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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

this post is really for the single guys on here.

is it just me or when you log in to fab and see '1 or 2 new messages' or whatever you get dead excited??!?

i had 3 yesterday, one to arrange a meet, one just general chat and one from a lady who was polite enough to reply and say thanks but no thanks. even that one was good to get lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah its like you've been given a treat for being patient lol

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By *exy gentMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

It's like Christmas day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just when u read the mail if you can put it back to unread then you can get excited for quite a few days seeing unopened mail.

I never get any asking for a meet in a reply as I don't message anyone for a meet loooloool. Girls go through enough shite with being asked in messages without me adding to them

I got quite a few messages lately asking how I was which is so nice to have, infact, think I'll put them back to unopened so I can get excited again to see an unopened messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think most guys will read this post and smile. There is something unique about seeing that 1 unread message no matter the content

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

3 messages!

Fecking show off!

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By *mooth shaftMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Yeah agree with all above

Us blokes are easily pleased

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By *ude bhoy 300Man
over a year ago

east kilbride

Couldn't, agree, more. Delighted, with, one, message

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"3 messages!

Fecking show off! "

well one was just banter with a friend and one was a polite 'fuck off' lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Amen brothers.

Always have a chuckle at the guys who try kid on they are inundated with messages. Aye right son.

Simple fact is that the m to f ratio on here could well be something like 50 to 1. And that doesn't take into account the fake women.

An unsolicited message is a rare and wonderous thing indeed. Lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Hope your all smiling now

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Yeah its like you've been given a treat for being patient lol"

Lol... Imagining tails wagging here

Sorry gentlemen, I'll get ma coat

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hope your all smiling now "

what you on about? i never received anything

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By *cott23Man
over a year ago

north ayrshire

I get super excited, then find out its a guy looking to suck me off Grrr.

But I also appreciate, A thanks but no thanks message after all its just courtesy!

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By *mooth shaftMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Hope your all smiling now "

Aaah so sweet Nawty A little yellow sign with 1 new message - has made my day

Now going to set it to unread so I can do it all again

xx

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Hope your all smiling now

Aaah so sweet Nawty A little yellow sign with 1 new message - has made my day

Now going to set it to unread so I can do it all again

xx "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

right ladies you need to follow miss dinomites lead.. get messaging us guys and give us a wee yellow box. you never know, it could be the start of a beautiful friendship.

or a murdery stalker outside your house. one or the other anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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or a murdery stalker outside your house. one or the other anyway."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who wants a wee message

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By *obertELeeMan
over a year ago

Montrose

When you log in and the inbox is yellow ,1 unread message it's yahoo time.It's a fekin downer when it's only administration

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By *erigoodMan
over a year ago

glasgow

I had got message too, so I rushed to get comfy then once opened it read it was from site support memebership, gutted wasn’t the word!

But I did relise you can wink and message your own profile!!! Wow! So it’s all good Never have I seen my inbox grow quicker than my cock lol

Dont all rush to try this! Lol

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By *ustcantgetenuf50Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"right ladies you need to follow miss dinomites lead.. get messaging us guys and give us a wee yellow box. you never know, it could be the start of a beautiful friendship.

or a murdery stalker outside your house. one or the other anyway."

Would you like me to share some of my unopened ones with you, that I don't have the time to read?

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By *cott23Man
over a year ago

north ayrshire

No point in messaging me!

Your not a gay guy!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Who wants a wee message "

im guessing every guy on the thread. get typing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just when u read the mail if you can put it back to unread then you can get excited for quite a few days seeing unopened mail.

I never get any asking for a meet in a reply as I don't message anyone for a meet loooloool. Girls go through enough shite with being asked in messages without me adding to them

I got quite a few messages lately asking how I was which is so nice to have, infact, think I'll put them back to unopened so I can get excited again to see an unopened messages

"

Awwww I got some nice hiya mails today, ya dancer

I will admit, a bit of controversy here, its my nature, I'm a nice guy and treat woman the same and chat a lot and they get the same impression as I like to get on even before any inkling of playing. What I do find is that happens, quite a few of the females I talk to have a sexual meet with someone after chatting with me, not next day etc.., (maybe they cant wait too long, I don't know) and then later on they're are back chatting to me lollllllll Think I'm one of the comfort blankets on fab to bring them back to nice chat. I don't get offended as I am under no illusions that this is a swinging site and people are here for their reasons.

pmslllllllllll that's one of the reasons I don't get many messages for a meet but I ain't complaining, I'm happy, sometimes I get a right good fecking laugh on here, who needs sex, eh!!!!

Anyways, I've put some of the messages to unopened again lolllllllllllll

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who wants a wee message "

Feel free to message me lol

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By *mooth shaftMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Who wants a wee message

Feel free to message me lol "

And me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The funny part is with couples (most) is they are after a lady or couple to play...the Male halves don't seem overly keen to let single blokes near their OH's...or am I mistaken??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The funny part is with couples (most) is they are after a lady or couple to play...the Male halves don't seem overly keen to let single blokes near their OH's...or am I mistaken??"

no youre not mistaken.... i played with a couple for yeara before they moved away for work, played with F and M just liked to watch. there doesnt seem to be much of that on here.

ive met one F since ive been here and she was hilarious, normal, chilled, but its doubtful it will happen with another.

most messages deleted without reply (kind of understandable if they get loads a day) but as i said earlier one lovely F (you know who you are!) replied with a very polite message saying thanks but no thanks because i am bi. which is fine, and actually was nice to receive.

however life is not a bed of roses, and us single guys must persevere and try our best!

hopefully the thread was a wee bit of a laugh anyway and im sure a few guys got a wee yellow box when they logged on

keep fabbing on folks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The funny part is with couples (most) is they are after a lady or couple to play...the Male halves don't seem overly keen to let single blokes near their OH's...or am I mistaken??"

