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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

when did the art of having a grown up conversation die out on fab?

more and more guys that message within 2 or 3 messages start bringing sex into the conversation..

now I know this is a sex site blah blah but can we not just have a conversation without talking about it??

I personally find it a huge turn off

guy messages and it looks promising then BANG,,,you feeling horny babe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The art of erotic seduction is far more exciting and subtle so I'd very much agreee

Good communication in general is a two way street and takes both parties... I kinda like the following quote...

You have two ears and one mouth for a reason, listen twice as much as you talk

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

I prefer sex to happen im not big into discussions about it. Sex if its going to happen should find its own way imo.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

agree

there is a time and a place for such chat,,,not within the 1st or 2nd message

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

after 2 or 3 messages is not too bad. Quite often it's straight away. And then of course along the lines of:

I'd love to fuck your arse

I'd fuck you even if you had aids

Cum and go now

I sooooo want to eat that arse

Wish you were closer, really want to bang you

Actual conversations are rare. Which is probably not a bad thing. More appreciative of the hand full of people who realise it's not the "wanna fuck" attitude that gets them to meet people x

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yup we get it aswell, mostly starts off with I know you aren't looking for guys but here is my dick pic!

Ehhh sorry doesn't matter what size it is, we aren't interested in single guys.... fuck buddies or not

Conversations on here sometimes fail badly to the point it's not even worth replying at times.... sad but true

John

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I'd love to fuck your arse

I'd fuck you even if you had aids

Cum and go now

I sooooo want to eat that arse

Wish you were closer, really want to bang you

"

Can I copy and paste those in messages? They are better than the ones I use just now.

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


"

I'd love to fuck your arse

I'd fuck you even if you had aids

Cum and go now

I sooooo want to eat that arse

Wish you were closer, really want to bang you

Can I copy and paste those in messages? They are better than the ones I use just now. "

Go for it. Got loads more where they came from, if you need some more inspiration x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I'd love to fuck your arse

I'd fuck you even if you had aids

Cum and go now

I sooooo want to eat that arse

Wish you were closer, really want to bang you

Can I copy and paste those in messages? They are better than the ones I use just now.

Go for it. Got loads more where they came from, if you need some more inspiration x"

I'll take any help I can get!

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

I'm a great believer that if you stimulate the persons mind the rest will follow . Unfortunately some think a badly written porn senario will do that . Instead they should find out about the actual person and not just what they want sexually . Smacks of wank bank material when ppl go on about the sexual stuff from the off .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Myself personally I don't think sex talk is a turn on unless it's actually between two people in surroundings where they are actually planning to lead to sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

looks like its not just me then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not just you OBG

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"looks like its not just me then "

Definitely not just you.

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By *onkeymagic50Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour

Nope not just you obg

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By *ablo30Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

We chatted a while back and it was normal nice chat if I remember rightly, maybe the bit of innuendo for a giggle but nothing overtly sexual (sadly hehe!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah, the art of conversation long since vanished. I'd say though it goes for you ladies too, some of the filthy message I get..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah, the art of conversation long since vanished. I'd say though it goes for you ladies too, some of the filthy message I get.. "

You get messages from women!?

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"looks like its not just me then "

Nope! Defo not just you!

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Ah, the art of conversation long since vanished. I'd say though it goes for you ladies too, some of the filthy message I get.. "

Ya sure they are from women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah, the art of conversation long since vanished. I'd say though it goes for you ladies too, some of the filthy message I get..

Ya sure they are from women "

I don't even get them from fake women.

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Ah, the art of conversation long since vanished. I'd say though it goes for you ladies too, some of the filthy message I get..

Ya sure they are from women

I don't even get them from fake women. "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree. When this happens it's the delete button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never thought about chatting, the whole concept is totally new to me.

I mean what do I say, where do I start, how do I gauge a reaction from someone when I'm chatting and should I have an encyclopaedia with me so I can try and make it intellectual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never thought about chatting, the whole concept is totally new to me.

I mean what do I say, where do I start, how do I gauge a reaction from someone when I'm chatting and should I have an encyclopaedia with me so I can try and make it intellectual

"

I thought you always tried to "butter" the gals up

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

Just when you think .... possibly maybe, "so can me and my flat mate f**k your ass" ..... BLOCK!! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do u make decent convo tho. It's all good paying a compliment where it's due but getting dingied in return is a bit crap lmao

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

a decent conversation could be anything to a hi how has your day been?

or hey how are you finding the site and take it from there

not jumping right in with fancy a f,,k doll

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah but even st that I get dingied. Some ppl like discretion due to work. So understandable that some people don't reply cus my face is readily available

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

no one is talking about discretion

its a decent normal conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But that's what I'm sayin I can talk nice but get no reply

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

maybe try re jigging your profile then as the 1 you have obviously isn't working for you

2 knobshot pics and very little about yourself wouldn't get many chicks interested

sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"when did the art of having a grown up conversation die out on fab?

more and more guys that message within 2 or 3 messages start bringing sex into the conversation..

now I know this is a sex site blah blah but can we not just have a conversation without talking about it??

