FabSwingers.com forum: What is the first

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thing that puts you off someone straight away when they message you on this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dirty talk

You don't know me well enough to chat dirty to me on the 1st message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cock pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cock pics "
goes without saying

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By *exicolaMan
over a year ago

West Lothian

Given its only guys that message me first I will say the fact that my profile saying I'm straight is ignored!

Mind you most of their profiles say straight too

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

"Cock pics goes without saying

Hunny, hun, baby, sweetie, or similar.

Cock pics.

Someone suggesting you drop everything you do, jump in your car and meet them somewhere for a blowjob / quickie. Somewhere near where they are obviously, so they don't have to put in any effort at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually had this 1st message today...

Can I pop over for sex?

Never spoken before??

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Would love to meet you do you have a fem friend who could join us is an instant turn off for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I know that I am obviously their last option. No ta.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wanty fuk babez

Just no!

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By *issT45Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Username

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

“Fancy a dark room bj mate”

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By *xplorer13Man
over a year ago

glenrothes

Do you have a sister ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dirty talk and cock pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

“Would love to chat and get to know you guys” followed almost immediately with a friends invite.

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

"“Fancy a dark room bj mate”

Lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couple profiles when the “female” isn’t playing just now. Hey it’s just me playing .....whatever!!

That and no face pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Asking for face pics straight away and only just started chatting.

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

‘Can you teach my sister how to give a proper bj?’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you have a sister ..."

Send me your mum's phone number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who won't read wot you are looking for ect and reply to you

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Has to be the... Hunny, hun, babe and all the other derivatives. They really grate me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like them either. It's like the guy thinks it's ok to call you that to try and sweeten us up. I don't like the dirty chat right away either, get to know me first and have a conversation, that would be good as long as they don't have poor spelling lol. Cock pics too are the biggest turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the females or couples that have been on here for over a month and still haven't been verified.

i can almost guarantee they are time wasters or fakes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Illiterate men who don't understand the word 'straight', can't read the words 'no thanks' and get then further excited by the word 'fuck' when they selectively read the phrase'fuck off'

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Dirty talk

You don't know me well enough to chat dirty to me on the 1st message

Lol message meeeee x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cock photos instant delete

Dirty chat first messages just no

And people who want to meet now cause there in a hotel in town, nah thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"the females or couples that have been on here for over a month and still haven't been verified.

i can almost guarantee they are time wasters or fakes. "

Got to disagree with this we never started meeting ppl for about 4 months after we joined some ppl just like to take their time doesnt make them a timewaster or a fake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys who msg a cpls profile with hi hunnie ,gorgeous sexy ect ,i just msg back sorry im not bi or gay

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

The ones that just say “hi” or “alright” !!! That’s it no sentence just the words .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See a counselor

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

"‘Can you teach my sister how to give a proper bj?’"

nawwwww yuck that's sad

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

swearing

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By *nox.Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"‘Can you teach my sister how to give a proper bj?’"

Lol I got that one the other day

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I've a list!

Text speak

One word messages

A description of what they'd like to do with me

A request to suck their cocks

The "I've a big load for you" messages.

Can I ask you something?

Are you someone I know?

Are you horny babe?

Are you looking for fun this am/pm whenever?

The ones who announce they feel I shouldn't be on here for various reasons they then give me.

The abusive ones.

So so many

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"‘Can you teach my sister how to give a proper bj?’

Lol I got that one the other day

Wonder what his success rate was! Haha

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By *ncandiladoCouple
over a year ago

Dundee

In order of viewing the profile or message:

Terrible or scary profile pic

2 worded 'meet now?' message

Missing profile description

Use of text speak/poor grammar

No pics

It's not hard to put a bit of effort into getting to know people on here.

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By *heekybarstewardMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

I try to send a funny message in my 1st message

Leave the naughty stuff untill you be chatted for a bit as you know by then how it'll be received.

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By *heekybarstewardMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

I try to send a funny message in my 1st message

Leave the naughty stuff untill you be chatted for a bit as you know by then how it'll be received.

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Copy and paste messages... especially when it's been sent to you before. To me shows they're not actually interested and your just part of a list

K x

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By *heekybarstewardMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

"I try to send a funny message in my 1st message

Leave the naughty stuff untill you be chatted for a bit as you know by then how it'll be received.

Mind you getting a reply woukd help

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