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"As far as the forums go anyway . . Can anyone else see the hypocrisy "No one said that? You are just presuming here. If you would meet sone one without a face picture then good luck to you cos you will need it lol  | |||
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"As far as the forums go anyway . . Can anyone else see the hypocrisy "I couldn't have sex with someone I'm not physically attracted to. Do you fuck everyone who messages you? If not how do you "judge" which ones to meet? | |||
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"As far as the forums go anyway . . Can anyone else see the hypocrisy
I couldn't have sex with someone I'm not physically attracted to. Do you fuck everyone who messages you? If not how do you "judge" which ones to meet? "I meet them because i don't know of I'm attracted to them or not until I do ... I can't tell thro a pic if chemistry is there or not | |||
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"As far as the forums go anyway . . Can anyone else see the hypocrisy
I couldn't have sex with someone I'm not physically attracted to. Do you fuck everyone who messages you? If not how do you "judge" which ones to meet?
I meet them because i don't know of I'm attracted to them or not until I do ... I can't tell thro a pic if chemistry is there or not "so do you meet without seeing a face pic? | |||
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"As far as the forums go anyway . . Can anyone else see the hypocrisy
I couldn't have sex with someone I'm not physically attracted to. Do you fuck everyone who messages you? If not how do you "judge" which ones to meet?
I meet them because i don't know of I'm attracted to them or not until I do ... I can't tell thro a pic if chemistry is there or not so do you meet without seeing a face pic?"Yeah I have a few times but then I'm meeting for a social to see how things go not a guaranteed fuck so whats to lose ... so far so good  | |||
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"Ok so.how many people have u met and thought instantly nah im not attracted to u but then after a chat u think yeah I actually am ... or ... how.many pics have u seen and then met someone in the flesh and thought wow ur pic doesn't do u any justice ... seeing my point yet all u be urself and who cares what u look like people but please attach a face pic or ur blocked peeps "To answer both your questions, none. Anyone we've met has always looked good in their pictures, or to word it better we've been attracted to their pictures, and thankfully they've looked just as good in the flesh (although we've usually had a quick cam chat as well so everyone knows what they're getting). | |||
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"As far as the forums go anyway . . Can anyone else see the hypocrisy
I couldn't have sex with someone I'm not physically attracted to. Do you fuck everyone who messages you? If not how do you "judge" which ones to meet?
I meet them because i don't know of I'm attracted to them or not until I do ... I can't tell thro a pic if chemistry is there or not so do you meet without seeing a face pic?
Yeah I have a few times but then I'm meeting for a social to see how things go not a guaranteed fuck so whats to lose ... so far so good "Thats your choice to do so just the same as its others choices to ask for a face pic before meeting | |||
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"Ok so.how many people have u met and thought instantly nah im not attracted to u but then after a chat u think yeah I actually am ... or ... how.many pics have u seen and then met someone in the flesh and thought wow ur pic doesn't do u any justice ... seeing my point yet all u be urself and who cares what u look like people but please attach a face pic or ur blocked peeps
To answer both your questions, none. Anyone we've met has always looked good in their pictures, or to word it better we've been attracted to their pictures, and thankfully they've looked just as good in the flesh (although we've usually had a quick cam chat as well so everyone knows what they're getting). "Tbf cam gives u a much clearer idea of the person ur thinking of meeting | |||
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"As far as the forums go anyway . . Can anyone else see the hypocrisy
I couldn't have sex with someone I'm not physically attracted to. Do you fuck everyone who messages you? If not how do you "judge" which ones to meet?
I meet them because i don't know of I'm attracted to them or not until I do ... I can't tell thro a pic if chemistry is there or not "Yes but you don't meet them all, right? So you are judging them somehow? | |||
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"As far as the forums go anyway . . Can anyone else see the hypocrisy
I couldn't have sex with someone I'm not physically attracted to. Do you fuck everyone who messages you? If not how do you "judge" which ones to meet?
I meet them because i don't know of I'm attracted to them or not until I do ... I can't tell thro a pic if chemistry is there or not so do you meet without seeing a face pic?
