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By *urglas OP   Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

We have recently been getting turned on by thought of hiring an escort for some fun. Has anybody tried it? Good? Bad? Just a fantasy topic at the moment lol

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Tain

You'd probably want a web site that works for adults!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just remember that if you pay for an escort she will be more than likely clock watching, probably not interested in kissing and will view the whole scenario as a purely commercial transaction. It certainly wouldn't ever be my or.my fb fantasy. Think carefully.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its simple, just don't do it

If the escort gets no trade, the escort may stop and change for a better life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tacky, that's our view but each to their own

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Not for us but it's the oldest profession in the world, 100% back it but as I said it's just not for us

John

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By *mberbCouple
over a year ago

Lothians


"We have recently been getting turned on by thought of hiring an escort for some fun. Has anybody tried it? Good? Bad? Just a fantasy topic at the moment lol"

Why not if its what you think and it may turn you on then go for it. Less chance of being messed about I suppose unlike on this site lol. good luck with it.

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

Each to their own but just out of interest is it because you have a particular kink or having trouble finding a woman on here? Or neither ....

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By *heesyheadbandMan
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"Just remember that if you pay for an escort she will be more than likely clock watching, probably not interested in kissing and will view the whole scenario as a purely commercial transaction. It certainly wouldn't ever be my or.my fb fantasy. Think carefully. "

suppose that'll depend on the escort, there are actually a few swingers on here that escort too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know people that use Escorts all the time . As unsafe it sounds some clock watch some are amazing looking some live in shit holes . Depends if you want to pay the extra for outgoing calls . al be honest ave done it once with an English girl paying for Uni up here from adultworks.com after i became single after 8 years more of a rebound instead of pulling a girl up the town think it was down to lack of confidence at the time . Ad never do it again put it that way . You feel minging and ashamed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wondered what the responses would have been if it was a single guy asking the same question?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't knowingly meet an escort, but if, as said above, there are some here who also escort, how does one know one hasn't?

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Only 1 way to know for sure ..if its a fantasy you want to live out go for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely there are better cars than an old escort for fun

What about a golf, capri, maybe even an astra lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"We have recently been getting turned on by thought of hiring an escort for some fun. Has anybody tried it? Good? Bad? Just a fantasy topic at the moment lol"
whats the appeal for you and what could an escort offer you that a meet from here cant?

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By *ero666Man
over a year ago

fife


"We have recently been getting turned on by thought of hiring an escort for some fun. Has anybody tried it? Good? Bad? Just a fantasy topic at the moment lolwhats the appeal for you and what could an escort offer you that a meet from here cant?"

They will probably turn up

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"We have recently been getting turned on by thought of hiring an escort for some fun. Has anybody tried it? Good? Bad? Just a fantasy topic at the moment lolwhats the appeal for you and what could an escort offer you that a meet from here cant?

They will probably turn up "

As would a genuine swinger

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By *ero666Man
over a year ago

fife


"We have recently been getting turned on by thought of hiring an escort for some fun. Has anybody tried it? Good? Bad? Just a fantasy topic at the moment lolwhats the appeal for you and what could an escort offer you that a meet from here cant?

They will probably turn up As would a genuine swinger "

Fab genuine

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By *ikerbob1957Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

At least you might get a reply from the escort and she would probably turn up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" what could an escort offer you that a meet from here cant?"

Speaking as a single male who has been a member since about January and only had one meet, half the battle on here is getting a reply. It's probably easier to get an escort than it is the get a reply An escort probably won't turn you down because they don't like facial hair or you aren't their "type".

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

They may be looking for a male escort!

Do your research before meeting anyone. Like everything else there are reputable sites and less reputable sites.

I do know a guy who was an escort so it's not always as seedy as it sounds. Good luck.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"They may be looking for a male escort!

Do your research before meeting anyone. Like everything else there are reputable sites and less reputable sites.

I do know a guy who was an escort so it's not always as seedy as it sounds. Good luck. "

depends on the form of escorting you get escorts that are basically your plus one for an evening and thats it then the prostitute type (either male or female)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think the OP is looking for an arm candy escort, somehow.

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By *xplorer13Man
over a year ago

glenrothes

What's the difference between an escort and a prostitute? In my opinion none, so if you want to pay to shag a woman who probably has a desperate drug habit or is being trafficked , go for it. They don't do this because they enjoy it!

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley


"What's the difference between an escort and a prostitute? In my opinion none, so if you want to pay to shag a woman who probably has a desperate drug habit or is being trafficked , go for it. They don't do this because they enjoy it! "

Maybe you should talk to an escort before making sweeping statements. I have spoken to a lovely guy who was an escort. He now has a full time job, doesn't regret it and learned a few things along the way. He's probably one of the nicest guys on here.

