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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't know how to start convos I need help this is different than all the other sites I've been on and don't know what to say to start talking to people any advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont take offence to this because i genuinely wish you well.

However, after 2 weeks you havent managed to upload any pics and you dont know how to start speaking to people.

Are you sure this is the right site for you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have a PIC uploading I just realised the verify PIC isnt public just need a bit of constructive criticism for what is OK and what's not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You may need more than one pic given the male to female ratio on this site. Need to make your profile stand out a bit.

As for whats acceptable and whats not - that depends on the individual. Read peoples bio and see what it says, ask them about things they are interested in. Some people love dirty talk in the first message and some dont. And whatever you do, dont just talk to the women when talking to couples.

That is about all i have learned in my time here! Other than that its every man, woman and possible variation inbetween for themselves

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Look at some of the other guys profiles and see what they have got on theirs.

You look fed up and pissed off in your photo so it will hardly be enticing.

Your only 22. Alot of women and couples would steer clear because they have children around your age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also you might want to clarify that your anal joke still includes letting others put things up your botty....you kinky boy you

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

Nobody is going to hold your hand when you message/chat with a lady, so if you don't know what to say you're a non-starter.

Your pic is not particularly attractive, you could hardly look less attractive!

So it's over to you OP, you can either chat or not, and you can surely come up with a better pic than that!!

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I have a PIC uploading I just realised the verify PIC isnt public just need a bit of constructive criticism for what is OK and what's not"

What is ok for one person is not ok for another!

Sounds basic but... just be yourself!

You can't go on a meet with a Cyrano de Bergerac whispering lines in your ear!

You are you! Find yourself and take it from there!

Good luck OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would suggest you read the FAQ's, site advice and use the forum "search topic" facility to look through the many posts similar to yours... there's a wealth of advice there that would be well worth your time reading

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone for the great advice I appreciate it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can't go on a meet with a Cyrano de Bergerac whispering lines in your ear!

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It's only you who could do that, as he'd be speaking French!

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"You can't go on a meet with a Cyrano de Bergerac whispering lines in your ear!

It's only you who could do that, as he'd be speaking French! "

Am sure people got my drift

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