Yeah I have a few times but then I'm meeting for a social to see how things go not a guaranteed fuck so whats to lose ... so far so good "That's great, however just because others don't follow suit doesn't mean they are judging people. If I don't find a person attractive then no amount of banter is going to change that - I'm not judging them as a person. Now there are some pictures on here that mean I won't meet a person - THAT is judgmental because I'm taking a view and making a judgement on the activity | |||
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"I make a decision primarily on pics, you can be the nicest of of people but if I don’t find you attractive I’m not going to F**k you end of. " what this chick said | |||
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"As far as the forums go anyway . . Can anyone else see the hypocrisy
I couldn't have sex with someone I'm not physically attracted to. Do you fuck everyone who messages you? If not how do you "judge" which ones to meet?
I meet them because i don't know of I'm attracted to them or not until I do ... I can't tell thro a pic if chemistry is there or not
Yes but you don't meet them all, right? So you are judging them somehow?"I never ask for face pics ... I make my mind up on the chat | |||
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"I think everyone else has made it pretty clear. No we can't see the hypocrisy, because it's not there. No-one is going to have sex with someone they don't find attractive. Would you? No. I certainly wouldn't ...well there was that time in The Grill last year when I had 8 pints of Stella and 4 whiskies, but hey... the 1st rule of The Grill ...etc. We are physical creatures. Governed sexually primarily by physical attraction. Not by judgement. Everyone on here will have been rejected by someone after sending the first face pic. You're not their type. Laugh and move on. Never be afraid to send a face pic, but certainly don't take any form of rejection on here as a judgement or a value of your self worth and allow it to even dent your self confidence. Hey ... wait a minute ... that silhouette is over a year old ... how do we even know your shadow looks like that anymore!
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"I make a decision primarily on pics, you can be the nicest of of people but if I don’t find you attractive I’m not going to F**k you end of. what this chick said "U can look amazing in a face pic but u could still be a psycho;) | |||
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"I make a decision primarily on pics, you can be the nicest of of people but if I don’t find you attractive I’m not going to F**k you end of. what this chick said
U can look amazing in a face pic but u could still be a psycho;)"Nobody is disputing that - however plenty of people have made very valid points that undermine your assertion that not meeting someone because you don't find them attractive is judging them. | |||
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"I make a decision primarily on pics, you can be the nicest of of people but if I don’t find you attractive I’m not going to F**k you end of. what this chick said
U can look amazing in a face pic but u could still be a psycho;)
Nobody is disputing that - however plenty of people have made very valid points that undermine your assertion that not meeting someone because you don't find them attractive is judging them. " | |||
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"I make a decision primarily on pics, you can be the nicest of of people but if I don’t find you attractive I’m not going to F**k you end of. what this chick said
U can look amazing in a face pic but u could still be a psycho;)
Nobody is disputing that - however plenty of people have made very valid points that undermine your assertion that not meeting someone because you don't find them attractive is judging them. "I don't feel undermined at all but maybe a little judged for sharing a different opinion haha | |||
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"In reverse if the other person was drop dead gorgeous with the personality of a plank of wood I wouldn’t f**k them . I may just be to fussy though . I look nothing like my profile pics which is why I don’t mind my face in them . The few that have met me didn’t run away screaming so my normal face can’t be that bad I hope . "Sense at last xx | |||
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"I make a decision primarily on pics, you can be the nicest of of people but if I don’t find you attractive I’m not going to F**k you end of. what this chick said
U can look amazing in a face pic but u could still be a psycho;)
Nobody is disputing that - however plenty of people have made very valid points that undermine your assertion that not meeting someone because you don't find them attractive is judging them.
I don't feel undermined at all but maybe a little judged for sharing a different opinion haha "The irony is killing me lol | |||
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"If wanting to know what someone looks like before meeting them is being judgmental Then too I am I'm not going to sleep with someone because they have a nice personality? I need physical attraction " This^^^^ | |||
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"I make a decision primarily on pics, you can be the nicest of of people but if I don’t find you attractive I’m not going to F**k you end of. what this chick said
U can look amazing in a face pic but u could still be a psycho;)
Nobody is disputing that - however plenty of people have made very valid points that undermine your assertion that not meeting someone because you don't find them attractive is judging them.