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By *eADevilCouple
over a year ago

Blantyre


"We have recently been getting turned on by thought of hiring an escort for some fun. Has anybody tried it? Good? Bad? Just a fantasy topic at the moment lol"

I cant believe some responses on here " a swinging site" . Every single male/female/couple/tv or whoever on this site has there own ideas of fantasies or desires or hope of that little something different. Why has so many people knocked this couples fantasy??. They asked a simple question and they got horror stories of mingin drug ridden prostitutes but go for it if thats what you want , unbelievable.! You people that condemned this idea go and tell your family sons/daughter/parent that YOU are on a swinger site looking for random meets/sex with strangers, no, most of you wont do that will you. So what makes your reason to be on here any more acceptable than the OP on here asking about thier fantasy. Guys in my opinion if its something you want to try then DEFINITELY go for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have recently been getting turned on by thought of hiring an escort for some fun. Has anybody tried it? Good? Bad? Just a fantasy topic at the moment lol

I cant believe some responses on here " a swinging site" . Every single male/female/couple/tv or whoever on this site has there own ideas of fantasies or desires or hope of that little something different. Why has so many people knocked this couples fantasy??. They asked a simple question and they got horror stories of mingin drug ridden prostitutes but go for it if thats what you want , unbelievable.! You people that condemned this idea go and tell your family sons/daughter/parent that YOU are on a swinger site looking for random meets/sex with strangers, no, most of you wont do that will you. So what makes your reason to be on here any more acceptable than the OP on here asking about thier fantasy. Guys in my opinion if its something you want to try then DEFINITELY go for it. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have recently been getting turned on by thought of hiring an escort for some fun. Has anybody tried it? Good? Bad? Just a fantasy topic at the moment lol

I cant believe some responses on here " a swinging site" . Every single male/female/couple/tv or whoever on this site has there own ideas of fantasies or desires or hope of that little something different. Why has so many people knocked this couples fantasy??. They asked a simple question and they got horror stories of mingin drug ridden prostitutes but go for it if thats what you want , unbelievable.! You people that condemned this idea go and tell your family sons/daughter/parent that YOU are on a swinger site looking for random meets/sex with strangers, no, most of you wont do that will you. So what makes your reason to be on here any more acceptable than the OP on here asking about thier fantasy. Guys in my opinion if its something you want to try then DEFINITELY go for it. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own as they say.

Some say that fantasies should just stay as fantasies and they never work out to be as good as what you thought.

I say go for it.

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

Whatever floats your boat, but some women just enjoy sex and rather earn money doing it, and not for drugs etc.

Bite the bullet, but don't rush in to choices. At least you know what you're in for, unlike some fakes/NoShows on here

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By *xplorer13Man
over a year ago

glenrothes


"What's the difference between an escort and a prostitute? In my opinion none, so if you want to pay to shag a woman who probably has a desperate drug habit or is being trafficked , go for it. They don't do this because they enjoy it!

Maybe you should talk to an escort before making sweeping statements. I have spoken to a lovely guy who was an escort. He now has a full time job, doesn't regret it and learned a few things along the way. He's probably

one of the nicest guys on here. "

Why do I need to speak to an "escort" we all know that 99% of female sex workers are forced into it. If you don't then you are very blinkered indeed. Males do it for extra sex, i doubt the women do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have recently been getting turned on by thought of hiring an escort for some fun. Has anybody tried it? Good? Bad? Just a fantasy topic at the moment lol

I cant believe some responses on here " a swinging site" . Every single male/female/couple/tv or whoever on this site has there own ideas of fantasies or desires or hope of that little something different. Why has so many people knocked this couples fantasy??. They asked a simple question and they got horror stories of mingin drug ridden prostitutes but go for it if thats what you want , unbelievable.! You people that condemned this idea go and tell your family sons/daughter/parent that YOU are on a swinger site looking for random meets/sex with strangers, no, most of you wont do that will you. So what makes your reason to be on here any more acceptable than the OP on here asking about thier fantasy. Guys in my opinion if its something you want to try then DEFINITELY go for it. "

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By *dmirationMan
over a year ago

Bathgate


"We have recently been getting turned on by thought of hiring an escort for some fun. Has anybody tried it? Good? Bad? Just a fantasy topic at the moment lol

I cant believe some responses on here " a swinging site" . Every single male/female/couple/tv or whoever on this site has there own ideas of fantasies or desires or hope of that little something different. Why has so many people knocked this couples fantasy??. They asked a simple question and they got horror stories of mingin drug ridden prostitutes but go for it if thats what you want , unbelievable.! You people that condemned this idea go and tell your family sons/daughter/parent that YOU are on a swinger site looking for random meets/sex with strangers, no, most of you wont do that will you. So what makes your reason to be on here any more acceptable than the OP on here asking about their fantasy. Guys in my opinion if its something you want to try then DEFINITELY go for it. "

