FabSwingers.com forum: Hotlist

By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Have you someone on your hotlist who you fancy the pants off but would never contact as you think they would never meet you?

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Away to check my hotlist ..i'll get back to you on that 1

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Away to check my hotlist ..i'll get back to you on that 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you have someone on your hotlist can they find out they are on it? I have never looked at hotlist

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Theres a few hot profiles on my hotlist i wouldnt message but not for that reason ...more because i am not what they are looking for going by their profile

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"If you have someone on your hotlist can they find out they are on it? I have never looked at hotlist "
no I dont think so Tracy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely, not sure I'm willing to say who is on it though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you have someone on your hotlist can they find out they are on it? I have never looked at hotlist no I dont think so Tracy

There are some desirable guys I do fancy but my instinct is that as they haven't ever messaged me I would think it pointless to put them on a hotlist. Does this make sense? Lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Theres a few hot profiles on my hotlist i wouldnt message but not for that reason ...more because i am not what they are looking for going by their profile

Same here

nice profile and pics but we're not looking for the same thing, had this a few times when chatting to people as I have only meet at organised socials and clubs/parties (unless I've previously met them) and lots of couples want you to go to there house for a first meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

But started using my hotlist for keeping profiles of been chatting too then if it all goes quiet i take them off lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Nope

But started using my hotlist for keeping profiles of been chatting too then if it all goes quiet i take them off lol"
I use my notes for that

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"If you have someone on your hotlist can they find out they are on it? I have never looked at hotlist no I dont think so Tracy

There are some desirable guys I do fancy but my instinct is that as they haven't ever messaged me I would think it pointless to put them on a hotlist. Does this make sense? Lol! "
no because they might be like you and holding back lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a few people like that.

Happy just to see their updates though.

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Got quite a few on our hotlist but the reason we don't contact most of them is distance. About 90% (at a guess) of them are down South.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did actually have someone on my hotlist who I hadn't message yet send me a message out of the blue last month. First time for everything I guess including pleasant surprises

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have two on my hotlist.

I often draft a message when I'm in brave mode then.....bottle it!!!

Maybe one day

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Did actually have someone on my hotlist who I hadn't message yet send me a message out of the blue last month. First time for everything I guess including pleasant surprises

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lovely

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

Yes.. a few x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you someone on your hotlist who you fancy the pants off but would never contact as you think they would never meet you?"

Nope but recently had a message from someone who said "btw I know you've hidden your profile but you're on my hotlist and I just thought I'd let you know I can still see you. You're not invisible"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously talking bull

If you hide your profile your hidden

Wouldn't worry about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Obviously talking bull

If you hide your profile your hidden

Wouldn't worry about it "

Ta maluv, folk never cease to surprise you though do they lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you someone on your hotlist who you fancy the pants off but would never contact as you think they would never meet you?"

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah and a few from last time I was in here who I met but messed them about a bit when I left

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By *ew guy69Man
over a year ago

Hamilton

Yes have you on nawty but cnt talk to you because of age you dnt like younger men xx

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

I don't have a hotlist or use the notes section but there are a few guys I think could prob have anyone they wanted so would never mail x

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

I have a few on my hotlist that I'll never get to meet, but everyone on it I've either chatted to before or chat to now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have one couple on my hotlist, the fem half is absolutely stunning. I'm certain we have spoken very briefly on other social media platforms, you know that feeling when you think you might have spotted someone?

Single guy filters are on so that's the end of that really, even though it's easy to say hi elsewhere I think that would be shit to try, see it as the filter is on here for a reason and that deserves to be respected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you honestly believe they would never meet you why have them on your Hotlist in the first instance? It should (in our opinion) never be a case of the "tail wagging the dog".

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By *unboytoyMan
over a year ago

scotland

99% of it

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"If you honestly believe they would never meet you why have them on your Hotlist in the first instance? It should (in our opinion) never be a case of the "tail wagging the dog"."
why not ?....perhaps they have some really hot pics that we like to admire lol

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By *argaidMan
over a year ago

glasgow

A couple I've never messaged because they're too far away. Our, like the honourable gent mentioned earlier, I'm not what they're looking for.

