FabSwingers.com forum: Why Love Fades After A Year

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A wee snippet in The Herald yesterday:

Women in relationships lasting more than a year were x4 more likely to show a lack of interest in sex than those in shorter relationships.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv been in a relationship with my husband for 26yrs

Bollocks to that lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Iv been in a relationship with my husband for 26yrs

Bollocks to that lol

The same trend was not seen in men. No statistical difference between lack of sexual interest among those in longer or shorter lasting relationships.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's because most men think about sex 24/7

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Iv been in a relationship with my husband for 26yrs

Bollocks to that lol

The same trend was not seen in men. No statistical difference between lack of sexual interest among those in longer or shorter lasting relationships.

It's a well known fact that 98% of statistics are made up, plus four out of three people have trouble with maths anyway...

Love... love is a bit like a fire... sometimes when it gets all the right circumstances it burns bright and fierce... sometimes when things are hard it smoulders like embers... if you don't tend it then it can go out... moral of the tale, always tend yer embers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or.. .a wee poke now and then does wonders

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Iv been in a relationship with my husband for 26yrs

Bollocks to that lol

The same trend was not seen in men. No statistical difference between lack of sexual interest among those in longer or shorter lasting relationships.

It's a well known fact that 98% of statistics are made up, plus four out of three people have trouble with maths anyway...

Someone pissed on my embers long ago!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or.. .a wee poke now and then does wonders

LMAO aherm... aye, nice one oldie, I'll amend that last bit to always poke yer embers

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I would have thought it was the other way about though- that Men lose interest more quickly.

Apparently not.

Seems like the boot is actually on the other foot..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would have thought it was the other way about though- that Men lose interest more quickly.

Apparently not.

Seems like the boot is actually on the other foot.."

Ohhh boots!!! I LOVE boots!!!

Sorry what were ya saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes love fades after the orgasm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love only fades if you let it. Communication, honesty and emotion are the main things to keep lit in my eyes. Or maybe my head is just lit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting statistics...

The average adult has one testicle

87% of people have back pain - the other 13% don't have a computer

90% of women don't like men in pink shirts - Ironically 90% of men in pink shirts don't like women

It's official, birthdays are good for you, statistics show that the people who have the most live the longest

98% of statistics are made up

Statistics are like bikinis what they reveal is suggestive but what they hide is vital

Statistics - The only science wherein two recognised experts using exactly the same data may come to two totally different opinions.

1 in four people are insane - check your first three best friends. If it's not one of them... IT'S YOU!!

Just remember folks - statistics are facts but facts can also just be statistics!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I defiantly don't believe this for a second

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you just say there ,..that statistically your in a Bikini ?

or was i just dreaming ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Interesting statistics...

The average adult has one testicle

87% of people have back pain - the other 13% don't have a computer

90% of women don't like men in pink shirts - Ironically 90% of men in pink shirts don't like women

It's official, birthdays are good for you, statistics show that the people who have the most live the longest

98% of statistics are made up

Statistics are like bikinis what they reveal is suggestive but what they hide is vital

Statistics - The only science wherein two recognised experts using exactly the same data may come to two totally different opinions.

1 in four people are insane - check your first three best friends. If it's not one of them... IT'S YOU!!

Just remember folks - statistics are facts but facts can also just be statistics!!!

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my head actually hurts after reading that lol I'm so in my week off work comfort zone

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

Not sure i believe this. If the relationship fails, then it's the wrong person or lack of effort..

If you're not honest, not open or don't trust the other person, then that relationship is set for failure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Interesting statistics...

The average adult has one testicle

87% of people have back pain - the other 13% don't have a computer

90% of women don't like men in pink shirts - Ironically 90% of men in pink shirts don't like women

It's official, birthdays are good for you, statistics show that the people who have the most live the longest

98% of statistics are made up

Statistics are like bikinis what they reveal is suggestive but what they hide is vital

Statistics - The only science wherein two recognised experts using exactly the same data may come to two totally different opinions.

1 in four people are insane - check your first three best friends. If it's not one of them... IT'S YOU!!

Just remember folks - statistics are facts but facts can also just be statistics!!!

my head actually hurts after reading that lol I'm so in my week off work comfort zone

LOL sorrrrrry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Did you just say there ,..that statistically your in a Bikini ?

or was i just dreaming ?

Not with my statistics

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Survey comes from the National Survey of Sexual Attitudes Lifestyles and 6000 responses. All from women.

Impressive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Did you just say there ,..that statistically your in a Bikini ?

or was i just dreaming ?

Not with my statistics

Maybe i should statistically get my facts right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Survey comes from the National Survey of Sexual Attitudes Lifestyles and 6000 responses. All from women.

Impressive. "

Not really... statistics just mean never having to say you're certain... torture numbers hard enough and they will admit to anything

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sometimes love fades after the orgasm

Do women orgasm?

Now they tell me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im 96% statistically sexy ..

But its not fact ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes love fades after the orgasm

Do women orgasm?

Now they tell me!"

Did you know it takes 237 muscles to fake an orgasm but only fifteen to say "it's a clitoris and it's right there"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes love fades after the orgasm

Do women orgasm?

Now they tell me!"
yes...every single time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes love fades after the orgasm

Do women orgasm?

Now they tell me!"

Dinna ask me .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes love fades after the orgasm

Do women orgasm?