100% agree with this! and for the record my adult kids are aware I am on here with my partner and our friends know! We do not hide the fact but dont advertise it. We are not ashamed of what we do. Obviously kept secret in the work place! if its your thing go for it Like already said Least they will show up and not waste your time unlike a lot on here lol. Happy friday.xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have recently been getting turned on by thought of hiring an escort for some fun. Has anybody tried it? Good? Bad? Just a fantasy topic at the moment lol

I cant believe some responses on here " a swinging site" . Every single male/female/couple/tv or whoever on this site has there own ideas of fantasies or desires or hope of that little something different. Why has so many people knocked this couples fantasy??. They asked a simple question and they got horror stories of mingin drug ridden prostitutes but go for it if thats what you want , unbelievable.! You people that condemned this idea go and tell your family sons/daughter/parent that YOU are on a swinger site looking for random meets/sex with strangers, no, most of you wont do that will you. So what makes your reason to be on here any more acceptable than the OP on here asking about thier fantasy. Guys in my opinion if its something you want to try then DEFINITELY go for it. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have recently been getting turned on by thought of hiring an escort for some fun. Has anybody tried it? Good? Bad? Just a fantasy topic at the moment lol

I cant believe some responses on here " a swinging site" . Every single male/female/couple/tv or whoever on this site has there own ideas of fantasies or desires or hope of that little something different. Why has so many people knocked this couples fantasy??. They asked a simple question and they got horror stories of mingin drug ridden prostitutes but go for it if thats what you want , unbelievable.! You people that condemned this idea go and tell your family sons/daughter/parent that YOU are on a swinger site looking for random meets/sex with strangers, no, most of you wont do that will you. So what makes your reason to be on here any more acceptable than the OP on here asking about thier fantasy. Guys in my opinion if its something you want to try then DEFINITELY go for it. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just remember that if you pay for an escort she will be more than likely clock watching, probably not interested in kissing and will view the whole scenario as a purely commercial transaction. It certainly wouldn't ever be my or.my fb fantasy. Think carefully. "

this really isn't true and seems to be a common misconception.

you might be interested to know a guy paying for an hour is usualy out the door and on his way in 20 mins.

clock watching isn't really a thing sinply because the vast majority of clients don't use close to thier time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the difference between an escort and a prostitute? In my opinion none, so if you want to pay to shag a woman who probably has a desperate drug habit or is being trafficked , go for it. They don't do this because they enjoy it! "

you realise a pretty average esscort working in a city will be making £40k+ a year right?

and they can be much more flexible woth how much of that income is declared to the tax man compared to other trades/cash businesses.

people escort cause it's easy and pays fantastically well with very low entry requirements

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They may be looking for a male escort!

Do your research before meeting anyone. Like everything else there are reputable sites and less reputable sites.

I do know a guy who was an escort so it's not always as seedy as it sounds. Good luck. depends on the form of escorting you get escorts that are basically your plus one for an evening and thats it then the prostitute type (either male or female)"

escorts are now days just self employed working from home/hotel types. advent of the Google age meant sites needed a more sanitary search term than hooker or prostitute lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the difference between an escort and a prostitute? In my opinion none, so if you want to pay to shag a woman who probably has a desperate drug habit or is being trafficked , go for it. They don't do this because they enjoy it!

you realise a pretty average esscort working in a city will be making £40k+ a year right?

and they can be much more flexible woth how much of that income is declared to the tax man compared to other trades/cash businesses.

people escort cause it's easy and pays fantastically well with very low entry requirements "

It's not Pretty Woman, you do realise?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the difference between an escort and a prostitute? In my opinion none, so if you want to pay to shag a woman who probably has a desperate drug habit or is being trafficked , go for it. They don't do this because they enjoy it!

you realise a pretty average esscort working in a city will be making £40k+ a year right?

and they can be much more flexible woth how much of that income is declared to the tax man compared to other trades/cash businesses.

people escort cause it's easy and pays fantastically well with very low entry requirements

It's not Pretty Woman, you do realise? "

ere yes I know. I also have several close friends who are escorts.

all of whom are in the 40% bracket.

a full time escort doesnt need to see many clients at all.

5 clients a week puts an average escort on 2.5k a month.

so 1 client a day for the working week, 5 hours a week for 30k a year.

when you're getting paid like 120 quid an hour for only 30 mins work you can have a pretty decent work life balance.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

An escort is not a prostitute until they decide to sell sex they then become a prostitute not an escort.

Sad to say but alot of prostitutes use the term escort as it sounds better dosnt change the fact they are selling sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So question - does this mean that the women on here who post statuses about wanting to be "wined and dined" or couples who insist that any single guys wanting to meet them "must pay for the hotel" are engaged in prostitution or escorting? They are after all seeking some sort of monetary incentive for sex!

