FabSwingers.com forum: Does a Username put you off?

By *ind man OP Man
over a year ago

Inverness

I see alot of usernames on here and I think "what the hell" and get put off right away, does this happen to anyone else?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Yes. And profile pictures too. Think they both say alot about the person

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By *eenonfun2Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Yes. And profile pictures too. Think they both say alot about the person"

Especially those folk who look like silhouettes

Some are quirky, some not so. Using words like slut, cumbucket do nothing for us, sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yip!

Why do so many guys have lick or 69 or cock in their name? Way too much porn lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some people don't really give it much thought and pick something from porn-name-generator.com

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes definitely

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By *ind man OP Man
over a year ago

Inverness

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By *ind man OP Man
over a year ago

Inverness

I guess a lot want to be porn stars .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, definitely. And profile dick pics don't even get a reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some usernames are funny, some just downright ridiculous

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By *ind man OP Man
over a year ago

Inverness

Never understood why guys wanna show off their cocks or why a lass wants to be pictured with a cock in their face.

I guess each to their own but the Username thing baffles me as if the name is creepy it could reflect baddly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's one of those things that can tell you a lot about the person, maybe their opinion of themselves or how they want others to see them.

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By *ind man OP Man
over a year ago

Inverness

Why not be be just themselves?

I understand for many this is a "secret" second life where fantasies can be played out but you dont need to over emphasise .

Tease is one thing, getting to see the goods is one thing and alter egos etc etc but at a meet your gonna fee a bit strange when you introduce yourself as

"Hey am bigcock69" or "I am cumguzzler" or something like that. Not sure they are real nics but you get my jist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup, first impressions and all that. I’m sure some people don’t mean anything other than a bit of fun when choosing a name but getting sent a wink or a message from a name like ‘spunk bucket’ doesn’t exactly hit the spot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes totally!!

Anything beginning with pussy or cock it's an instant delete

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Why not be be just themselves?

I understand for many this is a "secret" second life where fantasies can be played out but you dont need to over emphasise .

Tease is one thing, getting to see the goods is one thing and alter egos etc etc but at a meet your gonna fee a bit strange when you introduce yourself as

"Hey am bigcock69" or "I am cumguzzler" or something like that. Not sure they are real nics but you get my jist."

Maybe they are being 'just themselves'!!

And that is why I use it as a filter.

Plus for some... When created late at night or in a d*unken state or to have a nosey at the site, very little thought goes in the choice of the username.

I have seen over the years dodgy God's names and American serial killers names for Instance, when I asked (I was in a nosey mood) they did not have a clue... 'it sounded good at the time'

We are all different!

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By *vanabeusedTV/TS
over a year ago

somewhere

It’s the usernames that should be reported as part of the trades discription act that make me laugh the most x

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Yes

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By *ee_rascalWoman
over a year ago

O'er the Rainbow

Yup, I've been known block just on a username as it can show the person just isn't for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yup, first impressions and all that. I’m sure some people don’t mean anything other than a bit of fun when choosing a name but getting sent a wink or a message from a name like ‘spunk bucket’ doesn’t exactly hit the spot"

Yours is one I actually get

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Yes put off by some user names and also by some people's staus updates . Use them as filters all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. And profile pictures too. Think they both say alot about the person"

This x100

It’s a shame but I just can’t get on board with usernames that make me cringe (anything with jizz in the title makes me heave for sum reason). Maybe I prefer a username that says something about the person and not what the do with their cock, or its product, or the female anatomy

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Yes. Tend to avoid any where the female is referred to as a cum dump or spunk bucket etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Puts me off massively. Each to their own though, that’s what this site is about isn’t it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep definitely..

Usernames and profile pics are the first impression you make and you know what they say about first impressions

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

All you have to do is look at your homepage and you know automatically who you would definitely avoid.

Which could be a shame in some cases as we are judging based on words on a screen but it is a natural instinct, and I do it all the time.

It does make you think 'what the hell were they thinking' when they first joined and do they now understand the correlation in their lack of success? Who knows......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My 69 and name is specifying my location and age but maybe thats why im not getting the interest i crave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually regret my own username tbh. It's bland and doesn't reflect me as a person. However I'm not changing it after two years now. Everyone knows me as Tracey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does my name mean I am actually a pervert i.e. a person whos sexual behaviour is regarded as abnormal and unacceptable? Well by “normal society” there is a chance I would!!

There seems to be so much “Swinging Snobbery” with regards to names and certain types of pictures or certain swinging activities. If you dont like or approve of it ignors it......I daresay all the “vanilla” friends of people on Fab would find such distinctions laughable.

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By *ind man OP Man
over a year ago

Inverness

I guess thats why I haven't made much of an effort on here.

I tend to see a profile I like I may message with something polite but rarely get a reply so I don't message anyone else for a while.

I am not a judgemental person but I do tend to stay clear of a lot because of the Username or a pic.

I cannot understand why guys feel the need to show their cocks on profile pics or a lass giving a BJ but I guess I just dont get it.

Breast pics dont bother me or lasses posing provocatively dont bother me but I do gag if I see a good looking girl with semen on her face and a cock on her cheek.

I guess its just me .

Love seeing women of all shapes and sizes dressed up thats nice though.

I am not a tits and ass kind of guy though I prefer eyes and smile .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my username just reflects my general taste in music

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

"My 69 and name is specifying my location and age but maybe thats why im not getting the interest i crave"

So your 69 not 48 as on profile??