I don't feel undermined at all but maybe a little judged for sharing a different opinion haha
The irony is killing me lol" | |||
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"I make a decision primarily on pics, you can be the nicest of of people but if I don’t find you attractive I’m not going to F**k you end of. what this chick said
U can look amazing in a face pic but u could still be a psycho;)
Nobody is disputing that - however plenty of people have made very valid points that undermine your assertion that not meeting someone because you don't find them attractive is judging them.
I don't feel undermined at all but maybe a little judged for sharing a different opinion haha
The irony is killing me lol"Aww bless | |||
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"I make a decision primarily on pics, you can be the nicest of of people but if I don’t find you attractive I’m not going to F**k you end of. what this chick said
U can look amazing in a face pic but u could still be a psycho;)
Nobody is disputing that - however plenty of people have made very valid points that undermine your assertion that not meeting someone because you don't find them attractive is judging them.
I don't feel undermined at all but maybe a little judged for sharing a different opinion haha
The irony is killing me lol
"never mind them all wifey you can have me anytime you want and Ill sit and listed to you as you tell me that they all hate you cause you had a different opinion but your so glad that i love you. Anyways, I dont need yer pic, your face is etched on my heart (now common, was that smooth or was that smooth) XxX peter somehow, I feel I'm ready to wait fur a slagging | |||
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"I make a decision primarily on pics, you can be the nicest of of people but if I don’t find you attractive I’m not going to F**k you end of. what this chick said
U can look amazing in a face pic but u could still be a psycho;)
Nobody is disputing that - however plenty of people have made very valid points that undermine your assertion that not meeting someone because you don't find them attractive is judging them.
I don't feel undermined at all but maybe a little judged for sharing a different opinion haha
The irony is killing me lol
never mind them all wifey
you can have me anytime you want and Ill sit and listed to you as you tell me that they all hate you cause you had a different opinion but your so glad that i love you.
Anyways, I dont need yer pic, your face is etched on my heart
(now common, was that smooth or was that smooth)
XxX peter
somehow, I feel I'm ready to wait fur a slagging
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"I make a decision primarily on pics, you can be the nicest of of people but if I don’t find you attractive I’m not going to F**k you end of. what this chick said
U can look amazing in a face pic but u could still be a psycho;)
Nobody is disputing that - however plenty of people have made very valid points that undermine your assertion that not meeting someone because you don't find them attractive is judging them.
I don't feel undermined at all but maybe a little judged for sharing a different opinion haha
The irony is killing me lol
never mind them all wifey
you can have me anytime you want and Ill sit and listed to you as you tell me that they all hate you cause you had a different opinion but your so glad that i love you.
Anyways, I dont need yer pic, your face is etched on my heart
(now common, was that smooth or was that smooth)
XxX peter
somehow, I feel I'm ready to wait fur a slagging
It’s etched on your wall. I drew a selfie! "ffs, was it in blood or chalk | |||
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"I make a decision primarily on pics, you can be the nicest of of people but if I don’t find you attractive I’m not going to F**k you end of. what this chick said
U can look amazing in a face pic but u could still be a psycho;)
Nobody is disputing that - however plenty of people have made very valid points that undermine your assertion that not meeting someone because you don't find them attractive is judging them.
I don't feel undermined at all but maybe a little judged for sharing a different opinion haha
The irony is killing me lol
never mind them all wifey
you can have me anytime you want and Ill sit and listed to you as you tell me that they all hate you cause you had a different opinion but your so glad that i love you.
Anyways, I dont need yer pic, your face is etched on my heart
(now common, was that smooth or was that smooth)
XxX peter
somehow, I feel I'm ready to wait fur a slagging
It’s etched on your wall. I drew a selfie!
ffs, was it in blood or chalk "Sharpie marker! That shit is forever! | |||
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"I make a decision primarily on pics, you can be the nicest of of people but if I don’t find you attractive I’m not going to F**k you end of. what this chick said
U can look amazing in a face pic but u could still be a psycho;)
Nobody is disputing that - however plenty of people have made very valid points that undermine your assertion that not meeting someone because you don't find them attractive is judging them.
I don't feel undermined at all but maybe a little judged for sharing a different opinion haha
The irony is killing me lol
never mind them all wifey
you can have me anytime you want and Ill sit and listed to you as you tell me that they all hate you cause you had a different opinion but your so glad that i love you.
