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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does anyone use Plenty Of Fish? Had any success with it?

I've recently started to use it and it's led to the following theory:

There are no women on the site. It's all run by the Markus dude, as a money-making scheme. At the risk of sounding desperate, I've sent messages to around 30 women and haven't had a single reply. I'm no mathematician, but that's a crap ratio. Before you get on my back and question the type of message I send, I'm not that type of guy. It's all good-natured, friendly with a hint of self-deprecation.

I really don't want to come to the conclusion that I'm an ugly motherfucker and that's the reason why I'm getting no replies, so I can only assume it's this mysterious Markus fella.

Anyway, enjoy your Tuesday everyone!

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By *heesyheadbandMan
over a year ago

Glenrothes

nope your just an "ugly motherfucker" lol

i get a reply with from most messages i send but that's without a profile picture... lol

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I'm on it and have used it on and off for years. In my experience, it's far easier to chat to and meet women on there than here, simply due to a more equal balance of users.

I also like how the site has adapted to changing user wants from what was predominantly strictly a dating site, to now something more informal, if that's your thing. To keep market share, they seem to have accepted some people just want to hook up.

They even have organised group social nights regularly, I was at one in Glasgow a few months ago and there were more women at it than men.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"nope your just an "ugly motherfucker" lol

i get a reply with from most messages i send but that's without a profile picture... lol"

Cheers mate lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive used pof and just recently met a really nice local woman. going quite well.

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By *inUpGirlWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Its very much like here in that its all how you use it x

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By *is vixen at playCouple
over a year ago

Dundee

I used it before, think it the best one for that sort of thing. It worked for me at the time, although no longer together. Again though 10 guys to every girl. And most pushy like on here as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a good response on it met a lady we had a relationship for a few years. Had a few dates aswell keep going

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By *ittle DancerWoman
over a year ago

Leslie, Glenrothes

It's through POF I found swinging lol. I've not used it since

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By *ookingfordeeporalMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

POF is much better than fab for hooking up

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'll stick with it for the time being I think. Maybe someone on there can change my opinion of it lol

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By *litter and GrumpCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

I've never tried it. Not sure about grump. But a few of the young yins in my work are on it and tinder and seem to think it's good.

I did joke I might join it only to be informed they didn't think it was my scene I'm a bit too prudish lol.

If only they knew x

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

Was on it briefly but didn't speak to anyone so came off it

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

Never tried it, colleague in work says he does well on it, the girls he 'says' he's meeting look very nice and much younger than he is, maybe I should try it actually

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I've tried it a few times over the years but really wasn't all that taken by any of the men on it.

It proves my theory that on there and I imagine other dating sites mens selection criteria is different to here..

Also it may just mean I'm really scary and get by on here because I show my boobs more than my face...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never tried it. Not sure about grump. But a few of the young yins in my work are on it and tinder and seem to think it's good.

I did joke I might join it only to be informed they didn't think it was my scene I'm a bit too prudish lol.

If only they knew x"

Hahahahahaha that's brilliant

L x

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By *andCforfunCouple
over a year ago

Inverness

Before being part of a couple I used POF for years had a few relationships from meeting on it and then I just used it for hook ups when fab was a bit dead, also tinder and badoo they where mainly just hook ups though. But then I'm female.

Did encounter a couple of people on here and had previously spoken to them on one of the dating sites and it only went somewhere cause they realised I was on fab.

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling


"I've tried it a few times over the years but really wasn't all that taken by any of the men on it.

It proves my theory that on there and I imagine other dating sites mens selection criteria is different to here..

Also it may just mean I'm really scary and get by on here because I show my boobs more than my face..."

We like your boobs though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's through POF I found swinging lol. I've not used it since "

Ditto

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

In the past, I've met more women on pof than here

More personality on display on a dating site than just "here's my assets, let's fuck"

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By *ary_ArgyllMan
over a year ago

Argyll

Don't you have to pay to even send a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't tried it but a female friend did and had her fair share of social misfits/desperados/oddballs and a lot of decent guys. Didn't find her soulmate however.

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By *eADevilCouple
over a year ago

Blantyre


"I've never tried it. Not sure about grump. But a few of the young yins in my work are on it and tinder and seem to think it's good.

I did joke I might join it only to be informed they didn't think it was my scene I'm a bit too prudish lol.

If only they knew x"

Haha superb the double life of a Fab member. Exactly the same here, if only people knew lmao.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never tried it. Not sure about grump. But a few of the young yins in my work are on it and tinder and seem to think it's good.

I did joke I might join it only to be informed they didn't think it was my scene I'm a bit too prudish lol.

If only they knew x

Haha superb the double life of a Fab member. Exactly the same here, if only people knew lmao. "

I have the same at my work, they all think I’m young and innocent untill we get past the small talk!

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By *ikerbob1957Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I am on POF and have just about given up on it. Too many fakes or "daddy lovers" looking for a generous daddy.

Response rate is about 5% and a lot of them are just looking for a penpal and have no intention of actually meeting.

It is as frustrating a place as Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had a couple of meets on it, i get a reply to most messages

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I tried pof briefly when my couple profile ended. I then realised many were on here too, but were less honest what they were looking for on pof ...... so deleted pof account & came back here.

R

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve put a couple of hints in my profile on PoF to show what I’m looking for but still no luck on there really

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock

So the genera consensus appears to be that men have more luck on there. mmmm

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By *ikerbob1957Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I have had more luck on POF than here but there are still a lot of timewasters on POF.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is quite a few ladies on here that

Are on pof

The funny thing is they dont show face pics on here

But on pof they do

And not looking for casual sex

So what they doing on fabs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

because maybe they are looking for actual relationships on pof and just some fun on this whilst they wait ? that's not really our business xD

I am on both and find pof just as bad on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you really think that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find pof more friendly than here . Iv met some really nice people on there . But prob more fake people on there than here. I would take both sites with a big dose of salt. But as things go for success pof wins it hands down.

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By *dmirationMan
over a year ago

Bathgate

least you can name and shame on POF without admins bullying people!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"least you can name and shame on POF without admins bullying people! "
that's very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer pof to here

I have more success lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

POF is better, especially once you know some of the fun ones usernames much like you do with fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

POF definitely has women members

I would know. I’ve banged a fair few of them

Definite male/female ratio issues however nowhere near as imbalanced as on here.

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By *ikerbob1957Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Problem with POF is that too many hear wedding bells after an initial social.

Still a load of fakes and scammers looking for a "generous daddy".

I definately have more luck on there though.

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