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

"my username just reflects my general taste in music "

I thought you'd just signed up straight from the dentist

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By *ind man OP Man
over a year ago

Inverness

"my username just reflects my general taste in music "

That I get, Pink Floyd fan too and usually am completely comfortably numb and let the world drift by me .

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By *ind man OP Man
over a year ago

Inverness

Hey I am glad its got those chatting .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"my username just reflects my general taste in music

I thought you'd just signed up straight from the dentist

haha! never thought of that

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"My 69 and name is specifying my location and age but maybe thats why im not getting the interest i crave

So your 69 not 48 as on profile?? "
think 69 is the year he was born temptress

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

yes, I regularly block because of user names and status updates especially the ones saying this site is rubbish etc

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By *aughty_Jack_ABZMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen

No Never.

It's ignorant, prejudiced and judgemental. There is more than enough of that negative nonsense in the world just now already!

To apply your preconceived ideas onto someone's profile simply because of the connotations their username evokes is fundamentally flawed logic.

'Never judge a book by it's graphically nude cover ...'

'Walk a mile in another man's/woman's/TV's high heels ...'

'Let he who is without weird kinks throw the first double dildo in the glass playroom ...'

I'm with 'Nawty Max' (Wishful thinking there

) bearer of the wisest and most erotic lipstick of all the forums ...

'We're all different' ... go with it peeps and have fun!

Jack x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does my name mean I am actually a pervert i.e. a person whos sexual behaviour is regarded as abnormal and unacceptable? Well by “normal society” there is a chance I would!!

Are you trying to tell me you’re not really a pervert and she’s not really a Geordie?? That’s you blocked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who really gives a fuck! Turbodick3000 could be as awesome a guy as niceman12 does it matter?? (Hope they aren’t actual user names)

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By *issNaughtyxxxWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Yes and profile pictures too. I think both are important and they really can make the difference between replying to a wink/message or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who really gives a fuck! Turbodick3000 could be as awesome a guy as niceman12 does it matter?? (Hope they aren’t actual user names)

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i think i'll change mine to both of them see if i get any response ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who really gives a fuck! Turbodick3000 could be as awesome a guy as niceman12 does it matter?? (Hope they aren’t actual user names)

i think i'll change mine to both of them see if i get any response ??"

Could be a winner!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

turbodick3000

just snorted out my coffee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does my name mean I am actually a pervert i.e. a person whos sexual behaviour is regarded as abnormal and unacceptable? Well by “normal society” there is a chance I would!!

Are you trying to tell me you’re not really a pervert and she’s not really a Geordie?? That’s you blocked! "

She is really a Geordie (well technically a Northumbrian so I’m repeatedly told) whereas me? Too shy and retiring to be a pervert

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

"My 69 and name is specifying my location and age but maybe thats why im not getting the interest i crave

So your 69 not 48 as on profile?? think 69 is the year he was born temptress

Ahhh now THAT makes sense pmsl !! I'm such a fuzz brain at the moment .Thanks miss d xx

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"My 69 and name is specifying my location and age but maybe thats why im not getting the interest i crave

So your 69 not 48 as on profile?? think 69 is the year he was born temptress

Ahhh now THAT makes sense pmsl !! I'm such a fuzz brain at the moment .Thanks miss d xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My 69 and name is specifying my location and age but maybe thats why im not getting the interest i crave

So your 69 not 48 as on profile?? think 69 is the year he was born temptress

Ahhh now THAT makes sense pmsl !!

I'm such a fuzz brain at the moment .Thanks miss d xx

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yeah im 48 but somedays i do feel like im 69 thats why im here trying to stave off old age and have some fun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So glad we decided against "Bigbushyvagneedsyourhotcum"

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By *uck knows41Man
over a year ago

Arbroath

Not sure if mine puts people off

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth

it has done before, not very often. but sometimes you read a name and its an instant GTF

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth

"Not sure if mine puts people off "

Fuctifino

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does my name mean I am actually a pervert i.e. a person whos sexual behaviour is regarded as abnormal and unacceptable? Well by “normal society” there is a chance I would!!

Are you trying to tell me you’re not really a pervert and she’s not really a Geordie?? That’s you blocked!

She is really a Geordie (well technically a Northumbrian so I’m repeatedly told) whereas me? Too shy and retiring to be a pervert

I actually think yours is a little tongue in cheek and says a fair bit about you as a couple. The Geordie part being factual and the pervert being the tongue in cheek part

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So glad we decided against "Bigbushyvagneedsyourhotcum""

That was nearly mine too!! Think it was “bigbushyfannyneedsyourhotjizz. Thank fuck I changed it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. And profile pictures too. Think they both say alot about the person"

Exactly this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So glad we decided against "Bigbushyvagneedsyourhotcum"

That was nearly mine too!! Think it was “bigbushyfannyneedsyourhotjizz. Thank fuck I changed it.

Great minds think alike and all that.....

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By *he UnshaggablesCouple
over a year ago

Dundee

Our name is just a poke at ourselves but maybe needs changed after reading this thread

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By *ind man OP Man
over a year ago

Inverness

It gets people talking some names tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just called Horsey because of my buck teeth. If I'm ever on a meet they always want me to smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

"it’s the usernames that should be reported as part of the trades discription act that make me laugh the most x"
far to many oxymorons being used

"Yes. And profile pictures too. Think they both say alot about the person"

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By *irtyharry300Man
over a year ago

DUNDEE

I hate my user name is ratehr6real name but can't for site purposes

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