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By *ustpassionandfun OP   Man
over a year ago

Port Dundas

I’m finding it very difficult to get some or any of the things I’m looking for on this.

I know this is a daft question but has anyone actually had any luck on this or is there a better site?

Thanks in advance.

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

Yes, been very lucky despite geography.

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock

Don't look for anything on here and it may find you, that's all I can say. It is an incredibly hard place to meet someone as the girls are easily outnumbered by about 50 to 1. Sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s all about luck.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

It has nothing to do with luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It has nothing to do with luck "

True. It's all about chloroform, duct tape, and an inflatable mattress in a windowless van. Or so Bunkie told me...

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"It has nothing to do with luck

True. It's all about chloroform, duct tape, and an inflatable mattress in a windowless van. Or so Bunkie told me... "

Shhhhhh ffs ...thats it im not giving you anymore advice from now on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few things to bear in mind.

Firstly, I'd factor the earlier 50-1 estimate by another 10.

And this is further exacerbated by the behaviour of the "wanna shag? How no? Yur an ugly boot anyway" brigade.

If you're straight and/or married you're further limiting your demand.

And do remember a lot of women on here either ain't even looking to play ....... or ain't even women. Lol.

All I can say is be patient. Try build up a bit of chat here or in chat room. If socials are your thing attend one. Get known.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You asked for advice before and followed it and that is a good thing. But only a wek ago, you need to have a bit of patience. Keep plugging on, make sure you read profiles to check you fit what they are looking for before sending mail. Otherwise you are just wasting your time. Plenty guys do have success on here, it's just not always easy. And going along to socials is great advice, it really is a good way to meet people. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It has nothing to do with luck

True. It's all about chloroform, duct tape, and an inflatable mattress in a windowless van. Or so Bunkie told me...

Shhhhhh ffs ...thats it im not giving you anymore advice from now on "

I'm a caring, sharing guy. I just want to help the OP with his first vict... er meet

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain


"A few things to bear in mind.

Firstly, I'd factor the earlier 50-1 estimate by another 10.

And this is further exacerbated by the behaviour of the "wanna shag? How no? Yur an ugly boot anyway" brigade.

If you're straight and/or married you're further limiting your demand.

And do remember a lot of women on here either ain't even looking to play ....... or ain't even women. Lol.

All I can say is be patient. Try build up a bit of chat here or in chat room. If socials are your thing attend one. Get known.

Good luck. "

The most accurate summation EVER!

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill

Ask yourself what makes your profile stand out from hundreds of others. Women are swamped with messages and as your profile is your shop window you should use it as such.

Try going to a club or social and get your face out there & meet many of the regulars. That will help

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I normally find “hey sexy, fancy taking pictures of my anus while I’m on a see through space hopper” works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just get to know people, chat on here, chat in the chat rooms, go to socials and parties. If your genuine and not an egit then you will shine through.

It's a swinging site so people meet each other for sex but some just meet for fun, laughs and banter and might develop this later on for fu and sex, (usually me), everyone is different, its about who and how you connect with people.

If you look at a profile and they fit what you are looking for and they fit your age range and you are in theirs then message them but don't message if they say "not looking for single guys the now etc.."

Redoo your profile if you feel its needs done again and revamped, some guys put cock pics on and some don't but it puts most girls and couple soff, I say most as not all are put off. Never sent a cock pic or had one on my profile so only going by what most say.

if you genuine single make sure you state this as girls and couples, experienced ones on here are canny enough to find out. If your single and can accom hen it makes it easier, just a little though as most guys who are married usually cant accom.

I have had meets on fab and done, some would say quite a few, but no matter what goes on I always treat people with respect and with couples I treat them as a couple and I know I'm always asked back cause I want them to have a fantastic time in my company.

Like 'field of dreams' they will come

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain


"Just get to know people, chat on here, chat in the chat rooms, go to socials and parties. If your genuine and not an egit then you will shine through.

It's a swinging site so people meet each other for sex but some just meet for fun, laughs and banter and might develop this later on for fu and sex, (usually me), everyone is different, its about who and how you connect with people.

