bit older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some verifications make me reach for the block button. I mean come on .......really!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even though their verifications could be false?

If a profile is, say a week old and verified and the verification is by someone who has not long joined either, I usually take it as a fake. Well I don't believe it so I would need a lot of convincing.

I trust verification of people who I know on here, chatted too, in chat or even forums. SO if a newbie has been verified by someone I know then I see bit as trust worthy, the rest im still unsure so I treat them as the same.

"

indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'met this amazing guy/girl at the greedy girls gang bang at my flat where you pay to get in and wipe your feet on the way out. let me tell you they are one hot piece of stuff'

that kinda puts me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are verifications really the be all and end all on here. They are so easily faked, we get guys everyday offering to give us a verification if we send them some pics, so we can't see what the big deal about verifications are. "

I'd assume some sherlock work would give you an indication that the system does work to an extent

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By *earded villainMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

Not the be all and end all but a fair guide , I tend to look at who is verifying as well , but instinct is always the best guide

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

Verifications can be that extra peace of mind that someone is genuine. Wouldn't turn down someone if they don't have any though, if the chat's right, the attraction's there and you got a good feeling about the person x

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

Too many veris and too descriptive ones can be a turn off though x

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We have our verifications hidden and only show our most recent verifications, most of our are social veris anyway but plenty of play ones in there too

Yes verifications can be faked so easily, so for that fact we only trust if it’s people we know that’s verified them but every now and then we take a chance on some people especially if it’s while we are on our travels

John

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By *earded villainMan
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Too many veris and too descriptive ones can be a turn off though x"

Agree with that

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"Too many veris and too descriptive ones can be a turn off though x

Agree with that "

Too descriptive can be a turn off but quantity doesn't unless the majority are from the same person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Too many veris and too descriptive ones can be a turn off though x"

Can be put off but it's the view of the person displaying the veri and the reason behind, wanting to display a descriptive veri

Sometimes I have given a descriptive veri and also one for public lololl

The descriptive one, (descriptive us quite a loose word and can be viewed differently), is for them to look back on, if they display it, it's up to them. The public one is just that for public display

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

I've never left one nor would I ever display one, when I do very occasionally meet it's after a while chatting and would always Skype before meeting in person, fortunately I've never came across any fakes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never left one nor would I ever display one, when I do very occasionally meet it's after a while chatting and would always Skype before meeting in person, fortunately I've never came across any fakes."

Well said and agree with although I don't need nor ask for a veri. It's always been the other who have asked me for a veri, so I don't mind sending them a veri

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