I'd say mistaken there are quite a few couples who do BUT they need to get to know the guy to make sure they all totally trust each other.

The hubby is unsure as he doesn't want the guy trying to meet his OH alone.

A couple want an extra bit of fun in their life, usually want females but males included as well but its an extra and the couple do not want any hassle or drama at all and want to be totally trusted with the guy, so I'd say quite a few couples are selective, or take their time to get to know the guy. Then again, there is a lot of couples who just don't want single guys for many different reasons.

But hey thats my opinion from my own experience, being asked to join in a couples extra fun is, well a privilege and you just have to think WoooW that these two lovely people are choosing me to be apart of their fun life at least once.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm a happy bunny a wee message from a person on my hotlist today made me smile. Is it December 25th already?

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

[Removed by poster at 25/10/17 14:23:24]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could forward you some of my messages.....today I got asked if I was on the pill and wanted to meet in a hotel as he was visiting for the night!!! Really?? Does anyone say “aye no bother just popping up to see you now” and bareback is fine, I’m on the pill!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I could forward you some of my messages.....today I got asked if I was on the pill and wanted to meet in a hotel as he was visiting for the night!!! Really?? Does anyone say “aye no bother just popping up to see you now” and bareback is fine, I’m on the pill!! "

There will be some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I could forward you some of my messages.....today I got asked if I was on the pill and wanted to meet in a hotel as he was visiting for the night!!! Really?? Does anyone say “aye no bother just popping up to see you now” and bareback is fine, I’m on the pill!!

There will be some "

Likely......you get the same message?? Toy bag packed, engine running?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed, nice to get a response even if it's a polite no. However don't blame ladies for not responding as some of people I speak to get dogs abuse for saying no thanks! Some people have no manners or filter online

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I could forward you some of my messages.....today I got asked if I was on the pill and wanted to meet in a hotel as he was visiting for the night!!! Really?? Does anyone say “aye no bother just popping up to see you now” and bareback is fine, I’m on the pill!!

There will be some

Likely......you get the same message?? Toy bag packed, engine running? "

Clit pulsing away like a blue wales heart and just dreaming about all the potential fun that could unfold......like Chlamydia, Gonorrhoea,Syphilis. Be still my beating heart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I could forward you some of my messages.....today I got asked if I was on the pill and wanted to meet in a hotel as he was visiting for the night!!! Really?? Does anyone say “aye no bother just popping up to see you now” and bareback is fine, I’m on the pill!!

There will be some

Likely......you get the same message?? Toy bag packed, engine running?

Clit pulsing away like a blue wales heart and just dreaming about all the potential fun that could unfold......like Chlamydia, Gonorrhoea,Syphilis. Be still my beating heart "

Clap clinic for you in the morning. I will hold your hand!

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By *vanabeusedTV/TS
over a year ago

somewhere

Always a treat to come on and see you have mail and a few fabbed pics xxx

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

I’ll need to get back to you. I’m reading my mail, checking my Who View, counting my Fabbed pics, checking who Winked, who wanked, & who spanked lists.

Won’t be long.

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

Fuck all, bar one “Happy BD” Mail from a guy that shares the same date. Dunno why I pay Site Support.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The funny part is with couples (most) is they are after a lady or couple to play...the Male halves don't seem overly keen to let single blokes near their OH's...or am I mistaken??"

Mr D doesn't mind me replying to messages from guys. We're looking for a single girl but that doesn't give us/ me the excuse to be rude to anyone who has taken the time to send me a wee hello message. As long as they're being friendly and polite then it's a boost to my ego that someone else has found me attractive.

My no 1 rule in life is treat others the way you'd like to be treated. You can't go far wrong with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last night I logged on and had 2 messages from different women and a new verification!

Today I'm back to normality...

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By *eni_squaddieMan
over a year ago

midlothian

Ahhh... the anticipation of seeing no new messages

You’re not alone mate!

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By *anTouchThisCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"The funny part is with couples (most) is they are after a lady or couple to play...the Male halves don't seem overly keen to let single blokes near their OH's...or am I mistaken??"

We do seem to be something of an exception. Neither of us is bi either, where most couples seem to have at least one (usually the female half).

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

I do like seeing a wee envelope arrive ....generally.

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By *issT45Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I only get a couple of messages a day and I'm a female ... I use my block button alot so prob blocked most of the site already, I'm not here for endless message ping pong tho, normally just reply if I have time to meet and they fit my type ... I prefer forums for chat but find it weird when u comment or post and some random sends u a pm to respond instead of in here ... that normally gets a delete too ... I suck at fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only get a couple of messages a day and I'm a female ... I use my block button alot so prob blocked most of the site already, I'm not here for endless message ping pong tho, normally just reply if I have time to meet and they fit my type ... I prefer forums for chat but find it weird when u comment or post and some random sends u a pm to respond instead of in here ... that normally gets a delete too ... I suck at fab "

pheewlll, so glad i didn't message you about this forum post

ouff

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By *issT45Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I only get a couple of messages a day and I'm a female ... I use my block button alot so prob blocked most of the site already, I'm not here for endless message ping pong tho, normally just reply if I have time to meet and they fit my type ... I prefer forums for chat but find it weird when u comment or post and some random sends u a pm to respond instead of in here ... that normally gets a delete too ... I suck at fab

pheewlll, so glad i didn't message you about this forum post

ouff "

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