One who was on my friends list on the previous incarnation of this profile but whose filters block me from contacting her.

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By *argaidMan
over a year ago

glasgow

"perhaps they have some really hot pics that we like to admire lol"

This

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By *loki the BoatbuilderMan
over a year ago

Kattegat

"Have you someone on your hotlist who you fancy the pants off but would never contact as you think they would never meet you?"

Yes, guilty, for having a couple of women on my hotlist I would like to ask out, but the chances are, they are out of my league (sigh).

Or maybe I'm just to innocent to ask

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By *unboytoyMan
over a year ago

scotland

"If you honestly believe they would never meet you why have them on your Hotlist in the first instance? It should (in our opinion) never be a case of the "tail wagging the dog".why not ?....perhaps they have some really hot pics that we like to admire lol"

Exactly lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do have a good hotlist but not chatted to them all yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So it's about wank bank material? Sorry but the only people we have on our hotlist are people we have a realistic chance of meeting with otherwise what is the point?

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By *untimefrankie001Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Most of the females on this thread are on my hotlist, my secrets out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omg your all on mine xx Most I cant chat too due to age redtrictiond cest la vie xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hi horny ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have a hotlist.

I DO have a block list...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have someone on my hotlist who I check in on so I can block anyone who meets her.

Boak (vomit)

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

I may not be on a hotlist

But I'm sure to be on a block list

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By *oney4uCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I (honey) don't have time to trawl profiles so hubby does that and puts people he thinks I'd like to meet on our hot list. Then I wink them and see what happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I may not be on a hotlist

But I'm sure to be on a block list

Snap!

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

As others have said, i Have a few, but i don't think I'm what they're looking for. So it's nice to just perv

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My entire hotlist lol

I get told alot im not someone's type lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" There are some desirable guys I do fancy but my instinct is that as they haven't ever messaged me I would think it pointless to put them on a hotlist. Does this make sense? Lol! "

Maybe they're sitting thinking the same thing. The desirable lady hasn't contacted me even though I've looked at her profile so she must not be interested type scenario. The thing is that with the ability to hide whether you've looked at a profile people will never know that someone on their hotlist has actually looked at them.

Personally, I've mailed a few on my list but a lot of the time the mail just gets deleted because they are inundated with emails from other guys. Then there's also the ones you can't because you're outside the age range they're looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I set my filters and have a couple of different searches saved. If I see someone that matches what Im looking for and they look good I put them on my hotlist

Then I send a message, if no reply or chat etc they come off.

I have one or two old friends on here who will always be on my hotlist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do use the hotlist for people that I would like to meet but aren't ready to message just yet, or people that I don't think they'd meet me but I can hope, or finally for some people that I just genuinely think are hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a few on my hot list for similar reasons.

I do also have a few on my hotlist who I've never contacted. Few new ones after checking out some of the profiles on this thread

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By *egal221Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Ohhhh aye !!!! We're awwww fiert wee boays at times lol x

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By *kooter75Man
over a year ago

Dalkeith

"I have a few on my hot list for similar reasons.

I do also have a few on my hotlist who I've never contacted. Few new ones after checking out some of the profiles on this thread

Me too

well, one.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Think I've chatted or met most people on my hotlist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have dozens of women on my hotlist I have never contacted and never will. They are on the list because they are attractive. The day I stop looking will be the day they screw the lid on the coffin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have two on my hotlist.

I often draft a message when I'm in brave mode then.....bottle it!!!

Maybe one day

Just send me it.

I'm nice x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Acht I believe if you don't ask you don't get. I don't think anyone is out of my league or that I am out of anyone's. In saying that, I don't have anyone on my hotlist..is that cheating the thread?

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

No, not yet. I've met the hottest guy on my list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, not yet. I've met the hottest guy on my list

Lol yh that ^^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Theres a few hot profiles on my hotlist i wouldnt message but not for that reason ...more because i am not what they are looking for going by their profile

yip totally agree

I have a few like that, I have a few that interest me for different reasons but I know I wouldn't be for them.