Its the oldest profession in the world whatever you want to call it and there are women who are being exploited but those who arent. In much the same way someone on a zero hours contract is being exploited when compared to someone in a salaried job. I dont believe the OP's would meet with anyone who had been "trafficked" but yet again another post where the morality brigade are turning up their noses and giving it the big "tut tut how could you even consider it?"

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Myself as my personal preferance I would have nothing to do with prostitution thats not to say I see anything wrong with it.

the biggest problem I see is disguising it as something else as that tarnishes an honest job and in turn those who only escort get asked for sexual favours which must get right up their noses

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

And yes fems asking for wine n dine or pay for my hotel in my mine thats prostitution

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Myself as my personal preferance I would have nothing to do with prostitution thats not to say I see anything wrong with it.

the biggest problem I see is disguising it as something else as that tarnishes an honest job and in turn those who only escort get asked for sexual favours which must get right up their noses"

yeah there is no real "social" escorting scene.

esscort = prostitute always has.

Same as courtesan or sugar baby.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Myself as my personal preferance I would have nothing to do with prostitution thats not to say I see anything wrong with it.

the biggest problem I see is disguising it as something else as that tarnishes an honest job and in turn those who only escort get asked for sexual favours which must get right up their noses"

I dont think there is anything "dishonest" about prostitution if it is regulated properly. I have a friend who has a disability that makes sexual interaction with able bodied women problematic and highly unlikely due to societal prejudices. For the past 5 years once a month he pays for a woman, whom he has got to know very well and who he trusts, to attend to his sexual needs. In my eyes she is providing an invaluable service. Its simple economics where there is a demand someone will be extinsically motivated to supply what is demanded.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And yes fems asking for wine n dine or pay for my hotel in my mine thats prostitution "

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Myself as my personal preferance I would have nothing to do with prostitution thats not to say I see anything wrong with it.

the biggest problem I see is disguising it as something else as that tarnishes an honest job and in turn those who only escort get asked for sexual favours which must get right up their noses

I dont think there is anything "dishonest" about prostitution if it is regulated properly. I have a friend who has a disability that makes sexual interaction with able bodied women problematic and highly unlikely due to societal prejudices. For the past 5 years once a month he pays for a woman, whom he has got to know very well and who he trusts, to attend to his sexual needs. In my eyes she is providing an invaluable service. Its simple economics where there is a demand someone will be extinsically motivated to supply what is demanded.the part I see as dishonest is saying escort when really you want to prostitute. I would say there are honest escorts (meaning no sexual interaction)"

but that's not what escort means and has never really been a common use for it.

and there are no escorts that meet your definition there, except maybe a vanishingly small niche market but they will still be sex workers in the main.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"Myself as my personal preferance I would have nothing to do with prostitution thats not to say I see anything wrong with it.

the biggest problem I see is disguising it as something else as that tarnishes an honest job and in turn those who only escort get asked for sexual favours which must get right up their noses

I dont think there is anything "dishonest" about prostitution if it is regulated properly. I have a friend who has a disability that makes sexual interaction with able bodied women problematic and highly unlikely due to societal prejudices. For the past 5 years once a month he pays for a woman, whom he has got to know very well and who he trusts, to attend to his sexual needs. In my eyes she is providing an invaluable service. Its simple economics where there is a demand someone will be extinsically motivated to supply what is demanded."

the part I see as dishonest is saying escort when really you want to prostitute. I would say there are honest escorts (meaning no sexual interaction) I have absolutly nothing against prostitution other than its illegal.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"Myself as my personal preferance I would have nothing to do with prostitution thats not to say I see anything wrong with it.

the biggest problem I see is disguising it as something else as that tarnishes an honest job and in turn those who only escort get asked for sexual favours which must get right up their noses

I dont think there is anything "dishonest" about prostitution if it is regulated properly. I have a friend who has a disability that makes sexual interaction with able bodied women problematic and highly unlikely due to societal prejudices. For the past 5 years once a month he pays for a woman, whom he has got to know very well and who he trusts, to attend to his sexual needs. In my eyes she is providing an invaluable service. Its simple economics where there is a demand someone will be extinsically motivated to supply what is demanded.the part I see as dishonest is saying escort when really you want to prostitute. I would say there are honest escorts (meaning no sexual interaction)

but that's not what escort means and has never really been a common use for it.

and there are no escorts that meet your definition there, except maybe a vanishingly small niche market but they will still be sex workers in the main.

