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Timewasters and fantasists

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By *achylBond OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow

Why are there so many timewasters and fantasists on here? I'm fed up arranging meets and no-one turns up after agreeing times etc .

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By *ecky400TV/TS
over a year ago

/highlands

I had same friday. Cpl arranged meet. Messaved them. No longer on site. Xx

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Adjust your filters make sure you get a phone conversation at minimum from the person any meet is arranged.

You can spot the trends in conversation pretty early. If they are more interested in what you are wearing and what you are going to do when you meet then normally they are after just wanking material.

Don't be discouraged. Looking good anyway x

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By *ecky400TV/TS
over a year ago

/highlands

Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my humble opinion the majority of users of this site like the idea of playing but (and if you'll excuse the pun!) don't have the balls.

'Keyboard swingers' is a phrase I saw in main forum and it sums it up beautifully.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When and if I do get the opportunity to meet through a social or anything.I never pass by.I always turn up

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By *ecky400TV/TS
over a year ago

/highlands

Its very annoying. It takes time to get ready and its all for nothing. No use naming they just start new profile

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By *achylBond OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow

Thank you Due to my domestic situation I can't meet as much as I would like to so my chances are limited anyway xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been stood up a cpl of times for social meets

So just chalk it down to lesson learned

X

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"In my humble opinion the majority of users of this site like the idea of playing but (and if you'll excuse the pun!) don't have the balls.

'Keyboard swingers' is a phrase I saw in main forum and it sums it up beautifully.

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the problem is the folk who use this phrase do so because the other party wont meet them.

if your time is being wasted its your own fault after all you picked the muppet/s.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been fairly lucky I think,only twice after organising meets have I been let down but both times I was given notice and got them rescheduled for another time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree to a pointbkola but...

The guys that stood me up were verified and always made the 1st move

1 reason for not turning up was...he didn't think I was going to turn up...so he didn't?

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By *achylBond OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow

It's annoying when I get ready and no one contacts me I appreciate people's situation may change but it's courtesy to let folk know even though it's usually too late to get another one xxx

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By *issT45Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

My work revolves around appointments and it happens in the outside world too ... some folk are just rude full stop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i would meet you but i cant message you as youve blocked everyone of my sex

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By *ustpassionandfunMan
over a year ago

Motherwell

I’m finding it hard to get away from picture collectors.

I want meets from this and would never no show but to some people it’s just a picture site. Go to a porn site it will be better haha.

Anyone reading this fancies a meet with me be assured if it’s agreed I’ll be there. ??????

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"I agree to a pointbkola but...

The guys that stood me up were verified and always made the 1st move

1 reason for not turning up was...he didn't think I was going to turn up...so he didn't? "
and im sure you learned from it and made changes. I believe most on fab dont as its always sombody elses fault (timewaster).

once you accept that you were duped you need to implement ways to atop it happening again. I think alot on fab now want the quick thrill so accept anything said without question.

it also comes down ro how you meet ive never had my time wasted but I take along time to meet many msgs exchanging of phone no etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's the "couples" that come out with would you let a guy suck u off. while there's no pics or veri

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By *aelawMan
over a year ago

Paisley

Such a frustrating experience when it happens in any circumstances. You can't help but get a little excited about it. Then they don't turn up and it's kind of hurtful. Alas, I tend to give the benefit of the doubt and assume they lost confidence.

It may be, as someone says above, that they are just after the chase and find satisfaction in it.

I know it's hard but try to brush it off and move on. Plenty of folk out there who will meet

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

The fact that it's an open site means that the genuine people on here are the minority.

Take it in your stride and move on to the next interested person...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be patient. Be attentive. Be honest. The meets will come.

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth

Their generally pretty easy to spot early on, saying that I got stung fairly recently with one, but as the chat developed nearer the agreed day I saw it coming and never let it get to the no-show stage....

I will usually accept a call off with a genuine reason and enough notice, but a no show or clearly being collaborated its the block button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Such a frustrating experience when it happens in any circumstances. You can't help but get a little excited about it. Then they don't turn up and it's kind of hurtful. Alas, I tend to give the benefit of the doubt and assume they lost confidence.

It may be, as someone says above, that they are just after the chase and find satisfaction in it.

I know it's hard but try to brush it off and move on. Plenty of folk out there who will meet "

yip agreed

If I'm having a meet I will make sure I have summit else planned if they fall through as its more and more common now, and I don't mean another meet arranged, mean go and watch the football or summit.

No point getting upset, they may have a genuine reason or they have just bottled it cause I'm so fecking sexy n hot and they feel they can't match my expectations, (common, I'm trying to think o a reason here)

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By *anarkshireladMan
over a year ago

Lanark

If I've arranged to meet, I often feel too nervous to call off the meet, rather than too nervous to go through with it haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what about a 1 day old profile (already verid!) that describes herself as 'slut'

im deffo sure thats a genuine female profile. yip.

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By *ikerbob1957Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

It is just not on this site that is plagued with timewasters. I am on POF and my last 2 meets have not turned up.

First said she forgot and the second said she had double booked and when the first guy turned up she went off with him leaving me hanging around for her.

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By *achylBond OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow

I've arranged a few meets recently and all no shows Maybe it's me lol xxx

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By *impleSailorMan
over a year ago

the moon

Funny

Just discussing that with another member.

Like I say

People are too used to playing on phones than playing with each other..

Shame

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth


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I will usually accept a call off with a genuine reason and enough notice, but a no show or clearly being collaborated its the block button "

collaborated??... wtf.... bullshitted that was.... fecking predictive text

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My work revolves around appointments and it happens in the outside world too ... some folk are just rude full stop "

(Nessarosa writing)

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By *obertELeeMan
over a year ago

Montrose

I've never had the chance to be a time waister

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