Anyways, I dont need yer pic, your face is etched on my heart
(now common, was that smooth or was that smooth)
XxX peter
somehow, I feel I'm ready to wait fur a slagging
It’s etched on your wall. I drew a selfie!
ffs, was it in blood or chalk
Sharpie marker! That shit is forever!"pmslllllllllllllllll I seriously burst out laughing loud there lollllllll | |||
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"As far as the forums go anyway . . Can anyone else see the hypocrisy
I couldn't have sex with someone I'm not physically attracted to. Do you fuck everyone who messages you? If not how do you "judge" which ones to meet?
I meet them because i don't know of I'm attracted to them or not until I do ... I can't tell thro a pic if chemistry is there or not
Yes but you don't meet them all, right? So you are judging them somehow?
I never ask for face pics ... I make my mind up on the chat "That's totally up to you. Doesn't make people who'd like to know who's at the other end before they meet hypocrites x | |||
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"As far as the forums go anyway . . Can anyone else see the hypocrisy
I couldn't have sex with someone I'm not physically attracted to. Do you fuck everyone who messages you? If not how do you "judge" which ones to meet?
I meet them because i don't know of I'm attracted to them or not until I do ... I can't tell thro a pic if chemistry is there or not
Yes but you don't meet them all, right? So you are judging them somehow?
I never ask for face pics ... I make my mind up on the chat
That's totally up to you. Doesn't make people who'd like to know who's at the other end before they meet hypocrites x"No ur right it doesnt but it does for people who say 'I don't judge on physical appearance' but then want face pics to confirm attraction before they meet one ... my op wasn't directed at anyone in particular just an observation of fab in general but had a chuckle at the replies | |||
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"As far as the forums go anyway . . Can anyone else see the hypocrisy
I couldn't have sex with someone I'm not physically attracted to. Do you fuck everyone who messages you? If not how do you "judge" which ones to meet?
I meet them because i don't know of I'm attracted to them or not until I do ... I can't tell thro a pic if chemistry is there or not
Yes but you don't meet them all, right? So you are judging them somehow?
I never ask for face pics ... I make my mind up on the chat
That's totally up to you. Doesn't make people who'd like to know who's at the other end before they meet hypocrites x
No ur right it doesnt but it does for people who say 'I don't judge on physical appearance' but then want face pics to confirm attraction before they meet one ... my op wasn't directed at anyone in particular just an observation of fab in general but had a chuckle at the replies "Ah I see. These non judging on appearance folk probably want reassurance it's a real person maybe? That's what it must be... | |||
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"As far as the forums go anyway . . Can anyone else see the hypocrisy
I couldn't have sex with someone I'm not physically attracted to. Do you fuck everyone who messages you? If not how do you "judge" which ones to meet?
I meet them because i don't know of I'm attracted to them or not until I do ... I can't tell thro a pic if chemistry is there or not
Yes but you don't meet them all, right? So you are judging them somehow?
I never ask for face pics ... I make my mind up on the chat
That's totally up to you. Doesn't make people who'd like to know who's at the other end before they meet hypocrites x
No ur right it doesnt but it does for people who say 'I don't judge on physical appearance' but then want face pics to confirm attraction before they meet one ... my op wasn't directed at anyone in particular just an observation of fab in general but had a chuckle at the replies
Ah I see. These non judging on appearance folk probably want reassurance it's a real person maybe? That's what it must be... "Suppose that would work if a face pic guaranteed they where a real person ... | |||
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"Maybe wandering slightly off topic but I decided to keep face pics private after I was recognised by a work colleague. Since then I don’t have face pics in public on any Social Media platforms. I only send them in PM’s & use the delete function after they’ve been read. " Ffs are we agreeing lolooollol Exact Same reason. You never know who is on the other end so I delete pics after they read But contradicting myself here I always send a fave pic even if they haven't asked, just being polite so they know who is chatting to them | |||
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"Ffs are we agreeing lolooollol Exact Same reason. You never know who is on the other end so I delete pics after they read But contradicting myself here I always send a fave pic even if they haven't asked, just being polite so they know who is chatting to them " I didn’t know we disagreed on stuff (other than our sexual preference) lol. However, yes I like to send a face pic to some folk I message that I’m reasonably sure I’ve not worked with or know from outside Fab. That way they can (hopefully) get an idea that I don’t look like a psychopath LOL | |||
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"As far as the forums go anyway . . Can anyone else see the hypocrisy
I couldn't have sex with someone I'm not physically attracted to. Do you fuck everyone who messages you? If not how do you "judge" which ones to meet?
