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By *eADevil OP   Couple
over a year ago

Blantyre

Trying to find a female partner in crime for Friday but it seems lots of single females block couples messaging. Obviuosly guys wont do this to a couple but is this something routinely done by single females. Bare in mind that lots of couple do play separately. ?

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow


"Trying to find a female partner in crime for Friday but it seems lots of single females block couples messaging. Obviuosly guys wont do this to a couple but is this something routinely done by single females. Bare in mind that lots of couple do play separately. ? "

Haven't come accross this. In saying that we've only ever messaged females who are looking for couples so that's possibly why.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

At a guess they tire of cpls msging them to find out the missus is busy but hubby can make it fine

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

probably because many "couples" profiles are just the men...

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock


"Trying to find a female partner in crime for Friday but it seems lots of single females block couples messaging. Obviuosly guys wont do this to a couple but is this something routinely done by single females. Bare in mind that lots of couple do play separately. ? "

You ain't getting any sympathy from us guys, everyone blocks us.

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By *eADevil OP   Couple
over a year ago

Blantyre


"At a guess they tire of cpls msging them to find out the missus is busy but hubby can make it fine"

Yep good point hadn't thought of it like that. Then again as ive said on other posts, verifications tell you a lot about whether a couple really is a couple or not. You cant fake multiple verifications who themselves have multiple verifications.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"At a guess they tire of cpls msging them to find out the missus is busy but hubby can make it fine

Yep good point hadn't thought of it like that. Then again as ive said on other posts, verifications tell you a lot about whether a couple really is a couple or not. You cant fake multiple verifications who themselves have multiple verifications. "
blocking criteria isnt that specific though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as a fem who plays as a Cpl and single

I only meet cpls with my husband so on this single profile yes I have cpls blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they just don't want to meet couples and it saves saying no ?

Maybe it didn't occur to them that couples sometimes play separately ?

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By *uburban_kinkCouple
over a year ago

Motherwell

Maybe worth creating a single female profile for when you're playing solo? However aware it does mean going through the verification hoops again.

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By *eADevil OP   Couple
over a year ago

Blantyre

All good points thx.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try being a singleton male. EVERYBODY blocks you.

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By *andCforfunCouple
over a year ago

Inverness


"Trying to find a female partner in crime for Friday but it seems lots of single females block couples messaging. Obviuosly guys wont do this to a couple but is this something routinely done by single females. Bare in mind that lots of couple do play separately. ?

You ain't getting any sympathy from us guys, everyone blocks us. "

Are you a couple or a singles profile? You say us but it says it's a male profile? Might have more luck if you change it to couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have couples blocked as im not interested in meeting them , its just simple , i do have couples on my friends as they are ones i know well and know outside of fab as well as on it but i dont want to meet with them ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trying to find a female partner in crime for Friday but it seems lots of single females block couples messaging. Obviuosly guys wont do this to a couple but is this something routinely done by single females. Bare in mind that lots of couple do play separately. ? "

errrremm sorry, what single guy you speaking out for when you say "Obviously guys wont do this to a couple".

I certainly block couples or anyone infact who I find obnoxious and just not nice people or just reading a profile and its clear to me that I would not want anything to do with them.

I don't think its wrong with any single girl or guy blocking a couple if they think the same, but I suppose everyone has a reason to block, so we all will just get on with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe worth creating a single female profile for when you're playing solo? However aware it does mean going through the verification hoops again."

There is a lot of couples who have single profiles but quite a lot of them forget to say that they are part of a couple on their single profile or have a couples profile on fab, which I don't like

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By *eADevil OP   Couple
over a year ago

Blantyre


"Trying to find a female partner in crime for Friday but it seems lots of single females block couples messaging. Obviuosly guys wont do this to a couple but is this something routinely done by single females. Bare in mind that lots of couple do play separately. ?

errrremm sorry, what single guy you speaking out for when you say "Obviously guys wont do this to a couple".

I certainly block couples or anyone infact who I find obnoxious and just not nice people or just reading a profile and its clear to me that I would not want anything to do with them.

I don't think its wrong with any single girl or guy blocking a couple if they think the same, but I suppose everyone has a reason to block, so we all will just get on with it"

My question was not WHY they block it was asking is it the norm or unusual for it to happen and your reasons for blocking are also a mute point as you already say you need a reason to block a couple . Which proves my original point guys dont put there SETTINGS to block all messages from couples.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

How are we meant to know if a couple is playing singly or as a couple?

Many won't play with half of a couple as it's seen as cheating. Many fake profiles too

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By *eADevil OP   Couple
over a year ago

Blantyre


"How are we meant to know if a couple is playing singly or as a couple?

Many won't play with half of a couple as it's seen as cheating. Many fake profiles too"

For my original question " is it a common thing for single females to put their settings to block messages from couples" thats all i asked. As for fake profiles i addressed that posibility earlier in this thread , cant see how anyone could get caught out if you just check verifications and the verifiers verifications. If no verifications then dont trust anything thats written on the profile until you no %100 who you are messaging.

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


"At a guess they tire of cpls msging them to find out the missus is busy but hubby can make it fine"

Which is the case like 99 out of a 100 times...

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


"How are we meant to know if a couple is playing singly or as a couple?

Many won't play with half of a couple as it's seen as cheating. Many fake profiles too"

I immediately suspect it's a single male on a couples profile, when it's the guy only wanting to meet

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock


"Trying to find a female partner in crime for Friday but it seems lots of single females block couples messaging. Obviuosly guys wont do this to a couple but is this something routinely done by single females. Bare in mind that lots of couple do play separately. ?

You ain't getting any sympathy from us guys, everyone blocks us.

Are you a couple or a singles profile? You say us but it says it's a male profile? Might have more luck if you change it to couples "

The collective us, as in all us guys.

(if I changed my profile to couples, I'd probably be snowed under with messages from single guys. (hang on, I could block them. lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trying to find a female partner in crime for Friday but it seems lots of single females block couples messaging. Obviuosly guys wont do this to a couple but is this something routinely done by single females. Bare in mind that lots of couple do play separately. ? "

Im not sure how common this is but as a single lady I have couples blocked. I have twice been caught up in a couples fall out when they have both claimed to be okay with playing separately but in actual fact they werent.

Chances are that this happens often and single ladies (who aren't bi) stick to single men, lets face it there is a lot to choose from

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Would it be possible to meet a female from a couple you've already met for a 1-1? I've done this a few times in the past as I find it easier to do with someone I've already met. It means there's less nerves or concerns about compatibility etc.

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By *eADevil OP   Couple
over a year ago

Blantyre


"Would it be possible to meet a female from a couple you've already met for a 1-1? I've done this a few times in the past as I find it easier to do with someone I've already met. It means there's less nerves or concerns about compatibility etc."

We have found that theres not many couples play separately like us . The ones we have met in the past anyway although some do have singleton profiles .

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By *riv2u2Man
over a year ago

sussex

Have many couples blocked , if they say no males , saves clogging up search page

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Single females are fed up being called ‘unicorns’. Many single females looking to play with couples will normally want a bi female. Personally if I want a threesum I’ll contact the people I want to meet up with.

Last couple I met with it was only the guy that played. Not what I was expecting and it has put me off couples. The female watched.

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By *oShrinkingVioletWoman
over a year ago

the land of unicorns and fairytales

Before when I had pics up many many years ago and before I did the socials I had couples blocked tbh I got more hassle and grief from couple profiles than I ever did make profiles

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