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One for the team - yes or no?

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By *un69forus OP   Couple
over a year ago

Ayr

So you have had a social meet which goes fine so you arrange a fun meet. However when you get there you realise that you have made a mistake as you don’t click with your ‘swinging’ but your partner clicks with his/her ‘swinging’ partner – what do you do? Think well I’m here now l’ll make the best of it and take one for the team? And if you do that and it is not for you how do you stop half way through? Say to the ‘swinging’ partner that you are sorry but you don’t feel as if you click but you are happy to let your partner and his/her partner play if all agree. – Or do you both say sorry and leave?

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By *omaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

We are honest enough with eachother to say so if one of us "isnt into this".

If Mrs _oma wasnt completely comfortable then it wouldnt go past being another "social" meeting.

No point in "making up the numbers" Its got to be fun for all concerned.

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By *carletRomanceCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Wouldn't 'take one for the team' but if one of us got on well with someone from another couple we'd (Kit and myself) be happy letting the other play - as long as it was ok with the other couple.

I wouldn't be able to play if I felt I was being pressured into it just so Kit can have some fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have had this situation a few times.... and no we wouldnt just do it.....gotta be a connection between all 4

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have had this situation a few times.... and no we wouldnt just do it.....gotta be a connection between all 4 "

also would like to add prob one of the reasons where playing seperate kinda comes in....its easier sometimes as soooo hard to get all 4 having chemistry

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By *carletRomanceCouple
over a year ago

glasgow


"We have had this situation a few times.... and no we wouldnt just do it.....gotta be a connection between all 4

also would like to add prob one of the reasons where playing seperate kinda comes in....its easier sometimes as soooo hard to get all 4 having chemistry "

That's also why we like a little alone time fun now and then. Though I sometimes just like to sit back and watch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have had this situation a few times.... and no we wouldnt just do it.....gotta be a connection between all 4

also would like to add prob one of the reasons where playing seperate kinda comes in....its easier sometimes as soooo hard to get all 4 having chemistry

That's also why we like a little alone time fun now and then. Though I sometimes just like to sit back and watch."

exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats why we play alone also. It seems very hard to find a couple where there is an attraction between us all.

Saying that we have both taken one for the team, without really knowing why. Just mixed messages when we started out in this life style. G

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it would now seem that there is benifits to being single on this it must be very hard for you couples and being a single male most of time we are in surplus

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By *anictechCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow - ish ;-)

We would know at the social if we didnt click. So if a fun meet was arranged? and by some strange reasons something wasnt right? Yes I guess I (fem) would carry on. Thats the whole point of socials we think, to see if theres a connection up close and personal.

Having said all that above? It has never happened yet to us thankfully! Xxx MT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope, if we dont all like each other we dont have sex simple as really ... i would never expect my hubby to have sex with someone he didnt like just so i could nor would he me ... this is for fun and not for doing something you really dont want to do xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope never take one for the team. as me and him are a team and if one dont wanna play then we both dont play

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By *stwoCouple
over a year ago

anywhere

we will only play is everyone is happy.if not its athanks but no thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope we will only play if were both happy xxx

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Nope... wouldn't fuck someone I wasn't attracted to no matter what the circumstances! Why would you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no, neither of us would expect the other to play if all not happy....thats just no fun

Rox xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope sorry never ever would i "take 1 for the team" why shag someone your not attracted too?

wrong wrong wrong

auds xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no , but i have made a lad take one for the team lol .... ye ken who ye are lol xxx

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By *anictechCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow - ish ;-)


"nope sorry never ever would i "take 1 for the team" why shag someone your not attracted too?

wrong wrong wrong

auds xx"

Well as the OP said, it had gone beyond the initial social meet to a later arranged date for fun..(have to assume attraction was there, else no fun meet would'nt happen?)

Have to ask? Why take the meet further if not attracted in the first place?

Also? How would you make your excuses as original op posted question? XxX MT

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By *lay_N_cum2Couple
over a year ago

Somewhere in Scotland

In theory...I (mrs play) would not take one for the team...but have found myself doing just that when I came out the bathroom and found Mr Play doing naughty things.!!!! just a good job there was another fem for me to play with ...cos the spark with the guy was non- exsistant....lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope-always best to be honest and hope folk understand, without taking offence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a serial masturbator i'd never take one for the team just so my hand could have his wicked way with another. I'd miss him too much whilst he was gone. That's why we always play together. Were i one o those people who could masturbate with my leg it may be a different story cos i've already shagged many a woman i didn't fancy whilst legless

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