I'm not worried about messaging anyone, if I'm not for them then I'm not for them and sure their life will still go on normal as it would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a small but eclectic mix of folk I've begun chatting too, folk who's posts amuse and a few 'what ifs'!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me init

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Me init

The topic is hot list. Not block list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know you love me really lol

Like deep deep down lol

Sorta

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By *lasgowguy16Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I have a few in my hot list,but all out of my age range.

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By *nverMan
over a year ago

....down the Rabbit Hole with a shotgun

A fair few on my hotlist, as well, but haven't bothered due to distance, work commitments and my being an auld minging munter lol

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By *unshineShowers08Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Mrs likes to put folk on our hotlist she also makes notes about each one

very organised!!

Everyone of them we would or have happily contacted nothing ventured nothing gained! We are gradually working our way through it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My hotlist is jam packed

Am I on anybody's hotlist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you someone on your hotlist who you fancy the pants off but would never contact as you think they would never meet you?"

Yes lots x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you someone on your hotlist who you fancy the pants off but would never contact as you think they would never meet you?"

Any social spaces?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only had one and met him. Don't use it now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't bother with the hotlist. In the past, the few people I had put on it did something to piss me off. When you block them, they come off your hotlist, surprisingly enough...

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By *olonel_kurtzMan
over a year ago

JOHNSTONE

My hotlist is full of woman that stays hundress of miles away so I've no chance with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They could be right next door, and I'd still have no chance with them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use my hotlist for who to avoid. But their statuses are to intriguing to block. Haa

If i want to meet someone they know i do.

Lifes to short for regrets. Mail them and take a chance if they dont wanna meet you. Their loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got one on my who is part of a couple but wouldnt message as husband is hung like a horse lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you someone on your hotlist who you fancy the pants off but would never contact as you think they would never meet you?"

Naw ..

I use the Hotlist function for a different reason.

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By *ock70Man
over a year ago

lanarkshire

Your on mine, your dynomite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely if there on the hotlist you should just message them and worst that happens you get no reply. Always wonder how many hotlists were on would love to be able to know.

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By *e_frenchMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

LandA are in my hotlist

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

Geography is a bitch where the Hotlist is concerned ..

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By *hillaxMan
over a year ago

Scotland

"Nope. "

awwww Shorty

I've got your pogonophillic sapiosexual self on mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you someone on your hotlist who you fancy the pants off but would never contact as you think they would never meet you?"

You

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By *loobookMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

have a gorgeous ginger haired lady on mine - only one on my hotlist actually - unfortunatly (for me ,not her) im outwith her parameters so thats that - paramaters are there for a reason and as much as one could think we would get on so well etc etc its all about choice and thats theirs so unless i see her age pref drop (no that i check much:P ) wouldnt dream of it

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By *appy876Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I think Tracey from Perth I'd a very hot woman and as you say ypu don't message as no chance lol but they ate a lot of sexy woman in here but I am just an old man at 55 lol

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By *uboCouple
over a year ago

East kilbride

Only put those we would like to meet in ours. After initial contact if its not going to happen, we remove

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I think Tracey from Perth I'd a very hot woman and as you say ypu don't message as no chance lol but they ate a lot of sexy woman in here but I am just an old man at 55 lol"
lovely lady

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I've got one or two on my hotlist I've not had contact with so far.

Maybe not the best analogy, but I see it as like having a desirable holiday destination I want to visit.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I've got a few on mine. Right now I fantasise about messaging them, they'll be witty and charming and they'll find me delightful. I'm not ready to burst the bubble yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Recently added 2 on mine lol Will I ever contact them?

Hell nooooo

I just like looking at their pics

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By *vanabeusedTV/TS
over a year ago

somewhere

Everyone I can contact I fancy on mine already knows xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if anyone has me on their Hotlist then gonna contact me

either I'm gonna have a lot of messages or none, get a feeling it will be none

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think Tracey from Perth I'd a very hot woman and as you say ypu don't message as no chance lol but they ate a lot of sexy woman in here but I am just an old man at 55 lollovely lady

Well that's mighty kind of you to say so! Thanks x

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