"

and therein lies the problem so many have basterdised the word its now accepted as meaning prostitute by most. You say in opening thats not what it means though when escort agencys came about thats exactly what it ment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Myself as my personal preferance I would have nothing to do with prostitution thats not to say I see anything wrong with it.

the biggest problem I see is disguising it as something else as that tarnishes an honest job and in turn those who only escort get asked for sexual favours which must get right up their noses

I dont think there is anything "dishonest" about prostitution if it is regulated properly. I have a friend who has a disability that makes sexual interaction with able bodied women problematic and highly unlikely due to societal prejudices. For the past 5 years once a month he pays for a woman, whom he has got to know very well and who he trusts, to attend to his sexual needs. In my eyes she is providing an invaluable service. Its simple economics where there is a demand someone will be extinsically motivated to supply what is demanded.the part I see as dishonest is saying escort when really you want to prostitute. I would say there are honest escorts (meaning no sexual interaction) I have absolutly nothing against prostitution other than its illegal. "

I suppose it is the negative connotations associated with being a "prostitute" as opposed to an escort. Perhaps "sex worker" is the most apt and all encompassing term to use....cover all bases.

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By *urglas OP   Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Thanks for all the replies guys.

Pretty surprised at some of the replies tbh. Not all escorts/prostitutes are drug addicts. Bad show guys.

We are just chatting about it just now mainly driven by me. As im not bi would quite like to have a practice with someone who is and could teach me a thing or two. Only had couple experiences and would like to brush up before we meet couples . We both comfortable with the bi male play
"We have recently been getting turned on by thought of hiring an escort for some fun. Has anybody tried it? Good? Bad? Just a fantasy topic at the moment lol

I cant believe some responses on here " a swinging site" . Every single male/female/couple/tv or whoever on this site has there own ideas of fantasies or desires or hope of that little something different. Why has so many people knocked this couples fantasy??. They asked a simple question and they got horror stories of mingin drug ridden prostitutes but go for it if thats what you want , unbelievable.! You people that condemned this idea go and tell your family sons/daughter/parent that YOU are on a swinger site looking for random meets/sex with strangers, no, most of you wont do that will you. So what makes your reason to be on here any more acceptable than the OP on here asking about thier fantasy. Guys in my opinion if its something you want to try then DEFINITELY go for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Myself as my personal preferance I would have nothing to do with prostitution thats not to say I see anything wrong with it.

the biggest problem I see is disguising it as something else as that tarnishes an honest job and in turn those who only escort get asked for sexual favours which must get right up their noses

I dont think there is anything "dishonest" about prostitution if it is regulated properly. I have a friend who has a disability that makes sexual interaction with able bodied women problematic and highly unlikely due to societal prejudices. For the past 5 years once a month he pays for a woman, whom he has got to know very well and who he trusts, to attend to his sexual needs. In my eyes she is providing an invaluable service. Its simple economics where there is a demand someone will be extinsically motivated to supply what is demanded.the part I see as dishonest is saying escort when really you want to prostitute. I would say there are honest escorts (meaning no sexual interaction) I have absolutly nothing against prostitution other than its illegal. "

prostitution is perfectly legal for the client and the esscort.

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By *inky KatzCouple
over a year ago

Scotland


"We have recently been getting turned on by thought of hiring an escort for some fun. Has anybody tried it? Good? Bad? Just a fantasy topic at the moment lol"

I used to date an ex escort and she told me that when she was working she met with a couple and they got off on it big time and it became regular and they all started getting into it.... but money had to always be paid.

So I guess it can work but then it can also be the other end of the scale

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Lol yup if they dont speak and the prostitute just emptys his/her money container and he she makes no complaint about it. Then its perfectly legal. Its the where why and for what thats illegal. Unlike an escort who is paid for their time without sex being an option. As ive said I personally dont have a problem with consensual prostitution. The majority of the uk do though which is why the law around it is as it is and prostitutes hide behind the escort trade.which im sure yourself and your friends are aware of but as you said further up masses of cash can be made so I will keep happening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol yup if they dont speak and the prostitute just emptys his/her money container and he she makes no complaint about it. Then its perfectly legal. Its the where why and for what thats illegal. Unlike an escort who is paid for their time without sex being an option. As ive said I personally dont have a problem with consensual prostitution. The majority of the uk do though which is why the law around it is as it is and prostitutes hide behind the escort trade.which im sure yourself and your friends are aware of but as you said further up masses of cash can be made so I will keep happening."

nope again wrong, law hasnt been that way for a long time

soliciting ie street walking is a crime.

however advertising online etc and being contacted by clients is perfectly legal (and more importantly taxable).

you can be 100% up front and honest that they are paying for sexual services that is not a problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The Policing and Crime Act 2009 (together with the Sexual Offences Act 2003) replaced most aspects of previous legislation relating to prostitution, although previous acts still remain in force. Working as a prostitute in private is not an offence, and neither is working as an outcall escort. Nor is it illegal for prostitutes to sell sex at a brothel provided they are not involved in management or control of the brothel. Street prostitution, however, is illegal."

