FabSwingers.com forum: Is there any need for this....

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A single guy gets into a bit of a chat with a lady, back and forward. The lady asks for a pic and says she will respond when shw gets the male picture. After she gets the male picture, she blocks him without a word of reply. Not even a no thanks or anything.

I understand that a female gets 100's of messages but that is bang out of order. Especially after a bit of rapport has been built up.

A single guy in disguise as a woman I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or, and this may sound harsh..... She saw your pic and didnt fancy you?

But the id guess she didnt have the bottle to say no thanks and took the easy option and blocked you.

Just goes to show the narrow mindedness of some folk.

Some will only chat to those they fancy or prospective meets.

Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps the picture is not what she is expecting?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If I had a pound for every knockback I have had I would have a right few quid but to be kniocked back by a single lady who hasn't been verified genuine, has no friends on her list either private or public, makes me think. Anyway.....cannot complain as there are plenty others I have met....x..x.. SO rant over..lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why does the lady OWE you a reply, she can surely pick and choose who she replies to, AS CAN YOU.

as well as block !!

ideally it would be great to get meets with everyone you message, send pics to, build a rapport with.... the same as it would be to win the lottery everytime you buy a ticket...

block her back and move on, as you say, you have met others, enjoy their friendship..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks Gary x

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess

"A single guy gets into a bit of a chat with a lady, back and forward. The lady asks for a pic and says she will respond when shw gets the male picture. After she gets the male picture, she blocks him without a word of reply. Not even a no thanks or anything.

I understand that a female gets 100's of messages but that is bang out of order. Especially after a bit of rapport has been built up.

A single guy in disguise as a woman I think."

It could be any number of reasons. She might, as has been suggested, not fancy you. She might know you from elsewhere else. 'She' might be a man.

Does it really matter? Nothing you do or say will change what happened or stop it happening again. Onwards and upwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sadly it is most likely that she just didnt fancy you..and then of course felt it was too tricky to tell you that.

Im not suggesting this is right or good or how everyone should or would do things..but it happens.

I can only speak from my experience..but when i have said to someone they are not for me..i have had mail after mail asking why..saying 'oh but i have a 300 foot cock and give the best oral in the world'! lol..sadly this is not the point..ur either attracted or not. This being the case..sometimes its easier just not to reply rather then get into email tennis full of explanations.

I know this doesnt help you and it is harsh..sadly the actions of a few..do cause issues for others

vol

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By *adgeeMan
over a year ago

Loch Lomond

I was recently contacted by a young "Couple" both in their mid-twenties...we exchanged a few messeges all appeared well. They asked nicely for a facial pic and i duely obliged.

After obliging, i expected the "Couple" to reciprocate and send a facial pic or two back. After a while i replied back asking whether i was to expect a pic back, "Not our type" was the reply.

Ok, cool take it on the chin i thought. Maybe not to their taste, time to move on!

Out of curiosity i check their profile 2 days later, and low and behold, not only had they moved from mainland Britain, they had aged 40 years, EACH, in the space of 48 hours! PMSL Now they are 68 and 65.

In my opinion another case of a single guy in disguise as a MATURE couple this time lol

C'est La Vie

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By *rouble and strifeCouple
over a year ago

Nr Glasgow

as a mark of respect she should have at least said sorry but you are not what we are looking for pure shite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is something i feel strongly about.........i would mch rather people were honest and just said sorry not what we are looking for, or we dont fancy ya. We have had the same thing from some of the regulars from chat aswell as just some general site users........we would much rather people were honest with us, we dont take offence as we realise theres not going to be an attraction between everyone, thats life.

The way i look at it if someone deleted you then just move on and be thankfull you found out what they were like at the start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was recently contacted by a young "Couple" both in their mid-twenties...we exchanged a few messeges all appeared well. They asked nicely for a facial pic and i duely obliged.

After obliging, i expected the "Couple" to reciprocate and send a facial pic or two back. After a while i replied back asking whether i was to expect a pic back, "Not our type" was the reply.

Ok, cool take it on the chin i thought. Maybe not to their taste, time to move on!

In my opinion another case of a single guy in disguise as a MATURE couple this time lol

C'est La Vie

And of course you reported the profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont see why a single guy would pose as a female and contact other guys, think its been a case of shes not found you to be her type looks wise and just acted like a bitch

sorry thats happened

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess

Perhaps s/he was collecting cock pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

T is searching memory for "The" woman he decided,"naw yere not for me",lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"dont see why a single guy would pose as a female and contact other guys, think its been a case of shes not found you to be her type looks wise and just acted like a bitch

sorry thats happened

Find the "bitch" act most erotic !

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By *adgeeMan
over a year ago

Loch Lomond

"I was recently contacted by a young "Couple" both in their mid-twenties...we exchanged a few messeges all appeared well. They asked nicely for a facial pic and i duely obliged.

After obliging, i expected the "Couple" to reciprocate and send a facial pic or two back. After a while i replied back asking whether i was to expect a pic back, "Not our type" was the reply.

Ok, cool take it on the chin i thought. Maybe not to their taste, time to move on!

In my opinion another case of a single guy in disguise as a MATURE couple this time lol

C'est La Vie

And of course you reported the profile?"

Yes it's been reported!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was recently contacted by a young "Couple" both in their mid-twenties...we exchanged a few messeges all appeared well. They asked nicely for a facial pic and i duely obliged.

After obliging, i expected the "Couple" to reciprocate and send a facial pic or two back. After a while i replied back asking whether i was to expect a pic back, "Not our type" was the reply.

Ok, cool take it on the chin i thought. Maybe not to their taste, time to move on!

In my opinion another case of a single guy in disguise as a MATURE couple this time lol

C'est La Vie

I would say you had a lucky escape then gadge hun lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm, Sorry to burst your bubble but a heck of a lot of women on here are actually single blokes trying to get cock photos out of guys.

If you notice that a profile has been on here for more than say 3 months and they are not verified, and have a huge friends list that's a good indicator that they are indeed fake.

As for the way she behaved, I am not saying it's the nicest behaviour, but often when I tell a guy he's not my type, which is a subtle way of saying, NOOOOOOOO, I hear back oh what's your type? Why not? Bla bla bla.

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By *ashmira2008Woman
over a year ago

renfrew

I hate having 2 say 2 a guy that they r not my type, as, in the past I too have had endless messages asking whats wrong - too old/young, fat/thin etc. & all it is, is that I don't fancy the guy. Soz guys xxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is something i feel strongly about.........i would mch rather people were honest and just said sorry not what we are looking for, or we dont fancy ya. We have had the same thing from some of the regulars from chat aswell as just some general site users........we would much rather people were honest with us, we dont take offence as we realise theres not going to be an attraction between everyone, thats life.

The way i look at it if someone deleted you then just move on and be thankfull you found out what they were like at the start."

same as this

i might rant & rave about this subject a little

but exactly my thoughts, feedback would be nice to know where the problem lies

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By *anictechCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow - ish ;-)

We had similar yesterday,on cam with one half of a couple (male) surprise surprise, we sent pics and nothing back. Hubby & me spanked each others bottoms over this as we should have known better... Been too long out the scene is my excuse. (spanking was fun tho)

Always watermark pictures, whilst not a solution entirely, it at least makes it difficult for picture collectors to re use your pictures.

MT xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have, in the past asked for a pic from guys. call us nieve but we expected face pics but in most cases we get a cock pic and when we reply asking for face pics we don't get a reply.

a cock pic does not show what you look like and as a few lie about their age or body type a face pic is essential to make a decision whether to meet or not

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