FabSwingers.com forum: What's your place of choice for a first meet?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Mine tend to be rather predictable places and consist of three:. Cafe Nero, Costa Coffee or Starbucks...(the latter having very tasty pastries) but I am considering quietish pub venues now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer nice pub or nice hotel lounge area where you can get to chat without someone sitting listening

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Pretty much spot on.

If we do meet it will most probably be the evening time so a local pub is the best bet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I prefer nice pub or nice hotel lounge area where you can get to chat without someone sitting listening"

You have a point there! If the conversation descends into discussing sexual preferences it can prove rather embarrassing.

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

Various coffee shops or a local pub, depends what suits everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I feel I’ve done my talking prior to meet. The connection had been made and the sexual tension is high. I like to get down to business straight away wether that be at a hotel or their place. I have a few regular meets and they all started this way....

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Personally i dont have a preference im happy to meet wherever the lady im meeting is comfortable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to send two of my evil henchmen to collected them and bring them to my secret hollowed out volcano. mmmm, mmmmmwah, mmmmmwahahahaha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to send two of my evil henchmen to collected them and bring them to my secret hollowed out volcano. mmmm, mmmmmwah, mmmmmwahahahaha. "

Lol...makes a change from costa then ? Lol

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"I like to send two of my evil henchmen to collected them and bring them to my secret hollowed out volcano. mmmm, mmmmmwah, mmmmmwahahahaha. "

Woohoo MMMF

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By *ero StressMan
over a year ago

Scotland

Coffee shop for a coffee

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

During the day -coffee shop

Evening-A bar with cosy booth's

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Ive done carpark ... for an initial meet .....if you dont like you can both go ....

A coffee shop perrhaps for a second meet

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By *vanabeusedTV/TS
over a year ago

somewhere

Dark car park

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By *imbo57Man
over a year ago

kilmarnock ish

Costa works for me

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

Depends on how spontaneous you're both being: if last minute wth high sexual tension then a bedroom, otherwise start at coffee shop or bar, especially with someone you've not met before.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Where ever suits everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For a drink, in a nice pub. I'm meeting a couple for a drink on Sunday evening in a pub restaurant. Perfect x

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

Pub cosey wee quiet corner or resturaunt for a nice meal.

Hate coffee places as everyone is watching and listening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just depends, usually a coffee daytime or pub evening time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pub like a maltings or Wetherspoons for a coffee or hotel lounge providing there's some life in the place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anywhere public...cafe or pub

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By *areBares7778Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Our very first couple meet was in Waxy's Glasgow perfect place with loads of quiet corners for a chat and drinks!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to send two of my evil henchmen to collected them and bring them to my secret hollowed out volcano. mmmm, mmmmmwah, mmmmmwahahahaha.

Lol...makes a change from costa then ? Lol

Like you have an issue with Costa

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By *andy_FraserTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

It's normally a Costa for me. It's always best to meet somewhere mutual or neutral.

In all the years I've been out and about I've only ever met folks in non-Costa settings 3 times, and each time was fun.

Maybe I should meet away from Costa more often???

Mandy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not telling cos then you'd all want to go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has to be somewhere public

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By *oebloggs67Man
over a year ago

near you but not too near

Kitchen table is good

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Usually costa or somewhere I feel comfortable to sit alone if they don’t turn up.

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By *erigoodMan
over a year ago

glasgow

"Personally I feel I’ve done my talking prior to meet. The connection had been made and the sexual tension is high. I like to get down to business straight away wether that be at a hotel or their place. I have a few regular meets and they all started this way....

Hmmm I like this way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always a hot drink and a gossip for me, I love a social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pub or restaurant with good food! Nothing better than gabbing while eating and drinking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually a coffee shop. But anywhere that is comfortable for both of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dark Edinburgh close

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By *witcherooMan
over a year ago

Muirhead

My office is a good starting point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice quiet brewers fair for us xx

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

Normally evening meets for us so nice restaurant or pub for us ... somewhere now too noisy where there’s space to be a little discrete .

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By *ainbowBrite57Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Agree with the pub idea where you can be relaxed but conversation can flow in relative privacy.

If it happens to be a hotel bar then so be it

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By *nverMan
over a year ago

....down the Rabbit Hole with a shotgun

I find meeting in hotel bars works best for me as they tend to be discreet yet public. And the coffee is usually better than Costa or Starbucks lol

But, hey, I go with the flow, if they want to say hello in Costa etc, that's cool with me too.

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

I go with wherever ever she wants to meet.

List includes:

Costa

Carpark

Beach

Woods

Storehouse of Foulis

Her bedroom

But mostly Costa type places which is ironic as it's not a place I visit otherwise due to not being a coffee or tea drinker!

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