from wiki for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""The Policing and Crime Act 2009 (together with the Sexual Offences Act 2003) replaced most aspects of previous legislation relating to prostitution, although previous acts still remain in force. Working as a prostitute in private is not an offence, and neither is working as an outcall escort. Nor is it illegal for prostitutes to sell sex at a brothel provided they are not involved in management or control of the brothel. Street prostitution, however, is illegal."

from wiki for you"

English law.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""The Policing and Crime Act 2009 (together with the Sexual Offences Act 2003) replaced most aspects of previous legislation relating to prostitution, although previous acts still remain in force. Working as a prostitute in private is not an offence, and neither is working as an outcall escort. Nor is it illegal for prostitutes to sell sex at a brothel provided they are not involved in management or control of the brothel. Street prostitution, however, is illegal."

from wiki for you

English law. "

"Prostitution in Scotland has been similar to that in England under the State of Union, but since devolution, the new Scottish Parliamenthas pursued its own policies.

In Scotland, prostitution itself (the exchange of sexual services for money) is legal, but associated activities (such as public solicitation, operating a brothel, or other forms of pimping) are criminal offences."

nope, legal in Scotland too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its simple, just don't do it

If the escort gets no trade, the escort may stop and change for a better life"

Eh, no. Not even remotely what would happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the difference between an escort and a prostitute? In my opinion none, so if you want to pay to shag a woman who probably has a desperate drug habit or is being trafficked , go for it. They don't do this because they enjoy it!

Maybe you should talk to an escort before making sweeping statements. I have spoken to a lovely guy who was an escort. He now has a full time job, doesn't regret it and learned a few things along the way. He's probably

one of the nicest guys on here.

Why do I need to speak to an "escort" we all know that 99% of female sex workers are forced into it. If you don't then you are very blinkered indeed. Males do it for extra sex, i doubt the women do!"

not true at all.

just go look on adult work for proof.

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By *eekingSinCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"We have recently been getting turned on by thought of hiring an escort for some fun. Has anybody tried it? Good? Bad? Just a fantasy topic at the moment lol"

Bit late in commenting but yeah, great fantasy!!! xx

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


""The Policing and Crime Act 2009 (together with the Sexual Offences Act 2003) replaced most aspects of previous legislation relating to prostitution, although previous acts still remain in force. Working as a prostitute in private is not an offence, and neither is working as an outcall escort. Nor is it illegal for prostitutes to sell sex at a brothel provided they are not involved in management or control of the brothel. Street prostitution, however, is illegal."

from wiki for you"

not for me im fully aware of our laws and the proposals put forward (perhaps leave wiki and google and check actual scottish law from govnet)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So question - does this mean that the women on here who post statuses about wanting to be "wined and dined" or couples who insist that any single guys wanting to meet them "must pay for the hotel" are engaged in prostitution or escorting? They are after all seeking some sort of monetary incentive for sex!

Its the oldest profession in the world whatever you want to call it and there are women who are being exploited but those who arent. In much the same way someone on a zero hours contract is being exploited when compared to someone in a salaried job. I dont believe the OP's would meet with anyone who had been "trafficked" but yet again another post where the morality brigade are turning up their noses and giving it the big "tut tut how could you even consider it?" "

Spot on

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By *anny77Man
over a year ago

glasgow

My view is if you're gonna hire an escort then you'd best pay her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""The Policing and Crime Act 2009 (together with the Sexual Offences Act 2003) replaced most aspects of previous legislation relating to prostitution, although previous acts still remain in force. Working as a prostitute in private is not an offence, and neither is working as an outcall escort. Nor is it illegal for prostitutes to sell sex at a brothel provided they are not involved in management or control of the brothel. Street prostitution, however, is illegal."

from wiki for younot for me im fully aware of our laws and the proposals put forward (perhaps leave wiki and google and check actual scottish law from govnet) "

it's also legal in Scotland just not street walking.

the snp is trying to change this though to make life vastly more dangerous for escorts but fortunately groups like amnesty are fighting it and the snp are pretty incompetent.

but nope still legal to book a girl.

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness


"We have recently been getting turned on by thought of hiring an escort for some fun. Has anybody tried it? Good? Bad? Just a fantasy topic at the moment lol

I cant believe some responses on here " a swinging site" . Every single male/female/couple/tv or whoever on this site has there own ideas of fantasies or desires or hope of that little something different. Why has so many people knocked this couples fantasy??. They asked a simple question and they got horror stories of mingin drug ridden prostitutes but go for it if thats what you want , unbelievable.! You people that condemned this idea go and tell your family sons/daughter/parent that YOU are on a swinger site looking for random meets/sex with strangers, no, most of you wont do that will you. So what makes your reason to be on here any more acceptable than the OP on here asking about thier fantasy. Guys in my opinion if its something you want to try then DEFINITELY go for it. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your dough..knock yourself out

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over a year ago

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By *leasure domMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Clock watching, purely commercial, change for a better life"

What a lot of judgemental types for a swinging site.

