FabSwingers.com forum: Getting over an ex....

By *ainbowBrite57 OP Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Any advice fab people?

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

As they say, if you can’t get over someone... get under someone else

John

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Get out with friends and enjoy yourself

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"As they say, if you can’t get over someone... get under someone else

John

Totally this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any advice fab people? "

Been there huni. Take your time. Talk to friends. But most of all find out who you are and concentrate on you. Times a healer as they say.

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By *unnyfiferMan
over a year ago

Glenrothes

Keep busy and get yourself to a concert

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I like this quote...

The past cannot be changed, forgotten, edited or erased.

It can only be accepted.

Only then, you can start the next chapter of your life.

Hugs x

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

Date and spoil yourself. Don't feel bad about missing them or being sad. Be kind to yourself and one day it will be easier.

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By *loobookMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I like this quote...

The past cannot be changed, forgotten, edited or erased.

It can only be accepted.

Only then, you can start the next chapter of your life.

Hugs x"

Great quote Max - Id just say there is no such thing as a good ex - tis why they are an ex - also if you still letting them prey on your mind then you are letting them still conotrol you/own you/insert your own description here - it might be hard but you simply have to get out,brush yourself off and get out there again hard as it might seem

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

"Any advice fab people?

Been there huni. Take your time. Talk to friends. But most of all find out who you are and concentrate on you. Times a healer as they say. "

Pretty much this. Have to ride it out

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By *eather47Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

How true Max if you keep dwelling on the past it just messes with your head My advice is get out there live life I know it is hard but you just have to do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab can provide a great distraction and may help take your mind from the situation.

But learn from it and move on to the next exciting chapter in your life.

What will be will be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeh stay on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't get angry get even.

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By *mberbCouple
over a year ago

Lothians

"Any advice fab people? "
A split up can be a bit like loosing a loved one and you can go through the grieving stage. don't rush into anything you could regret. Just remember why they are an EX my saying is an EX is an EX for a reason. Time.

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By *ainbowBrite57 OP Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Thankyou all... whatever people say about Fab there are some genuinely wonderful people here. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was seeing someone who passed away whom I loved so much but we need to get on with our life and if there are friends on here and in your own private life who are there for you then you will do just fine.

Just enjoy life and have a great time on fab, always the best way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just out of curiosity when were you seeing the love of your life. Before during or after your 61 verifications. Sorry but just wondering ykno

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Im sure a replacement will come along soon

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By *eanne n AliCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

When I (Leanne) broke up with my ex I said I would never get onto a relationship again. A friend of a friend also had a bad break up an we got together as fuck buddies which was great and helped me forget about my ex. After a while I arranged to meet a woman from here and we hit it off from the start and now we are married. We still meet people on here fur fun nights when time allows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I (Leanne) broke up with my ex I said I would never get onto a relationship again. A friend of a friend also had a bad break up an we got together as fuck buddies which was great and helped me forget about my ex. After a while I arranged to meet a woman from here and we hit it off from the start and now we are married. We still meet people on here fur fun nights when time allows."

Congrats and long may you two continue together, forever awwwww

XxX peter

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By *ainbowBrite57 OP Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Just out of curiosity when were you seeing the love of your life. Before during or after your 61 verifications. Sorry but just wondering ykno

No harm in wondering Cherry.

We were both swingers and understood the lifestyle. For me swinging is a lifestyle but doesn't mean that I love everyone I sleep with. Love is a very different thing in my opinion.

I had a single profile when with him, which he was fully aware of and supported.

Not sure of the point you're making but hope I've answered your query

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have plenty sex and give yourself time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best way getting over someone get under someone new

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yesterday is history, tommorow is a mystery. today is the present. thats why its a gift.

delete their number, have no social media communication with them at all and ignore them. it was good while it lasted, but now its stopped. smile and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry you are hurting.

Distract yourself with something for the next wee while just to keep your mind off it. When it’s less raw you can then process your feelings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just out of curiosity when were you seeing the love of your life. Before during or after your 61 verifications. Sorry but just wondering ykno

No harm in wondering Cherry.

We were both swingers and understood the lifestyle. For me swinging is a lifestyle but doesn't mean that I love everyone I sleep with. Love is a very different thing in my opinion.

I had a single profile when with him, which he was fully aware of and supported.

Not sure of the point you're making but hope I've answered your query

R "

You did thanks x

Hope you get over him I'm sure you will. Times a healer x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is different how they get over someone, only they will know what is right for them to get over someone.

No matter what, if you have close friends and family who are there for you it will be made a lot easier.

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

You play this on repeat & dance everywhere as you recite the 3 steps.

https://youtu.be/k2qgadSvNyU

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By *unny Guy 67Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Some sage advice all round. I am still hurting after 19 years together did not see it happen. She ran off with best friend husband week after she died. Where is Jeremy Klye when you need him

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By *ommickMan
over a year ago

Glasgow cork

"I like this quote...

The past cannot be changed, forgotten, edited or erased.

It can only be accepted.

Only then, you can start the next chapter of your life.

Hugs x"

I like that...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you are in love and the relationship ends (not by your hands) you go through the same stages you would if someone close to you died...First you are in denial, then you get really upset wondering what you did wrong, then you get really angry before finally excepting what happened and moving on. How long this process takes in different for everyone. The trick is to surround yourself with friends and loved ones. Keep yourself busy and in time you'll meet that someone special who'll make you realise why it didn't work with anyone else x

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