FabSwingers.com forum: Being married on here

By *nyturn OP Man
over a year ago

Glagow

Im one of the married people on here playing alone like a lot I have my own reasons.

Im not here to judge so don't expect to be judged if not for you don't get in touch bur women on here that are also married feel free to contact me for chat or more no pressures and always discreet.

Unmarried if your ok with my position please get it touch as well

But either way hope you all enjoy FAB a site for people to explore their fantasys.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Im one of the married people on here playing alone like a lot I have my own reasons.

Im not here to judge so don't expect to be judged if not for you don't get in touch bur women on here that are also married feel free to contact me for chat or more no pressures and always discreet.

Unmarried if your ok with my position please get it touch as well

But either way hope you all enjoy FAB a site for people to explore their fantasys."
good luck

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By *nyturn OP Man
over a year ago

Glagow

I just don't understand why some pretend not to be but they must get caught out.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I just don't understand why some pretend not to be but they must get caught out."
everyone has a choice

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

"I just don't understand why some pretend not to be but they must get caught out."

That's why I always admit to my situation early on in the messaging stage.

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By *fun9Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Just proves everyone is different. I always declare it as its nice to be upfront

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No judgements I just think people deserve to know up front so they can make the choice to play or not. I cannot stand those who pretend to be single, male or female!

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By *xplorer13Man
over a year ago

glenrothes

As long as your wife knows then alls good in the hood!

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"As long as your wife knows then alls good in the hood!"

They don't normally know.

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By *azzle DazzleCouple
over a year ago

strathaven

"As long as your wife knows then alls good in the hood!

They don't normally know."

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Mine does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As long as your wife knows then alls good in the hood!"

Doubtful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine does

So does mine

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Mine does

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Mine does

So does mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine does

So does mine

Me too

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By *witcherooMan
over a year ago

Muirhead

I’m as upfront as can be....it’s on my profile.

She knows and accepts it but there are many different reasons why this happens, and it’s not always cos the guys being a rat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck sake! Click bait or what!

I opened up the thread expecting to see two people getting married on the site.

Sake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fuck sake! Click bait or what!

I opened up the thread expecting to see two people getting married on the site.

Sake

Looking for an invite to the wedding?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im one of the married people on here playing alone like a lot I have my own reasons.

Im not here to judge so don't expect to be judged if not for you don't get in touch bur women on here that are also married feel free to contact me for chat or more no pressures and always discreet.

Unmarried if your ok with my position please get it touch as well

But either way hope you all enjoy FAB a site for people to explore their fantasys."

Well good on you for letting everyone know your marital status, people will judge you though because we all have our own opinions on married people using this site and your excuses or reasons are only important to you im afraid.

Good luck

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By *ero StressMan
over a year ago

Scotland

Just 1 question I wunder op have u had anybody mail u from this thread I wunder I'm not judging or taking the mick as in my opinion if any body is married and interstellar this might be the best way as he's honest and saying and I'm sure they would mail rather than post

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

There seems to be a lot of understanding wifes on here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There seems to be a lot of understanding wifes on here lol"

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By *ero StressMan
over a year ago

Scotland

"There seems to be a lot of understanding wifes on here lol"

Haha I guess honesty gets anything u want lol

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By *issT45Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"There seems to be a lot of understanding wifes on here lol"

Was thinking that myself haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There seems to be a lot of understanding wifes on here lol"

Same way there are understanding husbands in hot wife, cuckold situations and other such dynamics

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"There seems to be a lot of understanding wifes on here lol

Same way there are understanding husbands in hot wife, cuckold situations and other such dynamics

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yeah !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do so many ladies / couples doubt honest guys who declare relationships with partners who accept this lifestyle choice.

I too have a beautiful lady who I adore. I too have permission to play away from home.

Why on earth would I declare this to people and face the shunning of doubters if it were not true?

Surely it would be simpler and potentially make Fab more fruitful for me if I just declared myself single.

Oh yeah, perhaps it's cos some guys can and do actually tell the truth!

Just saying.....

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By *plfromfifeCouple
over a year ago

levenmouth

So I take it that said wonderfully understanding other halfs of those on here with permission to play away would be o.k.with a phone conversation before a meet to confirm this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I take it that said wonderfully understanding other halfs of those on here with permission to play away would be o.k.with a phone conversation before a meet to confirm this?"