I meet them because i don't know of I'm attracted to them or not until I do ... I can't tell thro a pic if chemistry is there or not so do you meet without seeing a face pic?
Yeah I have a few times but then I'm meeting for a social to see how things go not a guaranteed fuck so whats to lose ... so far so good "You are very lucky you have so much available time to go to all these social meets. Perhaps if I had more time I could adopt this strategy. But I don’t, so I will want to see a picture in the meantime! | |||
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"As far as the forums go anyway . . Can anyone else see the hypocrisy
I couldn't have sex with someone I'm not physically attracted to. Do you fuck everyone who messages you? If not how do you "judge" which ones to meet?
I meet them because i don't know of I'm attracted to them or not until I do ... I can't tell thro a pic if chemistry is there or not so do you meet without seeing a face pic?
Yeah I have a few times but then I'm meeting for a social to see how things go not a guaranteed fuck so whats to lose ... so far so good
You are very lucky you have so much available time to go to all these social meets. Perhaps if I had more time I could adopt this strategy. But I don’t, so I will want to see a picture in the meantime!"Thats my thoughts too ...Id rather be doing social meets with people im attracted to than wasting time on a social with some I may or may not be attracted too | |||
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"Pmslllll. We haven't yet disagreed unless you say my cock is big when I think it's tiny "I’ve NEVER seen it!!! Though I will admit you’re more handsome in the flesh than when you’re on cam in Chat. (Not that I thought you were a munter in Chat LMAO!) So take note ladies, he’s not fugly. Now I’m wandering to “Verification” territory. Haha! | |||
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"Thats my thoughts too ...Id rather be doing social meets with people im attracted to than wasting time on a social with some I may or may not be attracted too "But your Socials are EPIC! (Now I really am wandering). I always met folk I’d maybe never known were even on Fab, & most of them I can honestly say we’re lovely people. Even the odd hottie I could (ahem) get to know better. | |||
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Ffs sometimes I sound intelligent n caring, then again
Right, anyway I'm away to see if there's a post where a girl asks do guys like holding a girl down while fucking get ass as she screams fir more
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"Thats my thoughts too ...Id rather be doing social meets with people im attracted to than wasting time on a social with some I may or may not be attracted too
But your Socials are EPIC! (Now I really am wandering). I always met folk I’d maybe never known were even on Fab, & most of them I can honestly say we’re lovely people. Even the odd hottie I could (ahem) get to know better.
"I was meaning 121 socials but thanks
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"Everyone has characteristics which will appeal to someone.... If we delete nail because we do t think we are attracted to someone we that's the chance we take and we are all usually right but there are some that we may all delete that if paths crossed then we might see them in a different t way/ light. "Agree. (Twice in one day???) That’s why I always advise Newbies to go to the Group Socials or even a 121 where you can get a better idea of mutual compatibility much better than from photos or mails. I’m not aware of folk who have Blocked me then met at a Group Social but I’m reasonably sure it’s happened & also vice versa where I’ve blocked folk not looking for folk like me (so that I don’t bother them). Perhaps that is me pre-judging them if I’ve sensed hostility in Chat Rooms, or by their Profile blurb, or even comments on the Forums, but it is just me saving myself the bother in life. I have had many ocassions where folk I’ve initially felt wouldn’t get on with me that later became good friends on Fab. In contrast I’ve also had folk I was initially attracted to (mentally or physically) later became “ugly” in my eyes. So perhaps pictures don’t always tell you everything you need to know about a person. | |||
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"I was meaning 121 socials but thanks
We have good taste when it comes to hotties "I’d like to think so. | |||
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"Everyone has characteristics which will appeal to someone.... If we delete nail because we do t think we are attracted to someone we that's the chance we take and we are all usually right but there are some that we may all delete that if paths crossed then we might see them in a different t way/ light.
Agree. (Twice in one day???)