Now they tell me!yes...every single time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wait ....Waittt ..Waittttt ..

Hawd oan ..

No one said anything about a Clitoris ..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sometimes love fades after the orgasm

Do women orgasm?

Now they tell me!

Did you know it takes 237 muscles to fake an orgasm but only fifteen to say "it's a clitoris and it's right there"

Further instructions required. A slow learner but a willing student.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to be a bit random here ..

But.Does any Woman have any 3D pics of their Clitoris they could send me..

Educational purposes of course ..

Honest

HONESTTT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes love fades after the orgasm

Do women orgasm?

Now they tell me!

Did you know it takes 237 muscles to fake an orgasm but only fifteen to say "it's a clitoris and it's right there"

Further instructions required. A slow learner but a willing student. "

Slow AND willing... oooer intruiging combination

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sometimes love fades after the orgasm

Do women orgasm?

Now they tell me!

Did you know it takes 237 muscles to fake an orgasm but only fifteen to say "it's a clitoris and it's right there"

Further instructions required. A slow learner but a willing student.

Slow AND willing... oooer intruiging combination

Let's just say it now takes all night to do what I used to do all night.

But it's strangely more attractive

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sometimes love fades after the orgasm

Do women orgasm?

Now they tell me!

Did you know it takes 237 muscles to fake an orgasm but only fifteen to say "it's a clitoris and it's right there"

Further instructions required. A slow learner but a willing student.

Slow AND willing... oooer intruiging combination

Feel free to bring a flask and sandwiches....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The clitorus is a evolutionary mistake.

If it looked like a golf ball, men would pay it more attention.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The clitorus is a evolutionary mistake.

If it looked like a golf ball, men would pay it more attention."

So that means 25% of golfers are evolutionary mistakes. Or golfers lose all interest in sex after the first hole?

You might be on to something.

I will ask Tracey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So 87% of Male Golfers statistically swing and are on par with the like-minded female clitoris takes 72 shots in getting their hole ?

Feck ......ahll need tae get my handicap down .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So 87% of Male Golfers statistically swing and are on par with the like-minded female clitoris takes 72 shots in getting their hole ?

Feck ......ahll need tae get my handicap down .

You think you have problems? Lost my balls in the bunker. No first hole for me let alone a back 9.

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By *eADevilCouple
over a year ago

Blantyre

40% of children cant add up without the use of a calculator

The other 80% are ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"40% of children cant add up without the use of a calculator

The other 80% are ok

123% of people exaggerate such things yanno

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"40% of children cant add up without the use of a calculator

The other 80% are ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"40% of children cant add up without the use of a calculator

The other 80% are ok

Four out of three people also have trouble with fractions

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"40% of children cant add up without the use of a calculator

The other 80% are ok

Four out of three people also have trouble with fractions

Sorry. I lost interest over a year ago. I think we have all moved on. The embers are cold.

Still up for a good poke?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"40% of children cant add up without the use of a calculator

The other 80% are ok

Four out of three people also have trouble with fractions

Sorry. I lost interest over a year ago. I think we have all moved on. The embers are cold.

Still up for a good poke?"

I am totally lost noo lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What he actually means is ..

If your going swinging ..Hes got a 9 Iron and if ya fancy it ..youll need tae get your Divet oot.

Statistically that is ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What he actually means is ..

If your going swinging ..Hes got a 9 Iron and if ya fancy it ..youll need tae get your Divet oot.

Statistically that is ..

Am aff it

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

"What he actually means is ..

If your going swinging ..Hes got a 9 Iron and if ya fancy it ..youll need tae get your Divet oot.

Statistically that is ..

Am aff it

Par for the course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What he actually means is ..

If your going swinging ..Hes got a 9 Iron and if ya fancy it ..youll need tae get your Divet oot.

Statistically that is ..

Am aff it

Par for the course

lmfao Steph

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

"What he actually means is ..

If your going swinging ..Hes got a 9 Iron and if ya fancy it ..youll need tae get your Divet oot.

Statistically that is ..

Am aff it

Par for the course

lmfao Steph

A wee birdie already told me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What he actually means is ..

If your going swinging ..Hes got a 9 Iron and if ya fancy it ..youll need tae get your Divet oot.

Statistically that is ..

Am aff it

Par for the course

lmfao Steph

A wee birdie already told me

You've got it to a Tee Steph

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've been together 20 years (come Dec) and we don't have any issues, nor ever have.

L x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We've been together 20 years (come Dec) and we don't have any issues, nor ever have.

L x"

I wonder if the divorce rate amongst couples on fabswingers is actually much lower than the average?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've been together 20 years (come Dec) and we don't have any issues, nor ever have.

L x

I wonder if the divorce rate amongst couples on fabswingers is actually much lower than the average? "

Maybe. Or maybe we're just meant to be. It's been the longest one night stand of my life

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We've been together 20 years (come Dec) and we don't have any issues, nor ever have.

L x

I wonder if the divorce rate amongst couples on fabswingers is actually much lower than the average?

Maybe. Or maybe we're just meant to be. It's been the longest one night stand of my life

Awwww that's lovely to read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've been together 20 years (come Dec) and we don't have any issues, nor ever have.

L x

I wonder if the divorce rate amongst couples on fabswingers is actually much lower than the average?

Maybe. Or maybe we're just meant to be. It's been the longest one night stand of my life

Awwww that's lovely to read.

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