I personally find it a huge turn off

guy messages and it looks promising then BANG,,,you feeling horny babe "

I've honestly found that quite a lot of woman that respond don't want decent conversation! Doesn't matter how hard you try to keep the conversation decent, I've been told that I'm old and boring! The art of communication is a skill that many people seem to have lost

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But are you feeling horny babe ? Asking for a friend x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a conversation and would only ever become friends with someone after a decent conversation,it's the only way to learn if you have a connection.I find it quite important and always worry about how I come across to others so would never dive in with a 'let's fuck'

I like to try and create a lasting impression that also leads to a normal long term friendship where possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love a conversation and would only ever become friends with someone after a decent conversation,it's the only way to learn if you have a connection.I find it quite important and always worry about how I come across to others so would never dive in with a 'let's fuck'

I like to try and create a lasting impression that also leads to a normal long term friendship where possible"
totally agree...you want to leave an impression where you want to chat again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree!! First impressions are always important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love a conversation and would only ever become friends with someone after a decent conversation,it's the only way to learn if you have a connection.I find it quite important and always worry about how I come across to others so would never dive in with a 'let's fuck'

I like to try and create a lasting impression that also leads to a normal long term friendship where possibletotally agree...you want to leave an impression where you want to chat again"

Yeah it's always the 1st impressions that stick in your mind about someone so I always like to get a bit chat going.You get a very good impression of someone from the 1st few messages which is why I always find them very important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think its just on Fab though, in general and especially amongst the Millennial generation the art of conversation is in terminal decline. Agreed that on here its getting beyond chronic though

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By *onkeymagic50Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour


"I dont think its just on Fab though, in general and especially amongst the Millennial generation the art of conversation is in terminal decline. Agreed that on here its getting beyond chronic though"

Not just millenials ,I've been in pubs where the older generation (my age) spend more time on mobiles then they do talking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont think its just on Fab though, in general and especially amongst the Millennial generation the art of conversation is in terminal decline. Agreed that on here its getting beyond chronic though

Not just millenials ,I've been in pubs where the older generation (my age) spend more time on mobiles then they do talking"

Agreed but in our view Millenials are the worst offenders. We have a rule now when out with friends.....first one found on their phone for anything other than an emergency buys a double round!

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By *onkeymagic50Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour


"I dont think its just on Fab though, in general and especially amongst the Millennial generation the art of conversation is in terminal decline. Agreed that on here its getting beyond chronic though

Not just millenials ,I've been in pubs where the older generation (my age) spend more time on mobiles then they do talking

Agreed but in our view Millenials are the worst offenders. We have a rule now when out with friends.....first one found on their phone for anything other than an emergency buys a double round!"

Haha simular but they have to drink whatever spirit they detest,,,works a treat,buy there own worst drink

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London


"a decent conversation could be anything to a hi how has your day been?

or hey how are you finding the site and take it from there

not jumping right in with fancy a f,,k doll "

Many women profiles quote "and before you ask, yes I'm doing fine and enjoying the site" ...

I do enjoy a good (non-sexual) conversation, as i can show off my intellect and wit but not all women can reciprocate. That's why i spend most of my time in the forums, hopefully i get noticed

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By *unshineShowers08Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I think the lost art of meaningful conversation is one of the clear signs of a hurried manic society!

Everyone rushes around in a hurry and wants everything now they arnt prepared to wait and infrequently prepared to put in the groundwork that forms the basis of a lasting friendship!

Swinging has various forms but I can't help but think for us the social side plays a huge role in the entire experience! If a person can interest you humour you and captivate your mind then it is far easier and more natural to feel attracted to them!

This for us forms the basis of all great experiences!!

If we wanted rubbish pickup lines or crass talk we would ask for it but because we can form coherent sentences and make pleasant conversation we are quite happy to leave that to task to those less refined

Although in the past I have been guilty of being over chatty and never actually getting to the swinging bit

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By *onkeymagic50Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour


"I think the lost art of meaningful conversation is one of the clear signs of a hurried manic society!

Everyone rushes around in a hurry and wants everything now they arnt prepared to wait and infrequently prepared to put in the groundwork that forms the basis of a lasting friendship!

Swinging has various forms but I can't help but think for us the social side plays a huge role in the entire experience! If a person can interest you humour you and captivate your mind then it is far easier and more natural to feel attracted to them!

This for us forms the basis of all great experiences!!

If we wanted rubbish pickup lines or crass talk we would ask for it but because we can form coherent sentences and make pleasant conversation we are quite happy to leave that to task to those less refined

Although in the past I have been guilty of being over chatty and never actually getting to the swinging bit "

Love to Inverness

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By *onkeymagic50Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour


"I think the lost art of meaningful conversation is one of the clear signs of a hurried manic society!

Everyone rushes around in a hurry and wants everything now they arnt prepared to wait and infrequently prepared to put in the groundwork that forms the basis of a lasting friendship!

Swinging has various forms but I can't help but think for us the social side plays a huge role in the entire experience! If a person can interest you humour you and captivate your mind then it is far easier and more natural to feel attracted to them!

This for us forms the basis of all great experiences!!

If we wanted rubbish pickup lines or crass talk we would ask for it but because we can form coherent sentences and make pleasant conversation we are quite happy to leave that to task to those less refined

Although in the past I have been guilty of being over chatty and never actually getting to the swinging bit

Love to Inverness "

Also move to inverness

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I had a lovely conversation last night with a young guy and managed to keep it to a proper conversation without resorting to sordid details.

It was quite refreshing.

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I had a very interesting and informed conversation on here last night with someone about HS2!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a very interesting and informed conversation on here last night with someone about HS2!

"

Hydrogen Sulphide?? She wasnt a health & safety anorak surely??

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I had a very interesting and informed conversation on here last night with someone about HS2!

Hydrogen Sulphide?? She wasnt a health & safety anorak surely?? "

Haha, not that HS2, the hugely priced and much maligned transport/vanity project that will be the crown jewel in the south's rail crown!

I already know where to go for my Fab H&S advice!

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