That’s why I always advise Newbies to go to the Group Socials or even a 121 where you can get a better idea of mutual compatibility much better than from photos or mails.
I’m not aware of folk who have Blocked me then met at a Group Social but I’m reasonably sure it’s happened & also vice versa where I’ve blocked folk not looking for folk like me (so that I don’t bother them).
Perhaps that is me pre-judging them if I’ve sensed hostility in Chat Rooms, or by their Profile blurb, or even comments on the Forums, but it is just me saving myself the bother in life. I have had many ocassions where folk I’ve initially felt wouldn’t get on with me that later became good friends on
Fab. In contrast I’ve also had folk I was initially attracted to (mentally or physically) later became “ugly” in my eyes. So perhaps pictures don’t always tell you everything you need to know about a person. ". Agreed, this is murder ain't it lololo.
The only reason why I knew I was blocked because I noticed they were going to the socials as well so I suspected they didn't like what they saw in my pics as said above I didn't ask for anything nor show Cock pic. Etc.....
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"I *Correction - occasionally we do make a judgement on someone's character based on posts "Ffs looks like that's me out then | |||
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"I make a decision primarily on pics, you can be the nicest of of people but if I don’t find you attractive I’m not going to F**k you end of. what this chick said "Yep couldnt have said it better myself | |||
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"I make a decision primarily on pics, you can be the nicest of of people but if I don’t find you attractive I’m not going to F**k you end of. what this chick said
Yep couldnt have said it better myself "Ok so what happens if you are at a party (as I was) and it descended into a one room orgy of 8 couples? Do you bar a few of the guys from touching you because you don't find them attractive? Knock them back in front of their partners? Don't think these rules apply here somehow. Precisely the reason I left the room after 5 minutes as I was expected to undress and play with any of the guys/females who happened to fancy me. Let's face it, 8 couples aren't going to fancy every other couple - are they? | |||
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"I make a decision primarily on pics, you can be the nicest of of people but if I don’t find you attractive I’m not going to F**k you end of. what this chick said
Yep couldnt have said it better myself
Ok so what happens if you are at a party (as I was) and it descended into a one room orgy of 8 couples? Do you bar a few of the guys from touching you because you don't find them attractive? Knock them back in front of their partners? Don't think these rules apply here somehow. Precisely the reason I left the room after 5 minutes as I was expected to undress and play with any of the guys/females who happened to fancy me. Let's face it, 8 couples aren't going to fancy every other couple - are they?"Why don’t these rules apply?? If I don’t find someone attractive I don’t have sex with them what’s difficult to understand about that  | |||
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"I make a decision primarily on pics, you can be the nicest of of people but if I don’t find you attractive I’m not going to F**k you end of. what this chick said
Yep couldnt have said it better myself
Ok so what happens if you are at a party (as I was) and it descended into a one room orgy of 8 couples? Do you bar a few of the guys from touching you because you don't find them attractive? Knock them back in front of their partners? Don't think these rules apply here somehow. Precisely the reason I left the room after 5 minutes as I was expected to undress and play with any of the guys/females who happened to fancy me. Let's face it, 8 couples aren't going to fancy every other couple - are they?
Why don’t these rules apply?? If I don’t find someone attractive I don’t have sex with them what’s difficult to understand about that "Agreed and I would feel the same way if at a swinging club. Heard stories from couples who have had a meet and one of them doesn't like the person they are meeting but they have had sex just to make their partner happy. I will never get over this one. So you all know, the person they met that one of them didn't find attractive, wasn't me. Just Saying Like
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"I make a decision primarily on pics, you can be the nicest of of people but if I don’t find you attractive I’m not going to F**k you end of. what this chick said
Yep couldnt have said it better myself
Ok so what happens if you are at a party (as I was) and it descended into a one room orgy of 8 couples? Do you bar a few of the guys from touching you because you don't find them attractive? Knock them back in front of their partners? Don't think these rules apply here somehow. Precisely the reason I left the room after 5 minutes as I was expected to undress and play with any of the guys/females who happened to fancy me. Let's face it, 8 couples aren't going to fancy every other couple - are they?