If you look at a profile and they fit what you are looking for and they fit your age range and you are in theirs then message them but don't message if they say "not looking for single guys the now etc.."

Redoo your profile if you feel its needs done again and revamped, some guys put cock pics on and some don't but it puts most girls and couple soff, I say most as not all are put off. Never sent a cock pic or had one on my profile so only going by what most say.

if you genuine single make sure you state this as girls and couples, experienced ones on here are canny enough to find out. If your single and can accom hen it makes it easier, just a little though as most guys who are married usually cant accom.

I have had meets on fab and done, some would say quite a few, but no matter what goes on I always treat people with respect and with couples I treat them as a couple and I know I'm always asked back cause I want them to have a fantastic time in my company.

Like 'field of dreams' they will come

"

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

If I don't post in the forums I might get one or two looking at me a day.

When I'm active in the forums it jumps up to 10 or over.

Now I know that those figures pale into insignificance compared to the looks ladies get but it does show the difference it can make.

Especially over the course of a few days, the numbers add up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I don't post in the forums I might get one or two looking at me a day.

When I'm active in the forums it jumps up to 10 or over.

Now I know that those figures pale into insignificance compared to the looks ladies get but it does show the difference it can make.

Especially over the course of a few days, the numbers add up.

"

So true

Just think what could have happened if you put an advert on teletext lollllll

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By *rand Central CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We swing as a couple but I imagine as a sibgle guy you go to a club and take your chance. Be willing to be sociable with no guarantees... people like you / learn to trust you and finally you get to play... ride them rotten... whatever your (mutusl) thing is. The process may take an hour or a month ..but it should be fun.

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By *agnoliax2Couple
over a year ago

wishaw


"I’m finding it very difficult to get some or any of the things I’m looking for on this.

I know this is a daft question but has anyone actually had any luck on this or is there a better site?

Thanks in advance. "

I’m only speaking for us personally here,we try and have a few couples,single men & single females on our friends list,now we don’t allow loads as simply we want just a few so we can keep in touch and actually get to know each other so if we do meet we feel a connection.Thats our way of working,now had 5 single guys on our talk to list and tbh over the period the chat with nearly everyone of them has wittled away because basically meets aren’t happening fast enough for them.So my suggestion is play the long game,talk get to know people and have both parties interested in each other rather than like most men in here who think sending cock pics straight away works or straight in saying “I’m free u wanna meet” show your actually interested intilectually in them.Anyway only yesterday we deleted 3 of the guys we’ve spoke to as they’ve given up or only pop up on a Saturday,as for couples we only talk to one and tbh we should broaden our horizons on that,as for single women we don’t have any we talk to although we have tried.Anyway good luck and at least your willing to try.Sorry if I’ve went on lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thats our way of working,now had 5 single guys on our talk to list and tbh over the period the chat with nearly everyone of them has wittled away because basically meets aren’t happening fast enough for them "

I so believe that

Never a truer saying than above.

I have a lot of friends that I will prob never meet, why because i don't push or force, asking for a meet, we just have a good laugh and chat. I like to be wanted and asked as well you know lollllllll

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow


"Thats our way of working,now had 5 single guys on our talk to list and tbh over the period the chat with nearly everyone of them has wittled away because basically meets aren’t happening fast enough for them

I so believe that

Never a truer saying than above.

I have a lot of friends that I will prob never meet, why because i don't push or force, asking for a meet, we just have a good laugh and chat. I like to be wanted and asked as well you know lollllllll

"

We know your wanted it’s just others haven’t seen crime watch in a while

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By *agnoliax2Couple
over a year ago

wishaw


"Thats our way of working,now had 5 single guys on our talk to list and tbh over the period the chat with nearly everyone of them has wittled away because basically meets aren’t happening fast enough for them

I so believe that

Never a truer saying than above.

Totally and that’s how it should be,respect both ways.Its a shame so many guys think jumping right in there works.Can only assume they ain’t bright enough to figure it out,some guys Obv are bright enough.Most guys just looking for a quick notch on the bedpost.

I have a lot of friends that I will prob never meet, why because i don't push or force, asking for a meet, we just have a good laugh and chat. I like to be wanted and asked as well you know lollllllll

"

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