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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does anyone still accommodate first meet ?

I had a guy turn up at my door a few months back who wasn't who he claimed to be and now I'm just really cautious. Interested to get others opinions on this xx

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

When I first joined fab I did. And I wasnt careful about it. I have sent someone away.

Now I tend to talk to men for longer, ask for pictures and/or video chat or meet for coffee.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only done this once with a couple and it reminded me why I'm strict about socials before play..it was a disaster

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

I havent. Meet on neutral grounds, or hotel.

Rather not cross private and fab life ....neighbours still think I'm a quiet single man lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I havent. Meet on neutral grounds, or hotel.

Rather not cross private and fab life ....neighbours still think I'm a quiet single man lol"

Totally agree. Homes a no no unless you have got.to really know and trust someone

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By *aelawMan
over a year ago

Paisley

A scary prospect indeed. When I was first discovering my sexuality I had someone come over but when he was over kind of freaked out a bit and he had to leave. I was just lucky he was a really nice and friendly chap.

Always a bit daunting but I go down the route of chat first and would even probably arrange a social meet first of I'm honest. Alas not for everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone still accommodate first meet ?

I had a guy turn up at my door a few months back who wasn't who he claimed to be and now I'm just really cautious. Interested to get others opinions on this xx "

Accommodate? Yes.

I prefer to meet at the pub 2 minutes walk away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I first joined fab I did. And I wasnt careful about it. I have sent someone away.

Now I tend to talk to men for longer, ask for pictures and/or video chat or meet for coffee. "

You told me you wanted our first meet to be at a sex dungeon.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Never had anyone at mine that I hadn't met socially first.

Can't accommodate now as the kids are teenagers and constantly at home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have hd firzt meets at my house when iv spoke for months n knew really well ie video chatted ect but i tend to prefer meeting in socil sitution and moving onwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a single Guy who can accom,(shocker eh) but to be honest not really into having someone come to mine anymore on a first meet, I'm really cautious and don't trust anyone on here until I get to know them more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

(Nessarosa writing)

Definitely social meet at a neutral place.

I have to meet, see and read someone before they get a home visit.

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done both actually. I suppose it entirely depends who your talking to

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

Social first, though not entirely successful.

Ended up at a house where you wiped your feet on the way out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a bad experience with a couple hence always a social meet first.

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

Wouldn't meet in our house

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

I did once recently, had talked to him a fair bit over a week and he came round for a coffee, which developed into play.

Not had anyone round to get straight to play that I haven't already met socially, need to feel that attraction and like their personality too

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