Why don’t these rules apply?? If I don’t find someone attractive I don’t have sex with them what’s difficult to understand about that "I wiuld also have no problem saying no | |||
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"I make a decision primarily on pics, you can be the nicest of of people but if I don’t find you attractive I’m not going to F**k you end of. what this chick said
Yep couldnt have said it better myself
Ok so what happens if you are at a party (as I was) and it descended into a one room orgy of 8 couples? Do you bar a few of the guys from touching you because you don't find them attractive? Knock them back in front of their partners? Don't think these rules apply here somehow. Precisely the reason I left the room after 5 minutes as I was expected to undress and play with any of the guys/females who happened to fancy me. Let's face it, 8 couples aren't going to fancy every other couple - are they?
Why don’t these rules apply?? If I don’t find someone attractive I don’t have sex with them what’s difficult to understand about that "Think on that occasion it would have been awkward.. everyone seemed to join in and I left to go into the other room as I didn't fancy a few of the guys or ladies. I think with a same room orgy everyone is expected to play with everyone. Or perhaps my party was the exception? | |||
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"I make a decision primarily on pics, you can be the nicest of of people but if I don’t find you attractive I’m not going to F**k you end of. what this chick said
Yep couldnt have said it better myself
Ok so what happens if you are at a party (as I was) and it descended into a one room orgy of 8 couples? Do you bar a few of the guys from touching you because you don't find them attractive? Knock them back in front of their partners? Don't think these rules apply here somehow. Precisely the reason I left the room after 5 minutes as I was expected to undress and play with any of the guys/females who happened to fancy me. Let's face it, 8 couples aren't going to fancy every other couple - are they?
Why don’t these rules apply?? If I don’t find someone attractive I don’t have sex with them what’s difficult to understand about that
Think on that occasion it would have been awkward.. everyone seemed to join in and I left to go into the other room as I didn't fancy a few of the guys or ladies. I think with a same room orgy everyone is expected to play with everyone. Or perhaps my party was the exception?"parties should be relaxed and fun with no pressure to play at all | |||
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A polite you're not for me would have sufficed
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"I make a decision primarily on pics, you can be the nicest of of people but if I don’t find you attractive I’m not going to F**k you end of. what this chick said
Yep couldnt have said it better myself
Ok so what happens if you are at a party (as I was) and it descended into a one room orgy of 8 couples? Do you bar a few of the guys from touching you because you don't find them attractive? Knock them back in front of their partners? Don't think these rules apply here somehow. Precisely the reason I left the room after 5 minutes as I was expected to undress and play with any of the guys/females who happened to fancy me. Let's face it, 8 couples aren't going to fancy every other couple - are they?
Why don’t these rules apply?? If I don’t find someone attractive I don’t have sex with them what’s difficult to understand about that
Think on that occasion it would have been awkward.. everyone seemed to join in and I left to go into the other room as I didn't fancy a few of the guys or ladies. I think with a same room orgy everyone is expected to play with everyone. Or perhaps my party was the exception?parties should be relaxed and fun with no pressure to play at all "True. Which I don't think was the case with this one, hence the reason for my hasty exit to the room next door! | |||
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"I make a decision primarily on pics, you can be the nicest of of people but if I don’t find you attractive I’m not going to F**k you end of. what this chick said
Yep couldnt have said it better myself
Ok so what happens if you are at a party (as I was) and it descended into a one room orgy of 8 couples? Do you bar a few of the guys from touching you because you don't find them attractive? Knock them back in front of their partners? Don't think these rules apply here somehow. Precisely the reason I left the room after 5 minutes as I was expected to undress and play with any of the guys/females who happened to fancy me. Let's face it, 8 couples aren't going to fancy every other couple - are they?
Why don’t these rules apply?? If I don’t find someone attractive I don’t have sex with them what’s difficult to understand about that
Think on that occasion it would have been awkward.. everyone seemed to join in and I left to go into the other room as I didn't fancy a few of the guys or ladies. I think with a same room orgy everyone is expected to play with everyone. Or perhaps my party was the exception?parties should be relaxed and fun with no pressure to play at all "There should always be the option not to play. I left a party as I didn’t fancy anyone and the behaviour of one of the guys (he spanked a girl so hard it left a handprint while she was giving another guy a bj.) Could have had severe consequences if she’d bitten down! My problem was she didn’t have a clue it was going to happen. No one spanks me without permission. | |||
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