First, in any discussion of this topic, it is essential to distinguish between the main categories.

1. Street prostitution - pimps may or may not be involved, but in any event the seedy and dangerous side reflects badly on society's ability to take care of the more vulnerable, who will be selling themselves from necessity or desperation to feed their kids, a habit or a pimp.

2. Trafficked women - victims many times over. Deceived, brutalised, held against her will, beaten, sold & re-sold, used and abused many times a day. This is a truly vile offence, which deserves life imprisonment. These girls do not enjoy the freedom to be independent escorts - they can be found in some saunas or, more likely, in rented flats being used as brothels, with punters being brought by private hire taxis, a business where organised crime has an established involvement.

3. Independent escorts - a virtuous occupation. Who is the whore - a career escort ..... or a politician who represents a party which accepts donations from big business to avoid enacting legislation to protect the populace?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have recently been getting turned on by thought of hiring an escort for some fun. Has anybody tried it? Good? Bad? Just a fantasy topic at the moment lol

I cant believe some responses on here " a swinging site" . Every single male/female/couple/tv or whoever on this site has there own ideas of fantasies or desires or hope of that little something different. Why has so many people knocked this couples fantasy??. They asked a simple question and they got horror stories of mingin drug ridden prostitutes but go for it if thats what you want , unbelievable.! You people that condemned this idea go and tell your family sons/daughter/parent that YOU are on a swinger site looking for random meets/sex with strangers, no, most of you wont do that will you. So what makes your reason to be on here any more acceptable than the OP on here asking about thier fantasy. Guys in my opinion if its something you want to try then DEFINITELY go for it.

"

Well Said ..

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By *urglas OP   Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Jim here lots of response but was hoping for some weblinks at least haha

appreciate all your thoughts will let you know after it how it when (if it ever happens)

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By *leasure domMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Jim here lots of response but was hoping for some weblinks at least haha

appreciate all your thoughts will let you know after it how it when (if it ever happens) "

AW... _ighland gentleman gave you that answer, without mentioning it by name and getting a ban. Again, I say: AW!

For my first threesome, I decided that the best chance of achieving a great meet (this was before I discovered swinger sites)was to use escorts, so I researched the threesome escorts locally and made my choice.

They were very welcoming and put me at my ease so much that I dispensed with my plan of watching them first; within minutes, I was participating.

The female was an absolute stunner, tall and slim, very sexual, great passion and expertise, dressed very sexily in AP; there was no clock watching and the sex was terrific. Her partner was also very friendly and both made sure that I had a fantastic introduction to threesomes.

If you want to go down that route, don't be put off by the judgemental naysayers who may not know what they're talking about.

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By *imetoexplore69Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"Its simple, just don't do it

If the escort gets no trade, the escort may stop and change for a better life"

what if the woman actully ejnoys what they do and enjoy the lifestyle it gives them.not all woman need or want rescued ya know .

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By *leasure domMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Its simple, just don't do it

If the escort gets no trade, the escort may stop and change for a better lifewhat if the woman actully ejnoys what they do and enjoy the lifestyle it gives them.not all woman need or want rescued ya know ."

Exactly. Who has the better life? An independent escort who can choose when to work and whom to see and may earn £120 to £150 for a one hour date - or a wage slave with limited choices in terms of alternative employment, such are the times pertaining in the wake of the banking crash and the arrival of the gig economy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have recently been getting turned on by thought of hiring an escort for some fun. Has anybody tried it? Good? Bad? Just a fantasy topic at the moment lol"

Tried to mail you. I know a couple of people that you could be interested in

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By *urglas OP   Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

didnt know we had blocked messages from single females?? off now - tried messaging you but cant

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By *uncity1Man
over a year ago

dundee

bottom line when you get down to the nitty gritty in one way shape or form we all pay for sex ....whether its throo a site a club a meet or a "social" ...sex isn't free even when laid on a plate lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of the sweeping generalisations above are crackingbut so far from the mark. I know three irks who escort, one I haven't spoken to in about two years. None of them are what I'd describe as a slut or a junkie, desperate or living in a dump. All three are able minded and if they didn't like doing it, or objected to enough areas within it they just wouldnt do it. Escorting now isn't the old street walking that was done in previous years although ofcourse there is still a high crime rate in trafficking through the sex industry so you would want to choose carefully.

I haven't seen an escort or paid for services, to be honest I think if I was I would no doubt get stage fright ha! Not even joking. So OP if it's something you are looking to try, try it, especially if it's something you both want to do together.