Playing devil's advocate here ( and fully expect to get my arse roasted as a result) Could it be the case that the other partner knows but the man/woman on here chooses not to rub their face in it?

Nobody knows 100% what goes on in a relationship or where 2 people set their boundaries. Treat folk the way you want to be treated. If you shit all over people through your life then I truly believe karma will get you eventually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We play as a couple, but we also have single profiles for when we want different things, and we are always upfront about it with anyone we chat to on our single profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I take it that said wonderfully understanding other halfs of those on here with permission to play away would be o.k.with a phone conversation before a meet to confirm this?"

Yes,absolutely.

My partner is happy to chat to people I may meet on the phone prior.

I repeat, yes absolutely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I take it that said wonderfully understanding other halfs of those on here with permission to play away would be o.k.with a phone conversation before a meet to confirm this?

Yes,absolutely.

My partner is happy to chat to people I may meet on the phone prior.

I repeat, yes absolutely."

Can't argue with that really. Fair play.

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By *azzle DazzleCouple
over a year ago

strathaven

"Im one of the married people on here playing alone like a lot I have my own reasons.

Im not here to judge so don't expect to be judged if not for you don't get in touch bur women on here that are also married feel free to contact me for chat or more no pressures and always discreet.

Unmarried if your ok with my position please get it touch as well

But either way hope you all enjoy FAB a site for people to explore their fantasys."
Your own reasons or not, expect to be judged.

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By *azzle DazzleCouple
over a year ago

strathaven

"As long as your wife knows then alls good in the hood!

They don't normally know."

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By *exy gentMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

I'm married also and have my reasons for being on here, which I'm willing to explain to people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm married also and have my reasons for being on here, which I'm willing to explain to people "

Right go on then.... (grabs glass of wine and gets comfy)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your own reasons or not, expect to be judged."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married guys welcome here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just don't understand why some pretend not to be but they must get caught out.everyone has a choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just don't understand why some pretend not to be but they must get caught out.everyone has a choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be interesting to know how many people find it a problem when its a married guy as opposed to how many dont find it a problem if its a married women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It would be interesting to know how many people find it a problem when its a married guy as opposed to how many dont find it a problem if its a married women "

Double standards?? Surely not!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m also married playing alone. Have been told to “fuck off”, called a “cheating bastard” etc etc. All of which I accept without complaint because people are entitled to their opinions. I do however have my reasons for being here. My wife is aware and content that I play and she has her reasons for that. I admit in my profile that I’m married and hide nothing. If someone is interested in me it’s only fair they know the full score up front.

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock

Just looked at a married lady's profile, seeking discreet meets. Goes on to say she won't meet married men or ones in a relationship.

Seriously???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just looked at a married lady's profile, seeking discreet meets. Goes on to say she won't meet married men or ones in a relationship.

Seriously???"

I suppose in keeping with the theme of this thread. Each to their own?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a wife doesn't know member, I agree with those that are sceptical of those who say their wives do

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"It would be interesting to know how many people find it a problem when its a married guy as opposed to how many dont find it a problem if its a married women

Double standards?? Surely not!!

I have on my profile that my partner knows I'm here. I'll let you guess how many people have asked if he'll confirm that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a wife doesn't know member, I agree with those that are sceptical of those who say their wives do"

You can’t judge other people’s situations based on your own though. Not everyone has to hide this from their spouses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I take it that said wonderfully understanding other halfs of those on here with permission to play away would be o.k.with a phone conversation before a meet to confirm this?"

And here is the cynicism again. For me, yes. Certainly. We still maintain and use a couple's profile and I don't do anything alone unless she is aware and ok with it. But in the past, she didn't want to know or be involved. In such a setting, you won't be able to confirm. Should the guy therefore be crucified? Granted people do play without their spouses knowledge but lots of different dynamics exist in relationships that outsiders aren't privy to.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

At the end of the day some people will meet married men/women some won't regardless of whether partner knows ..I'm lucky.. my wife is also here under her own profile and we also have our couples profile and we fully accept some may not wish to meet due to not being single but thankfully there are some who do

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