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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How many older women actually take interest in younger men? Being 21 myself and interested in trying fun with a mature women 40+, I haven't came across as much women as I had originally thought!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like younger men but not as young as you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like younger men but not as young as you "

What about young as me?lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like younger men but not as young as you "

That's fair enough everyone's into different things. But the way I see it not much older women are into as young as me but those women around my age are more into older guys. Can't win may have to give up on the idea till I'm older lol.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Just because its your fantasy to sleep with an older women doesnt mean its my fantasy to sleep with guys as young as my children

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Most women 40+ have children that age.

For me personally I couldn't do it. But everyone is different.

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Your profile might put some women off also.

Says your straight but you "looking for" list says otherwise.

You demand a face pic if someone replies to your first message yet you have none on your profile even after being on over a year.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just because its your fantasy to sleep with an older women doesnt mean its my fantasy to sleep with guys as young as my children"

That's a fair point of view, never really seen it from that perspective!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your profile might put some women off also.

Says your straight but you "looking for" list says otherwise.

You demand a face pic if someone replies to your first message yet you have none on your profile even after being on over a year.

"

You're probably right. I really need to sort my profile it was just rushed lol. The face pic thing was a recent too many local girls beating around the bush and not sending a face pic before a meet so I was a little wary of them. As for pictures I'm a firm believer of keeping them for private mail. That's my opinion though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your 2 yrs older than our daughter. That would just be too weird for me.

But that's just my feelings on it.

L x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your 2 yrs older than our daughter. That would just be too weird for me.

But that's just my feelings on it.

L x"

That's completely understandable, thank you for taking the time to reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your 2 yrs older than our daughter. That would just be too weird for me.

But that's just my feelings on it.

L x

That's completely understandable, thank you for taking the time to reply "

Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many older women actually take interest in younger men? Being 21 myself and interested in trying fun with a mature women 40+, I haven't came across as much women as I had originally thought! "

For me, I won't meet anyone under 30 usually. My sons are late teens to early twenties and I won't meet with someone in their peer age group... Too weird for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

21 is way to young for me,but best of luck in your search.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

(Nessarosa writing)

Being honest and its only my opinion....

I don't understand why someone 18-25ish is on a swinging site.

Young people are in the prime of their lives and should be out meeting, socializing and dating with the prospect of finding a partner.

(I know everyone has their reasons , I am not judging. Just an opinion)

Sometimes a fantasy is good if it stays a fantasy....

And sometimes a dream can make the world a very lonely place.

I wish you successfully hunting OP .

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was the same as you as 20 OP. Back then it was yahoo groups. There are ladies out there for you.

I would also say to you. Don't be embarrassed about your fantasies. It is often easier to pick up an older lady in a bar. There is no shame in chasing a middle aged lady.

Also, don't be concerned about those who say you should be out socialising and meeting. I am sure you are doing that too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My age limit is set at 35 and sometimes I feel that's a bit young.

Definitely getting old...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"(Nessarosa writing)

Being honest and its only my opinion....

I don't understand why someone 18-25ish is on a swinging site.

Young people are in the prime of their lives and should be out meeting, socializing and dating with the prospect of finding a partner.

(I know everyone has their reasons , I am not judging. Just an opinion)

Sometimes a fantasy is good if it stays a fantasy....

And sometimes a dream can make the world a very lonely place.

I wish you successfully hunting OP .

Xxx"

This is a nice post, I like and agree with Nessarosa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"(Nessarosa writing)

Being honest and its only my opinion....

I don't understand why someone 18-25ish is on a swinging site.

Young people are in the prime of their lives and should be out meeting, socializing and dating with the prospect of finding a partner.

(I know everyone has their reasons , I am not judging. Just an opinion)

Sometimes a fantasy is good if it stays a fantasy....

And sometimes a dream can make the world a very lonely place.

I wish you successfully hunting OP .

Xxx"

I agree with all of this. I am also going to be honest and say I would be upset if my young son or 18 yr old daughter were on fab.

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

I stay well away from young 20s, since I've come across someone who had put 21 years on his profile, then said he was 18, but suspect he was still younger.

30's about as young as I'll go, but find I've got more fun and better connection with people nearer my own age x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the replys people! All points in which I've taken. Yes maybe it's more really a fantasy as for socialising, I do with people around my own age and doesn't feel right chasing older women at the same time. I'm not impatient I can't wait if it's something that may happen had a few positive messages that may turn in to a meet. Thanks again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck Scott

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I stay well away from young 20s, since I've come across someone who had put 21 years on his profile, then said he was 18, but suspect he was still younger.

30's about as young as I'll go, but find I've got more fun and better connection with people nearer my own age x"

That's totally understandle and had similar things happen to myself. Could end really badly!

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By *anTouchThisCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

If you are younger than my children, then I definitely wouldn't go there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about 30

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Men in their 40's for me

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Maybe if id found this site when I was younger I wouldn't have got married. Id have explored more sexually before settling down.

There's no reason why young people should be looking for a partner and settling down. They should be exploring and having fun. Finding out that being married and having kids doesn't have to be the only way to have relationships.

Maybe one day the swinging lifestyle will be accepted in the same way as they LGBT community.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree. Swingers pride

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Maybe one day the swinging lifestyle will be accepted in the same way as they LGBT community."

I am not holding my breath!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"How many older women actually take interest in younger men? Being 21 myself and interested in trying fun with a mature women 40+, I haven't came across as much women as I had originally thought! "
my preference is for guys my own age or a bit older .

The youngest id get with would be 30 but that doesnt happen that often and Ive only ever met one guy that age who id definitley say was worth repeat meets

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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago

inverclyde

Prefer a guy nearer my own age ..would not feel right with a 21yr old...same age as my daughter just wrong

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London


"I agree. Swingers pride "

Isn't that just one big Street orgy

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