The mind boggles, if you had said you were tempted to try anything bisexual, cross dressing, dogging or using a gloryhole the same people condemning your thread would be the ones encouraging you to try it. In a casual sex site the judgements made must be taken with a pinch of salt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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The mind boggles, if you had said you were tempted to try anything bisexual, cross dressing, dogging or using a gloryhole the same people condemning your thread would be the ones encouraging you to try it. In a casual sex site the judgements made must be taken with a pinch of salt"

No, some of those doing the condemning would still condemn you, just because you weren't them.

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By *urglas OP   Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"bottom line when you get down to the nitty gritty in one way shape or form we all pay for sex ....whether its throo a site a club a meet or a "social" ...sex isn't free even when laid on a plate lol

"

Definetly Jim can vouch for that haha

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

If I could afford a male escort, I wouldn't rule it out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It a personal thing if you feel it's right and find one you like and trust go for it and fuck everyone else

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By *urglas OP   Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"If I could afford a male escort, I wouldn't rule it out "

It would be a thrill i think. obviously a reputable clean escort. pay your money have fun and leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I could afford a male escort, I wouldn't rule it out "

Oh, I think you could definitely afford me. I even have a loyalty card scheme.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I could afford a male escort, I wouldn't rule it out

Oh, I think you could definitely afford me. I even have a loyalty card scheme. "

Have you upgraded from luncheon vouchers and Greenshield stamps?

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By *xplorer13Man
over a year ago

glenrothes


"If I could afford a male escort, I wouldn't rule it out "
why can't you afford one? They are cheap as chips!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I could afford a male escort, I wouldn't rule it out

Oh, I think you could definitely afford me. I even have a loyalty card scheme.

Have you upgraded from luncheon vouchers and Greenshield stamps?"

Hell no. If luncheon vouchers were good enough for Cynthia Payne they are good enough for me.

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By *exylicksMan
over a year ago

airdrie


"We have recently been getting turned on by thought of hiring an escort for some fun. Has anybody tried it? Good? Bad? Just a fantasy topic at the moment lol"

I did a little escort work number of years ago. Enjoyable and doesn't necessarily need to involve sex. Everyone has their own ideas on it good bad or indifferent bit only way you'll know for you is if you try it. Though it would be cheaper meeting people on here

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By *eegiemonsterMan
over a year ago

Bishopbriggs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I could afford a male escort, I wouldn't rule it out

Oh, I think you could definitely afford me. I even have a loyalty card scheme.

Have you upgraded from luncheon vouchers and Greenshield stamps?

Hell no. If luncheon vouchers were good enough for Cynthia Payne they are good enough for me. "

Good old Madam Cyn!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No don't lower yourself to that level .but your choice

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By *ade_of_StarsCouple
over a year ago

Whitburn

You're paying for a service. Make sure you research your potential professional as much as you can. Pay a reasonable amount, don't haggle and be comfortable discussing your desires for the meet. No shame in either hiring or offering escorting services. There is a danger of coming across a girl trafficed or working against their will. God forbid that this happens but if it does, do the right thing and alert the authorities!

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By *otal buckshotMan
over a year ago

fife

I had a cracking mk1 RS mexico

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a cracking mk1 RS mexico "

I had a mate with a shitty brown coloured Mk II that you could unlock and star with a 1p coin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have recently been getting turned on by thought of hiring an escort for some fun. Has anybody tried it? Good? Bad? Just a fantasy topic at the moment lol"

Do you know what guys, if you want to try it go for it x we did years ago and it was great x from a reputable website, beautiful girl, friendly chatty and was shit hot in bed x and yes she kissed, stroked and was not clock watching x we giggled, drank and all fucked and loved it x yes we paid her, but she was worth it! If it's on your list go for it x it's your list nobody else's x

Miss k

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"We have recently been getting turned on by thought of hiring an escort for some fun. Has anybody tried it? Good? Bad? Just a fantasy topic at the moment lol

Do you know what guys, if you want to try it go for it x we did years ago and it was great x from a reputable website, beautiful girl, friendly chatty and was shit hot in bed x and yes she kissed, stroked and was not clock watching x we giggled, drank and all fucked and loved it x yes we paid her, but she was worth it! If it's on your list go for it x it's your list nobody else's x

Miss k"

This in a nutshell x

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By *urglas OP   Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

makes us even more interested thanks for the feedback

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By *leasure domMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

If you're going to go for an escort, make it a good one.

Like an RS1600 or RS1840.

I've had both

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By *eADevilCouple
over a year ago

Blantyre


"If I could afford a male escort, I wouldn't rule it out

It would be a thrill i think. obviously a reputable clean escort. pay your money have fun and leave"

You could hire the male panda from edinburgh zoo for a night. Take it to dinner. It eats shoots n leaves

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